A woman with two daughters, ages 5 and 7, is in a relationship where she's constantly accused and mistrusted. The speaker warns her that her kids are watching and learning that suspicion is normal in love. It's not. She needs to show them what healthy actually looks like.
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Unfortunately, the thing is that you will never win with this man and you should know that. You would never win and you should know that right now. For some reason, whatever paranoia has gotten to your head is just getting worse over the years. I told you people came up to me and talked to me and told me. That's called paranoia. You have to understand is that you will never win in this and that's going to be something you're gonna have to grapple with as a woman, as a mother. Because having two girls at 5 and 7, you have to always question this behavior and them watching this. Because what they're watching in this, what they're watching is this, is how will a man treat me? And so you have to understand that you probably need to start now talking about this because they're learning inadvertently that anytime I do something, my word shouldn't be trusted, that I should be in relationships where people tell me and accuse me and that that's okay. That's just what love is. And that's not what love is, okay?