Someone's upset their partner lacks transparency and commitment. Karamo says the real problem isn't the other woman, it's your partner. Stop blaming her, confront him about what he's actually giving you, and decide if you're willing to stay.
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Based on the things you have told me, the relationship is unbalanced and you're unwilling to give her transparency. So now that you know that, I think no matter how you move on forward, I will tell you this, whatever anger you have in your heart against her, you should release it because the issue you have is not with her, it's with the man sitting next to you. Please, I know, I'm telling you. As far as we're seeing right now, she's moved on, she's with somebody. So that's why I'm saying the issue's not with her. The issue is that the person you've committed to, you're not committed to her. You were committed to her because of him and then that's done. The person only owes you the transparency and whatever else you desire in a relationship is him and he's not giving it to you. So I think the conversation y'all need to have is, are you willing to give me these things? And you gotta be real with yourself and say, am I gonna keep giving my all when he won't give me his all?