KaramoYour Guide To Unlocking Your Best Self

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17 Jul 2024 · 1 min

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In this short counseling monologue, the speaker addresses a man named Andrew about his long‑term relationship problems. The speaker emphasizes that Andrew’s partner is a good, loving woman and urges him to acknowledge her contributions—specifically, the shared effort of building and maintaining their home. He points out that over 13 years Andrew has repeatedly accused and undermined her, damaging her self‑esteem and eroding trust. The speaker frames the repair work as a construction project: Andrew, as a self‑identified builder with tools, must now actively rebuild the relationship by offering sincere affirmations, taking responsibility, and consistently showing up in the way she needs. The core message is that consistent, positive communication and acknowledgment are essential to restore trust after prolonged negativity.

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I feel like the biggest piece of crap in the world right now. You should. I will tell you this, you have a good woman and she loves you. I do, I have a great woman. Can you give her right now one last thing? Because I need you to at least do this. Can you give her, because it was an adamant statement she said 6 times, I was counting it, about the house and that you kept saying that I did it, I did it, I did it. No, we did that. Tell her. We got that house. We put that house together. Good. And we are gonna keep that house together. Good, good, there you go. I'm gonna tell you this, Andrew, if you can stick in that type of conversation, if you can start acknowledging what she does by not just saying, Not saying, well, she knows, because I see a lot of times you say, well, she know what type of woman she is. She knows what she's doing. She needs to hear from you because unfortunately we spent many years breaking the trust and trying to break her self-esteem that now it's gonna be your job. You said you're a builder. You said you got tools. You gotta be the one to build this back up now because she needs to hear these from you to know that this can be rebuilt. Because what she's had is 13 years of you accusing her and trying to break her down. So you need to just show up for her the way she needs you to show up for her. All right? Yes, sir.