Two people clash over how a man should defend his partner's reputation. Speaker A says he should trust her completely and physically intervene if needed. Speaker B pushes back, accusing him of moving goalposts. The real problem, they argue, is personal responsibility, not outside circumstances.
We're telling you right now, and this is what the problem is when it comes to someone who is constantly accusing someone, what you're doing, and what I said to you before, what you're doing is you're constantly moving the goalposts. So you say, hey, I'm going to show you.
I'm not trying to accuse you with nothing.
But you are, but you are.
Okay, well, it's really bad when people come up and tell you this stuff, you know what I mean? But see, the thing is that at some point, you talk about what you have to do as a man. She don't treat you right, I'm sorry about that.
You talk about what you have to do as a man, and at some point as a man, you have to say to them, I trust my wife, I'm not listening to you. I believe in my family. I slapped the dude over there and said, "No, she did not." So at this point, this is not a Heather problem, this is a you problem.