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This is not your lover #KaramoShow

4 Mar 2025 · 1 min

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In this excerpt from the Karamo Show, Speaker A delivers a blunt, confrontational critique to Speaker B about her relationship choices. Speaker A accuses Speaker B of living in an imaginary world and pretending, highlighting that she entered a relationship with a much younger, inexperienced man who cheated on her within the first 30 days. Despite the betrayal, Speaker B stayed and even sought retaliation. Speaker A urges Speaker B to stop treating the man as a lover, friend, or mother figure, and instead to end the romantic connection, focus on co‑parenting, and move forward independently. The exchange showcases direct relationship advice, emphasizing self‑awareness, boundary setting, and prioritizing the well‑being of any children involved.

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When you came out here, you said that one of the things you can't stand about him is that he's a pretender.
Yes, he's pretending.
But the biggest person that I see pretending and live in an imaginary world is you. Really? Really? You got with a young man who had no experience in this world, had never really experienced the world. Yep. And decided to say, "Well, you know what? I want you to be this." Right. And then got upset when he couldn't give you that. Right. You were almost in your 30s when you got together and he cheated on you in the first 30 days.
Mm-hmm, but this my thing. Hold on, hold on.
I've let you speak this entire time. Mm-hmm. You decided to stay after 30 days.
Right.
Then you decided to not only stay but to retaliate.
Right.
So whatever strength you have left in you, you gotta look at this man and say, we're not getting back together. We gonna co-parent and you go do what you gotta do as a young man and figure it out and we'll co-parent and see something. But this is not your friend, this is not your lover, this is not your friend and this is not your mother. Okay?