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Tit for that #KaramoShow

9 Aug 2024 · 1 min

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In this spoken segment, the speaker reflects on common manipulation strategies used by partners who are cheating. They explain that a frequent tactic is deflection—accusing the other person of the same wrongdoing to shift blame. The speaker identifies the act of repeatedly unlocking a partner’s phone as a tit‑for‑tat mechanism meant to justify the cheater’s own behavior. They argue that, given the partner’s emotional state and the frequency of phone checks, it is likely that nothing incriminating will be found on the device. The overall message serves as a cautionary lesson about recognizing and understanding these manipulative patterns in romantic relationships.

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What I'm realizing right now, and this is what I know in games of manipulation, and so I'm gonna use you as a teaching lesson for anybody out there. When you have somebody who is actively engaging in cheating on you, in doing things behind your back, there is a manipulation tactic to say, well, I'm going to say you're doing it as well. It's the easiest way to deflect from ourselves. So I understand now that you unlocking her phone is just a tit for tat mechanism. It's just for you to be justified. Exactly. Man, I say that every time. And I don't know what's in here, but I'm almost positive I would bet, I would bet that there's nothing on this because of hearing how you've been in your emotional state, the things that you're going through, hearing the transparency, hearing that you go through her phone 4 days a week, you have hired something. There's nothing in this phone that could be found. So yeah, so we're unlocking your phone. Nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing.