Karamo warns that quiet people at their limit are more dangerous than loud ones. He shares how a lowered voice in his immigrant household meant trouble was coming, and applies that lesson to choosing better partners and recognizing when someone has reached their breaking point.
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Well, keep on because you're about to see the real colors out of him where he's lazy and don't want to do shit. It's okay.
Maybe the better woman he'll find, like you'll have to step up and choose up for a better choice. So if you want a peaceful life, the next time the person who's potentially the mother of your child and the woman you're dating, you need to say, hey, let me step in because these two women shouldn't be arguing. All right, somebody says when Karamo get in that low voice, let me tell y'all where this low voice come from. I grew up in a, household of immigrants who the minute their voice got lower, that's when you knew you was in trouble. If my mom was screaming, I knew I still had some grace. The minute she said, "Get your ass over here," the minute the voice got lower, I knew it was done because she don't want nobody to know what's going on. So when you see my voice get lower, that's me letting you know you got about 5 seconds. Either I'm gonna have to tell you something about yourself or I'm gonna have to get you off my stage. People don't really— let me tell you something. People who are at their limit are never loud. They're always quiet. That's the ones you got to worry about, the quiet ones. It's not the loud ones. It's the quiet ones. The loud ones is like a chihuahua barking. It's them quiet ones that you got to watch for. Can I get an amen? Amen? Amen, brother.