Karamo pushes someone to examine why they stayed in a relationship they felt unworthy of. He stresses recognizing your own value, affirming yourself as a mother, and setting standards for who you let into your life.
Do you think this was what you deserve?
No, not at all.
Now I don't want you, when I ask you this next question, I don't wanna hear you say it's because I love or because of potential. Why were you staying in something that you knew you didn't deserve?
I guess I just didn't want to give up on him. I just don't wanna make him feel abandoned.
I know what that feels like. Got it. I need you to choose yourself. You will find your path and you need to find your path.
Yes.
But you're not gonna do that until you understand your own worth. So I pray and I ask you that you do this work. You do this work. You're gonna say to yourself—
I did not deserve to be abandoned.
And then when you start talking to a man, you're gonna say to yourself, I'm a good mother because, and if that man doesn't match those qualities, what are you gonna do?