When a friend says "I don't even know myself," the group's defensive responses miss the mark. Speaker A wishes the conversation had stayed real instead, asking what should actually be said to someone in that moment of confusion.
Your friend just said, "I don't even know myself." If one of my friends told me that, my defenses would go down, my heart would break. That's not what I got. My friend said, your friend says, "I don't know myself." And both of your responses right here, and again, I don't wanna label y'all bad guys 'cause y'all are young women that are growing.
I still don't even want to either. I just want us to be real, please.
She just said she's not gonna label y'all. I don't. After all of this? She could, she could. She just, we vindicated, she didn't do nothing.
Yes.
So what do you wanna say to her now?
I apologize for accusing you of something you didn't do. And I apologize if you feel like we weren't or I wasn't a good enough person to talk to with you or to get your feelings out or to ask you about your stuff. And I'm sorry for not being gentle with you on your journey.