A father worries his daughter doesn't understand how one fight can change everything, having learned that lesson himself. The other speaker says vulnerability without discipline won't protect her. They suggest confiscating her phone immediately to keep her safe.
What's making you emotional? 'Cause we're hitting to the core of this.
I just want her life to be better, you know, even now. I mean, I don't want her to be fighting. She's so beautiful. One wrong fight, that's what got me locked up when I was, you know, her age. So it's like, she doesn't realize that it could be one fight and you could like hit somebody's head too hard and they can die.
Yeah, that is.
And then—
And when you have those conversations with her, what happens?
I feel like she takes heed to it, but just temporarily.
Temporarily. Yeah. Well, that's because the vulnerability needs to be accompanied by clear discipline. And that's the magic right there. When she comes back out, have her come back out with her phone. And you taking her phone. You taking it right now. And you can't give it back because what's at stake right now is your child's life. And you know that.