A father can't explain why he loves his child, just keeps saying "I" and admits he lies constantly. The speaker says walk away when he starts sentences with "I," stop begging for love, and recognize he doesn't have the tools to help you heal.
I asked your father to tell you why he loved you. First time he said I statements. Second time he talked about the things that you've done that are great as a man. And then he went right back into I statements. He could not describe why he loved you. And so what I didn't wanna do is set you up with some fake hug and some fake thing to say, oh great, everything's wrapped up because you need to have the tools to be able to maintain and start to heal yourselves. And so if your father can't give you the tools to heal yourself, I'm gonna be here to help you to heal yourself. So your father's not in a space to understand why he loves you. He doesn't know. Your father's also a habitual liar. And so the thing is, these are things you're already aware. So the thing is, is that it's going to be, you need to be cautious about how you move forward. And if he ever starts any statement with I, I, I, talking about him, you walk away. Don't argue with him no more. Y'all don't keep begging him anymore because y'all are grown people who don't deserve to beg a man to love y'all and tell you why he loves y'all.
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