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We all grieve differently. #karamoshow #shorts

12 May 2023 · 1 min

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In this YouTube short, Karamo reflects on a conversation with Lynn about her grief after losing her wife. He observes that Lynn’s wife sought joy by going to a bar, trying to include Lynn even at 3 AM, illustrating how people find small moments of happiness during intense loss. Karamo emphasizes that grieving is highly individual and that partners must explicitly communicate how they grieve and what support they need, rather than assuming others will understand. The core message is that acknowledging diverse grieving styles and openly sharing those needs fosters better support and prevents miscommunication.

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I'm watching the joy that has come around you telling that story. And I think that anybody who has went through what you went through deserves to get their joy however they can. But I realized something. Lynn, you said to me immediately that your issue is that you feel like you're losing your wife and that the communication is broken down. Yeah. But the thing is, I just heard that in the moment your wife went to the bar the first time to experience something that was gonna bring her joy, to be able to be around people, She did try to include you. At 3:00 AM. Doesn't matter. She's trying to find some joy in one of the hardest moments of her life. And she was still thinking about you to the place that she would call you. I didn't even think about it like that. Maybe I've been doing this all wrong. When it comes to grieving, we have to remember that we have to communicate to the people around us that this is the way I grieve and I need your support. Because what happens, we just assume that people will understand, but we all grieve differently.