In this YouTube episode, host Karamo moderates a heated conversation between former friends Jermaine and Joy. The dispute centers on Jermaine’s claim that Joy missed his birthday party and deliberately invited mutual friends to a rival location, which he describes as petty. Joy admits to some pettiness but argues her actions were not intended to hurt him and accuses Jermaine of being a "clout chaser" and using name‑calling. Both parties exchange accusations of fake behavior, abandonment, and unhealthy dynamics, while Karamo highlights the pattern of name‑calling (e.g., "fake," "clout chaser," "puppet master," "delusional") and probes each side’s intentions. The dialogue oscillates between personal grievances, character judgments, and attempts at reconciliation. Near the end, Karamo references the participants’ matching BBLs (Brazilian Butt Lifts) as a light‑hearted comment before delivering his standard YouTube outro encouraging subscriptions and further discussion. The episode showcases interpersonal conflict, social media‑driven identity concerns, and Karamo’s role as a mediator.
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Did you know that she was hurt over you missing her party?
Absolutely not, because she never gave an inkling of a feeling that she was hurt over it, because it was not purposefully that I missed your party.
So Jermaine, why are you upset with Joy?
Fast forward months later when it was my birthday, Joy decided to not only not show up, but she hit up friends of mine that I had introduced her to. That's not true. Very much so true.
Let me hear this side.
Okay, okay. You had your moment.
You had your moment.
Okay.
Thank you. Ms. Joy decided to hit up friends once again that I had introduced her to and asked them to come to a different place, literally across the street from the place where my birthday party. And that's just how petty she is.
Can I have the stage now?
Absolutely.
And I thank you.
Own it.
I will. What happened was I did get petty. I've admitted that. And I did not go to his birthday party on purpose. Later that evening, we did go down to the place across the street from where he had his party. At the end of the day, I gave you a taste of your own medicine and you don't like it.
Do you feel like she gave you a taste of your own medicine?
It was sour.
But do you believe you did the same thing?
I didn't because it wasn't my intention to not be there for Joy. But in reverse, she intentionally decided to try to hurt me. And that to me says a little bit about her character. Got it.
So while we're talking about character, and I gotta say something as well, What I've noticed as a third party that's out of this, and I'm still trying to figure out this whole situation between you, but one thing is that you do do name calling. And already in the matter of 5 minutes, I've had fake, clout chaser, puppet master, delusional. So why do you call her these names?
Because in certain moments, that's what she gives. Like, not really.
In certain moments you give, you do give fake, but you also give abandonment, choosing when you want to be in someone's life and choosing when you don't.
I'm not choosing when or when not to be in someone's life. If someone is not healthy for me, then I'm gonna remove myself from that situation.
So are you saying that I'm not healthy for you?
In certain moments you weren't, but you were healthy.
And in certain moments you weren't healthy for me too. I'm here to really, really truly find out. We go from living it up to all of a sudden, I can't reach you. Was there something that I did?
No, because we continued to be friends and hang out. So it clearly wasn't anything you had done at that point.
So if you're saying there was nothing that was happening, then why do you say that she's a clout chaser?
Because I just feel like a lot of her stories don't make sense. And I think that she does things for clout.
Like I said before, I looked at you like a family member. Same way I looked at you. It's never with competition. I take friendships very—
It's not a competition?
It's not a competition.
Okay, stand up, let me see. Turn to the side.
Oh, okay.
I knew you.
So y'all competing in the BBLs? Y'all both look great. Y'all both look great with your BBLs, baby. The BBLs are cute. Hold up, hold up. Where are you going? I know you want to watch more Karamo, so click here to subscribe and click here to watch more so we can keep talking and growing, friends. I love you.
