We Just Got Married And You Got Another Woman Pregnant?! | KARAMO

So tell me how you found out that he got another woman pregnant.

Oh, allegedly.

Allegedly, allegedly.

I was just investigating and I was seeing the name and he kept calling the girl, they was interacting. I'm like, okay, well, you know, what's this about?

Yeah.

But we was already having, we had an argument. He would wanna call it a little break, whatever. Mm-hmm.

But a little break don't mean you gonna get somebody pregnant.

Thank you.

Okay, okay.

But now, I don't know if it's, You know, true, I asked him and then the girl just went MIA, so.

So he denied it and the girl went missing?

Yeah.

Okay. Did you talk to her ever?

I spoke to her. We was on the phone. The story didn't make sense 'cause how can you sleep with him one day and then be pregnant the next?

Got it.

So it didn't make sense.

It wasn't making sense.

Right. The math wasn't mathing for me.

Do you have kids with him?

No, but he has kids.

Okay, he has kids.

And I've been there taking care of his 2 boys for 5 years.

Oh wow.

I love them like they my own.

Yeah, you love 'em like they're your own.

Yeah.

When did you start hearing about rumors of his cheating?

The whole time we've been together.

Wow, so from the beginning you heard rumors of cheating. What's making you emotional right now?

I just feel like I came into the relationship, I explained to him, you know, like what I've been through within my previous relationships and then to be here with you, you know, he was my safe space, my, you know.

Yeah, he was your safe space.

It just hurt me because I'm here and I'm, I love him, you know, and I'm taking care of your kids. I'm doing the whole nine for you, riding with you. He got stabbed, was there in the hospital, you know, with him.

Yeah.

Everything with him. You know, it just hurt because I never, I may have, you know, entertained people, you know, whatever, because you was doing you. So it's like, okay, but two wrongs don't make one right, you know? But—

Got it, makes sense. What did he say when you confronted him?

They was lying.

They're lying. So when did you get married?

August 8th.

August 8th of this year?

Yes.

Okay then. Oh, beautiful. So let me ask you, with all the rumors, why get married?

'Cause I mean, I love him. And after we got married, everything changed. Everything was calm until that one situation with the— The old woman.

The female. The female.

Once he got mad and, you know.

Got it. When you argue, does it get physical?

No.

Good.

Okay then, great. Do you get physical with him ever?

No.

Oh, so that's your toxic trait. Stop that.

Stop that. I just, okay, I just feel like you, I wanna hurt you how you hurt me. So I use my hands. I've been talking the whole time and it's like I'm not getting through to you. So I feel like if I put my hands on you, that's my only way of—

No, let me tell you, let me, you wanna know? Let me tell you, let me tell you something. I understand the logic you have of feeling like I want you to feel the pain. If you really want somebody to feel the pain that you're feeling, walk away.

Word, word.

Walk away.

I promise you, the worst thing is for somebody who thinks they have your attention not to have it.

to get your attention.

Right.

When I tell you like, oh, I don't care, I'm gonna walk away, I promise you that will hit an ego more than a hand.

Right.

My producers told me that he had escorts at your place. Is that true?

No, it was at his place.

What can he do to win back your trust?

Get help.

Get help?

Mm-hmm.

Okay.

I've been asking him to go to, you know, couples counseling. We have to be on the same page.

You're right.

I can't be up here And you're down, you know? 'Cause how is it gonna work? 'Cause you're not gonna understand it.

Yeah. So the question I asked you before that we got sidetracked is how did you know he had escorts at his place?

Oh, okay. So the day before we got into an argument, I left and I went home. And then the next day, you know, I got a gut feeling. Something told me to go back to Brooklyn, but I didn't go. But if I known, if I would've popped up, I would've, But good thing I didn't because I mean, who knows what would've happened? Just so happened I walked in a 99 Cent Store and the lady said, oh, here goes your husband's phone. I'm like, okay, wait, what? So I just started going through it and I just seen the messages and it was just like, wait, what the fuck?

Yes, okay. All right, so I think it's time to hear Shaheem's side of this story. So everyone please welcome Shaheem to the show. Don't judge him, we don't know his side yet. We don't know his side. How you doing, Cheyenne?

That's the problem right here. This the problem? That's the problem, the hair.

This the problem?

The hair, you need a cut.

How you doing? They was booing you already. They, listen, I told 'em that we need to hear your side. She said the problem is the hair 'cause the hair brings people in. Is that true?

I mean, my hair don't get me in trouble.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. So why don't you cut it?

Exactly.

I'm messing with you. She wants you to cut it.

I can't cut it.

So I'm gonna ask you point blank, are you cheating on her?

No.

It's unbelievable to me.

Let me just ask you again. Are you cheating on her? No. Okay, okay. That one I'm trying to believe even more because that first one with the uh huh. Why does she suspect you of being unfaithful?

I mean, she saw things in my phone. The past brings it to the present.

Yeah.

No, I ain't perfect. I did a lot of dumb junk.

Yeah, but he brings the past into the present because if you not interacting and chatting it up with them, they shouldn't be allowed to come into our foundation, what we had.

Yeah.

It's not fair. 'Cause none of my exes, anybody is doing that. So you can't—

Yeah. Tell me about the escorts at your house.

Please.

I mean—

No, I already know what it's about.

Those wasn't escorts.

They weren't escorts?

They wasn't escorts. So what were they?

What were they?

They was—

Strippers?

No.

So what?

I have certain fantasies, so, not saying that my wife don't do her job, but at that particular time, it was like she was treating me funny a lot. Before I got stabbed and before I actually called them 3 girls to my house, she was actually more funny.

Yeah, not one. He actually called 3 at that. 3. Hold on.

3. Hold on, lemme explain my side of the story so we can know what's going on. So the love wasn't there no more, the connection wasn't there no more. Now she's distant and ain't no conversation, no—

Exactly.

Hold on, lemme explain my side of the story please. That's another thing we got a problem with, with this one mic. 'Cause you will never understand my side of the story if you don't never let me finish explaining.

I do, and it be shit. So what are you talking about?

So I don't wanna lose my train of thought. Let me finish, please. I'll be honest. I took a little ride around the corner. I was bored. I saw 3 girls walking.

It don't make sense. Hold on, let me finish. 'Cause how you just find 3 girls walking? Hold on, hold on. I'm gonna let you finish, but Karamo, how do you pick up 3 girls 3 walking? random bitches. 3. And they don't know each other? But okay, cool. You can finish.

All right. So you picked them up and then you bring them back to the house?

Yes. So yeah, so I'm gonna spread my side of the story. It's not like, oh, I ain't do that. Oh, this not what it is. She misconstrued. No, I picked up 3 females. I brought 'em to the house. I'm gonna be honest. Hold on.

I'm gonna ask you a question. I get the 3 women in your house. I got it. Yeah, I understand what you're trying to tell me. In the beginning of the relationship, who do you think broke the foundation?

Yeah, I would say me.

Okay.

I don't know how, but I would say me.

Okay. So the reason I ask that, the reason I ask that is because I understand. I'm not here to dispute that as a male, you had needs that you felt like weren't being met. That's valid. But what I don't understand and what I can't justify is saying, she's moving weird when you were the one who started moving weird first.

Thank you.

And the reason I asked that question is because I need to hear from your own mouth if you thought the trust was broken from you or her. And so if you could admit, which I appreciate that honesty, that the trust was broken from you in the beginning, then of course she's gonna start having apprehensions to everything she does moving forward, especially when she is hearing that you've had 3 women in your house or that you're about to have 3 women or that she's had sex Suspicions, that, so why would she be comfortable around you? Why would she want to give you the things that you desire or meet your needs when you broke the foundation?

But this was before that.

Yeah, but you just said, I know, before the 3 women, I get it. But you said right now, I asked you, that you said it's probably you that broke the trust in the beginning.

It wasn't like I stepped out and got a baby. I left my— You left my son with your baby mama. That's what I'm talking about. But you saying that, but he just, he asked me why do he feel like I broke the foundation?

Okay.

So that's why I'm trying to explain to him.

Can I ask you this? Did she hit you in front of your children?

I don't know, she quit.

Okay.

So I might think about the kids, but it goes down, she get busy. Yeah.

But— You really do, parts of being too.

But hold on, as far as the beginning of the relationship, the only reason I'm taking that, 'cause that's where I fell. But I really don't feel like in the beginning of the relationship that I broke that foundation 'cause I wasn't in this girl house. I wasn't with this girl.

But I just know, Karamo, in the beginning, let's keep it real, you wasn't doubling back with your baby mama after y'all had that alleged kid. You wasn't?

No.

Shaheem, you're fucking lying. You're lying.

You're lying. No, I say no. No, I say no 'cause when I had a baby with my baby moms, right?

We wasn't, okay.

Hold on.

Go ahead.

One mic. Let me talk now. I beg you that for 6 years already.

If you feel like she doesn't give you the— if you feel like she's not giving you your one mic, why not leave? Why not go? Why not?

Why not leave?

Because she love it here.

And vice versa. But you know what? Let's come. Let's do this real quick because I think it's time to unlock the phone.

Well, hold on. Hold on.

We gonna go.

We gonna go.

We gonna go.

We gonna go.

I got enough. I got enough of a baseline. I got enough of baseline. We gonna lock the phone. So Shaheem, we unlocked your phone. We actually unlocked both your phones. All right, so here we go. Aaliyah, you want to know if Shaheem has ever messed with the landlord. He says he did not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched his phone and found that Shaheem is telling the truth.

All right, that's one.

Aaliyah, you want to know if Shaheem is texting with other women. He says he is not. My Lock the Phone investigators searched his texts and found that Shaheem is telling the truth.

Okay, wait, but is this before?

I'm gonna tell you, boo. Keep going. Aaliyah, you want to know if Shaheem is DMing any other women? He says he is not. My Lock the Phone investigators searched his DMs and found that Shaheem is not telling the truth. We found 82 messages exchanged between him And 26 different women.

Can I just smack?

No, you can't smack him. We don't do the smacking here. Thank you, Rob. So 26 women.

And it's funny.

Okay, so, sup love? Okay, got it. You look taken. Nah, I'm single now. Respectful. But you can take me after we get to know each other better. There was a call. You can call my cell if you want. I didn't answer. Send me your number. Okay. You stored under your future husband. Respectfully though, that's you.

I'm a sweetheart.

You said, what you doing? This one's 2021. This one's 2022. I'm gonna marry you when I get rich. But y'all were still together. But y'all were together during these times. You were together during these times. You were together. Hold on. No, no, no, no. Because you've been together for 5 years. So you said that you didn't break, you said, I really didn't break the foundation. She thought I had something going on with my ex-girl and I didn't really have anything going on. And what we have seen is during that time period, you're even telling other women, let's meet up. Like you're literally telling her.

And she knew that. 'Cause she knew I was—

It's not about her knowing that. The question is, who broke the foundation?

Who broke the trust? She knew I was manipulating females for money. I knew that. So Aaliyah, did you know that he was manipulating women for money?

I knew that he was. Let me actually correct this. Yes or no? Please.

Yes or no?

One mic, like you said.

So I see what happens when you two don't wanna just be direct and honest, y'all both say one mic. All right, Aaliyah, we unlocked your phone. Aaliyah, we unlocked your phone. Okay, here we go. Here we go. Shaheem, you wanna know if Aaliyah is communicating with an ex. She says she is not. My octophone investigator searched her DMs and found that Aaliyah is telling the truth. Shaheem, you wanna know if Aaliyah is communicating with an ex, another different ex? She says she is not. My octophone investigator searched her texts for that one and found that Aaliyah is telling the truth. Shaheem, you want to know if Aaliyah is communicating with an ex, another ex? She says she is not. My luck, the phone investigator searched her phone and found that Aaliyah is not telling the truth on this one. But they have a graphic. It's a message that you sent to my producer saying, I also don't wanna tell him about the cheating on the show. I wanna wait till after and tell him on my own.

Man. Actually, what happened was with this was—

One mic, one mic, one mic, one mic, one mic. No, no, no, no, no.

Hold on.

No, no.

Hold on.

No, no, no.

Hold on. I don't wanna explain it.

That's for the truth, Avi, y'all. Okay, this is what I'm gonna say. This is what I'm gonna say. No, no, no. This is what I'm gonna say. This is what I'm gonna say.

That's crazy.

I do believe that the trust in this relationship was broken. I believe that there was this sort of young, unhealthy love that bonded you two together. I'm sure there's some codependency in this. And so you allowed behavior because it was fun. You allowed behavior 'cause it was fun. The trust was there, but it was shaky. And then what happened is that I think you said, I'm done with that. I'm ready to mature. I'm ready to get something more serious. I think that what has happened is that neither of you had a real conversation about what you really wanted and that we're really where you're growing to. And so what we have now is I believe that you're trying to get yourself back on track, but you don't feel like your girl is giving you what you desire. And vice versa, she feels like, yo, he's not in it. Am I hitting any of this on the nail?

Yes.

Yeah.

Yeah, okay. There needs to be a conversation about what a real healthy relationship is, and I don't think y'all ever had that conversation.

No.

Right now, y'all are living separately because you gotta take care of the kids. I get that and I respect that. But what y'all really should be doing during this time that y'all are apart is using this as a time to say, hold on, I need to know what a healthy relationship— I need to figure out what it is. You all have to figure that out, especially now as husband and wife. Y'all gotta figure that out. And then y'all need to sit down with those 2 pieces of paper, look at them side to side, and say, and say how much match and how much don't match. Because what's happening right now is y'all are not on the same page. Y'all might be in the same book, but y'all ain't on the same page.

That's a fact. That's a fact. So can I ask you for advice? So what do you do when your wife is verbally abusing you and putting you down?

So what you do, you see when I just told you that list, you say for a healthy foundation in relationship, you can't abuse me physically or verbally. And then she's gonna write, when it comes to this, I need to take anger management. See, those 2 things are aligned for a healthy foundation.

Karamo.

Girl, you do. Girl, you just said pots and pans. And I'm not saying he's not. See, I'm not saying not. I'm not saying, I'm not saying, listen, I'm not, it's not going back and forth. What it is, I'm giving y'all the tips. I'm telling y'all, if you do this work, y'all could possibly get a healthy relationship and a healthy marriage. But work needs to be done on both ends. Both of your ends.

What?

Both of your ends, okay?

Okay, but I have a question.

Nah, I'm gonna tell y'all backstage. I gotta go, all right? Everyone, make sure to come back next time, friends, so we can keep talking and growing. I love you all. Let's—