We Were Engaged...Until I Checked His Phone! | KARAMO

So Shaneen, you took off your engagement ring.

Oh yes, I did.

Tell me about it.

Because I'm tired of getting accused of cheating.

Okay.

And him being promiscuous with himself.

Okay, so what's going on with this woman that has 2 kids by Anquan?

It's 3.

3?

3 kids.

3.

So we started talking back in 2014. So we've been together for 10 years. I didn't know he had a girl at the time. Couple girls. I had people inboxing me. I'm like, who the hell is this? Found out it was his baby mama. One of 'em.

And— So he didn't tell you he had kids?

He said he had one.

Okay.

One kid.

Okay.

We stopped talking. Then he came back into contacting me. Like low key, I knew he probably was still talking to people. I would go through his phone. And find it, kick him out, and then I'll get like 100 phone calls, 100 texts, they answer.

And then you take him back?

I did.

And this is 10 years y'all been together now?

Yes.

And all of this was in the first year?

No, the first 5 years.

5 years. So how often do you say you kick him out? Like?

Every other day. Every other day, get the hell out.

And— So why do you believe he's cheating again? Do you have any proof?

I don't have proof, but you're accusing me every other day I'm doing something. So if you're accusing me, you're doing something. When every time we fought, I would go on his phone and find that he would download the dating sites, go on there, talk to a couple people, and then delete it.

Got it.

So I end up going back on there Sign him in and read the messages and then go back and delete it back like I didn't even go on there. Screenshot so I can have it in my phone.

Got it.

So I could show him that I had it.

And what does he say?

Oh, that was, we was fighting. Okay. We fight all the time.

So when you fight, you kick him out, but you're not breaking up?

I say we over, but he says we're not.

Okay.

But I do, I love him. We have a 6-year-old.

You only have one child together?

One child, yes.

Is he a good father?

He's a great father.

Okay, what's on the line if you find out that he's still cheating?

Oh, his ass is staying here in Connecticut. I'm going back to Michigan. Okay.

Let me tell y'all something. The only reason I'm not clapping for that is 'cause she just told y'all she kick him out every other day. So that ain't no real punishment. Like, okay, he's staying here. He just gonna fly back home and you gonna let him back in.

No, I won't.

What would make this different though? That you would do it?

Because he keeps saying that he's not doing it.

So this is really it. If you find out, you're done.

I'm done.

All right. Well, I wanna meet Anquan and hear his side of this story. So everyone please welcome Anquan to the show. Nice to meet you. So I gotta ask you, Anquan, what you gotta say about what you heard?

She's a bully.

She's a bully.

She's a bully.

Okay.

Now I will admit, like, The beginning of our relationship, it was pretty rocky. I was doing my own little thing or whatever. But once she came to me and told me that she was pregnant with my daughter, like, I completely did a 360. And ever since then, like—

None of you done that.

If you did a 360, that mean you doing the same BS. No, no, no, no, not at all, not at all, not at all.

So you did a whole 360?

Whole 360.

So you wasn't talking no bitch?

Nope.

I know. Nope.

Well, okay.

None. I'm aware. You told my producers that she cheats and deletes.

It seems like 'cause she's always on her phone. She sleeps with her phone under her pillow. I mean, all type of crazy stuff. Literally.

She told us earlier that she's literally found stuff on your phone from the apps you've been on talking to girls.

From when I used to go on there? Yes, you have.

No, just recently, couple months ago.

Which one was that?

Which one was that? There was—

I don't know if asking that question helps the case.

I'm saying because I could admit I used to be on them, but I know for a fact I got off of them also.

None now, okay.

Exactly.

How did you feel when she took her engagement ring off?

Oh, I was hurt. I was hurt.

Yeah.

Something gotta change with us in order for us to move forward. 'Cause right now it's just pretty much like, I feel like we're at a standstill.

I gotta ask you directly, are you cheating on her?

No. No.

Okay. Do you still want to marry her?

I do.

So you wanted her to unlock her phone as well?

Oh yes.

And so you turned over your phone to my unlock the phone investigator.

I sure did.

Well, I want to unlock these phones because we need to get to the truth of this matter. Shanine, we gonna start with your phone. Okay. We unlocked your phone. All right, so Anquan, you wanna know who is calling Shanine from two specific numbers. Shanine says it's no one. My Lock the Phone investigator searched her contacts and found that Shanine is not telling the truth. One of the numbers in Shanine's contacts is under a specific guy's name.

That's my brother.

That is? Okay.

Yes.

Okay. We gotta just find it. You know, you gotta give me patience. I don't know your whole life, so we find it. Okay, well then there we go.

That's good, that's good.

Anquan, you wanna know if Shanine is communicating with any men via apps. She says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her apps and found she's telling the truth.

Good job.

Anquan, you wanna know if Shanine is communicating with any of her exes. She says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her text messages and found she is telling the truth.

Told you, told you.

However, I will tell you this. My investigator made a note to tell me that he found 37,620 deleted texts from the last 30 days.

Yeah.

But why would you delete that many texts?

Because we end up getting new numbers. So 3 and a half years I used to sell cars. So most of all mine was the customers. You can go in there and go, you can read.

I wasn't saying anything.

So it's a lot of 'em was my customers.

That's for you to explain to him, not me.

I don't gotta explain nothing, he's seen it.

Okay, so you know that. You're saying that those messages are from customers?

Well, some of 'em, yes, yes, some of 'em, yes.

37,000?

Well, I'm gonna say 37,000, yeah. I'm gonna say that, but yeah. I ain't gonna say 37,000.

I sell cars.

Okay, cool.

I talk to customers. I gotta make that money.

All right, I'm with it, all right. All right, well, Anquan, we unlocked your phone. You ready?

Yep.

Shaneen, you wanna know if Anquan is meeting with women online. Anquan says he is not. My unlocked phone, investigators searched his apps and found that Anquan is not telling the truth. Oh no. He has 10 dating apps downloaded on his phone. Say Hi, Text Me, Enterprise Dating, Tinder, POF, Tango, Meet Me, OKCupid, and Me.

The old ones. Like when you download on the phone, it shows what you downloaded on the phone.

Yeah, I knew several of them that were on there.

Those are old.

That's why I went, like, like Bree did, went in there and saw the messages.

Okay, we're just letting you know.

Those are all of them.

Yeah, those are all of them. Really?

Shanine, you wanna know if Anquan is communicating with a specific woman. Anquan says he's not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his calls and found that Anquan is not telling the truth. My investigator found 45 deleted calls he made to this woman.

To who? What's the number?

I don't know the woman that she, we can't say her name. Do you know the woman's name?

Recently or older?

Talk to her.

'Cause if it's older, then yeah, that understandable. Oh yeah, I'm talking to her. Yeah, she blocked and everything, yeah.

We just found 45 deleted calls you made to her.

45?

Yes, recently. Does it show the dates? Recently?

Oh, recently.

Recently?

This is what we're looking for.

'Cause like she's blocked on my social media apps.

This is, this is, Search calls.

Oh, search calls? I don't even call her. And she's blocking my phone.

Okay, Shanine, you wanna know if Anquan has been texting the same woman. Anquan says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator found that Anquan is not telling the truth. My investigator searched Anquan's texts and found 97 deleted texts between Anquan and this woman. Can I see that, Rob? Thank you.

I see it, show me. I wanna see this one.

Oh, really?

Yeah, I wanna see this one.

I told you delete. I told you.

Who's the woman?

No, it wasn't. It was a whole different person.

This is says, you right, maybe it's too much for now. I love sex, so it's difficult. And I show the man I'm how much I enjoy him. I could love. I love that.

Yeah, that's it. That's old. Yeah, that's old.

I knew about that one. That's when he got busted in the face with the bat.

Yeah, that's old. Yeah.

Okay.

Well, I say, yeah, I don't, yeah, me and don't associate unless it's for the kids.

This Tuesday at 10:09.

Go ahead and I'll tell you what Tuesday is.

Yeah, yeah, I can tell you too.

I'll tell you what Tuesday is.

Hey, you can look at it.

Oh, that's, that's old too. That's old. That's all old.

This is old.

This is old.

Non-toothed hoe. Yep, I know about that one. He got packed up, kicked the fuck out too. Yeah, these are old. These are like a year old.

Yeah, like I don't do nothing. I'm a good boy.

No, honey, I'm a good girl.

So a year ago you were still up to doing stuff? And then you said how many months ago you found him talking to his child's mother?

Few months ago.

Last year.

So he might be fiancé, but you know he's engaged with other people, clearly. You already know that. You've been knowing it. I just don't understand why you wanna continue to stay in this. I think you personally enjoy this.

Who would enjoy this, getting hurt?

The same person that's gonna kick him out, take him back, kick him out, take him back, kick him out, take him back.

You're right, you're right. You're right, you're right. You know what? I can't say what I really wanna say. I am to the point, I am tired of it.

You're not tired, girl. I don't know if you see my face.

You're not tired.

Listen, you can waste your own time, but you're not gonna waste my time, girl. You're gonna be back with this man. Ain't nothing to it. Sir, this is the thing. She's gonna kick you out again. You're gonna come back in. Y'all gonna be in this cycle until one of y'all decide this cycle's not healthy. But I wish y'all the best. Will one day find the strength to end this for yourselves because you both deserve not to be in this. And I hope that you know that your child doesn't deserve this model either. And I'm not saying y'all are bad parents. I'm saying what you're modeling is not good. Wish y'all the best of luck. Listen, friends, make sure to come back next time so we can keep talking and growing. I love you all.