A woman doubts whether Tammy, who raised her, is her biological mother. Karamo offers a DNA test and suggests Tammy's emotional distance stems from unresolved trauma and grief, not biology. He frames healing as separate from the paternity question.
I know she said she had me when she was 15, but I feel like she stole me from somewhere 'cause this cannot be my mom.
I will support you in getting another DNA test with Tammy.
Please.
And what I wanna do with that, hold on, let me tell you why, is because what I recognize through this conversation, the first thing I wrote down, and when I saw the age between you and Tammy, is that Tammy must have had some type of difficulty in her childhood. And then losing a child young as well. Didn't know how to process her grief and put it on her daughter and it disconnected your relationship. And I watched her right here. She's never healed and she's never forgiven. And because she's never healed and forgiven, it's caused strain on y'all two. So she feels lost and you feel lost and abandoned. And that is separate from what happened here with her. So if you feel like you need to have confirmation with your mom.
I do.
I invite you back. So that I can get you that confirmation and then I could support you and Tammy in healing.