We're Getting Married Tomorrow, Are You Cheating? | KARAMO

So please tell me, when were you supposed to get married?

Tomorrow.

Tomorrow's my birthday. Like, really?

Tomorrow's your birthday?

Yes.

Happy birthday.

Thank you.

And also, was the day you were supposed to get married?

Yes. Oh, wow. It was supposed to be the best birthday present ever, but here we are.

Yeah. All right, so tell me about why you canceled the wedding. What happened exactly?

He canceled the wedding. He canceled? Because he feels like I'm cheating.

Okay. You know?

Well, I got a random call from somebody I went to elementary with, and they wanted to, you know, take me out. And that's where I cut it. No, I have my own family. I'm doing my own thing. No, thank you. Well, he swears up and down, oh no, you guys are having sex. You guys are meeting up. You guys are doing this.

Got it, got it. So does he check your clothing?

Oh, Karamo, he checks my underwear out.

Underwear?

Yes, you know you take a shower, you take everything off. He'll pick them up and be like, mm, that don't smell like our sex smell. What sex smell? What is a sex smell? I didn't know there was a sex mail. You know, like, I don't get it.

Okay, girl. So have you ever cheated on him? Let's be clear.

No.

Never?

Never. Never thought about it? Never even crossed my mind. It doesn't. He's everything I want and everything I need. It's just that this cheating is—

And how often does he accuse you?

Every day.

Every single day?

Every day.

And how long has this been now?

It's been 3 years.

So why do you wanna unlock your phone?

To show him I have nothing to hide. Okay.

Are you suspicious of his behavior?

Yes.

You're accusing me. Why do you keep accusing me if you're not doing anything? 'Cause you obviously know I'm not doing anything. I don't go outside, I don't hang with anybody.

Does he post anything about you on social media?

No, not a picture, not a, I love my girlfriend, my fiancée, I got engaged, nothing at all.

Is he actively posting though? 'Cause that's context because it's one thing to say like he's not posting you, but does he post anybody?

Just himself.

He posts himself?

Just himself.

Does he post the kids?

No.

Okay. So what will happen if something is on his phone today?

We're done. You're done? We can co-parent. You know, we can co-parent, keep it strictly about the kids. I'm done.

I'm gonna keep it real with you. Do you really think if there's something you would walk away from this if there was something?

To be honest, no.

Okay, good, good.

I'm gonna be honest.

'Cause I like to keep it real with people. Like, let's, you know. 'Cause even though this is a show, I also am here for you and I wanna make sure like, if you really don't think you're gonna leave, if we did find something, I wanna make sure I understand where your mental state is so I can help you navigate those feelings to where the outcome you wanna go. So, all right, so you told my unlock the phone investigator that you want to know if Prince is texting with other women, if Prince is communicating with other women, and if Prince is talking to other women. Correct?

Yes.

Okay, well I think it's time to hear Prince's side of the story. So everyone, let's welcome Prince to the show. How you doing, friend? Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you too.

Nice to meet you.

Let's go.

Okay, so how do you feel about what she just said?

It was just a lie because you know what I mean? Like I wanna make sure she ain't cheating. You gotta be honest with me. And if you serious about me, you would show me. You know?

I do.

That's why I gave her my phone. Like I ain't got nothing to hide. If we gonna be honest with each other, we gonna be honest.

Be honest. But you said your phone down, face down for what?

"If it's yours, my phone is yours, you can have that. But when I set my phone down, I set it next to you." But when I pick it up, you be like, "What you picking up my phone for?" I have no problem with you picking my phone up.

Oh, you a liar, you get on the show and act crazy.

You can have my phone. Okay, right. You can have my phone.

It's okay if sometimes you're like, "What are you asking for?" You know, like that's a natural reaction. You let her know you can have it, but you're also concerned of like, why do you constantly pick it up?

But I don't constantly pick it up.

If she wanna pick it up, I let her.

Okay then.

I say, "You want my phone, you can have my phone, but just make sure," You find what you're looking for.

Okay, okay.

You find what you're looking for. If you don't find it, you find you in my phone.

Okay.

You know.

Well, she said she don't find you on her social media.

I'm all over her social media.

Yeah, you're all over mine, but where am I on yours?

All over it.

No, it ain't.

You all over it.

No, it ain't. No, it's not.

I'll post her.

Stop lying.

We're gonna have you come unlock really quickly this phone so they can go through Instagram. Do you wanna unlock real quick?

Let's bring it.

Unlock it.

Unlock. Pocket, come on. Come on, show me where I am at.

Okay. Okay, so I'm on the page. You only have 12 posts.

Of who, Karamo?

And there's none of her that I'm seeing so far.

Thank you.

You said there was some.

Thank you.

I posted some.

But there's none on here.

Okay.

Okay.

I'm just saying I've been posting there. If it ain't there, if it ain't there.

If it's not there, what?

You picked up my phone.

What I'm gonna delete it for?

You picked up my phone.

Why would I delete my picture off of it?

I don't know, you tell me.

Okay.

Are we able to bring my phone out here so I can show them something? No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Why would I delete a picture of me? I want the whole world to know that me and you, it's me and you and nobody else.

All right, so yeah, so I see the discrepancies right now because you just said that there's something on your page that's not.

It was not there. Uh-huh. Right.

Okay, yeah, right, right.

It wasn't there, right?

So what's the explanation for that though?

No explanation.

Okay then. So you said she leaves the house for hours, right?

Yeah.

And what do you think she's doing during those hours?

Where do I go?

I won't know. You know, when you leave, you leave. You know what I mean?

I go to work and then I go home.

And don't you be late coming home?

You come pick me up. You tell me why you be late coming to pick me up then.

I never be late coming to pick you up.

Oh yes you do.

I'm gonna ask you directly.

We party.

Have you cheated?

Never, no.

Never, okay.

Look, let me take that.

And what do you want to say to her?

Please, I wanna hear.

I just wanna make sure she being faithful.

I'm honest with you.

And you know, when you honest with somebody, you honest. I just wanna make sure we on the same page.

Okay then. If you find that she's being faithful, are you going to stop the accusations and reengage in getting married?

Sure, yeah.

You are?

Yeah.

Okay.

Yeah, right there. Sure, that don't sound too sure.

Well, Prince.

I'm dead sure.

Prince, you talked to my unlock the phone investigator as well, and you said you can't move forward with the wedding until you have the truth. Right. Okay then. Well, I think it's time to unlock the phone.

Let's go!

Come on, we're here.

Dora.

Yes.

We unlocked your phone.

Yes.

All right, let's get to this.

Get to it.

Prince, you want to know if Dora was communicating with any other men. Yeah. Dora says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her texts and found she's telling the truth.

Here it is, let's go, come on, keep it rolling. Hold your soul.

Prince, you wanna know if Dora was communicating with other men on social media. Dora says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her DMs and found that Dora is telling the truth.

Yeah, call him again, I told you, told you.

All right, Prince, final one is you wanna know if Dora's calling other men. And remember, we find old call logs, we make sure we go through. Dora says she's not, and my locked phone investigator searched her calls and found she's telling the truth.

Told you, I told you. Now what? Now what? Now what?

So I'm gonna be very clear. I'm gonna be very clear. My investigator let me know that we searched both things that were on your phone and deleted. Okay. And in the 5 years you've been together, there have not been one suspicious activity.

No, not one. I don't want nobody else's problems.

My problems right here.

You had to make sure.

Well, I'm telling you, this is both on the phone and deleted.

Okay.

Not conversations, outside numbers other than mostly her sister. Okay. Nothing at all.

Okay. Thank you.

Okay.

Thank you.

You gotta make sure we involved.

Thank you.

You knew I was right from the beginning. You had to make sure.

You knew I was right from the beginning.

You held on to your past.

You held on to your past.

Well, Prince, Prince, we unlocked, Prince, we unlocked your phone.

Let's go.

Let's get to it.

All right, Dora, you want to know if Prince was texting with other women. Prince says he is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his texts and found that he is telling the truth.

All right, okay.

Here we go.

Dora, you want to know if Prince is communicating with other women. Prince says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his apps and found that he is not telling the truth. We found two dating apps called Rizz and TextCupid that you have on.

Oh.

Mm.

Damn, for real?

All right, wants to know if Prince was talking to other women. Prince says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his phone and found that Prince was not telling the truth because he had Match.com where he had communications that he deleted April 2023. So you were on Match.com April 2023. So you wanna talk about that? What was going on during that time?

I was just texting. It wasn't nobody I was texting important.

Okay, but you were texting.

Yeah, I was just texting.

Yes, but you're in a committed relationship with someone you're engaged to.

Right.

And you were on a dating app.

Right. This was way before.

This is April 2023. This is not way before.

Okay, okay.

April 2023.

Right. Well, just make it so.

Yeah, so wasn't she, because I think I asked her the name, the age of your children, wasn't she pregnant at that time? Mm-hmm. She was pregnant at that time. Yeah. So at that time when she's pregnant, you were on dating apps? No. So what this tells me is this makes sense of why you've been gaslighting her and you're aware of that. Now I'm gonna tell you this, I'm really good at advising people how to break up for their own breakthrough. So you have an opportunity, if you don't want me to advise her to lose your family, you can be honest in this moment and tell her, what has been going on and what you did. Now remember, we have went through your phone, we understand what's going on. So talk to her and tell her what's happening.

No, like when I was on there, I was on there, I wasn't—

Please don't give excuses.

I wasn't looking for nothing.

You were, don't give excuses.

Okay.

You were. You should've been needed at home. You would not go on an app if you were not looking for something.

If that's what you want and what you really need, like you say, it would be none of that 'cause there's none of that on my phone at all. I understand you went through shit in your past and I done went through shit in my past, but I would have never let my past get to my head at all, at all. This messed up, this messed up.

You right, listen to me.

You could have told me all of this.

I say this, you right and I was, oh, you right and I was wrong. That's what I'm gonna say, you right and I was wrong. Me on that app, it didn't mean nothing to me like you do, but I'm letting you know you was right and I was wrong.

What were you looking for in that moment? No, no, no, instead of saying, she already knows she's right and you're wrong, so that doesn't help the situation. What I want you to do, if you want to learn how to have healthy communication, actually mend the hurt and the broken trust that is now here. It's not about are you right and wrong. What were you searching for in that moment? Because that will actually give you a path towards healing this versus saying you're right and I'm wrong.

Friendship. I was looking for something that she wasn't giving me. It was a lot of friendship.

I wasn't giving you, I don't go hang with nobody who's facing my issues.

Give me a minute. Give me a minute. No, no, no. I wanted to be, let me do something for you right now. Let me do something for you.

I am always in your face.

I wanted you to be my friend. Well, once you started killing people. I wanted you to be my friend. And you wasn't doing, you weren't doing what I wanted you to do.

Like what?

I was begging.

I need— Like what?

So can I tell you this? So I'm gonna try, I'm trying to give you the tools. I really am. I really am. In talking about what you were experiencing in that moment, it's not healthy for you to deflect and accuse her and make her responsible for your actions. Right. You wanting friendship is gone.

Right.

That's no longer an excuse. And let me be very clear, and that is not something you need to defend. You don't need to defend and say when, why, because all that does, and I've learned the tactic now, is he keeps you confused. The dizzier you get is the less aware you are. And I've watched it. But do you hear what I'm saying? He keeps you dizzy. And when you argue and engage, you don't focus on what it is. So just in this moment, again, we saw the truth and he starts to tell you about your friendship. And instead of staying focused on the thing, which is no, you went on Match.com, you started to defend your friendship and what you've done for him. Don't do that anymore. Now I'm back to you. So why did you think it was appropriate as a father to your children, as a father to the family y'all have, and a husband or fiancé to her, to go on Match.com while she was pregnant? It wasn't right, you know. What were you going through in that moment?

My feelings.

And what in your feelings?

I mean, being with her a lot, you know? I want with her a lot, so.

So you wanted independence. Yeah. Which is why you're afraid to get married.

Right.

So instead of saying, I'm afraid to get married because I'm too young and I don't know how to get rid, I'm scared I'm gonna lose my independence, you decide to take an action. Right. The more honest you can be about what you did and where you were at without making it about her is the only chance you're gonna have of reconciling this. Because I'm gonna wake you up. Yes, the wedding was supposed to be tomorrow, but I'm so glad you got the truth today. Because no longer can you be in a situation where he keeps you in a cycle of making you feel dizzy, making you feel like, well, what's going on? Well, no, hold up. We have showed that you have done nothing. He will keep you arguing the truth so that you won't focus on the truth. You understand? Yeah. Do not do that anymore. So the next time he makes you question your reality, you say, nope, let's focus on what this really is. That is your tool. And because I know you're not going just to end this, use that tool as your barometer to know, do I need to stay in this? And if you see that he is not focused on the truth and his action, if he keeps trying to bring it back to you, That is how you can say, nope, you did it once, twice, 3 times, you gone. You got it? So I'm giving y'all both the tools. If you want your family back, honesty and break, do not bring it back to her. Only talk about you. The minute you say something about what you did, you've lost it and you stay focused, all right? I'm so sorry you had to find this information out here. I really am because my goal here is for healing and for people to find what they need. But I'm also here for transparency and I'm glad you have that as well, okay? I wish you all the best of luck. Thank you.