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All right, our guest Brandon says that he knew his wife Tiffany was a flirt. Brandon believes Tiffany has been cheating on him with multiple men. Wild, right? Listen, everyone, please welcome Brandon to the show. Good to meet you, Brandon. How you doing?

Good to meet you too.

I'm all right. All right, so Brandon, we gotta get right into this. Why do you think your wife is cheating on you?

Well, it all started back when I was, we was all working. I met her at the job. It was a cold day. I didn't have a ride home and I ended up just seeing her walking. I asked her, could she gimme a ride? She ended up gimme a ride, you know? We hit it off from then on, you know?

What evidence do you have or what has she been doing to make you think she's cheating on you?

Look, when I first got with her and stuff though, everything was cool, you know? I didn't know that she was, I didn't know that she had somebody else that she was actually dating and stuff at the same time.

Got it. Has she ever admitted to you that she's cheated in the past?

Actually, yeah, you know, she told me that she messed with her ex and stuff though. We was, you know, going back and forth and stuff. We got in a little argument at one time and I think she was trying to be a little bit petty to me.

So what happened when you called out Sick?

I decided to call out and stuff though, but then I called her to just see what she was doing. She picks up the phone and behind her, I think she was trying to, go to another side with it so I couldn't see who was over there she was talking to. 'Cause every time I would talk to her, the camera would go this way. You know, you can hear her, but you can't see her, you know? So I sat there and I seen the dude in the background. Now this was a dude that me and him really didn't get along for real. So dude turned around and she hung up the phone and stuff though. I called her back, I'm calling her back on the phone, she would never pick up. All of a sudden she pick up, I'm like, "Dude, so why you can't pick up the phone and stuff though?" She's like, "I'm busy right now." I said, "Ah, with dude in the background?" I already seen him in the back. You know what I'm saying?

What'd she say?

She gonna start giggling, laughing. "Whatever, whatever." Okay. Hang up the phone on me.

Is there anything else suspicious that's happened?

I was at my apartment one day. I woke up, I decided to go get me a black from the store. I left my keys at the house. I got in the car and I left. Came back. And I'm knocking on the door and stuff, you know? I'm like, boom, boom, boom. Like, ain't nobody answering, you know what I'm saying? Like, what's going on? I know she in here, you know? I had my radio on low. She still wouldn't answer the door. So I'm like, boom, boom, boom, boom. I'm knocking on it like the police now. I'm like, dude, somebody up in here, I know. You know, I run around, I goes around to the side of the building. I'm like, 'cause you know, I'm on the second floor, you know? I'm on the, so I go around, I'm looking and stuff 'cause I want to see if he come out here, I want to be there. If he come out the front door, I want to be right there. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah. I go around both times. She didn't say nothing. He didn't come out. He didn't come outside and see nobody at first. So I'm knocking on that mug again. This time, my neighbors and stuff started coming out. They all like, everything okay? Everything all right? I'm like, yeah, man, somebody in. She's in the house though, but I can't get it open, the door and stuff though. So then I go back around. I curve back around to the side so I can see, like, kind of see both sides. Good tactic. I'm like, I'm trying to see both sides. I got to see, you know. Came back to the front door. Then all of a sudden the dude, it was a dude that stayed upstairs, you know, they had already been eyeballing each other back and forth throughout the time we come and go from our apartment. He comes back around like he all outta breath. Oh man. She opened the door 2 minutes later, her hair all, you know, frizzy and stuff though. I go straight back to my room. I got these, I had the new windows and stuff where you gotta push the little lock down to lift it all the way up or else it just, you know, go up a little bit. I never opened this window before ever, you know. I always keep it, I'm working overnight so I keep it dark and cool in there, you know. I go to the thing, my curtain a little bit ripped. The locks that you supposed to push in, they're broke. Like somebody was trying to hurry up and just pull it up and stuff. The locks is broke. I look at her, I say, "Hey, how my locks get broke?" "Oh, I guess Nana had somebody in here now. I guess some man was in your house. Oh my God." Hold on, after banging on the door like the police, you said it that calm? Yeah.

You said somebody was in here?

No, no, I'm sitting there like, dude.

You had to have been heated.

Okay, I was heated. Okay, I knew you was heated. I'm like, you saw he was like, "Oh, somebody got my locks broke?" I know you had to be heated. I'm sitting there like, "Dude." So that's a wild story.

Let's be real, that's a wild story. So you're married right now, right?

Yeah, I married her. How long you been married now? About 7, 8 months.

7, 8 months. Yeah. So there's something still about her that you love that you want to see this really work?

You know, everybody make mistakes.

Got it.

You know what I'm saying? I made a whole lot of 'em. That's why I decided to kind of forgive her for hers, you know?

Got it.

Okay then, I understand.

At least you owning up. So you said that Tiffany has some bad behaviors.

Oh man.

What are the bad behaviors?

Let me show you.

Not sneaky.

Sneaky. All the time, she's either going through my stuff or everywhere I'm at, she be in the opposite place, you know what I'm saying? And flirtatious. Every time we go somewhere, you know what I'm saying? She wanna wear the leggings with no panties in. You know, she always gotta drop stuff and bend over though, you know what I'm saying? I'm always sitting there like, dang, you know what I'm saying? Okay, undressing men with eyes. Every single time we go somewhere, She always eyeballing people up and down. I'm telling you, you a pretty good looking man. You better watch out when she come around. She might start— You might be next. You might be next. I'm telling you. Always. Always. Let me tell her she about to undress me. And petty. Like, petty's my number one thing though, because she always be petty with stuff though. She'll get mad at me, or if I don't do something she want me to do right away or something, she get mad. She'll start doing the crying. She'll start doing the crying game, you know? Trying to act like I'm doing her so wrong 'cause I don't jump at that moment when she want me to jump.

You know? So you said that her mom is trying to ruin your relationship.

Oh man, her mom always in our business. Every time I turn around, it's like, I told her it might as well just be us three married together.

Yeah, so listen, I just wanna know this because we see, you said she's sneaky, she about to undress me. We heard all this stuff. I see, understand. So why did you marry Tiffany? Like I need to know what was the quality about her that you liked? You love her, but you don't wanna marry her.

I mean, you know, when we have good times though, we do have good times though, and she could be real sweet.

So do you wanna save your relationship?

I do.

Will you do anything to save your relationship?

I will.

You will? Good, okay then.

I will.

Everyone, I think it's now time to meet Tiffany. Everyone, welcome Tiffany to the show. Hi, Tiffany.

Hi. How dare you even say I cheated on you, like, for real?

For real.

We weren't together. He blocked me. He told me he never wanted to talk to me again. So I had called my baby's father over. He came over, seen my son. One thing led to the next. I felt guilty about it. I did.

Would you be willing to unlock your phone today?

That's fine. Go through my phone.

You'd be willing to unlock your phone?

Go through it. Go through it.

Because I think if he's saying there's trust issues, I think we can find out a lot of this and get real clear-cut.

Go through it. I don't care.

But something popped up. You said that you talk to other women on Facebook. Would you be willing to unlock your phone?

Exactly.

Because I think it's important.

Look.

Are you willing to unlock your phone?

I got some old stuff in there. You got some old stuff in there.

Okay, listen, listen, I'm only gonna be looking for the time period that you all said that you're together and that you're questioning it. Would you be willing to unlock your phone? She said she's willing. You said you wanna save your marriage. My question for you, my question for you is, are you willing to do anything?

Look, I will, I'll be honest. I'll be honest, I'll be honest. You know what? Me and her been on a rough patch where she moved out and got off the lease. She got out the lease, she took her name off the lease, she got all of her clothes, she got all her stuff out of the place.

I get it, you've been through a rough patch.

No, I'm saying though, and see, when she did that, I didn't really think she was coming back. You know what I'm saying? I didn't suspect her to come back. So I mean, I was sitting there like, you know, trying to keep my mind off of it. I mean, that's who I've been with for a while. So you're basically saying that you've had I had conversations with other people, but I never like slept with nobody else.

Okay, so, but I think we can put this all to an end. You said you're willing to do anything to save your marriage. Those were your words. I asked you that. Are you willing to unlock your phone? She's willing to unlock hers. This will be quick.

She ain't got nothing in hers.

Are you willing to unlock yours as well? We're about to go through this. A yes. The answer yes?

I mean, how far you wanna go back?

We're gonna go for the period that you need, the period y'all got.

I mean, I can be honest about my life.

Okay, great. There we go. So is there anything specific you need me to look for?

Facebook.

Facebook? Okay, I'm gonna go through. If y'all can bring me them phones. Drop it in. Drop it in.

All right, you didn't try. Drop it in. Oh man.

All right. Before we unlock this phone, is there anything you wanna own up to?

No.

Nothing at all? Nothing. We now know that we have found zero texts. When it comes to photos, we found zero photos that were suspicious and apps, DMs, everything was zero. There was nothing found.

She just found out.

All right, so we unlocked your phone as well. All right, when it came to text messages, zero text messages were found. When it came to photos, zero photos were found. And when it comes to apps, three apps, suspicious apps were found. On these suspicious apps, messaged 42 different women on Snapchat over the last 3 months. I need close friends or Kansas friends with benefits, where you at? Great, big, I can't put it up, and love to. You put that out there, right?

Oh, I put that out there?

That was yours. You also said, for real, for real, you wanna, where you at, but I'm down, can I come through? What you doing? You were trying to have sex, right?

I mean, this is just friend, I mean, look, she, me and her, that's, I mean, she was, that's what she was doing her, she was doing her thing though.

Listen, you just admitted that you said you didn't have sexual relationship We didn't find you, we didn't find any of these women that you actually engaged with.

There ain't no way that I was about to—

You see the messages. Okay, so this is my question for you. This is my question for you. How do you feel about the messages?

I'm hurt.

You're hurt. Tell him.

I'm hurt. I already knew you were talking to women, but stuff like that, like for real? She sat there and did what she did though. Leave, not talk to no one. I left because I was tired of the accusations. I was tired of the treatment.

She admitted to you that before your relationship she had sex. She admitted with her ex. She admitted it. She told you. What's the relationship really like?

For me, it's toxic. I just stopped caring. That's why all of that stuff was up there. I just stopped caring after a while.

The relationship is unhealthy.

I know it's unhealthy.

One of y'all have to make the decision to end this relationship because you're just in a pattern of being toxic. It's an unhealthy relationship. Let's be real here. What's keeping y'all together?

That's what she had to ask.

What's keeping you with him? And don't say, 'Cause I love him.' I don't even know. This is still not the man for you. You understand? And this is not the woman for you. That's just real. I mean, look. You're not gonna have peace. They're not gonna have peace. The foundation of this relationship was broken from the beginning. Y'all gotta leave this relationship. That's the only advice I can give y'all is that y'all have to be strong enough to leave this relationship because from what I witnessed, backstage, what I witnessed on here, y'all are not meant to be together and that's what's going on. So I get it, you say you're not trying to hurt her, but you know what you can do to really show her you don't wanna hurt her?

Say, "I wish you the best life and I'm gonna leave." I really didn't want to go, you know, like just be doing stuff behind her back because then I can't really look in her face for real, you know what I'm saying?

I get it, I get it, I get it, I get it.

I just, it was just like, you know, I just said forgive me.

I get it, so you already told her you wanna leave. Let me talk to her alone really quickly. You deserve something better. You really do. You don't have to settle for men who doing this and accusing you. You gotta start practicing your self-esteem. You gotta wake up and see the beauty of who you are. Can you tell me one thing right now that you love about yourself? Just try for me, one thing you love about yourself.

About yourself.

Sometimes I wake up in the morning, I'm like, girl, that's the only cute thing on me is my eyebrow, okay? I promise you. And I will stick with that all day long just to give myself something to hold onto and I don't feel good. What is there that you can hold onto right now?

Nothing. I don't have anything.

Does your child love you? Does your child think you're a great mom? Look at that. You're a great mother. There's one thing. I'm looking at you right now. You're beautiful. You're vulnerable. This vulnerability that you're showing in front of people you don't even know is a strength. So even if you don't know anything else, start right there. I just gave you 3 things. You're a great mom. You're beautiful. You're vulnerable. Repeat them to yourself every morning. I promise you, you'll start to find out other things you love about yourself. Yeah? This is day one for your self-esteem. So when you get home in the mirror, what's the three things you're gonna start by saying?

I'm a good mom.

What else?

I'm beautiful.

Yes. What else? What else? What else? Your vulnerability is your strength. Vulnerability is my strength.

You got it. And so much more.

And so much more. I like that attitude. You gonna be all right.

Let's build this up. Build this up, okay?

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