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When you discount, you defend! #KaramoShow #sisters

6 Nov 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief segment of The Karamo Show, the host (Speaker A) addresses a pair of sisters about a recurring conflict pattern. He explains that they repeatedly "discount" each other's feelings, which triggers a defensive response and escalates into arguments. The host emphasizes that this cycle—discounting followed by defending—has persisted for years and is the root cause of their misunderstandings. He advises them to stop minimizing emotions, avoid bringing external romantic interests (“promoting dudes”) into the discussion, and instead use direct, honest language with each other. By shifting their communication style and breaking the discount‑defend loop, the sisters can foster growth and healthier relationships.

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I'm gonna tell y'all this. This man gave y'all the discount on these trips or whatever, but y'all need to stop discounting each other's feelings. And that's the core of this. That is the core of this. Y'all gotta stop discounting each other's feelings because even now y'all start to fight, y'all start to fight and y'all discount each other's feelings. And then what y'all do is y'all get into a pattern defending. When you discount, you defend. And the defense is what's causing y'all to argue. I'm telling y'all, if y'all can learn this lesson for all of y'all, and it's gonna be a hard lesson 'cause y'all been in pattern for years. Of always defending, defending, defending, defending. And that defense has caused y'all to get into these issues where y'all are just not hearing each other.
But I feel like this just could have been easily avoided had y'all just stopped promoting dudes.
That's it. Switch it up. If you stop defending and discounting me.
Well, yeah. That's what I'm saying.
Start using the language what it is. 'Cause if y'all can start using that language as sisters, I promise y'all, you gonna have growth in your relationship. It's no more about this dude. It's discounting and defending.