In this YouTube segment, Karamo addresses a distraught woman who has discovered her partner's infidelity and his demand for divorce. He validates her intense emotional pain, encourages her to fully mourn the loss, and points out that her pattern of choosing unworthy partners may be contributing to her suffering. Karamo emphasizes that the cheating and divorce are not her fault and that after the grieving phase, the crucial work is to rebuild her self‑esteem. He offers to guide her through that process, promising resources and ongoing support to help her recognize what she truly deserves in a relationship.
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You've caught a man that is cheating on you. You've caught a man that is telling you directly he wants a divorce. Why is it hard for you to accept that? 'Cause I care about him. Yeah, I get it. Come here, come here, come here, come here, come here. Hold my hand. Hold my hand. Come here. Come here, come here, come here, come here, come here, come here. Come here, come here. I know it's hard. I know, I know, I know this is killing you. I don't think that you've been in a relationship yet where someone's given you the love that you deserve. I don't think you've been valued yet. And I think part of the reason that this is hitting you so hard is because you're trying with men who aren't worth trying with. You hear me? I want you to get these tears out and I want you, look at me real quick. I want you to get these tears out and I want you to cry. But after you cry these tears and you mourn this relationship ending, you got some real work to do. Because the woman that you are should not have to chase down a man and catch him in a car. You shouldn't have to be talking to your friends about the things that you're not getting. You shouldn't have to feel like This is all you have to settle for. Do you think you've ever gotten a relationship that you deserve? No. Do you feel like most men have hurt your self-esteem? Yeah. I know. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. No, you don't need to apologize for your feelings right now. Listen, I know you're mourning right now. You're mourning this love that you tried to work on. You're mourning the fact that it's like, did something else fail? Was it my fault? But this ain't your fault. He admitted that he cheated on you. You caught him cheating on you. You put it on TikTok. He's telling you to your face he's divorced. None of that stuff is about you. You flew across the country to find love. You just flew to a man who wasn't the right man for you. So you can cry, mourn this loss, but after this, the real work has to start. The real work has to start of understanding and rebuilding your self-esteem. You hear me? Yes. Thank you. You know how to rebuild your self-esteem? You don't. I don't know where to start. You wanna start? You wanna start building your self-esteem? That I can help you with. Thank you. Seriously. I wanna make sure after this we gonna connect and I wanna give you some resources to start building your self-esteem because the more you build your self-esteem and the more you recognize what you don't deserve, the things that should not be happening to you, the things that you should be getting, that's the more you're gonna feel lighter, the more you're gonna change your attitude, the more you're gonna know like, this ain't right. So you willing to let me help you build your self-esteem? Yes. All right, all right, good. I'm gonna be here for you, all right? Thank you.
