You Can't Unlock My Phone, Only Karamo Can! | KARAMO

Your man wanna go through your phone?

Yes.

And you don't want him to?

No.

How often are you arguing about this?

About 3 or 4 times a week.

Wow, that's a lot. Yes. Okay, so bring me back. When did he start demanding to go through your phone?

Well, when I went through his phone and I found something out about him and another girl. So now he wants to be a narcissist and try to go through my phone because he feel like I'm doing the same thing that he's doing.

Okay. So it's funny because you went through his phone, but secondly, you caught him when you did it.

Yes.

Got it. Okay then. Was that the first time you caught him cheating?

Yes.

So that broke your heart?

Yes, yes it did.

And what was his response when you found out?

He was lying, saying it wasn't him, that he didn't know her, I was delusional.

Even though you were looking at the proof?

Looking at the proof.

Got it. And how long y'all been together?

2 years.

2 years together. And how long ago this happened when you found something in his phone?

About 3 months ago.

3 months ago?

Yes.

So prior to the 3 months ago, were y'all in a happy relationship?

Yes, we was happy. It wasn't no problems, it wasn't nothing. His body language, the reason why I found out that he was cheating.

Yeah.

Yeah.

His body language changed?

Yes.

In what way?

He was being mean to me. He didn't really wanna be around me. It was like he was always pushing me away. So I was just like, yeah.

So do you still go through his phone?

Yeah, I go through his phone every now and then. Yeah, I do.

Yeah. Yeah. Did he ever admit to cheating?

No, at first he was lying about it until I got the proof.

So what was the proof?

She sent videos and text messages. They was linking up. Like, she was sending me all the truth about it.

So then if we know that he cheated, why are we unlocking your phone?

Because he feel like I'm his nigga. He wanna be a narcissist.

Got it, okay. So for the record, have you ever cheated?

No, I never cheated on him.

Got it, okay. So how's everything else in the relationship?

It's good. Like, we tight. Like, that's my best friend.

That's your best friend?

Yes.

Do best friends lie?

Yes, best friends lie.

You a damn liar. Let Trey, let best friend Trey lie to me. That's not happening. Are you sure? 'Cause best friends keep it real with you.

Yeah, they do.

Okay. Do best friends cheat?

No, they not supposed to.

Okay. Only reason I'm asking, 'cause I like to help people with they definitions of words. So if you said that's your best friend, I'm just trying to figure out what a definition of best friend for y'all is. Why are you letting me go through your phone?

Because I wanna prove to him that I never cheat on him, that that's not what I do. Just because you did it to me, I don't do it to you.

Do it to you. Yeah, 'cause he's trying to flip the script on you.

Yes, that's what it is. He flipped the script.

Yeah, okay then. Well listen, I appreciate it 'cause you know I'm nosy. I like going through phones. No, so I love going through phones, so I appreciate you letting me do it. Well, I think it's time to meet Deshawn. Everyone please welcome Deshawn to the show so we can hear his side of the story. Hey Deshawn, how you doing? Nice to meet you. Thanks for being here. So from your perspective, why do you want to go through her phone?

'Cause every time we be at home or we be doing something, her phone just constantly dinging, dinging, dinging.

That's not true.

You know, I asked her like, "Babe, who you talking to?" She had never even respond to me. She's still being on texting.

So is that what's suspicious to you? Because she's not responding and because it's going off?

You on your phone all day long and you know, you trying to get your little ones with your girl or whatever. You'll be like, "Dang, babe, what's going on?" Like she don't wanna be bothered, she don't wanna talk.

What's going on?

I be on my phone.

What does Robbie say she's doing on her phone then?

She say she handling business or she trying to take care of stuff or get some stuff done for the house.

I do, I do.

But in all reality, like you don't need nothing. I take care of everything.

Okay, okay. Does he take care of everything?

He take care of everything, but I do be handling business on my phone.

Okay. Well, Robby told my producers that men are sneaky. Would you agree with that?

We only sneaky unless you give us something to be sneaky about.

I never gave you a reason to cheat on me. I never gave you a reason to cheat on me. That's crazy.

I don't know if that's the proper response, but—

Yeah.

So I'm gonna ask you point blank. Did you cheat on her?

In the beginning I did, was talking to somebody.

Yes, exactly.

I was texting her.

Exactly.

But not as much.

How far into the relationship did you start the cheating?

When I first came home, I was talking to a girl probably like 2 months into the relationship.

So the first 2 months of y'all relationship, you had started the foundation off by cheating?

Yeah.

Yes.

And then is this the same girl she found out about?

Yes.

Or is this a different girl?

That's the same girl.

Same girl. And so throughout those 2 months in the 2 years, were you still kind of talking to this girl? Kind of like having conversations?

No, not no more.

Not anymore, but I'm talking about throughout the relationship.

Throughout the relationship, no.

Not at all. So it went on for 2 months and then you ended it and nothing else? Yes. Okay then. Is that how it's true for you from what she said? Yes.

Okay then.

So you're saying that when you first got outta jail is when you cheated? Mm-hmm. Okay, that makes sense to me. It do, it do make sense. He in his 20s and he was in jail. What doesn't make sense is why you got into a committed relationship, but it makes sense that you wanted to get out and talk to people several girls, that makes complete sense to me. But again, why you got into a relationship? I don't know.

Why?

'Cause you know you could've just got out and you wouldn't even have these issues. 'Cause you would've just said, hey, let me do me for a little bit. I just got out, I wanna do me, you do you. And then when I felt like I'm in a mature place, we can handle. So why did you say, let's get into a relationship and still talk to somebody?

What was the point of the relationship?

Because no matter how much you deal or talk to anybody, somebody, it's gonna be always that one person that's gonna make sure they got your back no matter what.

But that's not an excuse of cheating.

And making sure that when you come back, —to be cheated.

Hold on, can I say this to you? What you just said was very selfish, 'cause you're saying, well, because she had my back, I couldn't let her go. Because she was there for me, I couldn't let her go. But then in turn, you then decided to hurt her. That's a selfish behavior. That's a narcissist, actually.

Yes, yes.

I mean, sometimes even when you dealing with a lot, you know, when you especially incarcerated, you dealing with a lot, you don't have nobody to go to. That's not excuses.

I don't care. When you come home and you feel like— I agree with it, you should cheat if you wanna hurt somebody.

I hear you. I'm just giving you perspective to think about because as a young man, there is an ability for you to grow so you don't ever make the same mistake again. Yeah, for sure. Why did you lie when Robbie confronted you?

Because he ain't tell him. Even if I even would've tell the truth, it still was gonna be a lie. Even if I tell you all I'm doing, this is wrong.

That's not the math. You're not gonna tell the truth, it's gonna be a lie?

Whatever I say, she don't believe it.

That's not true.

So I gotta do 1,000 things just for you to understand where I'm coming from.

Okay, well you do understand why, she caught you. So, you know, there's gonna be doubt. The trust was broken on your end. Do you think she is cheating?

Yes, I do. Why do you think I'm cheating? You do? Because she texts all day long.

And if she is cheating?

I can't even act, she got access to my phone right now. I can't get access to her phone.

So what happens if we find evidence and Robbie's right? Cheating in her?

I'm over with, I'm done. You're done? I don't wanna be around no more.

Hold on, but question. If we found something in her phone, she says she's not doing anything. But if we find something in her phone, she stayed with you after she found out you cheated.

That's a narcissist. That's how men are sneaky and they just care about theyself.

That's exactly what that is. We went through a lot after finding out what's in my phone and what's going on with my phone. I gave her access to my phone to this day. She could pick up this phone and go wherever. I can't pick up her phone, she wanna argue. It's my phone. You think that, okay.

Well listen, I think it's time to unlock the phone. Let's find out.

Unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock.

Deshawn, you wanna know if Robbie is texting other people. Robbie says she's not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched her photos and found that Robbie is not telling the truth. My investigator found 10 files of sexually explicit content. There's a boomerang of an unidentifiable man performing oral sex in July of 2025.

That's not true. That is not true. That's a lie.

That definitely is true. It definitely is true. No, definitely is true. Was it him?

Yes, it definitely was him. He came home in July, so.

So it was him? Yes. Yeah, I came home in July. So do you remember that, doing the video together?

I came, yeah, for sure.

Okay. Listen, it didn't have a face in it, so we don't know, but we gonna just tell you what you was doing. As long as you remember it. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. I mean, we'll show you the video and you can see if it's you, but. Yeah, for sure. All right, Deshawn, you wanna know if Robbie is engaging in inappropriate conversations with anyone else during their relationship. Robbie says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her texts and found that Robbie Is not telling the truth. My investigator found 4 text messages that are sexually explicit in nature.

That can't be true. I don't be doing nothing. That can't be true. I wouldn't lie to you. That cannot be true.

Even if it is though, she do got— It's true.

To be honest though, she do. I'm like, I got pictures. Robyn, so there's 4 people that you talking to sexually?

That is true. Robbie, there's 4 people you talking to sexually.

Okay, that might be true, but it's just, I'm just reacting to what he did.

He hurted me, so. So you did decide that you were hurt, so you talked to 4 people sexually in nature?

Yes, but it never happened. Like nothing sexual happened.

I said y'all talked in nature. How do you feel the fact that she's texting with somebody sexually in nature?

It's crazy, like, 'cause that's the main reason why I be trying to figure out what's in the phone. Okay.

Dashawn, you wanna know if Robbie is hiding anything else in her phone. Robbie says she's not. My locked phone investigator searched her phone and found that Robbie is not telling the truth. We found 1,853 deleted text messages. Rob, can I see this? Rob. Rob, Rob, Rob. What's in the bag?

Yeah. So you deleting stuff? Yes, I delete stuff, I do.

You know, we find deleted stuff here.

Yes, I delete stuff.

Good morning, sexy, headed to work, thank you. Just got off work, I pick up my keys to my new apartment. Definitely, okay, so you just like doing stuff, talking about hey sexy and a lot of that. You feel like—

That's where we live at.

So she invited someone to your home. Person said, "I'm 10 minutes away." Said, "K." Said, "I'm here." Said, "I ain't seen you in a minute. My must be trash now." Shut up, it could be better, but I've been busy. I was just thinking of you for real. What you doing? Oh man. I don't know.

No, I don't know.

This one said, "Whose house is that?" Who's there? Hold on, it says, just got to the house. What are you doing? Nothing, just gonna pull up on you. Pull up. You like giving the address up. Who was that?

I do not be giving the address up.

It says who gave it up? I wanna know your address. We all know your address now. What was that? It says whose house is that and who's there? My sister house, she here. Is you about to?

Oh my God.

Okay. This just took a turn. How you feeling? Yeah.

It is what it is at this point. Like I said, she texts all day long.

Well, it's not just texting now. 'Cause like I said, thank you for letting me unlock your phone, but now it's time to unlock this relationship. So the first question I'm gonna ask you is, do you want an open relationship? Me? No. You do not want an open relationship? No. Okay, so at this point, I can see that you have a lot of stress on your head. And from what she's saying, it sounds like you're taking care of all the bills, you're handling everything. So do you feel like you rushed into this relationship getting outta jail and that maybe there could be a relationship out there that could be more aligned with what you're looking for? Yes. There is. So does that mean that you feel like you wanna move on from this relationship? I do, for sure.

Do wanna move on. But sometimes when you, you know, you still got feelings for a person, it'd be hard to do that.

I understand that. But you know, this is the part of like getting older and understanding self-love and self-worth. And this is for both of you.

I don't care if you move on, actually.

This is for both of y'all. Honestly. Oh, so you want him to move on? Yeah. 'Cause this was for both of y'all. I wasn't just gonna make you the victim 'cause he cheated as well. So you want him to move on as well?

Yeah, if he wanna move on, he can do that. I'm fine with that.

So you hear this? She's saying that it's time for it to be done. Yeah, that's cool. So both of you are ready for this relationship to end? Yes. I mean, from the text.

It'd be more peaceful. Huh? It'd be more peaceful. It'd be more peaceful.

Yes. So what do you wanna turn to him to say?

You can go about your way. You both cheated.

If I can give you my honest opinion, I think that you're both young 'cause you're 23. Yes. I think that you took on a lot of adult responsibilities. You took on playing house and I think both of you are still discovering who you are and what you need to be. And I think that while you're trying to discover who you are, Playing this relationship has been a hindrance in your growth. So I think it's probably for the best that y'all move on. I'm gonna tell you this, you do owe him an apology for having people in y'all bed when he gone. 'Cause that's just trifling behavior. Okay. You know that's trifling.

Yeah.

Yeah, okay then. Choose yourselves so you can grow and be better. All right? All right. I wish you the best of luck, girl. Thank you.