You Cheated... Now Test All 3 Kids! | KARAMO

Karamo mediates between DJ Donald and his ex Robinette over infidelity and paternity doubts about their three children. DNA tests reveal all three kids—DJ Donald III, Dylan, and Dallas—are biologically his. Karamo pushes both parents toward respectful co-parenting and healing.
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So DJ, let's take a look at what you wrote into the show. So you said, "Been with my child's mother for 4 years and recently found out she's been cheating with multiple men. All our kids are in question now. I'm looking for your help to prove DNA for these children so I can make my choice to stay or move on." So this is real.
Yes, sir.
How did you find out she was cheating on you?
I had my curiosities for some time and one day while she was in the shower, I went through her Apple Watch.
Uh-huh, and when you were on her Apple Watch, what did you see?
The first message I can recall was, "I love you," to a guy. So like, I opened up the chat and then I just started to see like the history and the conversation and things like that. So at that point she was still in the shower, so I left the house and I went to my car and that's when I like finished my investigation.
And what did you find in your investigation?
It was multiple people that made me question everything.
And how long were y'all together at this point?
So this was earlier this year when I found out. So 3 and a half years, 4 years.
4 years together. And during that 4 years, did you ever have any suspicion that she could be cheating on you?
Yes, but I could never prove it.
Mm-hmm. So after that happened, did you break up?
No, I'll just be honest and say no because I would question everything even more, right? Her being away from me was difficult.
My producers told me before she tried to put a restraining order on you?
Yes, sir.
What happened?
I believe that was just her trying to keep me away from her and the kids. Mm-hmm. But ultimately it was thrown out, so.
It was thrown out. And when y'all went through this whole proceeding, a family member of yours was her counsel?
Yes, my—
I'm confused by that. So your family member took her side and decided to represent her?
So another incident, this was before I found out that she was cheating. She came home and I get it, they work in a bar, you know, it's a lot of movement back and forward, but I know for a fact I smelled sex. Sex has a distinctive smell. All jokes aside, no, seriously, sex has a distinctive smell. So when she came home, I'm like, "You nasty, I see you over there." You talking about, "Ah, ah, ah." "Why you smell like that?" Like, "No." "You talking about, mm-hmm, mm-hmm." All jokes aside, no, all jokes aside, all jokes aside.
Yeah.
"What's going on?" Yeah. So she goes to my aunt and lets my aunt know about me confronting her about that. And she tells her that she should have responded and said that she was out having sex with somebody else and it was better than what she was getting at home.
That's what your aunt said?
That's what my—
And this is the same aunt that is supporting her or who was her counsel?
Well, not anymore because now they starting to see that it wasn't me.
Okay.
You know, so.
So how long has it been since you've seen your kids or your potential kids?
Dallas's birthday in July. So it's been roughly 3 months.
So why won't she let you see the kids?
I think it was like a part of me denying them. She gets really hurt by that. It hurts me too. I don't wanna question my kids. In reality, she's the reason I have all of these questions. For the record, I want everybody to know I want these children to be mine. Yes. I do want these kids to be mine.
And you doubt all these children because she cheated the entire relationship, correct? Yes. Okay then, makes sense. Do you doubt any of the children more than others?
I mean, I just can't base it off of looks because I should also add during my investigation, I was able to find Instagram pages and pictures and things of that nature. So I mean, if we being honest, we kind of look alike, you know? So just because he look like me don't mean he don't look like him too.
You sent me photos, well, you gave 'em to my producers and my producers sent me photos. Send them to me so I can see them. Are these the, is this her laid up with the other dude?
Yeah, that's her laid up with the other guy.
Oh wow. Okay, let me see the kids. Let me see this. Yeah, I'm not being messy, but he, the first one could look like, I'm not trying to throw salt in the room, but she got a type.
Hello.
So do you want her back?
I don't think so.
Okay. If they are your children, will you see them immediately? 'Cause you said you haven't seen them since July.
Absolutely. I have plans whether I'm their father or not. If I'm not their father, I still plan on supporting them and her, you know? But ultimately, I would feel like it's inappropriate for me to do that if I'm not their father. They deserve to know who their real father is as well.
Got it. Okay. Well, I think it's time to meet DJ's ex-girlfriend Robinette and hear her side of the story. So come on out, Robinette.
Why are you playing with me? Why are you playing with me? You saw Dallas for her birthday? What was she wearing?
Who cheated you for what kids?
Why do you lie like this?
We should even be on this stuff. I didn't have Dallas before her birthday.
You didn't have her on her birthday. You said the last time you saw her was on your birthday.
It was literally, okay, so her birthday was the 27th and this was the 28th.
When I told him, if we're not together by December 31st, 2024, we're no longer in a relationship. So stop making stuff up.
This is the year of 2022, so it's okay.
Donald, okay. And what did you do?
Did you cheat?
Stop painting false narratives and doing stuff for an audience.
What did he do in 2022?
Things that a man should never do to a woman. And it was humiliating and embarrassing, so I had to stay at my friend's house for a few days.
Got it. And so you left the relationship.
But I still loved him and cared about him, so I went back.
But don't try to put nothing up. We were broken up after that incident is what you communicating to this man right now. After that incident, he was broken up.
I told you if we're not married December 31st, 2024, we're no longer in a committed relationship.
How can I marry you after I cheated on you? And stop trying to paint a narrative like you weren't messing with people too.
Like you talking about a relationship, you're dating your coworker right now and sending me pictures and videos. And nobody's not keeping you away from your kids. I sent you multiple videos and I have the receipts and text messages of your kids trying to talk to you. They have phones, they've been calling asking for you all the time. And it's heartbreaking that you're lying like this saying that I'm keeping them away from you when I'm not. I love you and I care about you and what I did was wrong, but I wasn't gonna tolerate a person, I'm dealing with a person that reprimands me for not performing every day. That's not cool. And calling me out my name. It's not okay. Stop paying me to be a negative person.
We both did it and that's not okay.
You're right, I was wrong for doing that and I apologize to you. But you said after we discussed what we did to each other with other people, 'cause you had a long list of names too. Let's not act like it was just me.
We said we weren't gonna hold it against each other. That was all this year.
Okay, and so was mine, Donald. My one time was in 2022. Other than that, it was nothing. How can you tell me what I did with my body?
So you two actually have sat down. You actually have sat down and told each other that you cheated and that's why you broke up your life.
That's why he's mixing it all up. We told each other both what we did. He's not being completely honest. I didn't start messing with other people until after December 31st, 2024. Stop playing like that.
That is a lie.
How can you tell me what I did? How is that?
That was the one time.
So she's admitting.
I admitted that.
You cheated in 2022.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
I get it, I get it. From your point of view, the trust was, the foundation was broken.
You really tried to hold me accountable for not marrying her when you know that I questioned you. I questioned the fact that you were being faithful. You sitting up here lying and manipulating this man, it's crazy.
Can you point out the lie?
All I'm really here for is DNA at the end of the day. I'm not really here to tarnish her character and all of that.
What makes you confident he's the father of all 3 of the children?
'Cause I know when I was intimate and I know when I wasn't. And as far as the 2022 thing, I couldn't have been pregnant for 12 months straight. Unless I forgot something.
Yeah.
I mean, you just now telling me the 2022 shit happened now. I been to you. I been to you.
We just discussed it.
You even acknowledged that we discussed it. I just found out that she was cheating earlier this year and you tell me that that wasn't the first experience in 2022. When we weren't together, it's not cheating.
When we're not together, it's not cheating.
You keep on trying to base it on the shit that happened recently.
How many people were you intimate with at the beginning of this year?
I had a run.
Okay then, so why you keep making it seem like I'm a prostitute? I had a run.
We're cohabitating but not together.
I had a run with some other kids.
Based on which, All the kids have his last name.
And I heard people doing that.
Did he sign the birth certificate?
Yes.
You talking about same.
So when did he just start denying the kids?
When I moved out the house and went to the shelter. Now they're not his kids. My thing is, what's gonna be the difference? Even when you do find out they're yours, are you still gonna say, "I don't feel like getting them," and leave them in front of my family door when you get frustrated and upset?
No, you keep on trying to say it like that. That's exactly what it is.
Then why did you do it?
Drop them off to your godmother, right?
You saying your family is against me. Where is your family at when you need help and support with your children?
I mean, as of late, that's your family.
Who is my fam— You just told them that now your family is in cahoots with you. Now. Which one is it?
But like, during that process, I couldn't rely on them either. I don't know who I can talk to. If she's going to be—
You came here for the DNA truth. Are you ready for the DNA truth? Are you ready for the DNA truth? In this envelope is the envelope for your 3 children. Each of these contain the DNA truth. One by one, Donald, this is your truth to open, not mine. Good luck, man.
Before I start, I just want you to know, like, this was never personal. It was solely to know how I need to move forward. I'm here for DNA, so number 1.
Y'all so funny.
DJ Donald III is your biological son. Number 2. Dylan is your biological son.
Really? Yes. All of them are your kids. Are you serious?
Like, you really played too much. Like, I'm not wasting my time here. I'm not wasting my time.
Open it. Right, exactly. Stop playing with me.
Dallas is your biological daughter.
So DJ, how does it feel? How does it feel, DJ, knowing that all these kids are yours? How's it feel? Good?
It's a good feeling.
'Cause he knew.
No, I really did not know.
Okay, Don.
Like, you think I'm gonna sit up here and waste my time? They don't even look alike. Like, looking at all three, they don't look alike.
They're yours biologically, so looks don't matter. Can't go off of that.
I mean, like I said, that's how I look at it.
The best part of this is that y'all are not together. That's the best part. That is the best part of this. That is the best part. But what I will tell you is I think that there's healing that needs to be done on both of your sides. Because I think that this relationship, there was a lot of love and then it became very toxic very quickly. And now y'all gotta figure out how to grieve this relationship and let it go. Because the only thing that's important is these 3 children. And I just ask you that you focus on healing and grieving this relationship on your own so that way that you can have the best relationship possible when you're in front of these children. They're watching, and if they see this, developmentally they gonna pick this up, and then we're gonna have generational cycles of trauma. I gotta tell both of y'all that because I've watched both of y'all on the show. Both of y'all, I've watched both of y'all.
I thought you was telling them to call me a piece of shit and all of that.
Like they picking that stuff up from her.
I thought you said you got, They're your children, so let's focus on co-parenting, right? You wanna rekindle or you wanna co-parent? Which one?
I need time. I don't know.
Exactly. So he doesn't wanna co-parent. He doesn't wanna rekindle.
I didn't say co-parent. Like, I'll full-time parent. You can go ahead about your life and enjoy life for real, for real.
Like, so she's—
You're gonna full-time take care of the kids?
Yeah.
What was I doing before?
I don't know.
We can do it today.
Like, as soon as I get my money. So what I just witnessed here, what I just witnessed here is her take the step that I suggested and then you were still in your feelings. We all just saw it. And so what I'm saying to you is if you keep doing that, it's only gonna end up hurting your babies.
You should be happy they're all yours.
Why are you angry? Yeah, and now I can raise them peacefully without you.
Listen, I just pray that y'all, I just pray that once y'all leave this stage, y'all continue to grieve. If y'all can take my advice, find a word that y'all can use when it comes in front of these kids to say, let's snap back in, it's about them. And continue to show each other some respect. That's the only way that these children will have a life that you're telling me right now.
Honestly, the only way this is gonna work is like no contact. Like I would rather just like— That's not possible.
That's not possible. I'm telling you right now. Right, but being there for my son doesn't mean being there with her. I get that. But not being there with her, but she's the mother. So you're gonna have to interact. I got two kids and no matter what I'm feeling with my son's mother, I gotta interact with her and I always have to show her respect. There's not a, never a minute my children could be on this stage and they will not, my children are, would never tell you one moment they've ever seen me disrespect their mother or their mother disrespect me. It's up to you. It's your responsibility. And it starts with making sure you respect their mother and make sure y'all understand how to co-parent. I wish y'all both the best of luck. Sincerely. All right. Everyone at home, make sure to come back next time, friends, so we can keep talking and growing. I love you all.
I don't know why this boy would fiddle with me like this. Like, you see what I'm talking about? He knew they were his children. I would love for him to be in his children's life. No one can replace a father.
I'm not gonna lie, I'm happy with the results. I want to apologize for the record to her. I didn't mean to like tarnish her reputation or her character. I really had doubts about the kids, and that's really all this was about. I mean, with that being said, I'm ready. Like, I'm ready.
Mm-hmm.
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