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22 Feb 2024 · 1 min

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In this short, the speaker addresses people who have experienced abandonment, explaining how the lack of parental protection can lead them to latch onto unhealthy behaviors or people and to over‑protect others as a way of mirroring the care they never received. The speaker affirms that it is not an attack on the listener’s mother, but from a professional standpoint points out that the mother failed to protect the child, giving the listener full authority to feel anger. The monologue emphasizes that the listener deserves to feel their feelings, recognize their worth, and demand the truth about their situation. It concludes by encouraging the listener to build self‑worth by remembering they were the child who should have been protected and by stopping the habit of protecting those who should have protected them.

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Sometimes when we have felt abandonment issues, when we don't feel as if like who's gonna be there for us, we end up latching on to unhealthy behaviors or unhealthy people. But then we also end up protecting everyone around us because we're trying to mirror the relationship of protection that we didn't get ourselves. This is not an indictment of any of these adults' character. I don't know your mom and I'm not gonna ever badmouth your mother. but I can look at this from a perspective as a professional and say your mother has not done the best job in protecting you from the situation and you have full authority and full right to be mad. You deserve to feel your feelings, to know that you are worthy and then to know that you deserve the truth. You are the child that should have been protected. You are the child that should have been let in on this information. You're right. And what's going to help you build your worth is remembering that and not protecting the people who should have done that.