Karamo tells a young couple they're not right for each other. They fight constantly, run to a parent's house to cool off, and mistake first-love intensity for real compatibility. Mature couples work through conflict without leaving.
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Y'all don't belong together. You don't belong together. You do not belong together. You do not belong together. No disrespect to you, but I disagree. I ask it. No disrespect to you. Okay, so young man, I'm gonna tell you this right now. I know you tell me you disagree. Young man, I've been in healthy relationships and in a healthy relationship, the first year is the honeymoon. You are learning about each other. You are having fun. Everything is full of exciting new moments where you're experiencing life together. You all are on my stage in year 1. You all are arguing, like her mother said, every pay cycle, every 2 weeks someone's leaving. Relationships that are healthy, you don't gotta leave to go stay with your mother. You're able to communicate and figure out how to work things out. You two do not have the maturity yet to be in this relationship. And what has happened is that you found someone that was your first love. And I get it, I was there. That love feels intense, it feels major, it feels like this has to be it, but this ain't it.