You DODGED 3 DNA Tests? This Is YOUR Daughter! | KARAMO

So your ex has dodged 3 DNA tests?

Oh yes.

3 state-issued DNA tests?

Yes, 3.

Tell me about that.

Okay, so we got it issued because he's already gonna put it out there anyways that I was on welfare. And when you're on welfare, you know, they automatically put the dad on child support. He gave them the location of where he was, they scheduled it, he missed it.

Got it.

Scheduled it again. Missed it again. Scheduled it again. Missed it again. So when it was time for court, the state says, since you wanna run, you are the father.

Yeah, okay. So why is he denying— why is your ex denying your daughter?

Well, we had a little past and, you know, we were together for a while, but things didn't go as planned. We lived together. He didn't wanna leave and I said, "What you won't do, another man will." And I stepped out.

[Speaker] Oh, okay. So what was your relationship like in the past? Was it rocky the entire time?

[Speaker] At first it was cute, I was 19. By the time I hit about 23, 24, I was over it. It's not funny anymore.

[Speaker] Got it, got it, got it. Did you get pregnant by the other guy?

[Speaker] I did.

[Speaker] Okay.

[Speaker] But I told him, I said, "What you won't do, somebody else will." And I meant it.

[Speaker] Uh-huh. So, okay. Yeah, 'cause my producer kinda told me that, that you had stepped out. And during that time when you had stepped outta the relationship, you got pregnant from the other guy?

Yes, but the crazy part about it is I felt bad 'cause I told the other guy that I couldn't have kids because while I was dealing with him, we didn't use protection. Outta 4 years, never got pregnant. So I go into the next one, I'm like, "Yeah, I can't have no babies." And within 2 months, oh, I can have babies.

Oh. And when did you reconnect?

We still, to be honest, throughout my pregnancy, I still communicated with him because I was not sure.

Got it. And you gave our producers a timeline around the time when you got pregnant. Let me take a look at that.

Okay.

Okay, so end of March, Damien comes back.

Okay, so the end of March, Damien comes back. He's gonna be in denial because he's gonna say that I called him to come, but he worked in the oil field, he came in town, he was like, "Oh, it's finna be my birthday, I'm depressed, I ain't got no job, can you come see me at the hotel?" Where all him and his oil field buddies were. I said okay.

And so April, y'all had multiple hookups.

Yeah, he stayed with me and then we have a past, so yes. Okay. I was comfortable with him.

Got it, makes sense, all right then.

Okay.

And then what happened next? And the end of April is when he leaves?

Yes, I don't know what happened but, um, I'm gonna be honest, I don't like him. I can't stand him. Like, we have a love-hate relationship. We just do not get along. Even 13 years later, we still don't get along.

'Cause y'all been talking for 13 years?

Yeah, I met him in 2012.

13 years. Okay then. So by now you fed up, you done?

Yes.

And then you got back with your ex.

So after he left, my ex ended up coming back in the picture and that was, Early May, and that's the day I found out I was pregnant.

Got it, got it. So you saying since there was multiple hookups in the end of April is why you are sure that Damien is the father?

Okay, well, he's gonna put it out there, but I had abortion in March.

Okay, got it.

March 16th, and then he came at the end of March, and that's when everything happened.

Okay then. All right, come take a seat for me. Okay then, okay. So how did he react when you told him you were pregnant?

Actually, I initially waited and I waited because it was put out on social media.

Oh, well really what I wanna know, was Damien present for your pregnancy? That's really what I'm trying to get to.

Financially, yes.

Got it, but he was providing money for it?

Oh yeah.

Has he seen your daughter?

He has, he has. It's been about a year since he's seen her and we stayed 30 minutes apart.

Oh wow. And how many times over that has he seen her since she's been born?

I would say within the years that she's been born, I would say about 10 times.

10 times. And you call him an Instagram dad, why?

Because that's what he is. He, man, that man swear he content. I don't know what kind of time. He swear he's content.

So you're saying in like the few amount of times that he's seen her, that's when he wanna post?

Mm-hmm, and then to be honest, most of what he posts is just pictures that's come from me.

Got it.

But I stopped because—

Does he pay child support still?

No, the last payment I got was January 24th, 2024, and we're going on almost 26.

Wow. Okay, so no child support. He's avoided the DNA test, which means the state has also been collecting, like racking up a bill.

Oh yes. From what he says, it's about $20,000, but with his payments, I believe it's more than that, but it's okay.

Got it. Okay, well I think it's time to meet Damien. So Damien, come on out.

You wanna tell everybody this? How you gonna tell them this out like that? Like I'm not there for my child? I'm always there for my child.

Boy, let them ask you questions. Let them ask you questions.

I've done all of the above for all of the kids, not just one. I take care of the whole family, 'cause one thing about it, when you're the breadwinner in the family, everybody depends on you all the way to going to high school.

You talk all about being a breadwinner, baby, when you behind on child support, sit down somewhere. Breadwinner where? Breadwinner where?

I'm not gonna lie to you, I'm gonna be honest. The past 2 years I got in a bit of a pickle out in Texas and I have been down on work, but for the past 7 years, A whole entourage been living off of me. It don't have to be their birthday, it don't have to be, I go spend $1,000, $2,000 like it's nothing. Her Cash App, $20,000 or $30,000 strong. She's pressing the fact about child support, ask her to show you that Cash App.

Is that true? Does he give you money all the time?

Not within 2 years.

I have been down outta work for the past 2 years.

Okay, but you gotta realize she's only a little age, so you, come on now, come on now. And then the first year you didn't do a fucking thing. So we ain't even finna do that.

First of all, I'm just gonna be honest.

I don't give a damn.

I love her to death, but technically I honestly don't know if she's my biological daughter. And the only reason why I have my doubts is because this is not my first rodeo with her. This is my second, technically my third time. My oldest daughter came back, so I've been through this before.

Oh, so you two had a child before?

No, I got another child.

With another woman?

Came this way too because, 'Cause like I said, once again, once you got a great job, everybody comes for you. It doesn't matter.

So you're saying this other woman has denied— Here, take a seat for me. So you're telling this other woman tried you and said this is your child, then you found out later, so you feel like she could be doing the same thing.

You said because you're the breadwinner. Well, why we ain't been together, baby? 'Cause I even submitted texts where you still want me. So if somebody want a breadwinner, why I'm not with you?

I'm never even in the same city as you are.

Girl, you been here 2 years. You been here 2 years.

Yeah, I guess.

2 years over only 30 minutes away.

So why didn't you just take the DNA test when it was court ordered?

Well, they court ordered me to take it, I was in Scranton, Pennsylvania working, trying to provide for me and the many miles I have to travel.

But did they call you?

They called me, they did.

Did you tell them what city you were in?

I did tell them that.

Okay, so stop making excuses.

But due to my tight schedule, me not being—

Boy, you ain't got no tight schedule, you said you hardly slept all night.

Working in the oil field under somebody else's company, you know, transportation back and forth through crews, it just don't work that smoothly.

You work night shift.

You think you're an Instagram model?

No, I'm definitely not, definitely, definitely. I mean, no matter how they wanna paint the picture, I've been holding this down with her and multiple kids for years. I get one or two bad years out of seven and this is what you get. This is what you get.

My baby is not seven, so what the fuck you keep talking about?

I'm just saying in the past seven years from my oldest kids.

I don't give a fuck about that, we came here about our child.

Okay, so from your opinion, do you have a good relationship with your daughter?

Yes, we FaceTime every day, we talk. I ain't gonna let my baby alone. And when I had my car, she was with me 24, the video y'all just seen. She was with you when? She was with me then, that was the year, that's when I had my car.

Got it, and that's when you had it. So, all right, well, we have another video that we wanna see. Take a look.

My baby walking. She started walking with me, y'all. Y'all know about that. My baby, the big one, she been walking since 11 months. 11 months, yeah. Daddy, look, cute baby. Aw, yeah, girl. Show Daddy what you got. See, she's always with me. My daughter took her first steps with me. Her first words was, "Dad, Dad." Everything with me.

So then why do you have doubts about her being your daughter?

I mean, honestly, I'm gonna be truthful, I have doubts because like I said, this isn't my first rodeo with her. Her oldest son was first, and that came back was another man. We was together.

All right, but did I not tell you? Did that man find out I was pregnant? What did I say?

I understand, I understand.

Oh, so y'all were together and she—

We was together, I'm not interrupting you. I'm not interrupting you, let me talk. It was her oldest son, we was together 5 years. I took care of everything, like I was an orphan. Y'all heard it, he get the money. I give him the money, all that, pay the bills and stuff while she laid up with her, whatever she doing while I'm on the road trying to put bills.

Bro, you gonna sit here and lie like that?

You just literally said that.

Pay what bills? You got all money from me.

So that's why you keep referencing 7 years, 'cause you're saying her oldest son that you found out was not yours.

This is not my son, bro. You had him, we was together.

And you've been paying for, you've been giving money for your oldest.

I've been taking care of her for years.

Is that true?

Man, okay.

Lie.

Is that true?

Oh, I ain't got no reason to lie. You already know I don't even lie. I don't give a fuck.

Has he supported your oldest son that's not his?

From time to time, yes. When Christmas comes, yes, he will get my baby stuff because like he says, at the end of the day, even though that was not his child, it was supposed to be his child. So yes.

And, and, and—

I want to say what I'm saying.

I know y'all feel me. Okay, I understand. So did, so did she ever say that she isn't your child?

Yes, that's the thing.

So she said to you that this isn't your child?

She said outta her own mouth.

I was chilling one day and she called me outta the blue She was like, I looked at pictures of him, I talked to his sister, and I changed my mind. Royalty looks just like him. She is not your daughter. And you know, we had words back and forth. You can show the text of that. I damn sure did say that. If I can show you, you can show the text that she sent me. I didn't respond. I waited about a week 'cause I was so—

You didn't respond, you said, make sure you call that child support office so I can get my money back. What the fuck you mean you ain't respond?

'Cause you got the text message.

It's always about child support. That was his thing. Oh, I can't wait so I can get off child support. That's his main thing so he can travel the country. It's never about Lion, it ain't about my baby, it's about money.

Do you wanna be the father?

I mean, yes, I'm, you know, I'm— He lying, he lying! No, no, no, listen, listen, no, listen, listen, no, hold up, hold up. Nothing, um, um. No, listen, hold up, first of all, yes, out of 5 years her being with me, majority of the time before all of this happened, I am emotionally attached to her. I love her, I definitely want her to be— Hold on. I definitely want her to be my daughter.

What will you do if she isn't your child?

I mean, I'm still gonna love her. I mean, it's a little bit too late for me to sit here and act like I'm not, I don't love Roger. That's my baby, like that's my heart. Even if she's not mine, the love don't go away. My oldest daughter's not mine, but she's still my daughter. She still call me, I'm her dad. It don't matter and I know I'm not her dad.

Okay, I got that.

No, that's just what it is.

Well listen, I think it's time to find the DNA truth. Come with me, love.

Oh Lord.

In this envelope is the DNA truth that you have been waiting for. Your daughter is getting older and you have claimed that he has not been here for your child, that he has not shown up financially, that he has not been there emotionally, physically.

Yes, 'cause he a liar, keep talking about some transportation. You weren't talking about transportation when you was in Miami.

Well, this is your DNA Truth to Open, not mine.

That's the thanks I get. Let's go.

You have been talking about my child since I was pregnant. I just for the first time said it 3 months ago. Now looking at this man, I don't know. I never cheated on you. First off, we weren't even together. But still, I waited till after you ran up out that door. And then I got with somebody else and 3 and a half weeks later, well, 2 and a half, 3 weeks later, I found out.

Let's just get to the results.

Call me by my first name.

My last name ain't on here. I'm over it. Let's get to the results. Let's go. What the fuck?

Well, like I said, I ain't never cheated on you. This was after the fact.

What does this say?

You are not the father.—

scenario. Really? Really?

Like I said, I did not.

You drove me all the way to New York for this? $50,000. You ran 3 times.

We could have found out 5 years ago. We could have found out 5 years ago.

I don't give a damn if I ran or not. I'm not the father.

You ran.

And now I'm $50,000 in the hole. And I'm in the hole. Oh, man.

But like I said, I never cheated.

I got into the next relationship. Now y'all see. That's why I ran, because I'd rather take care of my family and try to provide for her with not knowing. I don't even got the words to say. I don't even know. I'm just not fit to talk about it right now.

I'm sorry, I am so sorry.

She's sorry, that's what she gotta say, she's sorry.

But we were not together, I never cheated on you.

I never cheated. So, Danielle, let me tell you this. I was with you, I got in another relationship, I felt like it's too late. So I can tell how you feel, I understand how you feel because there's a bit of you that feels betrayed. It ain't even about betrayal. Well, it is because you've said the first time that this happened, you keep saying it's not my first relationship.

I've been to jail for child support, I'm $20,000 in debt, can't go overseas. You did not go to jail for child support. I paid so much money. Yes, I did.

You had warrants.

You had warrants against you. Then I gotta pay $500 to the DHR, then you get it on your phone.

Are you the only one on child support for her, or do you have another child you're on child support for that you're behind on? Chanelle. Tell the truth.

Chanelle, you ain't gonna pay no motherfucker. The fact is, I can tell you, you've been around for all these years, and you still don't wanna take accountability.

You ran!

You ran! You ran. We could have been found.

Shenarian, Shenarian, I don't, hold on one second.

He ran. I know, but hold on. Yeah, right.

Okay, but hold on, Shenarian. Damien, take a seat for me. Shenarian, but right now the anger's misplaced.

No, it's not misplaced.

Hold on, hold on, hear me out. The anger's misplaced. That's sad. Because at the end of the day, yes, you wanted the DNA truth earlier, but what we have discovered now is that he's not the father. I'm a father. And though you're being angry and lashing out at him, it's not right. It's not right in this moment. There's no emotional attachment anymore.

It's never been emotional attachment.

I know, but I'm saying not even with the children anymore. There's nothing. There's nothing anymore.

There's nothing. Just still, I still love, I'm not gonna stop loving her overnight. You know, that's gonna be the hardest part.

I'll tell you this, we're gonna give you the DNA paperwork so that you can clear up your back child support payments. If there's any support you need in finding and testing another man, we are here for you.

It's only one other option and—

If you need support in testing him, let us know. I know you're saying there's one other option, I believe you. But if you're saying this is him, it's better that you get it done. Same way you brought him here, we will get the answers for you so that you can have your clarity and you can really get the support you need from the person who's the child's father. And then you can also move on, all right? So Damon, you can actually leave if you want. We'll get you the paperwork. Thank you so much, man. Good to meet you, sir. Good luck. Are you in contact with him?

I actually ended up, I stopped talking to him because this is her dad, I'm not worried about you no more. You ain't never been here, this is who she got a connection with.

Yeah, are you in contact with anyone in his family?

They actually have been writing me, that's what made me write the show 'cause they keep saying, we know you're in denial, we know this is our baby, we wanna get her, we wanna get her in. This family is begging to be in my baby's life.

So then we can get a DNA test through the family members that are available. And we can support you because especially if they're saying they wanna be there for you, there goes the support that you need. There goes this love that your—

Yeah, they don't beg me.

There goes the love that your daughter deserves.

There's support around you.

I don't even know what I'm supposed to tell my baby, man.

Listen, we'll help you through this, all right? We got you.