A man says he failed his sister Katie and brothers. Karamo explains you can't fail people when you lack the tools yourself, linking the guilt to childhood trauma from an abusive father. The path forward is acknowledging what you need to grow, apologizing, and rebuilding from there.
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I failed Katie. I did. You failed her. I failed my brothers, to be honest. And it all happened so quick that I didn't even know what else to do.
I'm gonna tell you something right now. I'm gonna remove that guilt and that language from you. You didn't fail them because you can't fail somebody when you didn't have the tools to succeed yourself. What you did is you did what you thought you needed to do because there's still a scared little boy I see a little boy in you that still remembers your father hitting him. And I see you get emotional because you know it's true. You didn't fail them. But the fact that you can acknowledge that you need to do more and that you can say I'm sorry will start to mend this relationship. So when your family comes out here, you can say that to them.