You Got Me Pregnant On Purpose, This Is Your Child! | KARAMO

Okay, so let's dive right in, Precious. So you believe Bobby's cheating?

I do.

Okay then. And what was the terms of relationship when you first met Bobby? Was it like, we're exclusive, we're monogamous, or?

We're casual.

You were casual.

Yes.

Okay. So casual meaning he could talk to people, you could talk to folks?

Yes.

Okay.

Because I was actually in a relationship before Bobby, so it was kind of like, my boyfriend had moved outta town.

Okay.

And our relationship got rocky. He kind of ended things over the phone. So when he ended things over the phone, I kind of ran into Bobby and then we was like real casual. But I do believe Bobby was dating someone, so I don't really know, but.

But then there was a point that, you know, that you said we got exclusive.

Yeah, we did get exclusive after I had my baby. So that's the only reason why we got exclusive. I think that like, I love the way he is with our son. So I kind of gave him like the green light on a lot of stuff because of our son.

So how long have you been together?

How long we've known each other is almost 2 years. We've been in kind of a committed relationship for about 9 months.

9 months. And that's when you got pregnant with the child that also—

No, I got pregnant with our baby way before we got exclusive.

Got it, okay. So how old is your child now?

He's 5 months.

5 months. Okay, 5 months. And so why do you believe he is cheating?

I have been through his phone a couple of times, but the thing is he always changes his passcode and he changes it more frequently than he changes underwear. So it's like, it's very much like he'll give it to me and then next day it's not the same code.

Wow.

So, 'cause there's a lot going on here because there's first of all like this baby DNA because it's for some reason, does he not believe this child is his?

I don't know why he wouldn't because he's the one who took off the condom.

Condom.

I asked for a condom and during sex he took it off.

What was that?

You talking about, ooh.

So he took it off, which is crazy.

Yeah, that is crazy. And so now he's not claiming?

No, he's claiming my son.

But he wants clarity.

But I guess he wants clarity. I didn't know he wanted clarity until today.

Got it, until today?

Well, yes.

Well, when you got here for the DNA test.

Well, you know, like a couple of days ago, then I was furious about it then too because I didn't ask him for, you know, to take off about the condom.

Yeah.

So tell me about the suspicious piece of mail you found.

One day I just was like, man, let me go see if this car door is unlocked because I really wanted to know whose car it was.

'Cause he said he was in somebody else's car.

He said it was his homeboy's car.

Okay, so he pulled up to your house with somebody else's car and he said it was his homeboy's car.

But it was so frequently and I'm like, no man is not letting another man drive his car every day.

Every day?

Every day.

Yeah.

But that day that I went in the car, I seen a piece of mail and it had a girl name on it. So I was kind of, you know, so I was like, this is a girl car.

All that shit a lie.

That's all a lie?

Excuse my language, excuse my language.

It's a lie.

When I met Precious, she was standing in some apartment complex. I had dropped one of my homeboys off at her door.

Yeah.

And I met her. Me and Precious started talking. Whatever the case may be.

Casually.

You know what I'm saying? Casually. But she had just got out of a relationship.

I did.

With someone.

You know what I'm saying? Then when me and her started talking, we got closer and then a baby came about. You know what I'm saying?

You saying a baby came about, but you did take off the condom.

Hold on, let me talk.

Correct, right?

Did you take off the condom? I kept the condom on. I don't know what she talking about.

That's a lie.

I don't know what she talking about.

So from your point of view, you did take off the condom?

He took it off.

She kept texting me.

Why would I sit there and lie?

Not one time, not two times, not three times. I done caught her plenty of times texting different people.

Oh. You know what I'm talking about?

But what you have done—

Hold on, let me talk.

You said at least—

You gonna get your point across in a minute.

I haven't texted as many people as you.

You gonna get your point across in a minute.

Let me talk.

As far as texting.

Let me talk.

You have been, he has been to people's house.

I'm in denial. Lil Junior.

You questioning my baby's past.

'Cause I wanna know, I wanna know the truth on it. You know what I mean?

Because of what?

Because she was dealing with someone when I met her.

Got it.

So I don't know how that, you know what I'm saying?

But you did admit to that. You said you were talking to somebody.

But he did take the condom off too. He didn't admit to that.

I kept the condom on.

You're a liar. You're a liar.

So why does Precious believe you are cheating?

She believe I'm a cheater because once you accuse somebody so much, the finger be pointing back at you.

You know what I'm saying?

Always. So it gonna always be reversed. So that's why she think I'm cheating.

What you said about them apps? You needed some way. You get what I'm saying?

You needed some money.

Clarification.

No clarification.

So what's the app?

Precious also said you changed your passcode to your phone like 6, 7 times. Why you change your passcode?

Precious had my passcode numerous a time. Every time I asked Precious for her passcode, she never gave it to me. She never gave me her passcode, but she always had mine.

Cap, he's a liar. Always. You're a liar.

So she also said—

So I know this passcode.

She always—

No, you don't know this passcode, but always.

'Cause you change 'em every other day. I'm telling y'all, he changed 'em once.

Do you change 'em every other day?

No, I do not.

Yes, you do.

No, I do. I had the passcode—

You lie so much, that's why I damn see, father.

I had that passcode that she had for months. Months damn near the whole time we was talking, excuse my language.

What's months? Months as in 24 hours?

And then she got another phone, then she switched around.

24 hours.

So Precious feel like you got her pregnant on purpose, did you?

He did.

No. Why you lying?

No, I didn't.

And you see he's smiling, that's how you know he lying, y'all.

No, I didn't.

He's lying.

No, I didn't.

Yes, you did.

No, I didn't.

You can't even hide it 'cause your dimples showing.

I really didn't though.

He did.

She's so funny.

Just remember everybody, we are unlocking phones and a DNA test today. So I think, yeah, I think it's important first to get to the truth of y'all relationship. Because before we can even talk about this baby is yours that you said you're not sure of, we need to see if there's even like a relationship for y'all to be salvaging right now. So it's time to unlock the phone.

Unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock.

Bobby, we unlocked your phone first.

Yeah, let's go to that one.

Okay.

Let's see what that phone's talking about.

Precious, you want to know if Bobby is talking to a specific woman who you found her name on a piece of mail in the car. Right. Bobby says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his phone and found that he is telling the truth about that person.

Now, shut up. Now, don't you look crazy.

The person on the name of the car, he's not talking to them. On the piece of the mail, he's not talking to them.

Yeah, Bobby deleted everything.

No.

Well, no, we find deleted, trust me, we find everything here. All right, so Precious, you wanna know if Bobby is communicating with any other women. Bobby says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his apps and found that he's not telling the truth. My investigator found that Bobby's active on 3 apps.

Tinder, Grindr, and Peaches.

But you know, Tinder, Grindr, and, uh, Okay, so my investigator found 2 separate chats on Grindr. The first chat was 49 deleted messages and the second was 44 deleted messages. And my investigator also found on Keepsafe, well, so do y'all know what Keepsafe is? It's that locked app that you can't get into.

But y'all got into it.

Well, we get into it.

Thank you.

And we found 607 hidden photos, sexual photos, and a variety of selfies from different women on Keep Safe.

I had nothing to say.

Kelp, I told you you can't trust Bobby.

Well, Precious, you also wanna know if Bobby's communicated with a specific woman. Bobby says he's not. My unlock the phone investigator searched Bobby's texts and found that he is not telling the truth. My investigator found that Bobby has 132 deleted text conversations 28 being with a specific woman, and Bobby and this woman have exchanged photos and made plans to hook up.

I know.

This conversation was in September, this last one. Can I see the evidence of that?

But you wanted to go through my phone last night.

But you wanted to act like you was just faithful. And I knew you was lying. But you— Talk! You had so much to say. I was cutting you off. Now you got the floor, talk! Talk!

I wanna hear these results.

Them results ain't got nothing on your shit.

Probably not.

It don't.

So what y'all was talking about?

Well, I'll tell you right now 'cause we have the message. It went from, so this says, "Hey there, how you doing? This is Daddy from Grindr." He said, "Hey, it's going good. Who's this? This is Stefan. You gave me your number on Grindr, boo. Where are you from? Oh, what's up sexy? This is," I don't know who this is. The photo.

Yeah, that's fine.

Aw, that ain't nobody. I ain't never even slept with her.

Everybody nobody.

Anybody I find in his phone is nobody.

But I ain't never slept with her.

I don't wanna hear it.

On God, I ain't never slept with her.

I don't even wanna hear it. I don't even wanna hear it because you know what time it is.

What time it is?

You know what time it is.

What time it is?

It's time.

What time? It's that time. What time? You check your watch, you got one on?

Uh-uh.

He check it.

What time it is?

It's over, it's around.

So Bobby, now Bobby, I gotta ask you very clearly. So why would you take her phone last night and text her? The other guy for his nudes.

Yeah, why you take my phone? And you doing all this.

I did that right now. I did that right now just to show her that.

She was texting too.

That y'all got him.

He wanted a reason to be like, oh well, this or that, trying to make it seem like it was equally balanced.

Well, Precious, we unlocked your phone.

100 texts compared to phone.

Precious, we unlocked your phone.

That's fine.

Okay, so here we go. Bobbi, you told our investigator that Precious has two phones, so we unlocked both of those phones.

That's all right.

Bobbi, so you want to know if Precious was direct messaging any men. Precious says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched both of her phones and found that Precious is telling the truth. She's not messaging any men.

Thank you.

Bobbi, you wanna know if Precious is on any dating apps. We checked both phones 'cause Precious says she's not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her apps and found She's telling the truth.

I told you though, but everything came back on you like you just a liar. I told you, that's why you falling out, bro.

Bobby, you wanna know if Precious was talking to any other guys around the time she was pregnant. Precious says she was not. My unlock the phone investigator found that she's not telling the truth with that. During the time she was pregnant, my unlock the phone investigator found 215 text exchange between Precious and a guy that wasn't Bobby. And Precious, on the second phone we unlocked while you were pregnant, Our investigator found an additional 461 texts exchanged between Precious and the second guy in the month of October. You were like saying, "I wish I can come link up. You wanna come rub my belly?" Stuff like that. We got some. "Can you give me a massage, T, if you still got it? I would enjoy that if you like. Tell me when and I'll be there. Love." "You can give me a massage and see what you got." So.

I never went, I never went there.

And she was pregnant with my child, right? Supposed to be child, right?

Supposed to be child. Talk to me.

Supposed to be. He yours.

We gonna squabble that.

He yours.

Well, now that we answered your cheating questions, it's time to unlock the truth of the paternity.

Look at Stanky Dude. Stanky Dude's so cute.

He is so cute.

Thank you.

Bobby, you have given Precious' son your whole name, correct?

Exactly.

Okay, well, if the results come back that he's not your son, what will you do?

I will be truly hurt.

You'll be truly hurt.

Truly hurt.

Okay. Well, this is not my truth to open. This is your truth to open.

Don't let him open it. It's his truth.

He the one questioning it.

Go ahead and open it.

I ain't ready to open it yet.

You need to go ahead and open it.

Spread my feelings. They're my baby.

You said she hurt your feelings?

Nah, I said I wanna express my feelings.

Oh, you wanna express your feelings.

They're my child. Why I open it up?

You took the condom off your nose.

I'm saying, they're my child.

Just tell me. No, did you take the condom off? Yes or no?

Go ahead and tell them.

Yes or no?

You took the condom off, yes or no?

You took it off?

Uh-uh, I kept it on.

You're a liar.

Yes or no? He a liar.

We gonna find out. We gonna find out if he took it off.

'Cause he did.

He took it off.

He took it off, and y'all gonna see why I say he's a liar.

Nah. Let me see.

What it say?

What it say? Read it for everybody to hear that you a liar.

"Babby, you are the biological father of Junior." So y'all see, he took it off.

So you did take it off.

Tell them the truth.

He must have bust. It had the bust of Bobby.

He took it off.

He's so slick, he took it off. Then when I turned around, he tried to put it back on.

Yeah.

Man, stop.

I'll tell you this. It's clear that Bobby, you're not committed to this relationship. So this is just now needs to be co-parenting. You're not committed. I will say you use your charm to gaslight and deflect. It's clear. But you gotta start being honest with this woman now because especially now that y'all gotta co-parent together, there has to be transparency. There has to be respect because now there's a child. That's involved in this. And as you know, and we all know that he needs you to be the best version of you that you can be and respect his mother as much as you can, as much as she deserves, because otherwise his whole life will get affected. And I see kids on this stage all the day. We know that y'all cheating. We know that you not doing right. Now you cheating. We know that you cheating. We know that you cheating and you cheating a lot and you doing a lot and you know it. But now you're doing that on your son's mother. And that will have ripple effects where years from now, the respect and love that he has for you might be gone because he realized that dad is a liar, that dad is these things. And so I hope that this relationship ends. You gonna end it? I already know what he said. He gonna charm you right back into this. But I'm asking you, you gonna end this? You just, we gave you photos, we showed you everything you wanna know, everything. Only thing that he didn't do was the person car that he had that had the mail on it. That's the only thing he didn't do. Everything else that you expected he did.

I know.

Yeah.

Everything else. So you gonna leave? Bobby laughing, he said no.

Bobby laughing 'cause Bobby think you smooth. I'm leaving.

You sure?

He think you smooth.

Bobby, what you feel about all this?

I mean, I be doing a lot, man, in my phone, so I like, I'm a type of guy, I'll kinda wait.

Body, you talking about the phone.

I don't do that much.

Bobby, you do a lot on your phone, but you do a lot in person too. You do a lot.

Forget the phone, because the phone was just the problem. And he never linked with these people or never did these things, it would probably go different. But Bobby do a lot with his physical too.

Bobby, I'm gonna say this to you right now. This is what I'm gonna say. She's leaving, I hope you do stick to that and y'all can just co-parent. But I'll say this, you on my stage right now, Bobby. What I don't wanna see on my stage is Bobby Jr. in the future. And so, as a single man, you're allowed to do what you wanna do, but when it starts coming to children, you gotta step up and be better for that child. You have to. And especially when it comes to the respect and honesty you're giving his mother. This has real ramifications if you cannot respect her and honor her like she gets, she deserves to be honored and respected. If you don't do that and you keep lying to her, I mean, it's all out there now. So now that's out there, you're conscious, she know everything. And now she can make decisions about how y'all flex because now she has honesty. Give her that respect. Give her that respect. She at least deserves that.

Thank you, Karamo.

You do.

But you a wild one. You know you get away with that charm to do a lot of foul stuff. You know that, right? Uh-huh, yeah. All right then, listen, I wish y'all the best of luck.

All right.

Thank you.