A 23-year-old admits a lie cost them their marriage. The other speaker validates their pain but pushes back: you have the power to be better than your worst impulse. It's confrontation wrapped in support.
You think a lie is worth telling someone they should die?
Yep, depending on what type of lie you're telling, yeah, 'cause you deceived me and I wouldn't have been married.
Okay, hold on, hold on, hold on. I know your feelings are hurt and you're valid for having your feelings hurt, but that's not the behavior. That's not the behavior. And as a young woman at 23, you shouldn't be exhibiting that. I know you're better than that. I actually know you're better than that.
I know I actually am, seriously. This is bringing the worst outta me.
I know, but then, but see, If this is bringing the worst out of you, then you need to bring the best back. You have the power to bring that back.