You Got Two Other Women Pregnant While I Was Pregnant?! | KARAMO

So my guest Gigi says while she was carrying her boyfriend's baby, he got another woman pregnant. And then another one. Girl, let's meet Gigi so we can hear her side of this story. Gigi, come on out. So how did you find out your boyfriend got another woman pregnant?

So I usually have multiple phones and his phone was broke at the time. And so I let him use mine for like 2 weeks. And when he was bringing it back, he just forgot to delete and sign out of all his social media. So at that point I'm just like, okay, well let me get logged back in with my cloud and my stuff and While I was going on there, I'm just like, all his stuff is still on here and I'm a little nosy, so I'm just like, okay, I'm finna go through it. We just got into an argument, I don't know where he's been at.

Yeah, girl, I'ma check too.

I go through the phone and yeah, I'm seeing messages from multiple women, but the one that stuck out to me the most is where him and this girl are talking about, you know, maternity pictures, pregnancy test pictures. Yes. And I'm just like, at this point I'm like, I'm finna call her because "Who are you? You need to know who I am." And so, so I called her. I called her and I'm just like, you know, "Hi, are you pregnant, you know, by Armani?" And she was like, "Yeah, I am." And I'm like, "Well, are you sure? Do you know if it's his baby?" And she's like, "Yes, I know, you know, who I slept with, but she's not with him right now. She doesn't want anything to do with him. She just wants to be left alone." Whatever. I go to the next girl that it looked like he was talking to. "And I'm just like, I know he's with you, you know, where is he at?" And the girl basically just told me don't call her phone and hung up. And I didn't hear from him for like another month.

And during this time you were also pregnant?

Yes, I am pregnant.

So you're talking to this woman saying she's pregnant while you're pregnant at the same time?

Yes.

How long had you two been together at this point?

We were on and off all 2021. And so I found out I was pregnant March 2022.

March 2022. So it was about a year together, a year and a half at this point. And how did you find out that he got another woman pregnant?

Oh Lord, ugh. That one was like kinda way worse because at that point it's like we were really doing good. We had just took family pictures, you know, we were hanging out a lot. Like we weren't living together, but he was there like almost every other day. And he was on probation and he was supposed to go check in. And at that point I didn't take him because again, we just happened to get into an argument around this time. So 2 hours later I'm getting a call from his phone. So I'm like, okay, maybe they released him. When I answer the phone, it's this girl screeching, "Ah! Oh my gosh! Armani got took in! Oh my gosh, I can't believe this! And some girl is pregnant!" Telling me all the tea. And I'm just like, "Who is this?" She told me her name and I'm just like, "Well, do you know who I am?" And she's like, "Yes, I know you're his baby mother. He told me about you." And I'm just like, "Well damn, he didn't tell me about you." Exactly. So, you know.

So the girl that's talking on the phone that's screeching, she's the one that was pregnant?

Oh no, she's seen somebody else?

Whew, 'cause that's, I'm counting 3 times he cheated.

I've counted more.

So if you counted more, then why are you still in this relationship?

Because honestly, we never really had sat down until like recently and said, as of today, me and you, we're in a committed relationship. That means no flirting, no outside, No exchanges, no none of that. Just me and you together.

Mm-hmm. So to recap, he had 2 other babies on you during this time that you all have been together.

Yeah.

And in January you started this clean slate.

Yes. Okay.

If January is your start date, then that's gonna be our start date too. We're not gonna judge your past, okay?

Thank you.

But my producers told me that you kicked him out 2 weeks later.

I did.

Why?

Because we had got into an argument pertaining to our parenting. We parent different and He has a tendency to get really disrespectful and just say something below the belt. I just take like he don't know how to argue. He doesn't really know how to disagree, or he don't like when I disagree with him.

Or, wild theory, he could just be disrespectful.

I mean, he could be.

He can't—

I'm just saying. Because saying like maybe he don't know how to argue, maybe he don't know how to communicate, or— 'Cause having 2 babies on you and cheating a couple times could mean he just could be disrespectful. So I ain't gonna lie to you, Armani, I ain't gonna lie to you. I judged, I judged prior to you being out here and I like to apologize on behalf because normally I like to be fair until I hear both sides. But when I heard you got 2 more other women pregnant, it was easy for me to judge. So I'm gonna allow you to explain what happened. How did you get these 2 other women pregnant? Okay.

I had a baby mother before Gianni.

Okay.

That didn't work out. Gianni got pregnant. I went to jail. I got out. Me and her wasn't really dealing with each other. We wasn't really talking.

Okay.

I started talking to somebody else.

Okay. 'Cause she feels like y'all were talking.

I know.

Okay. So were you leading her on during that time?

No.

Okay.

Basically, I'm talking to somebody else. She's still thinking we talking. I'm not even trying to deal with her no more. Trying to do my own thing, trying to live my life. She not trying to let it go. I'm in jail now. She has the phone, she finds out that I have somebody else pregnant.

No.

She capping, she ain't telling the truth. That's why you wanna start right there, you gotta start, you gotta go back. So let's start with me getting outta prison. Her cousin reached out to me informing me that she wants to talk to me. I don't remember her, you know what I'm saying? She remember me from when I was a kid. I don't remember her, you know what I'm saying? Boom, we tap in, I'm looking at her, oh, she look cool. We get to talking, we get to meeting each other, you feel me? Reaching out, she get to pulling up on me 'cause I'm fresh out, I don't got no car, I don't got nothing going. I explained to her everything that I got going on, you know what I'm saying? As far as like my life, who I deal with, you know what I'm saying? How I maneuver. The stuff that I'm into, stuff that I did. Where I'm trying to go, you know what I'm saying?

You're saying I met her, she was great to me, she was a great friend, and that you're saying, well, from what I'm hearing is you're saying that I told her I have multiple women and she still kept dealing with you.

She did.

Got it. Are you speaking to other females now?

No, I was not.

No females right now?

No.

Not one?

No.

Okay then. So she kicks you out and what happened?

I went back to my life doing what I do.

Okay, so 2 weeks ago you went back to your life.

And I'm not gonna say she kicked me out. She asked me to leave.

Okay, then she asked you to leave.

Yeah, because it wasn't like— She asked you to leave.

She asked you to leave. No, but she asked me to leave. She asked you to leave and you went back to doing your life. I said leave. What does it mean to go back to doing your life?

Doing what I do.

What do you do?

Rap, studio, take care of my responsibilities as a father, but I'm not just doing it with her. I'm not answering her calls. I'm not talking to her. I'm not accumulating children with her.

So you talking to other people? No. Okay, so when she asked you to leave the house—

Well, I'm not gonna say that. I'm not gonna say that, 'cause now that you putting it like that, 'cause you got a different way of talking than the way that I—

I asked him the same thing. Are you talking to other females? What do you consider talking?

Yeah, I'm talking to 'em.

What do you mean? Talking to 'em?

So what is your definition of talking?

Exactly.

Me talking is we can have a conversation. We texting. That don't mean I'm talking to you.

About what?

That doesn't mean you're talking to me? I don't mean we talking like, oh, we dating. That's her terms of talking.

No, dating is dating. No, talk to somebody means talk.

If I talk to somebody that look like her, she gonna be mad. You feel me? If I talk to somebody that in the crowd like her right there with the pink hair, she gonna be mad.

You feel me?

She's gonna be mad.

You feel me? What are you talking about? She's beautiful.

I can't talk to nobody. So when I say, you see how she putting it? I'm talking to you right now.

You can't talk to nobody? What are you talking about? You talking about the women that are over here?

What do we do about it?

What's going on? Yeah, that's out. Of course I'm not gonna want you talking to him. You're not talking to him about the economy. You're not talking about the weather. The hell?

So let me ask you point blank, period. Do you wanna be with her?

Yes, I love her.

Okay, so are you in your children's lives?

Yeah.

Great, okay then, perfect. Do you still talk to the other mothers?

Yes.

You do? And do you have a relationship with them?

Yeah.

Is that relationship just friendly, co-parenting?

No, it's a— Does it get sexual sometimes? No, it's a co-parent relationship.

Does it ever get flirty?

No. Well, I can't say that, but—

Woo-hoo! Who's it getting flirty with?

It's not getting flirty.

Who you get flirty with?

I don't get flirty with nobody.

So then why you can't say that? He just asked you and you say, "I can't say that." Who you be flirty with?

If somebody say I look nice and I be like, "Oh, you look nice." Who you be flirty with?

You be flirty with her?

No, I don't.

Why you smiling and laughing? And who you be talking about? 'Cause you just say you don't talk to the third one.

You funny.

And now all of a sudden you be flirty with the second one.

Do you trust her?

No.

You don't trust her?

No.

Okay then.

This is regular.

Well, let's go ahead and do this then. Since y'all know what's in the phone, let's help us find out. Let's find out about the phone. All right, Gigi, we unlocked your phone. Armani, you wanna know if Gigi is texting with any other men. She says she is not. My locked phone investigator searched her texts and found that Gigi is telling the truth. Armani, you wanna know if Gigi has any DMs with other men. She says she does not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her DMs and found that Gigi is telling the truth. Armani, you wanna know if Gigi has made any calls to other men in her phone.

What you accusing me for?

She says she's accusing you of nothing.

My unlock the phone investigator searched her calls and found that Gigi is not telling the truth.

You said what?

My investigator did find 5 calls from a guy named.

That's her husband.

But what I realized is What the investigator said is that she has not answered any of those calls in December before the clean slate.

Right.

Exactly.

So not one of those calls were answered. So yes, she might have been talking to him prior, but since your clean slate and the month before, she has not been talking to anyone. She's not doing anything.

And even when I do talk to anybody, I'm not talking to nobody to go build a life, have a baby, move in with them, do none of this stuff.

I don't talk about that neither.

Armani, then how is it 2 babies after our baby?

Because me and you weren't together. Me and you weren't in a relationship.

So this is the thing we're talking about. So because we—

Tell the truth.

What she's saying is that you two are gonna be trying to get a clean slate. And so what we're going off of is a clean slate period.

Exactly.

I don't know if I agree with that fully, but since that's what you all wanna do in your relationship, we're gonna go from the clean slate. And from the clean slate, she has not done anything. So she has not talked to anybody. She has been giving her undivided attention to you. So if she's saying to you, let's get a clean slate, let's be honest, and she's proving that, Why do you have an issue?

I don't have an issue. I have an issue with what be going on. It don't have nothing to do with—

But there's nothing going on since the clean slate.

I never said that there was nothing going on. That's what she wanna do. That's her trying to, "Oh, I'm not doing nothing.

Look, I can do this.

I don't care." That's not the problem.

You don't care.

Yeah, no, the problem is what be going on in the household.

Armani, since the clean slate, have you been doing anything?

Since January? Since the clean slate?

Have you been doing anything?

No, since January 3rd when we said we're gonna—

Have you been doing anything?

No.

Y'all are clean slate.

You haven't been doing anything?

No.

Well, we were able to reach out to the other two mothers of your children and they're actually backstage. Is there anything, because they both are very vocal about what you've done since January, is there anything that you wanna confess to her before we unlock your phone?

No, go ahead. Mm-hmm.

Bring 'em out.

Bring 'em out. Bring 'em out.

Something that was modeled to you at some point in your life, something that has happened has informed you that this is the type of man that you wanna hang on to. In these 28 years, even just these past, this past decade, the 10 years since you turned 18, have you taken a moment to say, why do I look at love this way? What in my past is making me think this is love? Have you taken a moment to really sit with yourself and say, why do I accept behavior from this?

Mm-hmm.

Here you go, Mama. It's okay. It's okay. It's okay.

Probably not. Probably not.

Because that's the first step you gotta take.

Mm-hmm.

I'm here giving you this truth as just a bit of a wake-up call because he's not going to change.

Mm-hmm.

This is who he is, which, so if we know who he is, that means it's time to figure out who you are.

Mm-hmm.

What makes you fearful about figuring out what you need?

I don't know. I don't know. I just feel like, I don't know, I like helping people. Like taking care of people, it just makes me happy feeling like, I don't know, I could do something like bigger than myself. Like I'm just not a selfish person. I don't know.

You helping people can never be at the sacrifice of yourself.

Mm-hmm.

Can I ask you something? Did you ever feel abandoned in your life?

Mm-hmm.

Okay. Was it by a parent? Got it. 'Cause what you described to me, through my training, usually people who have abandoned then seek love. And when they seek love, love usually comes with caveats. The best advice I can give you is do the work on yourself, figure out that abandonment issue, and then let him go fully.

Mm-hmm.