You Had a Baby With My Man?! | KARAMO

So what was your ex-best friend's name?

Tykina.

Tykina. So Tykina was your best friend. How close were you?

We were really close to the point we were matching hairstyles. We were going everywhere. If you ain't see one person, if you ain't see one of us together, we were like, people who were like family or whatever, like, okay, where is your friend at?

Yeah.

You're always together. Is something wrong?

No.

And how did you find out about all of this, that she was having a baby with your man?

January 1st, 2025, she sent me a sonogram. Asked my best friend, I'm excited. Oh my God, you having a baby, blah blah blah. So I immediately asked like, who's the dad? You know, I'm saying it in like, in like different, different messages.

Who's the papa?

Who's the papi? Who's the papi? So.

'Cause you're just like your best friend, 'cause this is just friendly, sonogram and all that. And then when you asked who the father was and she didn't respond.

She didn't respond. I let her keep her peace. You know, I'm not gonna force you to tell me your business or whatever, but you know, I'm your best friend. I'm your best friend. I'm already feeling a certain way 'cause you ain't telling me that you was pregnant. Then you're just not telling me, you know, I could've been there from the beginning when you first found out. Even though I'm a National Guard, I was away on military duty, so I'm already not in the picture.

So you were away?

Yes.

So then you were excited about her baby? Yeah, I even sent her some money when she told me. You sent her some money?

$200 for her cravings.

Wow.

And then I sent more on top of that. That's the type of friend I was. She's pregnant. Uh, yeah, I'm here.

And so you're doing all of this and you have no idea that she is pregnant with?

His baby.

Trey, y'all know best friend Trey, I always talk about him. Trey, if you ever, girl, if you ever, if you ever, yeah, get that camera on him. Yeah, Trey, if you ever, okay? So listen, you told my producers that Tekina asked you To be the baby's godmother?

Yes. And—

This is just getting more and more trifling day by day.

Yes.

At what point did she say, "Oh, by the way, here's the father and you know him." 2 days before she turned 6 months old. 2 days before she turned 6 months old.

She's like, "Who does she look like?" I'm like, "Well, she looks like you." So she's like, "Who are we around a lot in 2023 that are alive?" Immediately, immediately, immediately I thought of Stead, bro. I thought of him. I'm like, "There's no way. There's no way she'll do that. She will tell me." I didn't wanna say his name, but I'm like, "Stadman?" She didn't say nothing, she just looked at me. I'm like, "That's Stadman's baby? That's his baby?" I'm like, "Dang." Already thinking like, "Do I wanna break this friendship because of a bitch, or do I wanna break this friendship because she betrayed me, but I value the friendship more?" I told her, I was like, "Okay, well, I am not mad at you. This is a dude, I don't wanna break no friendship over no dude. So I'm telling you right now that the only thing I'm mad about you is that you didn't tell me." And then, Tell me when the baby is already here but 6 months old.

Cuz by this time, my producer tell me right now, you had already broken up with him. So y'all had broken up, but it still didn't give her the right to not tell you.

Yes.

And to wait 6 months. So it makes sense now why you were saying I would salvage the friendship.

Yes.

Because you've now broken up with him and you're like, yeah.

Yeah, I wasn't worried about him. I was doing my own thing or whatever.

And she—

But you felt like she betrayed you in a big way. Yes.

You could've came to me.

Yeah.

He's also living with her, so we're in, we're all three of us are in the same house, so there's—

So you have to see it.

I have to see him. I have to see him and be cordial and keep this preface of like, I really don't give a fuck, but I do. But at the same time, I value your friendship and what we had, 'cause—

I'm gonna tell you this, I'm gonna tell you this, 'cause I know you young. I'm gonna tell you this. One of the things you learn when you get older is a friendship is great to value, but you gotta value yourself more.

Oh yeah.

And value your own peace. When you value your own peace, Because what happens, and this is not just for this situation, this is a lesson for you in life. If you invite people into your life, they will interrupt your peace. So you have to make sure you are very clear about who you're giving that invitation to. So what happened 10 days ago?

10 days ago, my tires were slashed.

Your tires were slashed?

Yes, and like I said, we are in this multi-family home. You can see them all right now.

You assumed that it was me and it wasn't me.

Yes, it was.

Yes, it was. It wasn't.

I'm not even gonna sit here and argue with you.

It wasn't.

It was.

When it comes to Steadman, do you still have feelings for him?

No.

No feelings?

No.

None at all? Chop.

Chop.

How long ago was this that y'all were sexting in the videos?

December.

December.

Of last year.

You know we only in March.

Yeah.

Yeah. So y'all was just sexting 2 months ago? Yeah. So did you still have some feelings for him at that time?

No, it was more so like a get back.

So did you cheat with Steadman while they were together just for that get back?

Yeah.

Okay. Takina, what do you have to say about what you heard? 'Cause I heard you saying a lot backstage. Cap.

Cap. Cap.

What's cap?

Big cap.

What's cap?

First of all, y'all was never together, number one. Okay. Number two, yeah, I didn't tell you about me being pregnant because I was protecting my peace of my baby and myself.

But you didn't tell me before you got pregnant.

I don't have to tell you about me being pregnant if I chose not to. I chose not to. You didn't tell me before you got pregnant. You did not tell me you was messing with him.

That's what I'm trying to get you to understand.

Okay. There's someone behind you. Yes, and I didn't. Okay, you didn't, proof.

That's why I'm—

But they were together.

They wasn't. They were messing around and they was never together.

Okay, and I was still finna go back to him.

But you didn't.

'Cause you got to him first and got pregnant, that's why I ain't go back.

No, that's not right.

You the same year I was—

That's not right.

You something, I'm gonna tell y'all something, no shade, Steadman better come out here and be fine as hell for all of this. I'm gonna tell y'all that right now. He better be, right? For all of this, he better come out here. Y'all better not— Don't have us come out here and this man be nothing but fine as hell, okay? I'm gonna put that out there right now, okay? So you told my producers that she's out here for revenge.

You heard her.

Yeah, she did say she was out here for revenge.

But my thing is, make sure you tell them what happened and why we fought. You did in front of my baby multiple times. And when I asked you was it worth it, you said yes. So yeah, I need that every time I see you. She asked him. I asked both of y'all. You said yes. I fucked your head and he shook his head too. That's why I got on his ass when we went outside. Why you got on his ass when you went outside? Because me and you fought. Me and you fought. So you know exactly why. Me and you fought. Me and you fought. Me and you fought. Look at him and I looked at you. I looked at him and I looked at you.

Let me ask you this, 'cause that is not okay. That is not okay.

I take accountability for that. I shouldn't have did that.

Why, if you knew your best friend was even, you said they weren't dating, but if you say they were sleeping together, why would you still wanna sleep with the person your best friend was sleeping with?

It wasn't even like intentionally doing it type of thing. We was hanging out, chilling type of stuff. You still ain't tell me. What I'm gonna tell you for? Y'all was not talking, y'all was blocking. But wasn't you not talking to his friend? You were still hanging around his friend that I was talking to.

What you talking about?

What I'm talking about? We're not talking about him.

Are you sad about this friendship being done?

Yes, I am.

No, I'm not.

But me and her was actually close and then like I said, you seen the picture, I asked her to be my baby godmama, all that stuff.

Because if you're actually close, and I apologize for cutting you off, but I just need to say this. If you're actually close, when you say things like, well, you know, you was talking to him, I didn't have to tell you. I mean, listen, I tell everybody, my best friend is right there in that black coat. If he, we talk about everything. And so even if he might be in a delusional relationship, which he's never been, I'm usually the delusional one. When we were younger, not no more. But if he was, we still are in a space where we talk about it. And also one of the parts of the code is like, once he do it, I'm not doing it and vice versa. That's off limits, that's off limits. So, 'cause the only reason I'm saying all that is to say, like, if you really miss the friendship, like, there has to be some accountability. Like, you know what?

I never once said that what I did was right. Like, it was never that. Like—

Okay, I haven't heard that.

Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

So you know that what you did was wrong?

Yeah, but I can't bring my, take my baby back or nothing like that and do stuff that I went through.

Has she ever said that to you?

Huh?

Has she ever said that to you, that she knows that her behavior was wrong?

No, so you lying. So when we sat in the car, when we was talking, the day that I snatched your phone out your hand, when I found out everything, did I not say what I know? What I did, I know it was wrong. After you said, well, he asked me to fuck first. No, I just said I did not.

So you're still with Steadman today?

Yeah.

Okay, are you and Steadman raising the baby together? Yeah. Okay, and is it good? You happy?

For the most part, except for this situation.

Okay, let's go ahead and meet Steadman, everybody. Say everybody, welcome Steadman to the show.

All right.

Okay, we got, okay. Y'all say yes or no? No.

No. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Y'all just mad y'all bald.

Okay.

Anyways, it's so nice to meet you.

It's nice to meet you.

It's great to meet you as well, Sedman. So what do you have to say about what you just heard?

Honestly, I do feel really bad 'cause before this stuff happened, they were the best of friends. They were the closest friends. I feel like an awful person for what I did, to be honest. And—

You hear them, they judgmental.

But I'm taking responsibility.

Okay, they on your ass today, you see what they like.

But it's just a lot going on, to be honest.

Yeah, I hear that. So why would you even in the beginning sleep with her? Knowing that this was your best friend.

Prior to what happened, I actually caught her cheating.

No, that wasn't cheating. Talking. He's saying cheating, but okay, yeah, that might be cheating, but that was talking.

Me and my ex was talking. What me and?

So not only did you cheat with him, with your best friend, and then you went ahead and slept with him?

No, I didn't do nothing with them though. That's what they like.

So I was physically cheating, but she was emotionally cheating. So I was very hurt from the situation and—

Okay, what you saying is valid or whatever, but this is not just like a situation I'm gonna throw away. What happened was in front of our baby, like I told you.

Yeah, was that 'cause she said y'all had sex in front of the child, is that true? Yes. Okay, you understand that you should not be doing that?

Yes, I do.

Did you post that video online?

Did. What video?

What video?

What video is it that?

Her and him, and the reason why I know that it was her and him because I know how my room look, number one. Number two, I know how his hands look.

So you posted a sex video of you two online?

Yeah, a short clip.

You posted a short clip of y'all two having sex online? Okay. And you saw it? Okay. Mm-hmm. So let me ask you, are y'all still messing around?

No.

Not doing anything?

No.

So the communication is done. Because that's Tykina's whole issue is she thinks that y'all are still possibly doing something and talking. No.

Besides like us in the house.

But she just said December.

That was December.

That wasn't December. I found out in January. I found out in January. That was not no December.

Well, I just said whenever the situation happened.

Uh-huh. That's when. So January is when y'all finished?

Yeah.

Okay then. But there's no feelings?

No.

You don't have any feelings for her at all? I don't have no feelings for her. And you don't have any?

No.

Okay then. Well listen, we're here to unlock some phones because you want answers to see if it's her talking. So let's find out. So Jariah, we unlocked your phone. Actually, Dry, you refused to unlock your phone. Why did you refuse?

I refused to unlock my phone because she already went through it.

No, I did not go through.

She did.

I didn't go through that. What I did was—

You grabbed my phone. So once you have my phone, you have to—

No, you have my phone.

So this is the thing, but to be very honest with you, actually I'm okay with you refusing to unlock your phone. And the reason being is she is not the issue in your relationship anymore.

No.

The issue in your relationship, Especially now that y'all have moved out, she is your ex-best friend that is no longer. The person you have to be focused on is Steadman at this point because Steadman and your relationship is the only thing. Yes, I know your feelings are hurt, but really what happened here, it was tit for tat. You know what I mean? You did it, she did it, y'all both did it and now you're like—

It's over with, it's over with.

To be honest with you, I feel like there's a bit of paranoia that like this is going on because of how your relationship started. And so it's like because you know how it was duplicitous with y'all two, you think that maybe there could still be duplicity with them. And so that's more about your mindset. She's telling you point blank, I did it, I'm done. I did it for revenge. I don't want him no more. You can have him. She says she's done.

So why post a video after the fact of the situation?

To be petty.

What you mean?

You went through my phone already. Yeah, this is, I can already tell you most of her actions after she gave you grace and she felt like she didn't get an apology, it's all petty to get you back. That's what that is. This is somebody who, this is somebody, and this is where fake people That's where fake positivity, I'm gonna teach you something. This is where fake positivity gets you caught up because that fake positivity will have you be like, I'm okay. You know what? You just had sex with my man. I'm fine. I still love you. I love you. We're still gonna be best friends. You know, we should move together. And then all of a sudden that fake positivity get down and you're like, hold on, underneath I am pissed. How dare you betray me? Where is this? And that's what's coming out right now. So what you got at the beginning, which confused you 'cause you like, oh, all is good. That was not real. She was hurting and she didn't know how to process her hurt in the moment. And so therefore you got something different. But what you gotta do is worry about, let's stop worrying about her because this is done. Tit for tat, y'all moved away. Now if she does anything or something happens after this point, it's about him, which is why, stepman, we unlocked your phone. That's what you need to be worried about. That's who you need to be worried about.

Mm-hmm.

Mm, stepman refused.

I don't know why she's walking off.

So, Steadman, why did you refuse?

I refused 'cause we were already past this situation. When the stuff happened with—

Steadman, she's not past the situation.

I know, I'm past the situation. But when stuff happened the last time—

You already know.

Steadman, you also saying this like it happened a year ago. It happened 7 weeks ago.

I'm saying when stuff happened the first time with her and whoever else was going on, I didn't need to go through her phone again after that.

But it wasn't about you going through her phone. She wanted to see what you're doing.

Yeah, I'm not doing anything.

So then why not just unlock the phone and be transparent?

Because I didn't ask for that for her after the situation with that.

It doesn't matter what you asked for. She's asking you as her partner to say.

I'm telling you, like, I said—

But if she's saying to you, if she's saying to you, this is what I need to build the foundation of trust, then why would you not give it?

Well, then this is like every time something happens, then what do you need? Is this gonna have to happen every time?

Actually, no, it's not about if everything happens, then you should be having your actions to dictate that this won't happen again.

But since has my actions said that I'm supposed to?

So this is what I know to be true about this entire situation, is that the foundation of your relationship was built on cracks. Yes. It has never been healthy.

I told you that.

And you all know it, you're all aware of it, and you're so aware of it that you then also try to find a relationship outside of that. You started to see, well, where else can I be emotionally fulfilled? Where else can I find love? Where else can I find security? That's what you did. And then he found out. And I think what's keeping you all together is the fact that you've had a child. And I think because you've had a child, and I also think financially it's a benefit for you all to support each other right now. Yeah. So I think finances and a child is saying, hey, we gonna be together. But then the day, I don't think you're happy and I don't think you're happy. So the choice you gotta make and the choice you gotta make is that do you want this house to crumble not only on you two, but your child as well? Because y'all might be able to dig through the rubble, but that child is not gonna dig through so easily. And the scars of this house collapsing on that child will stick with them forever. So ask yourself, is it important enough for me to keep building this, or is it smart to move us away from this foundation? I go build a healthy foundation with myself here, you go build a healthy foundation, and we make sure that our child has two healthy homes to come and visit. Which one is it? Because girl, you can keep running in this circle, I'm telling you. But all you gonna do is end up one day realizing like, damn, that Karamo was right. Okay?

No, I'm taking it all in.

I can tell, yeah, you know it, you know it, you taking it in. What are we doing? Yeah.

Like we waking up mad at each other, going to sleep mad at each other. That's not a relationship. That's just—

So he's not happy as well.

But he's saying this, you know what, okay.

Listen, I know what he's saying and I know that when you get home, again, I just told you, you can't take about the fantasy in your head. You gotta take the reality of what it is. So trust yourself, okay? I wish y'all the best of luck. I really hope you take my advice and really do this for yourselves. And not only do it for yourselves, for this kid. And you stay out this situation. You don't need to get back involved in this, okay? All right, please, I promise. I wanna see y'all happy.