You Left And Deny Your Children! | KARAMO

My girlfriend Brittany cheated on me, then has the nerve to lie and backpedal to me about it. I've heard rumors from friends and neighbors about people being snuck into our home. She would also go meet men at other places, and that's why I think I'm not the biological father of her two children. It breaks my heart because I stepped in as a father to those two children for years. I've been gone for over a year because I feel like those children are not mine.

Why did you call wanting a DNA test for your two children?

I'm just, I'm tired of being conceived as the bad guy. I'm tired of my character being put down, me being called a cheater, a liar, and just to prove that those are his kids.

So from your opinion, why did Cody walk out on you and your kids?

We've just been going through it for a really long time and we both, Agreed together that it was best for him just to leave.

When did Cody begin denying CJ?

He had found some papers from the hospital from like the birth certificate type of situation, and it states on the bottom of it that if there's no paternity established in the hospital and you sign the birth certificate, you have no rights. So he thought that I did that intentionally.

Got it, got it. Do you think Cody looks like your son?

Yes.

100%.

Yeah, 100%. And you stayed together, but then Cody was arrested. What happened?

Yes, yes. He had gotten into an altercation and he had went to jail, but then it got to him not believing that my daughter was his because him being away, you know, after I had gotten pregnant with her.

And was Cody there when your daughter was born?

When she was born, he was on, I think he was still on house arrest, but he was able to come to the hospital.

Got it. So he was on house arrest. Do you think Cody looks like your daughter?

She does, but she favors me a lot.

A lot more.

Yeah.

Understandable. Okay, well listen, it's now time to meet Cody, who Brittany claims is the father of her two children. Everyone please welcome Brittany's former boyfriend Cody to the show. Why do you think she's been cheating for 9 years?

What reason?

What reason?

Why do I need, why did I need to cheat on you?

Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook. Your job.

You had access to everything of mine.

I did not have access to everything of yours. And speaking of, you never even gave me truth.

And when did you first think that your son was not your biological child?

I'd say about a year after his conception. I was there the whole 9 years. I was doing everything from childcare, pickups, drop-offs, everything while you worked, right?

What have you done in 2 years?

What have I done in 2 years? Toured the country.

So why did you stop?

I've been on a sabbatical.

So why did you stop? What made you stop at that moment?

No love, no compassion, no understanding, no mercy, no grace.

So whenever you are constantly accused of being disloyal and constantly being put down—

Hold on, you weren't just being accused. I found Snapchat messages, I went through your phone, I went through your watch, I brought every single proof to you.

What'd you find on my watch? What'd you find? No, it said number one.

Hold on, hold on, hold on. No, no, we ain't finna do that and you're not gonna sit here and, nah. So somebody was coming over to meet. The person, whoever it was, was like, "Okay, that's no problem. How about I come in through one of the windows?" What did you say?

So just to clear that up, Facebook Messenger, you can change people's names. You can give people nicknames.

She got answers for everything. Guys do that. That's something that's always bothered me.

That's all you do. Talk your way in circles until you believe it.

Mm-hmm.

You always insult my intelligence.

I understand how it could've looked when he was looking through my watch because you don't get a photo reference or anything like that.

Yeah, you just see that name.

You just see the name and the message. So when he brought this to my attention, I pulled out my phone, showed him the message. You click on it, go to the profile. Yeah.

I wanna ask you, do you think, Cody, that your son looks like you?

Yeah, I see the resemblance. It's nothing about the children, it's nothing against the children, it's her. It's that simple.

Got it.

Because everything was going well. If I didn't have any questions or doubts, I would still be there. We had these discussions, we had these confrontations. I've brought you evidence, I've brought you skepticism, I've brought you concern, and every single time you dismissed it.

Is that true?

I could not get an emotion out of her.

Me and him in a relationship, it goes as far as he wants it to go. Just because I'm only allowed to say what I wanna say, and then it just becomes everything that I have Everything that I have to say has no weight.

But you condescend me with the children.

This is it, I'm never able to speak anything because it's always him.

She's trying to paint me out to be some son of a monster or something.

I'm not trying to paint you, I just want the results, that's all I want.

And we can go our separate way, that's all it is. But the thing is, this is the third time that we're trying this, is that correct? I tried to take my son to the DNA center myself, I couldn't do it because I had to have her present. Even though my name is on the birth certificate and he has my whole attention. Entire name.

Right.

Why wouldn't you allow it?

Why wouldn't you allow it? Because she didn't wanna do it then. Then tax season.

If he's accusing you and you had an opportunity to get done before, why didn't you just do it?

Stalling out. She's stalling me out. She stalled me out the whole time. I had the money tax time. Nothing but rebuttal. Nothing but denial. Then she's trying to make me seem like I'm just so belligerent.

Well, you made me this way.

No, I didn't. Don't use that. Get outta here. That's bull— You foaming at the mouth.

You expect for somebody to be by your side for as long as we were and for me to go through you just putting me down constantly.

Hold on, what's your definition of love?

I don't have one.

I know you don't. When's the last time you felt love? It doesn't matter. When I gave it to you, right?

It doesn't matter. We're not here for that.

Oh, because you don't know that.

We're not here for that.

You don't need that.

We're here for the results.

You're good, I know. And once we get these results, it don't matter what they are, I've already made my decision.

That's good, I'm glad. I gave you two kids.

We finna see, ain't we?

We are, ain't we?

So you moved to a different state.

I went to Florida to see my parents, then from Florida I drove to California and I started my sabbatical. I was cleansing myself. I was finding myself again. This was the only thing that was fueling me in essence. Because if this would've never happened, I probably, ain't no telling where I'd be, ain't no telling how I'd be thinking. So I take this as a blessing also.

[Speaker] Got it. I gotta know this, what do you miss most about those kids?

[Speaker] Just the life they give me, the respect they give me, the acknowledgement, the love. My whole life.

Yeah.

Nobody's been there.

Brittany, I know that you said to my producers that he's missed out on a lot of things in these past year.

Yes.

And you gave them a list of things that you wanted me to see. What is it? So you said he missed out on CJ's birthday, Camila's birthday, CJ's football practices, CJ's football game, first day of school.

One, one, one, one, one. I was there for everything. I've been there for everything.

So you were there for these things?

You were there for these things? Not for this year, no, I wasn't. This year we're talking about. No, I wasn't.

We're not talking about before.

But we're talking about what led up to this. We're talking about your kids and what you missed out on.

You and your shit talking about, no, we're here for the kids.

Yeah, we're here for the kids.

We're not here about the shit. None of that matters.

It do matter. No, it doesn't. That's what led to this.

Okay, well here we are now.

Yup.

And these are the things that you missed.

Yup, so let's go.

So what do you plan on doing if you are their biological father?

Fathering from Florida.

Do you plan on fathering from Florida?

I plan on being a father regardless where I am in this country.

I don't know what that means though.

And you don't need to know because you don't know what love is either.

Okay.

What is this that you're pulling out?

His son wrote him a letter 'cause he knew I was gonna see him today. Mm.

Here you go. Dear Dad, why did you leave me, Camila, Mom, you been gone for 2 years. You missed all of my football games and practices. And you know what hurts me the most? When I've tried to communicate and call when I was on the road, where were you? You didn't answer.

I didn't have no reason to answer.

You didn't reply.

I didn't have no reason to answer.

You see that?

I didn't have no reason to answer in the beginning. You left us.

On good terms, right?

In the beginning, yeah, but not when you dipped off and left.

Dipped off and left?

No, in the beginning it was a mutual thing. You was coming back. You wasn't staying gone. And then you just up and decided to leave in the middle of the night.

Hold on, so whose time am I on? Your time or my time?

You're on the kids' time.

I have to build.

You're on the kids' time. I don't turn it off.

You're on the kids' time.

Don't sit here and be a sucker. Don't be a smartass about it.

I can be a smartass, but it's not—

Because when I was pouring my time into it, where were you?

At home with my kids and you.

Can we get this over with? 'Cause this is— Yeah, I actually wanna get to these results.

Let's get to these results. We have the truth right here. The DNA outcome is in this envelope. This is for your first child. And we have a second one for your second child. This will confirm if you are their father or if you are not. I'll give you the first envelope so that you can open it and find out.

Thank you. The only reason I question anything was because you were never there with me.

Open the results, man.

Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

Just open it.

I wanna know, yeah.

Just open it.

Kody is my biological son.

Thank you.

Thank you. Oh. Make sure you keep that. Oh, I'mma keep it.

Make sure. Put it on TikTok, social media. That's where you get your happiness.

Kody, Camila is your biological daughter. Yay! Weird. Thank you.

It's weird how that happens.

Thank you.

You got answers. But I noticed something. I'm glad you got your answers. I'm glad you know this. But there's something that I realized very quickly. What's going on in your head right now? You happy?

It's just so much pain. I've been in pain this whole time.

I feel you, but the pain, what I wrote here is your pain is overshadowing your feelings for your kids in this moment. Because even when your ex gave you this letter you get a letter from your child, instead of taking a moment to process their feelings and what they're experiencing, your hurt that you experienced in this long-term relationship that has been over overshadowed you diving into that. And I've even, when before you about to open the results and get the results, you also have to start attacking. And I get it. I see where the breakdown is. I see some of your insecurities, your self-esteem issues, how they've affected your mental health. I see the same for you and I've seen how you shut down, how there's a lack of communication. I can understand why he feels like there's a lack of empathy. I could see all of that. I understand all of that. But at the end of the day, if your concern is the kids, then it doesn't matter. And I think now that you know that these are your kids, you have to make sure and do the work. And I actually believe you will, but you can't allow your feelings that you've had in the past that you've had to ever seep into what you're feeling about these kids. Because I, again, I respect you to wanting to take a sabbatical, but at the end of the day for you, it's like, I'm taking away from you, I'm getting away from you, I'm clearing my mind. But that little boy, that little girl are sitting there like, he's leaving us.

He's leaving us. They need me to be clear also.

I know, I'm not saying, I'm not saying they don't need you to be clear. I feel like you understand what it is to have parents who don't communicate what moves and actions they're making. And how when they don't tell you what it is, how you make up those own, your stories in your mind. Because I even hear that through with assumption, 'cause I don't know, that I'm sure you didn't have a lot of family support in your life, that there wasn't a lot of people that you could turn to.

No nothing.

So you didn't have anybody. And now here it is, you're trying to get yourself together, which I agree, we all gotta be mentally sound, but those kids are not gonna understand that. And when your son wrote you a letter and said, "You missed my practice, but there was something you said in that letter that really hit." He said, "Why did you leave me?" That was a clear indication that no matter what you two are going through and what you've experienced, you don't want him to be 31 days on the stage saying, "My father left me." And he needs you. He needs you.

I never wanted to leave you.

I know.

I never wanted to leave you.

I know, but the unfortunate part is that you did. And I get that. I get it that it was for you to get yourself together.

Together.

I get it. But at this point now, there has to be more communication. This relationship is done. You both have clearly shown—

It's toast.

Toast, done, finished. But now at the end of the day, this is where the co-parenting starts. This is where the only priority has to be, every time, has to be those kids. Every time you want to say something to her, you have to redirect and channel that energy towards love towards your kids.

Transmutation.

You gotta rechannel that. A parent missing for a year, 2 years, they feel as if they've been gone their entire life.

And I've been crying every night. I cry every night.

I get it.

I was losing myself entirely. I had to go.

He misses his dad. I hear that all the time.

They miss you. And I'm not telling you that you gotta move or do whatever. I can't control that. But what I know is that what I saw on the stage of the pain y'all have can't, can't affect these kids anymore. Well, I'm glad that y'all were here and I'm glad that you have your answers. I'm sorry that there was such a breakdown in whatever y'all had together, but at the end of the day, you now know and you've seen it. I just need to tell you, rechannel that energy because these kids need you. So I wish y'all the best of luck and I wish y'all and those kids the best of luck as well. Good luck to both of y'all, all right? Want more unlocked phones, DNA reveals, and family drama? Then make sure you're subscribed to the Karamo Show YouTube.