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You shouldn’t have to be the villain in your own story. #karamoshow

26 Sept 2024 · 1 min

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In this segment of the Karamo Show, the host addresses a marital conflict where a wife has set personal boundaries that her husband fails to uphold. The husband’s lack of support forces the wife into a position where she feels cast as the family’s villain, especially in the eyes of their child. The speaker emphasizes that the wife should not have to endure continual emotional battles or “take a beating” because of the husband’s inaction. The core message urges husbands to actively back their partners’ boundaries, relieving the wife from the role of the perpetual fighter and preventing her from being stuck in the middle of family dynamics.

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She sets her boundaries. As her husband, you're supposed to support those boundaries. True. Exactly. But because you're not supporting those boundaries, of course the child involved seems like, well, my dad is being controlled, which is then causing her to be in the middle of this situation. But this is the thing, when you start comparing a child to something else and not getting support from the father, you become the villain. And that's the issue. I take it. That's the issue. But you shouldn't have to take it. You shouldn't have to take it. I've been taking a beating my whole life. But you shouldn't have to. I know. You shouldn't have to. I'm a fighter. But you shouldn't have to. I'm a fighter. But you shouldn't have to. And that's the reality. That's the reality. You shouldn't have to. And that's where it goes to you because as her husband, you should have been the one to step up and support her in these boundaries. Support her so she doesn't have to be the fighter. What I'm telling them is I'm stuck in the middle. You're not. She's stuck in the middle. Let me be clear.