A couple together four years are stuck in constant arguments that are eroding who they are. Karamo points out the paradox: they love each other but feel forced to fight for that love. He says love shouldn't require continual battle.
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You both are attractive, beautiful people. You both have great personalities. You both probably are the joy to be around, but you're not a joy to be around with each other anymore. And that's the sad part. And what's happening is that it's affecting y'all's personalities. It's affecting who y'all are becoming. And if you keep practicing this type of behavior where you're always accusing somebody, you're always feeling paranoid, you're always feeling like you have to argue, this becomes who you are and this will affect you mentally and emotionally in a way that is devastating. Deep, where is this how you wanna spend the next 20, 30 years of your life? No. Where you're arguing? No, I don't. Okay, well, it's been 4 years. 4 years. I'm done. I'm done. Well, what's going through your mind? 'Cause I know that's hard for you to say. He really is. 'Cause I know you love him. Yeah. I know you do. That's why y'all been fighting for this. Yeah. Because y'all love each other. But you shouldn't have to fight for love. No.