Your Sister Says You Cheat…Unlock Your Phone! | KARAMO

Hey, y'all.

All right, listen. When your significant other starts to hiding their phone from you, blocking you, and lying about their whereabouts, you know there is a problem in your relationship and it's going to be questioned. So my next guest, Key, says she has had enough and is ready to unlock her man's phone. His very own sister tells Key that lies are being told. His sister, y'all. Now, her best friend is telling her to ditch him, and yet, she says she still needs to see for herself. So first, let's bring out Key to get her side of the story. Hey, Key.

Hey.

That's a cute outfit. Thank you. How you doing? Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you too. Take a seat. All right, so tell me what happened with Dontez.

Well, the other day I was on Bree Way. You know what Bree Way is?

Yes, I do.

Okay, that's the, well, for people that don't know, that's the protest where we protested for Breonna Taylor.

Mm-hmm.

That's where we always are when I wait to pick him up from work. This day he didn't come. So I kept calling and calling and calling. I'm like, gosh, it's really pissed me off. I'm like, why isn't Dontez answering the phone? So I called his sister, she didn't answer. So I called his friend. And when I called his friend, he was like, he's over Nay's, which is his sister. So I called Nay back, she answered the phone. I'm like, "Nay, is Dontez there?" She was like, "Girl, no." So there go that feeling, he's lying again. That's what he do. It's a pattern, it's what he always do. So I text him, then he text me back. He was like, "Hey babe, I'm over Nay's." So I was like, "No, you not, you lying again." So then he was like—

'Cause she just told you he was up there.

She just told me, yeah. So then he was like, "I'mma prove it to you. I'm about to FaceTime you." And you know FaceTime on the money. So FaceTime me now. Took him 20 minutes. 20 minutes. So finally he FaceTimed me. I'm over Nate. I said, I bet now. You know?

Are you and Nate close? Are you and his sister close?

Yes, my friend.

So you believe her?

Yeah, I believe everything she say.

Of course. And is this something that reoccurs with him all the time?

It's a habit.

How long has it been going on?

But I love him, so you know, it's hard to, when you love somebody, it's hard to shake it.

So how long has it been going on, this recurring pattern of like telling you lies?

For about 4 or 5 months.

4 or 5 months. And how did it start?

The first time I was with my cousin and I was supposed to pick him up and when I got to the place he wasn't there. So when I called, no answer again.

So do you have proof from his phone that he has been cheating?

No, he won't even let me touch that phone. That's why I'm here.

Oh yes, sir.

Like we take pictures and I'll be like, "Baby, let me see that phone." "No, no, I'm gonna send it to you." Like, I can't touch your phone? It's just a phone. Sleeps with it under the pillow. When he is home.

And I know your cousin's here today and she's part of the audience, right? Rosie? She's Rosie? Where Rosie at? Okay, let me come talk to Rosie for a little bit.

You brought Rosie here, not me.

Okay, let me hear what Rosie gotta say. Rosie, how you doing?

I'm doing.

Rosie, I already see your face, girl. Let me know, what are you feeling?

I mean, I love my cousin to death.

I love you too.

And I feel that she rushed in this relationship too soon. And he's not trustworthy.

I don't think I did, I don't think I did. You single, so you won't understand.

You know, and I'm gonna be single until I find a man that's gonna treat me right and not cheat on me and all that. So I'm good, you know, I love myself. If y'all not gonna do it and do it right, then y'all don't need to be together. Point blank, period.

Rosie, I appreciate your perspective.

Yeah, thank you so much. Anybody else have something to say on this? Yeah, come on over.

I just feel like before you find love, sometimes you gotta love yourself. And so just make sure you're loving yourself before anyone else, before giving that love away.

Beautiful statement. Yes, I appreciate that. Yes. You have two people here who are telling you, your cousin, you have a complete stranger who's saying, I don't know if you're loving yourself, that if you're giving yourself the self-love that you deserve. I think it's time to bring Dontez out and see what he has to say about everything we've heard. So let's go ahead and bring Dontez to the show.

Uh-huh.

Sitting up here lying to these people. I ain't cheated on you not one time.

I didn't say you cheated.

Okay. Dontez, nice to meet you, man. Hi, how's it going? How do you feel about what Keith said?

Man, she's sitting up here making up a lie, man. She's over, she's controlling. She wants to be the boss.

I'm not controlling.

And I ain't ready for all that right now.

So my question is, before he even came out, you picked a tissue up and I see you getting emotional. He didn't even come out yet. What's going on?

'Cause I'm ready for this unlock.

The phone? Okay, we gotta still, listen, we gonna get to unlocking the phone, but I got to get his side of the story. Do you feel like you need to lie to her?

Yeah.

You do? Why?

Because she's controlling. She wants to go through my phone. She calls me 15,000 times. I say I'm going to my daddy's house.

Okay, 'cause you lied.

She's gonna call me soon as I walk out the house. And ask me what am I doing, why am I doing that.

'Cause you say you're over Naze and you don't be over Naze. I'll be over Naze. So just tell the truth. And I won't have to call you 20 times.

So you're saying you admitting that you do have to lie because she's controlling you, then where are you then in those times when you're not at your father's side?

I might be with my kids. I go to football games with my sons. I'll be with my stepmother, baby mother.

So you at football games till midnight?

Sometimes.

Kids football games?

Yeah.

Oh.

One of the big things that I thought was interesting is that she has called your sister and your sister has said to her, "Hey, my sister's a hater too." Oh.

She's a hater too.

So I guess I know how you feel about your sister being involved.

Man, because we grew up together. That's supposed to be my dog. That's my sister.

Girl code.

So that's what they teaming up and saying is girl code.

It's girl code. It's bros over, you know, what y'all say. So why can't we have a girl code?

Damn.

But that's your sister. Your sister's the one saying, listen, he's not here, he's lying.

I'm not about to lie to you. How do you feel about everything so far?

And I didn't believe my sister was doing that at first until I got a call from somebody from your show and my sister was in it. So I know she's been telling her some things that—

Okay, so what about you FaceTiming me from Nays and you wasn't there?

What was I at?

Until 20 minutes later, then you FaceTimed me from there.

Okay.

So where was you before then?

I don't know.

We'll figure that out. So is there— So Dontez, I'm gonna ask you right now, is there anything that your sister can say to me or to Key to let us know that you actually are lying and cheating?

Nope.

Okay.

I just don't tell her. It's not lying, I just don't tell her nothing.

Well, I think it's time—

Why not?

Well, I think it's going time to go ahead and bring out Nay and hear her side of the story. So let's go ahead and bring out Dontez's sister Nay and hear what she has to say about the relationship.

He's a hater. He's crazy.

Nay, how are you doing? Good to meet you. So let's find out right now, do you ever tell your brother to stop lying?

Yes.

Okay, and why do you have to tell him that?

Because as we done got older, back now, as he said, back in our younger days, I did laugh for him. I did, I might cover up for him anything. We're older now. If I get hurt, he's hurt. So it's not fair to him to hurt another woman. Plus I'm a woman of empowerment.

Talk about it.

I don't want my Black women to be let down over just being dogged to be dogged. That's why I do that. That's where it's come, that's where it is.

And how does it make you feel to know your brother's acting like this? You said you want Black women to feel empowered.

I know his heart. I know he's better than that.

Yeah.

It might be something, it might be the last relationship, that's where he's turned the next woman down. It might be, that's what it is. 'Cause I know he's really not even—

But that's not fair for me though.

You are my sister though.

So?

You ain't supposed to be going against me.

It's not that I'm going against you.

You ain't supposed to tell nothing neither.

I don't tell. I just say, did you come over my house? No, he ain't over my house.

She told the truth.

Nah, he ain't over my house.

So I didn't let him.

He ain't over my house.

You should've called.

He over his daddy house, but he ain't over my house. He might be over Trane's, but he ain't over my house.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I get it. How do you feel about being caught in the middle?

It's not. I just want him.

You a hater. That's what you are.

I am a woman of empowerment.

She's not a hater.

I want all of us to not be dogged by nobody just because you've been hurt or somebody— hurt people hurt people.

Yeah.

But you are my sister. You know what I'm saying?

It don't matter who's sister, who's not sister. It's called human.

She got 2 baby moms. I ain't told them that.

Yes, he does. But you my friend. My last relationship. The more as I was hurt, it hurt him. So it wouldn't make no difference for you to hurt her.

Yes, got it.

My brothers don't want me to be hurt like my cousin.

I wanna know from you, do you think that your brother is using Key?

I don't wanna say he's more using her because my thing is a person only gonna do what you allow him to let you do. So if you keep allowing him do you like that, he's gonna continue to do you like that.

All right, so listen, before I get to the unlock the phone results, Key, I wanna know, is there anything that you wanna say to Dontez?

I just wanna know the truth. Like, keep it real with me, you know?

I ain't cheating on you.

It's all we're here for is to make sure he ain't cheating on me. It solves all the problems.

I just need the real truth.

All right, well listen, we unlocked your phone and as you know, we go extensively through your phone.

I got that feeling in my stomach.

We go through every single app, text messages, emails, location services. Everything. So when you saying you at football games, are you at football games? Oh, you smiling now.

Sometimes I'm at the football game.

Okay.

Sometimes, not all the time.

Most of the time.

Okay, well listen, we have unlocked your phone and so we're gonna be going through every single thing. All right, so Key, you asked us some specific questions about other women, about the football games, about sites on his phone, about everything. I'm gonna go through those for you one by one. So when it comes to nudity of women on his phone, the only woman that we found on his phone was you.

Told you I wasn't cheating on you. I tried to tell you, I tried to love you, I tried to be there for you.

You just didn't do your part. All right, the question, we still got a lot more. When it comes to the question of him being at football games, watching football games with other people, going to kids' football games, is he lying? And we tracked location services. Each of the times that he has texted you to say, we looked at location services and we have found that he has always been at those games. There was nothing found on his phone that could show that he was cheating.

I told you I wouldn't.

Okay.

No, 'cause your whole thing is—

Is he sorry is the question.

Your question is— So the thing is, is that he's told us right now that he was doing this because he felt like he was being harassed in some way. And I'm not saying that's the proper behavior, but we now understand why he was doing it. Do you have anything to say to him?

My bad. What do you want me to say? I don't wanna be sorry. Not my bad. My bad. What you want me to say? Sorry?

Okay, then you know what?

All right.

All right, so how do you feel about those results?

I'm proud of you.

That's right.

You was right this time.

Not my bad and I'm proud of you.

I'm right.

I ain't gonna say that 'cause that was, you accused this man of cheating.

Yeah. You would too if you was with the one I was with.

Listen, I'm not in your relationship. I'm just saying that's what you had said. All right, so the question is, Dontez, you have been found to have not cheated. There was nothing on your phone. Do you wanna stay with, what do you wanna say to Keith?

I don't wanna be in no relationship with you. I just want you to lose my phone number. Don't call me or none of that. I'm done, okay?

It's done. I didn't see that coming. I did not see that coming. I'm sorry. I did not see that coming. I'm very sorry. I did not see that coming. I'm very sorry. I did not see that coming.

It's others. It's okay. It's not the first loss. It's not how you fall, but how you get up. You okay. You are okay. You do not need no man to make you. You don't need no man to make you. You make you. Honestly, you don't need no man. Okay.

You come up here. You come on up here. You come on up here. Because I think this is a moment to rally around. This is a moment to rally around her. This is a moment to rally around.

You good, it's okay.

It's okay. Because what we've seen here is that what we heard earlier is that there needs to be a moment of Key having moments of self-love. That's what we saw. This is the time. Yeah.

The person only gonna treat you how you allow 'em to treat you.

Yes.

You allowed him to treat you like that and this is the outcome of it.

You know what I mean?

Key, Key, I want you to know this. You already see right now, even Nay is still around you. She's surrounding you. Your cousin's here. You have love around you.

I know that you're gonna be my brother, but she still don't have to be dying like that.

Exactly. And I know that you, I know you are feeling like, damn, I just had loss right now. Someone just lost me. But you look at the love you have, you understand? And I think this is a moment for you to really reflect and say maybe what your cousin is saying about taking a moment to find some love, to do stuff for yourself.

You can't love somebody if you don't love self.

Yes.

You think you love self. You don't love self because you loving the wrong person.

So I already see I see, and what I love about this is I see y'all being here to support her. Would you be willing to support her to practice her self-love more? Because I do believe that you're trying to love yourself and you're doing things, but I think there needs to be a little bit more work there.

Self-love.

You know what I mean? And the more that you have that self-love, you'll be able to recognize things that say, you know what, I can't put up with this from the beginning and I'm gonna move on. 'Cause I love myself. Can you feel that? And look at these women. These women are here to support you.

They love you.

I love y'all. Yeah, and they love you too. But I want you to work on that self-love with yourself, all right? I'll be all right. You're gonna be all right. Hold on, where you going? I'll tell you where you're going. Right here to subscribe, and right here to watch more. Period.