You're a Lying, Cheating, Bully...Unlock Your Phone! | KARAMO

I'm so sorry to hear. You found your boyfriend cheating?

Yes, multiple times.

Oh, and it blows my mind because, okay, let's get to the bottom of this. So how often have you caught him cheating?

Since we started dating.

Since you started dating, okay. And did you catch him cheating actually in the act or was it just?

No, I went through his phone.

Oh, okay. And each time you went through his phone.

It was something new. A bitch here, a bitch there, bitches everywhere.

Everywhere. How long have y'all been together?

We've been together for 8 months.

8 months together. Okay, so this is a brand new relationship.

Yes.

And he's already in this?

Yes.

Behavior. And I was told you block numbers from his phone.

I blocked a girl one time from his phone just to see what he would do. He unblocked her straight away.

He unblocked her?

Yes.

What do you see in the text messages What are some of the messages that he sends?

Oh, he tells them they look good. Are they okay? Do they need their tank filled up? Like when they meet up places and they link up, I guess they have sex.

So he's meeting up with them and having sex?

Yes.

Got it. And why are you staying?

I guess because I love him and I really feel like he could change. Like I see potential in him that nobody else does. I'm sorry.

Your emotions are attached.

Yes.

So has he ever admitted to cheating?

Only when like I tell him that I already know about it, then he'll admit and say, "Oh, he forgot." And every time you forgave him? Yes.

And so his response again is that he forgot?

Mm-hmm.

He forgot?

Yes, and that he won't ever do it again.

Not he forgot.

Yes, he forgot.

Okay.

And that's what I be saying, like how the fuck do you forget something like that?

Yeah. So, but why are you forgiving him?

I guess because I love him, honestly.

I know you said this seems intentional and you love him, but I still don't get the why.

I really don't understand it myself. It's kind of hard to walk away 'cause I put like everything into it, so it feels like a waste of my time, honestly.

Got it. Do you two live together?

We used to live together.

When did you stop living together?

We stopped living together in January.

January, you moved out and got off the lease? Okay. And was he upset by that?

The same day that I moved out, he had a bitch in the house, so he couldn't have been that upset.

Got it. So you're paying for his cell phone, correct?

I paid it that one time 'cause he didn't have it.

Okay, you paid all the bills in the house?

Yes.

Did you pay the rent?

Yes.

You were paying the rent as well?

Yes.

Does he have a job?

Yes.

A full-time job? Okay, when was the last time he cheated?

Oh, December.

December, okay. And that, well actually it sounds like, well the girl was there in January, so.

Oh, these are all different bitches. They're never the same.

Okay. Okay, I got enough about this context of this. I think I need to talk to him. Everyone welcome La'Ron. Hey La'Ron, how you doing? Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you too.

So how do you feel about what you said?

It was just crazy, like, and she knowing I met her at the, like, she's a dancer.

Oh yeah, I am a dancer. And what about it?

And it's like, the things I told her before is like, I love her, I trust her and all that, but at the same time, I want her to grow.

So you feel like just because I'm a dancer, I can't grow as a person?

She ain't always gotta set herself at one spot to do one thing type stuff.

But you knew what I was doing, you met me there.

So why you bring up the dancing? You think it's 'cause she's cheating on you there or something?

Nah, it's not even just that. It's just like I had started a business, right? So it's like I want her to be on the same type of time that I'm on too. Like I want her to get out the dancing. You ain't gotta do that.

Got it.

You can set more goals to be higher than yourself. You ain't gotta set no limits.

Well, until I do that, I have to dance. I have a kid to provide for.

But hold on, listen, listen, I understand that.

Are you gonna provide for us?

I understand that though, but listen, That's a side hustle. You still make money. You got a business. A business—

Not fast enough.

Comes quick.

So I don't wanna get derailed. Her job bothers you, right?

It really don't, but yes.

It does, 'cause it's part of the reason you're saying this. But I think what's more interesting is that she talked about all these times you've cheated and your complaint out here was about her job. How did you two meet and why are you cheating?

We met at her job.

You met at her job?

Yeah.

Got it. And why are you cheating?

All right.

When was the last time you spoke to a woman?

Probably about a month ago.

A month ago, okay then. And why not just break up with her? If her job bothers you and you are seeing other women, why stay?

I tried to leave. But it's just like I love her too much that I can't explain it.

But how do you love her if you cheat on me like that? That don't make sense.

So love equals cheating for you?

No.

Does love equal disrespect?

No.

Okay.

And you're very disrespectful.

Both of us disrespectful?

No, you're very disrespectful. You call me outta my name. The only time I get disrespectful with you is when you get disrespectful with me. You always saying that. I'm not gonna have respect for you if you're disrespecting me. That's not how shit works.

My producer said you call her names like dog, slut, whore, bitch. Is that true? Freak that shit.

No, I don't say all that. I only said, I said one word probably.

What?

I called you a bitch the other day.

The other day?

Yes.

That was yesterday.

My producer told me that you have a thing about love languages.

What's your love language?

What's your love language?

Hustle, me and her getting our money together, growing, building.

Okay. That's not a love language that they, but. Do you see a future with her?

Yeah.

Are you sure? 'Cause I can't tell.

Do you think she's cheating on you?

I mean, it's hard to find out like shit. Yeah, but no.

He says he, no, I don't wanna hear that shit. He says that he fully trusts me, has a lot of trust in me, but at the same time still think I'm cheating. That doesn't make sense. And I feel like the only reason he thinks I'm cheating Is because one, I work at the strip club, but also because he's doing this shit.

Got it.

And he's self-reflecting onto me.

And how old are you? How old are you?

How old are you?

How old am I, bro?

He's 22.

22, okay.

She's sitting here lying.

You're not 22?

I'm 22, but I'm saying you sitting here just lying.

What am I lying about? Please elaborate.

'Cause you over here thinking I'm just cheating just to be cheating though. Like, okay, I probably—

So why you cheating then? Why you cheating?

But hold on, wait, I probably fucked up sometimes, but you know I know what you do too though.

What do I do? Elaborate, please tell me.

Send out pictures.

To who?

Where's the proof?

Other guys.

That you make up in your head.

Okay.

You assume.

Okay.

You've never actually caught me doing anything.

Okay.

How have I cheated on you?

Do you have any proof of anything you've caught her with?

I had the proof, but I had deleted it before.

Okay.

I ain't even show you, type.

You didn't show me?

No.

Why would you have to show me if I already seen it if I'm the one that did it?

All right.

Has this relationship ever got physical?

Yeah, I've hit him before.

Okay, you've hit him before? Got it. Have you hit her back?

Yeah, probably grabbed her a little.

Okay, yes, okay. What models of love do you have?

My mom and father.

Okay, what's their relationship like?

They're good, they real tight.

They're real tight?

Yes, sir.

What's your models of love?

I don't have any, honestly.

Okay. All right, so I think it's time to unlock these phones. Zytasia, we're gonna unlock your phone first. All right, so the question that you had, Leron, is you want to know if Zytasia has been anywhere suspicious. Zytasia says she does not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her GPS and found that Zytasia is Telling the truth. She hasn't been anywhere suspicious at all. Laron, you want to know if Zytasia has been corresponding with any men. Zytasia says she has not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched her apps and found that she is telling the truth. Laron, you also want to know if Zytasia has been texting with any men. Zytasia says she's not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her texts and found she's telling the truth.

Can you apologize to me?

I think we already knew that was gonna happen. I think you knew that as well, right? And I think we already know what's gonna happen in here, but let's go ahead and do it. Leron, it's time to unlock your phone. All right, Zytasia, you wanna know if Leron has unblocked specific women on his phone. Leron says he did not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his phone and found that Leron is not telling the truth. Leron has 19,000 contacts in his phone. My Unlock the Phone investigator, the reason we're pointing that out is because that is highly unusual. If you go to the bottom of your scrolling to your contacts, you'll see most of us has 300, 400. 19,000 is ridiculously suspicious.

No, that's crazy.

19,000 is insane.

19,000.

Yes, 19,000. He also found that the specific woman was added in December and is not currently blocked. So she's also added on TextNow, Facebook, TikTok, and Instagram.

Damn, everything. You just watching her on every shit. You love her, don't you?

All right, so Zytasia, you want to know if Leron has been talking to any other women. Leron says he's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his apps and found that Leron is not telling the truth. He found 54 interactions with women on his TextNow app.

I actually thought it was gonna be more than that.

Zytasia wants to know if Laron has any explicit texts on his phone. Laron says he does not. Mind Lock the Phone investigators searched his texts and he's not telling the truth. We found 15 suspicious texts from other specific women starting December 18th through January 10th.

Damn.

Some texts were deleted.

For real?

Zateja, don't act surprised, girl.

Zateja, you wanna know if, you know.

'Cause ain't nothing about surprise.

Zateja, you wanna know if Laron has any explicit photos on his phone? Laron says he does not. Unlock the phone, investigators searched his photos and found he is not telling the truth. He found two sexually explicit photos just recently.

I mean, it's just him with other girls.

All right.

Here, these are the photos and you can see the list of women. This is, we just took two only.

Just him with another girl and all his TextNow apps.

Damn near every bitch I know in here.

Wow.

Leron, I gotta ask a question for you. Why are you holding your head down? Don't act surprised, girl. You want to know if you know. Cause ain't nothing about surprise. Dante, you want to know if Laron has any explicit photos on his phone. Laron says he does not mon lock the phone. Investigators searched his photos and found he is not telling the truth. He found two sexually explicit photos just recently. I mean, it's just him with other girls. All right, So I'm going to say quickly because you're young, I don't believe you when you tell me that the models of love you have in your life are the ones you express to me. Because the behavior you have as a 21-year-old, 22-year-old man comes from somewhere else. This is not something where you just one day developed, I'm going to have this habitual habit at 22 of lying, using, manipulating this amount of women. There is somebody who's informing you in your life that manhood is equated with how you treat and how many women desire you. These behaviors, if not checked now, become who you are. They become your personality. And you end up being 30, 40, manipulating, using women, talking to different women, and you're gonna find that that's an isolating and lonely situation. One of the things you learn as a man is that when you get a real connection, especially the real connection from a woman who's going to support you and hold you down, that's the best part of your life. That will always be the best part of your life. And then to build a family with that, it's gonna be important.

That's my goal and hope for you. But at the end of the day, you have been completely disrespectful to her, so I'm done with you. Thank you.

You can leave my stage. Oh. Okay, I didn't need to waste my time unlocking his phone. I figured this out in the first 3 minutes of you telling me you're walking in the house. What I'm going to do is spend a little bit of time with you alone, sister, I wanted to ask you and for us to dig deeper right now because that's really what this show's about. We can do all the like unlocking the phone, but that's not important to me. This is for me to understand and get context of what's really going on with you. You were 21 years old. You also just told me that you didn't have any models of love in your life. This is where you gotta start digging deep. And I'm gonna ask you the first question. Do you think this was what you deserve?

No, not at all.

Now I don't want you, when I ask you this next question, I don't wanna hear you say it's because I love or because of You have so much potential. Why were you staying in something that you knew you didn't deserve?

I guess I just didn't wanna give up on him. I just don't wanna make him feel abandoned because I know what that feels like.

Got it. I need you to choose yourself. You will find your path and you need to find your path.

Yes.

But you're not gonna do that until you understand your own worth. So I pray and I ask you that you do this work. You do this work. You're gonna say to yourself.

I did not deserve to be abandoned.

And then when you start talking to a man, you're gonna say to yourself, I'm a good mother because, and if that man doesn't match those qualities, what are you gonna do?

Throw them off.

Got it. All right, listen everyone, thank you for being with us. Make sure to come back next time, friends, so we can keep talking and growing. I love you all. Come give me a hug.