You're Trying To Trap My Son, That's Not My Grandchild! | KARAMO

I really don't think baby Christina is my son's daughter. There is no connection. The child always screaming when I pick her up, like I did something to her, like I hurt her or something. I mean, she's pushing my face and she don't even want to look me in the eye or nothing. She's turning her whole body like this. No baby ain't supposed to act like that towards their grandmother. I don't get it. Diamond does not deserve to be in a relationship with my son. He can do a whole lot better than her. I can't really say she's a ho. I never seen her out on the corner. But I can tell you this much, she's lazy. You don't want me to say the word. You can't change a ho to a housewife. My son called me and told me that she took his child to another man's house, her other baby daddy. Huh. Now what kind of mama would take another man's child to another man's house? My question is, is you telling him he's her daddy? Bitch, I really don't think that's his baby. Mama ain't raise no damn fool. I ain't about to let him sit there and play no lollipop and sucker all these years, just go on taking care of her and her 4 children when allegedly one is supposed to be his? Please. My son Chris is a good kid. That's my job, to protect him. And that's what I'm gonna do. So Ms. Diamond, you better have your shit together.

Oh, she had a lot to say. Okay, listen, I got some questions for Marianne. So I'd like to go ahead and bring her on out. Everyone, please welcome Marianne to the show. How are you, Maryann? You look beautiful.

Thank you. Absolutely.

Nice to meet you. You too. Maryann, come on. How you look so gorgeous and got that mouth? I don't understand. OK. Why do you think that Christina acts differently around you?

You know what? I would like to know why she act differently around me. Miss Thing, I mean.

Not Miss Thing.

Yes, Miss Thing should really dig harder into who her baby daddy is because my grandkids, they love me. All my grandkids, we look alike. We all look just alike. We got the high cheekbones. Now my son was born with a big old head, okay? When I say big, I mean it's like a big mountain on the back of his head, okay? So all his, kids was born with that, you know, mountain on the back of their head. Okay, down to the females. And it's kind of sad when the females have the big head too, but they do. Yeah, but this baby, no big head. The head is not— that rock is not there.

So let me be clear, because they're still together, right?

Unfortunately.

Okay, unfortunately. But that means that you're calling your son's girlfriend a hoe.

Listen, I wrote the book on hoes, okay? Okay.

Tell me about chapter 1. What's in this book you wrote? Okay.

Let me tell you something, okay? There's a saying, okay? Be a cook in the kitchen, a lady in the street. You can't show your thighs to every guy you meet.

Okay, okay, okay.

All right.

I think we all just learned chapter 1 and 2 and 3, okay? Thanks to this brother right here. You got me. Well, listen, I think it's time to talk to Diamond and get her side of the story. So everyone, please welcome Diamond to the show. Thank you for being here.

Thank you. First and foremost, what just confuses me about this whole situation right here, to hear her talk all this nonsense back there. First and foremost, I don't have any brothers. My sister's relationships that they've been in, I called them my brothers.

I understand.

For one. For two, never left the house for no 3 days to go get no bread and never came back. That's for two. And for three, this is the problem now. He's a mama's boy. You stay in everybody's business. I don't lay down with her. I don't stay with her. I have my own crib. I stay in my own apartment. Why are you always into our situation? And for Chris to be calling this mother, trying to make it seem like I'm just out here just being this hoe. Dang, I'm so confused. Where this hoe at?

But right there, boo.

Where's this hoe?

So what are you hoping will happen with these results today? What do you want to happen?

I want resolution. I mean, I just want a peace of mind.

Mm-hmm.

And if it ain't my son, all hell gonna break loose on this stage. Security! Listen, okay?

Okay.

First of all, the reason why it's my business, because it's my son.

Okay.

Okay?

This is why your son not gonna have a relationship. It's because of you. This is exactly why.

He's not— Well, that'll be the best thing that ever happened to him.

Yes!

Yes!

Are you telling me that? Do you think that this interaction between Marianne is doing is affecting your relationship with Chris?

Yes, it is.

In what ways?

Because me and Chris could be sitting there in the crib, we'll be, first of all, I cook all the time 'cause Chris does not know how to cook. That's something his mother should have taught him. But yeah, so anyways, we could be in there.

Well, your mama should have taught you how to be a lady in the streets.

Oh, I don't be in the streets, that's for one. For two, we could be in there laying down, chilling or whatever, watching a movie, whatever the case may be. Here come the mother calling. Let me tell you about this, son. Let me tell you this. And Chris be sitting on the phone for hours. They talk about nothing. They talk about coffee. What type of ground of coffee she like to drink. What is that? So we gotta stop. How would you know?

You always on your cell phone texting other men.

Actually, not texting other men. After your son done cheated first.

Didn't my son video you talking to your baby daddy? I think that baby daddy is the father of Chris' kid.

That's not a problem. That's not a problem that I can't talk to my other child's father.

Hold on, so you're saying that his, Chris cheated first?

Yes, Chris did.

Oh my gosh. Did you know that?

That's why I started texting somebody.

I ain't heard nothing like that.

Yeah, I started texting somebody, but I never met up with this person. I never had sex with this person. It was just conversation. That's all.

Well, there's somebody else that is involved in this. Like you said, your child's father. And I think I'm ready to meet Chris.

If I'm the grandmother.

Hear what Chris has to say about all of this. So everyone, please welcome Chris to the show. Chris, nice to meet you. Nice to meet you, man.

How you doing, man?

I'm good. So do you feel like your mother has overstepped her boundaries in this?

Yeah, yeah, you know.

Diamond said that you intentionally trapped her with this baby. Did you?

Didn't.

Yeah, I intentionally trapped you?

Didn't.

When did you feel trapped? Before or after I was buying the kids clothes?

Or before or after he paid you to screw you?

He didn't pay her.

Do you have evidence of Diamond cheating?

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Physically cheating? I met up and I just had sex. I'm this big-ass hoe.

What is the evidence you have that is her being unfaithful?

Well, first of all, her son said, "We spent the night at Daddy house two days." That don't mean I had sex with him though. After his birthday.

That don't mean I had sex with him though.

The day on his birthday.

But if you felt like I had sex with somebody that same exact day, what you did, Chris, when I came home? What you do?

I wanna go ahead and take a look at—

But I got text messages though.

I wanna take a look at what you found in Diamond's phone. These are the DMs that you found in her phone?

Sure is.

"I bet you won't send me no pics of that pretty thing when I come up. I'll see you, I'mma blank, give you some of this." The ho she is. "You always been playing. Hope you really coming. You talking about—" Okay, hold on. So basically. Hold on. So you. But you sent this to another man saying that?

Yeah, it was just conversation.

He lives all but now conversation. Talking about you go send me a. We gonna have sex.

And I never sent no pictures. Show me a picture.

Okay. Oh, okay. When was this? How long?

That was in April.

And so you found these texts in her phone, Chris, right? Yeah. Oh, yeah. Okay.

Ask him how far she had it.

She told me she cheated. She told me she cheated on him before and that she was sorry. No, no, no, no, no.

You say you broke up with me and I came and I told Chris, my son, I slept with my baby father that time, didn't I, Chris?

Don't lie. Oh, so hold on.

Oh, okay. I gotta back up because earlier— She didn't tell me nothing. Earlier when we talked— I called him.

Hold on.

Earlier when we talked about behavior, you said, yes, I go to my baby father's house because we're just friends.

No, but this was way, this was before when I was staying with my sister.

But you said that they was just friends, but prior to that you had a relationship while y'all lived together. Oh yeah, that's my son's father. But you slept with him. Yeah. Okay, okay. But do you understand how that can cause trust issues?

Yeah, that can.

Okay then. Chris, you sent a picture of you and her best friend?

Chris sent that to me of him in a hotel with my best friend after he got done screwing her and they took a picture and sent it to me.

Okay, so lemme back up. So Diamond, you're telling me that you brought proof here of Chris sleeping with your best friend?

Yep. He took that picture and he sent it to me. He said, 'Cause I was a disrespectful hoe, that's what he went and did. What? But I never did anything. After this, that's when I started talking to the boy.

Chris, so you said you slept with her best friend?

It wasn't even like that. It wasn't like that.

This say 4:55 AM.

I mean, it happened, but it didn't happen like that, you know?

So did you sleep with her best friend?

Yes or no? Yes. Yeah, yeah.

And then you sent your child's mother a photo saying you disrespectful.

And that's what he did.

I mean, technically that's my ex-girlfriend.

Okay, are you still communicating? Are you still communicating with her?

I don't communicate with her. I don't, me and her, it's just, it's like a hi and bye.

So how many times in this relationship have you cheated? And how many times have you cheated?

Oh, Chris was cheating since we got together 'cause his baby mother still stayed downstairs from me. He was downstairs with her almost every day, wasn't you?

So you're both, 'cause I see on here y'all are both 27 years old. No, Chris is like 38. I'm 27. Okay. She's 27. Chris, how you acting, you 38, almost 40 and you got, you doing this?

She knew I was a polygamist when she got with me.

Okay, okay, listen, it's one thing about that, but at almost 40, as 40-year-old to almost 40-year-old, how you sitting in photos like that? Like that's the stuff we did when we in our 20s and 30s. Thank you. But listen, we have the DNA truth right here in this envelope. Maryann, you are questioning if this is your grandchild. So this is your truth to open. So let's find out.

Yes, I can open it.

Is there anything you want to say?

Yep, she's gonna apologize to me and my child as soon as that proves that Chris, you are the father. Listen, go on ahead.

I already know I'm the father.

Go on ahead. What's gonna happen is you're gonna walk off this stage screaming and crying. Go ahead, open it up.

Go ahead, really brought this on yourself. Open it up. What's taking so long?

You've done to my son— you are the lazy Biggest woman I ever seen.

You run the streets all the time. Marianne, let's find out because that's gonna be the thing that's going to give you the clarity. Yeah. Because this is really what you wanna know because if this is not your grandchild, you don't have to deal with her ever again. Exactly. But if this is your grandchild, then we have some work to do.

You gonna see me forever.

If it is. You ready for this? This is your truth to open.

Are you ready? Not really. I'm waiting to hear. She don't look like my daughter.

Can you just open it up?

She really not.

I know. What does it say, Maryann?

I don't have— What it say, Ma? What it say?

What it say? Open it up, Chris. Oh, my fault.

In the case of Christina, Maryann, you are the grandmother.

Wow! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Like I said, no, no, no, no. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry, baby. I'm so sorry.

Well, now that we got that out the way.

We gonna work on this. We gotta work on this. Oh my God, I'm so embarrassed.

I am so embarrassed. Okay, yeah. Okay, so you got your results? Yeah. Okay, I just heard what you said. So you said we gotta work on this? Yeah, yeah. Ain't no working on it.

You put us through too much with this drama, with this DNA. So now you got the results, like you said, you gonna take your baby shopping. I want you to take your grandbaby shopping like you said. Well, Marianne, hold on.

The question is Marianne was already being a grandmother.

That wasn't the question here. She barely come see my baby.

When the last time she had her?

When I watch her, what she do?

Scream. That's not her problem.

They be there, boy. Because now that you have your results, now you understand this is your grandchild. You do understand how the way that you've treated the way you've treated your grandchild and treated your grandchild's mother has been affecting. Is there anything that you wanna say about that? Because I get it, you got a mouth on you, you feisty, I understand this isn't your personality, but what I can also tell is that there's a loving woman in there. There's a woman in there that understands the value of being in a child's life, that understands, 'cause you've raised a son, that you've been there, you understand the importance of family. And now your family is torn apart because a lot of your behavior. It is. So is there anything you wanna say to Diamond?

Diamond, I'm sorry. I really am, truly from my heart. I really, I do love you. I don't like you, but I love you.

I don't like you either.

I don't like you either. I do love you. I've always loved you, but I've never liked you, okay? And there's a big difference. You can love a person, but you don't necessarily have to like that person.

See, but see, but so this is what I wanted y'all to both understand. In the moment where there could be growth and start healing, anytime you put a caveat of like, I love you, but I don't like you, all you're doing is putting yourself backwards. We understand that there has been tension here. We understand that there have been words said on both parties. We understand there's been disrespect. Of course, it's gonna take time for you all to like each other, but that's not a necessary thing to say here.

No. Listen, sometimes we as parents, and when we become grandparents, we do everything we can to protect our children. I have 3 children in the cemetery, okay? I buried 3 kids, you understand? This is my beloved son, all right? He's been here for me. We all we got. Okay, okay, okay, pause.

All right, so.

We're gonna pause, but before you say that, the reason she's having these type of dialogues about, first of all, thank you for sharing that about your other kids because it makes me understand more. Of why this protective behavior is here. Because you've lost children and so therefore now, and I can't imagine what that's like, now you're always gonna hold on. But what happened, what you did, and this is unfortunate, yes, you have a close relationship with your mother, but one thing as grown men we gotta understand is you have to understand the boundaries of what you share and what you don't share. Because the minute you let your mother into your relationship, of course she's gonna have this reaction. That is your direct fault. You started telling your mother the issues y'all were having, you're arguing. I'm sure you got a friend, a colleague, somebody your own age that you could talk to. Because you have to understand, just because you move on and then you still wanna lay up, that doesn't mean she gonna move on. Yes, sir, that's correct. This is what I'm gonna recommend to y'all. First of all, I appreciate your vulnerability and I appreciate, can you make a commitment to stop disrespecting her? Absolutely. You can make that commitment? I'm sorry. You can make that commitment? Yes. Now you as a woman, can you make the commitment to not go tit for tat as well? Yes, I can. You can make the commitment? Yes, absolutely. Because especially you two, your relationship and what this little girl's gonna see is so important. So you two making that commitment. Now I'm gonna ask for right now, can you stop playing games, stop doing these things?

I've been stopped doing those things. Okay.

At the end of the day, this has to be a good co-parent situation. Yes. 'Cause there's a baby that needs both of y'all that needs to be in a healthy relationship. And I believe you are a good father. Oh, he's a phenomenal dad. I believe it. I know it. To all 4 of my kids. I know it. I know it. So thank y'all for being here. I appreciate y'all. You got your answers. I wish y'all the best of luck with co-parenting. I wish you the best of luck Good luck with the grandkids, and please take my advice, all right? I am.