You've Been Playing Games For 15 YEARS! | KARAMO

Dawn and Sean reconnected after 15 years apart. Sean accuses her of cheating, citing her ex-boyfriend in the house and constant texting. Karamo checks her phone, texts, location, and call logs live, finding no contact with other men. Both need to set boundaries and decide if they want to stay together.
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So my 17-year-old son is like really big in football. And so he was invited to go participate in the AT&T Stadium.
Congratulations. That's big. Congrats, Mom.
So he's like 6'7". So while we were at this event, Sean was steady accusing me that somebody was with me. And I said, a ghost? I'm not seeing nobody. We've known each other for like 15 years.
15 years, okay.
But we recently connected about 3 months ago, reconnected.
Okay.
And I'm trying to be patient with him because almost every relationship he's been in, people have cheated on him.
So why didn't he go with you then?
Oh, no reason in particular, but he was at home watching the Steelers game.
Okay, so he was at home watching a game.
Yes.
Okay then. So after 15 years, 3 months ago it finally was, let's commit.
Yeah, I mean, kind of. I don't think he really wanted to commit.
Okay.
And that's part of the problem because now he's like, I have feelings for you and I'm scared that you're doing something wrong to me, that you're gonna hurt me. Everybody else has hurt me before, so why would you be any different?
Hmm, interesting. So why don't you live together?
At this point because he doesn't trust me. 'Cause I told him I'll move in right now.
Okay. My producers told me that you had lost 100 pounds. Congratulations.
Thank you.
How do you feel?
Oh, I feel fabulous.
So you're here to unlock your phone to prove to him you're not cheating?
Yes.
Okay then. Well, let's meet Sean and hear his side of the story. Sean, come on out.
If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, guess what it is? It's a duck.
Bruh, bruh.
How you doing?
I'm good. How are you doing, Sean? Okay.
I'm not a duck.
So, Sean, why do you believe she hasn't been honest with you?
Well, because she tells me stories and for every story, there's 4 different—
He said I fumble the stories.
Yeah, the truth is the truth is the truth, so you can't tell me—
Y'all make a lot of sports references.
I love sports.
Okay, got it.
I train kids and so forth and that's how I got into sports.
Yeah, he actually got my son into football.
Of course, of course.
And so, You know, if you're telling a story, if it's the truth, I can come back a week later, same story. 'Cause it's the truth. If it's not the truth, then you're telling me multiple stories and that's gonna bring about, I don't go around looking for things. I got a lot of things to do. I'm a busy guy. I don't need to be worried about that. So if you're doing these things, I don't have time for it, you know?
[Speaker] I understand. You told my producers that you think she lives with her ex-boyfriend.
Well, her ex is there. I don't know, a pair of lips can say anything.
So my son's father, you know, has always been in and out of his life. A few months ago, around the time that I met, that we reconnected, he came to stay with my son for the holidays. And the thing is, him being at my house gives me more time to be able to spend with Sean. So I'm not leaving my son by himself.
But you felt uncomfortable with the fact that her ex was there?
How do I say, she's a grown woman, she does what she do. We're not, in my personal opinion, you know, like relationship-wise.
So if she a grown woman and y'all not together relationship-wise, why you keep accusing her of cheating?
Why can't she just keep doing what she doing?
And that's the thing, and that's the thing he tell me.
No, I need an answer from him.
No, I'll be glad to tell you because I don't have time for games. Like if it's something, I'm gonna hurt this dude.
But you just said that this is not games. If you said we are not together, she's free to do what she wants to do, then why are you considering this game? She can do what she wants.
She can, but don't lie to me about it. Don't sit there and tell me you care for me, this, that, and the other, and you show me different. You know, I need actions, not words. I don't need fluff.
But by your definition, we are not anything and you can do what you want. True.
So, also there's, if I see the potential, then it can move on.
So, no. You know what he tells me? You can't have your cake and eat it too.
Yeah, I mean, so why didn't, so why didn't, you know.
So, hold on. He proposed to me. He proposed to me and I asked him the next day. I said, No, I told him, are you serious? Are you? And he said, well, a little bit of both. He said, because I don't know if I can trust you. He said, I don't think you could be faithful to me. And I said, yes, I could.
So what's your version of what happened on Sunday?
I was cheating with a ghost.
Time out. She went to do the little trip and all, and she has a pattern. You know, if I'm watching games, I watch Steelers game or whatever, she knows, Don't interrupt me. But she can't help herself. She'll call or text regardless. Yeah, it is. And so when she's not calling or texting, hey, something must be up. Disappear for 3 hours. Hey, what are you doing? Blah, blah, blah. And it makes no sense.
Yeah, but I talk to you.
So when she gives you what you ask for, then you start accusing her?
Right. And whenever—
So hold on, because you said—
3 hours.
Because I'm just trying to find consistency in your story.
But 3 hours, he's talking about—
You said we're not together. She can do what she want. But then when she have— you're watching her game, she calls you too much, and you you tell her not to call me, but then when she doesn't call you, now you assume she's doing something.
Yeah.
The light bulb goes off.
You know why though?
Because she's gonna, whether I tell her or not, don't call me, she's gonna do it regardless.
I'm confused 'cause you say you don't got time for games, but you got a lot of rules.
Excuse me.
It's a lot of rules. Hey, let's go ahead and unlock this phone real quick. Okay. All right, Sean, we're here to tell you if Do you wanna know if Dawn is texting with any other men? She says she's not. My locked-up phone investigator searched her texts and found that Dawn is telling the truth.
I told you.
Sean, you wanna know if Dawn has been doing any suspicious locations, if she's been at any suspicious locations? She says she's not. My locked-up phone investigator searched her GPS and found that Dawn is telling the truth.
Thank you.
Sean, you wanna know if Dawn has made any calls to other men in her phone? She says she has not. My laptop phone investigator searched her calls and found that Don is telling the truth.
Okay, so.
Thank you very much, sir. I told you, in all the 15 years that we've been together, I've never cheated on you, so why would I be cheating on you now?
It's different circumstances.
No.
Sean, you now have the facts that she's not cheating on you. We searched her phone, we know she hasn't done anything. What is your response to that?
I'm shocked. So why the different story? Like, I mean, so why the different story? That's what I'm trying to get at. If you're telling the truth and nothing has happened, then why do I get multiple stories on, you know?
I told you everything that happened.
I mean, if she's giving multiple, listen, I mean, what she could be doing is mirroring the different messages you're giving.
Nope, nope, nope.
Well, we watched it. I'm a straight shooter.
I'm a straight shooter.
I literally watched it on this stage and pointed out to you over several times. When you watch this back, you're gonna be like, oh, well, you know, since we keep score, you can start counting all the times that I pointed out your contradictions on this stage. You've literally been contradicting yourself consistently on this stage. But what I'm trying to do is even the playing field. Look at me, I'm talking about like I'm a sports analyst now. Let's even the playing field. She has done nothing. Do you love this woman and wanna start new?
I mean, I really can't say that because—
So, okay, so, okay, so now, okay, now here we go, here we go. So after reviewing the stats of this relationship, Either of you in the state. Y'all are messy. But you know what? Y'all messy. Y'all are messy. But yeah, the score is 0-0.
0-0.
And in my opinion—
We could change that score, but I don't— Oh, he don't.
Game over. Game over. He don't wanna change the score. What he would like to do is keep you in this pattern and riddle because we've asked him several times. Do you want something? She now knows. So I'm gonna tell you, you can spend the next 20 years trying to prove yourself to this man.
No chance.
She's a mover and a shaker.
Like I said, you will consistently—
I gotta protect myself. You're not gonna protect me. They're not gonna protect me. I'm an old man.
And I agree. And I agree. So like I've said to you, I've given you time to completely answer these questions, is yes, go ahead and protect yourself, but you do not need to keep on making rules for her and stringing her along.
I'm not stringing her along. We're riding parallel together. And if they, you know.
No, we're not parallel. This is not even.
So you gotta protect yourself.
No, it's not even.
The ball's in your court. Just take it home and dribble it home to your own house.
All right.
Like I said, 0-0, game over. I wish y'all both the best of luck. Everyone at home, make sure to come back next time, friends, so we can keep talking and growing. All right, love you all. Let me tell you something. If I'm with somebody and I don't wanna be with them, I say, listen, you free, we not together. I'm never gonna question if they cheating. But what you're doing is you're saying, I want you here and I want you to have parameters, but also go do what you want. It's conflicting. She's a free woman to your own words.
And why didn't he unlock his phone?
You know good and well, there's been going on.
It doesn't matter.
I'm not on the show for you.
I mean, I have never— I told the producer why.
I wish you the best of luck. I wish y'all the best of luck. I really do.
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