KMM Session 4 - A few possible Hurdles to GREATNESS | Naren | Life School |

Congress to those of you, who have created the video, you have taken a grade, first step today session will expand only that team and well connected again and again to waise of hope so, from now words the actual session that you are about to deliver will begin if you have created the video, chances at it mitgan exercise and un me might forget about it। after some time, if you have not created the video, there must be something in site, you which stop you from creating the video, what mit have stopped you from creating the video। कुड बी, क्या फायदा cold be its only an acadmic exercise it cold be video से क्या होगा? कुड बी अब बाद में सोचेगा.

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Could be मैं क्या कर सकता है? पूरी दुनिया के लिए, देश के लिए इतना बड़ा यार अपने अपनी जिंदगी संlजाiicanhandl my life s going to be more it could be bad me and there we be many tort sore here there you find that a tenses of waise despair and not वाइस all of us have had experiences in life, where we wanted something and then we want something, we start anticipating the joy of achieving.

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For example my daling wife bharte loves to travel and when she is planning a holiday, shes already visualizing herself in going the places, what she s decided to go now for someorisnifyou say। इस बार होली डे, नहीं हो पाएगा all the joy that she anticipated all the excitement that he already failed ones serdnlyseems to the broken and this creates broken emotions broken dreams and lives behan some pan, may be this is why some of first dont like to dream big मे बी वाई सम ऑफर्स वान्ट टू, स्टे इन और कंफर्ट जोन के यार जो चाहिए वो अगर नहीं होता है न तो तकलीफ होती है मे बी this is why some फर्स डू, नोट टेक अप इनिशिएटिव विच कैन कम्प्लीटली ट्रांसफोर्म, कई वो वॉइस ऑफ डिस्पेर जाता है यार उस समय तकलीफ हो इससे अच्छा है कोशिश ना ही करे तो ठीक है। see what you want sometimes it will happen and sometimes it want the truth is no body wants to fail tatsertrutnoone wants to fail everybody wants to six no body wants to fail the truth is no one wants to be abused कोई मुझे गाली देगा कोई मुझे ताने मारेगा somebody will be sarcastic and in cases of chiron, they might even be scad of being physically bidenap, physical abuse mental views imotional avus no body wants to be a best no no on ants to be aust no one wants to create a mess soca था कुछ कुछ हुआ because unfortunately we have people around this, who get angry in the mess, what they may not realize is the negative feeling, we have it already be feeling sad we already feeling guilty, but some people can see that and hands when there watch in mass they become agressive। ये कैसे टूट गया, ये कैसे खराब हुआ, अरे तुमने तो ये बोला था बोलने के बाद में हुआ क्यों नहीं and that is भी मूव बैक टू कंफर्ट जोन यार जितना होता है उतना ही करो कम कमिट करो ज्यादा मत बोलो, क्योंकि अगर मै हुआ न तो बहुत सुनना पड़ेगा nobody wants to get hard brok, जो सोचा था नहीं हुआ तो दिल टूट जाता है। no weritithehartit does not only mean affairs it doesn men having relationships hart gets broken when dreams dont become a reality and overdywantsto go throug that pain very few people can live by the previous session, which is parkusaisrguvhenyu master parkusaricargu and that become a part of your life all of this there be effortless for you to face। because understand through every falire, there s something to learn if somebody abuses me it means a a little we can i need to become stronger grot is a messi afair so there will be a mess। then i improving in my life so like sangita shared there s so much on my table i thought today take it up or not and i know she has shared with me some times, but you there are to many things on my plate today still become in isi। because the fear is if i take it up and if i m not able to do a good job i have sun personal standards i want to.

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And what if i fail.

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These dot that if there is a mess what happens, but when you live by putcusaicssargu you understand i have the inteligence and smartness to get back i will do my best and in worst case senario things dont go right i will still improve and short it failiar is not an option no body wants to get hard broken and feel pain when something doesn⁇tgorightnobody wants unheldycompetition when you dream big, there will be unheldycompetitions and when there is an helthy competition oh you might have to take some back decisions। because in the flry of emotions you might and saying something or doing something that you did not need। sometimes the ass mit have a tort ye क्या jnjetpaly are kitne log gane in those moments you might take a back decision akemployerson the basis of whom you drimtaboutanentrprise certy comes and side you dont increase my f by thirty percent i may not continue। because i have a better option out sis and then our giving to that financial black mail you might end of taking a bad decision and nobody wants to take back decisions everybody wants to take good decisions and then a little dout full ye to mere co krna ya bag decision a good decision your site dout that a bad decision ho skta है tendebitralike i remember when i became the headboy of the school first couple of monse i told my self million times is a bat decision its a bat decision so i know what dcs go to यार इतना सब कुछ चल रहा है उसके साथ साथ मैं यह अगले साल शायद नहीं करूँगा। and i know when i was the head boy of my school not only top the acadmic bt i also rिपरेजnटमy स्कूल इन सिक्स स्पोर्ट्स i can play hoke very well, i can play football verywell of cors calkatrtofotballe is in my blood badminton table in is short put discastrojavlin and come first in almost every one of them i used to represent my schulen seven kokaricolaractivitis debate dm sharad just a minute erlyrtilmanethat come first in class and then is the head boy have the time im not inside the class room, because some work is the some student comity meeting is here some cultural meting is there som sports meting is there one big seminar has to be organized so the head boys involding everything in every now in then the thought will come bahut zyada kar la but at r shaped my life.

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Realized i was in a frari and running at a speed of fifteen kilometr farar thought that that is the save speed to going not realizing am in the express highway or so a bec to me for gaxsideteverytime you believe that you have taken a lot on your plate it just means you are not used to so much focus and so much precision in like your not taking a lot, but you are taking a lot of time to do what you are doing today। जो चीज के लिए मैं 1 घंटा लगा रहा हूँ, वो शायद 20 मिनट में हो सकता है वो जो मेरी जिंदगी की नालायकी रहना है we hatte so the only way to grow is by taking of a lot on plat just think all the super successful people today are the doing fifty time hundred times more, then you then how can you say you are doing a lot on what basis are you saying, you re doing a lot today you might be sitting on the part for havana and you might be singing आती नहीं आती नहीं, इंतहा हो गयी इंतजार की यू माइट बी हाफनर बैठा है तेरे पास काम है न 5 मिनट में जबर्दस्त एकदम ढूढ धान दु आएगा मस्त और 25 मिनट तो काम करेगा.

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I dont believe when you think that i doing a lot to your not, you can do ten times more than what you are doing a right। not ten times more i g lit you lot track now and i come back on track। and this person is only for people were present o a year, this is not for your clas, there is a thinking which is called as the lot thinking and hot thinking lot thinking means loarardrthinking hot thinking means hi ऑरdr थिंकिंग lets see for example you are the owner of your company, do you still sin sex do you still signed the wाuचr्s उसमे कितना टाइम जा रहा है du still take prts decisions all the prts decisions उसमे कितना time j a.

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Loarardrthink i believe the owner of a company is man work is to creat a powerful positive atमॉस्फiर and सेकnडwoर्k is टू टेक proper reports third work which is required is स्ट्रैटेजी 3 साल बाद हमको कहां पहुंचना है उसके लिए मुझे आज कहाँ करना है मतलब दिसम्बर में ठंड आने वाली है न आज से लकड़ी इकट्ठा करना चालू कर.

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Strategy के 6 महीने बाद के लिए आज क्या करूं? 1 साल के लिए बाद के लिए आज क्या करूँ that is your work to strategic work taking reports to ensure you are on top of the working of the organization and to create the right atmosfar इसके अलावा अगर कुछ भी कर रहे हो न you are doing lord work not hyarrordrwork ten ces karo tumhare pas kitna time so nobody like to have a broken hard nobody wants unheldecompetition nobody wants to be taken for granted an the no body wants to be taken for granted nobody wants to get get a cat up in ego.

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नोबोडी वन्स तो गेट फास्ट ओवर फॉर प्रोमोशon ma a cm r w mere ko promotion mla किसी और को mila no body wants the rights to be snattaayfrmthem e o ra hack hakka mila let say something was promised and not giving some thing you deserved but you are not giving and finally no body wants to be desterb to win the are extremely focus on doing something what guess what like we discuss in the last session these things will happen so you have to connected the last session why was the video not created and i can tell you ninety percent of people inside a class werent have created the video just like ninety percent of the wolentiershear did not created the video because creating the video means forcing think commiting yourself to something big and what stops me from doing that all these points that i just share it.

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के अगर कुछ bra soca fail ho skta हूँ i may be get abused i might ketedamess माइट गेट हार्ड ब्रोकन i might take back decisions there will be held competition i dont want to get taken for granted i dont want to get get op in ugo wars i don⁇t want to get fast to or pramotion i dont want my rights to this natvar from me and i dont want to be disturbed but these things it happen and there for sore sata bra ne sote now here is there you begin the new session i believe if you can implement what i m going to speak in the next five minutes you like file completely.

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And there for prepare yourself to deliver the next five minutes inside the class room with all the power that you have inside it you come as a extrodnary conviction and this is how you can do it you can see all of these points that the discuse i mit fail i might be abuse i might create a mess i might get hard broken i might not get what i want an deserve and there might people always distract me and i get disturb हो सकता है but all these आर chotu you will qualit has choto things that a hldils to your gratnesआl of these आर छotूस next time when something doesn go rit what you on to do it you to say may zindgi chotu है उसको बड़ा मत बना उसको लाजर लाइफ मत करो didयूufेल 1 छोटू है you did ms 1 chotu समबडी go involdएक छotoैऔरपीपल टेकिंग फ्यू फॉर ग्रैंटेड 1 छोटू है यू डिजर्व समथिंग यू डिड नोट गेटेड 1 छोटू है सबको न छोटू बना 2 इसको न राई की तरह देखो और उसको पहाड़ा मत बनाओ the trick in overcoming any hurdel its to see it as a chotoineorlife imagine you looking at de smiling in sing when you look at a optical and think a to.

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Doesnt over all you a chote you are use damen divinity flos to you you are a part of such a beautiful firtenityof keep moving movement, you must be such a good human being that you want to contribute back to the सोसाइटी यू आर इनक्रेडिबल और ये छोटू के सामने हम घुटने टेकेंगे क्या सवाल ही नहीं है, सवाल ही नहीं.

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सब छोटू है नोट एप्लिकेबल टू मी बट आप लोग बोल सकते हो, यह तुम्हारा बाल भी बांधा नहीं कर सकता। अब भगवान ने इसलिए मेरा बाल ले लिया कि तेरा कोई बाली बाका नहीं कर सकता। सी eग्जिस्टेंशियल स्ट्रैटेजी कोई मेरा बाल बार करके दिखाए पॉसिबल ही नहीं thats fyasittress life now। sometimes when these cortos happen voice of despair becomes very loud, see how you connect the session। sometimes when these cortos happen whites of dispar become very loud। you know people ask me that how long sodwasonvrtson work as long as you want to as long us you think you can do justice to your role as long, you have value to head as long as your hildianitgives you choto you this wाiceऑफ dispar becomes our hurdles its not the hurdle outside, but the wise me dispar instand that संगीता थोड़ा ज्यादा हो गया क्या अरे क्या जादा हुआ है? 1 इंसान कितना करता है जो कर रही हो न उससे 5 गुना ज्यादा हो सकता है chote से डरने का.

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But then cotes happen dautsarcreated dाutshijैk द फ्यूचर हिस्ट्री we are bond to.

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Douthijenkthe future history वी आर बॉन टू मेक यू नहीन एयरक्राफ़्ट which was full about to take off a man sertaestudupand said hijack evrybodygodscaid and from the other side somebody said high john mtlb hijack आया तो थोड़ा and you know the beauty of the tragedy the moment douts hijack the future history we are bound to make we start warren wemiretly start were like when i became the head by of my school i use to where botte fouthings and after that time at the end of the year nineteen ight six an i completed this term card being the hedbatofthe school.

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Will be glad to know after that i dont know what were is मैं very करना भूल गया my mind desनotवriatआल any body you nos me for years you find out when did you seen naranwaridand some of you know the beautiful said backs that have gone to in my life, but very na na mona thats not me but then i was n school head boy i used to worry about of you thing। now this is where you will persnalizedthe session i will speak to you about three things are used to were about you will take any face of your life maybe the current face may be two years earlier maybe the begining of the year you speak about three things that you were about now this is a very powerful part of your transformation when you recognize and ecnolegeea worry about these things and if you say i way about nothing then i⁇mwattid about you my first where would be what if my students dont like me? what is the teachers dont like me? what is the places that i go there dont like me every morning i had to give a five minute speech in the assembly and what is.

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Speech that i gave was not like by people you know one of the biggest pressures for a public speaker is what if i talk and no body like and some of you must of gontrouthatwhen you going said the class in a man to bolunga once a e la to how many of you worry about somebody liking you or what you have done he na so many of us it very very onest and that s it trout and many people cook food would be अरे यार जो खाना बनाया gestsarcomingwht dont like are they dont like next time they will invite you and so you what good food good.

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प्रौब्लम किधर है you know the most beautiful thing happen i used to worry about what if people dont like me then i realized it is not my job to make the world like me, it is my job to like my self it is not my job to make the world like me me pagal ho jana i have to do what i believe is right with strand because i बिल लाइक myself जो किया कमाल का किया if somebody s e go in voll and i can come there you go down ka handle.

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Theres a big issue and i solved bitte time a beautiful way in my job is to like me it is not my job to make the world like me most people in the world are the the strap that the world should like me you should like your self if possible you should ben love it yourself you should have an internal romance with yourself day before you leave and our standing in front of the mid अरे खुद की पप्पी लेने का पर जाने का या खुद की नजर उतारने का क्या lg ra a then and bad for somebody saying है thank you you go go is किसी ने ne bola i will refer them to a good optition or you can llwelastthamlike vid tes not see anything about how handsome i look i can या लास्ट चश्मा कब ठीक कराया था? ऐसे पूछ रहा मतलब ऐसी second thing i used to very about is why that person did not support me? all of us have our top moments in life l of us expect some people to supporters tesinthostufhtimes and all of it will be disappointed। because some people will not rise to the ocation and as the head of the school, if i have for people who used to be my lets a assistant, head voice and one girl assistant had girl some time, they will not take responsibilitis and i would be like a support kyo। sometimes a teacher who supposed to leaders और guides से तुम अपने आप कर लो, अरे एक्पीरियंस नहीं है अपने आप कर लो, मतलब सपोर्ट क्यों नहीं किया? sometimes, because i am doing some school work i want the teatr to explain something to me chmshavealredy explaining the class as any body in the clas अर, but student was learn from you me on me to explain it टू मी प्रॉपरली सपोर्ट क्यों नहीं किया and it used to drive me mad how many, if you go to this and as you look back to your life and as you remember a period of struggle, do you still have that little okardnescressmy se sport ne ka, जिस वक्त मुझे सबसे ज़्यादा ज़रूरत थी, उस समय सपोर्ट नहीं की और आज भी न दिल में थोड़ी कालिक है, थोड़ा सूनापन है ye awas te s m sport.

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Realized it is not the obligation of the world to support me, nobody is bond to support me, nobody is mission in life is to support no body is om ligated to support me, it is my job to be the person whom people want to support.

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To be magnetic in us i have to be loved in u people should look for to being with me.

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Need to developed that personality where want latter is continious mt if anybody things about me they should think about the smiling is not a frowning fis.

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Body in the war should be scad to come ent talk to me about the blunder they have done or the touts they have about me i have to be that person who people want to support rather than people should support me and i realized till class tent i did not have a sense of humar at all i was always island कुछ ज्यादा बात नहीं करता था shiv and then a real is anybody who has a sense of humar people are very comfortable with them not sense of sarcasm sense of humor not kapil sharma like, but sens of humar mastee when you can lift the lot of somebody s head and sholders so i developed the sense of humar the story of my life has been i realized there is something missing in me and i go all out and developed a a some of you will know the anser, but you know why chennai is call chenny? because people were lungis over there na lungy ma chan ne hota thats the s coll chan y mt this is how the name rignatedlokis saying my god। this is the wildesstipes have heard in my life truk allow il son find something for kochi also you know i have always wanted to ask that dwellers like asus in friend of me। i can see mukul do you selunglas? उँगलाअरे जो ऊँगली में पहनते हैं, उसको उँगलाोचाहिनउसको अंगूठी क्यों बोलते हैं? वो अंगूठा में थोड़ा न पहनते है, जरा इक्सप्लेन करूँ, उसको अंगूठी क्यों बोलते हैं? अंगूठे में तो पहनते ही नहीं.

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Scam misguiding term अngूtiआबजउंगला है क्या उंगल उँगली में पहनते हैं अच्छा ओके बहुत ज्यादा थोड़ा वियर्ड हो गया यू नो वाह डू मोस्ट batman to now why do these people always stay very com and like and silent। because the stand the now now that s a billion there a pilintnveraryou im in the now that s alok is so quirdकoचिnमेचारो तरफ now now है he सरundedबाyनॉw ज्यादा फ्यूचर नहीं सोचते है नाव वर्स्ट सिचुएशन can be handled pr kusausrgokrna the west situation can be handled sens.

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A कुछ log ko na agar समझ please call alok will give you a lo frends, he will probably give you रे यार नाव में कैसे जा सकते al read the book by car to cold power of now it s not about bots its about being in the present is sitting like this bap transforming the future of the world by speaking about the now i love at neta nishant is rate im going to buy the bortheadfons to rememrminmyself ben नाओ बीन द ना गुड वेरी गुड और पोर्ट के कॉम्पिटिशन में न मैं नाव नाम का 1 ब्रैंड लाने ाला हूँ। wndrfulndrful see this any body you can love where you can never create a permanent address?

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Because in spite of the ट्रवल्स इफ यू can be happy। यू नो दे आर छोटू छोटू तेरे में इतनी ताकत नहीं कि मेरे को बांध के रखेगा सी काँव न उसके ऊपर कुछ मक्खियाँ आके बैठती है, और काँव अपने सिर्फ पूछ हिलाते से मक्खियां जाती रहती है पूरे see guys who pure gay को share hilana padta.

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That⁇Swatsinsl ho s so i realised this instt complaining about why no body supporting me let me be my magnet i m a magnet आ न विल कम and if i am a gardbeddmpmostutes welcome gordbeg dump kin sawiwtrflsarnot comming.

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The person whom people would love to support so i u so where about three things one, what if people dont like me to what if people dont support me invited that person not support me and three yes like a few of you। i also had this question the thinking to pick zyada be। because i doesn⁇thappen it would be.

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Thoda, bra socha, he a, and then as miss, his question have people started there, i am today and gone on to do begr things, then i m not thinking to be have people started। when i am today and got on to do begr think with time i realised my douts are not there to stop me, there, there for me to solve them, my daut are not there to stop me। they are there for me to solve them। we b a question mark will guide me to make it in exclamation mark mza so the mind has to rann इसको explen के badla raterbenye, question mark.

Con.

Prkusaruksargo, how you do that waiseovdespare how al you destrydbytese no here comes a very very very beautiful part of the session everything that we have done sofa is the belt p। what we are going to do now inside the class, you will say with experience as you look around, you will find different kinds of people, and what is the different kinds of people, they are different, because they look at problems differently, they respond to problems differently। so lets say me an anupama are different। not as in the physical pence, have not as in the education, we have not as in the financial abornnanswehave, we are different, because of the way, we look at a problem, there are different, people respond to problems differently, you will make this statement, a few tips different people respond to problems differently, and then you to three four, five sentences and o⁇lsaythesantent, and again so, if you look in your family, when something was rom different, people will respond to problems differently for the cilin in said the class in we will find very transforming the future of the world by speaking about the now i love at netaji, neshantisraity i m going to by the board headfonc। तो रिमeमरमाइंडमईसेल्फ बी इन नाव बीन, नाव बीन द नाओ गुड वेरी गुड वन और पोर्ट के कॉम्पिटिशन में न मैं नाव नाम का 1 ब्रैंड लाने वाला.

हूँ.

वन्डरफुल नी बड़ी यू कैन lv वर कैन नेवर क्रिएट अ पर्मानेंट ड्रेस.

ओर.

Because in spite of the travels, if you can be happy, you now। they are छोटु हट छोटू तेरे में इतनी ताकत नहीं कि मेरे को बांध के रखेगा, इ सी काँव न उसके ऊपर कुछ मक्खियाँ आगे बैठती है, और काँव अपना सर पूछ हिलाती है, मियां जाती रहती है, पूरे।