KMM Session 6 - The Magical Quadrant for Success | Naren | Life School |

If i use the world bred bred, what is bred so one person says bred is food what is bread meta tak what is this bread carwoheditit somebody se protien carbohedidscy partner gods gift breaking bred almost mean starting the journey of frenship one word called bread has so many torts so many definition so many way to look at it so when human things have to live together function together get the best out of ich other there are bound to be many many differences and yet in spite of those differences we learn how to have great relationships and how to produce success that is the essence of any good life my ability to accept that there will be differences respecting people for the differences, we have not defining the relationship based on differences but based on similarities work joy and celebrate together today session is something on that direction how you know there was a वेरी इंट्रस्टिंग research then in america where they found more then seventy one percent people who r miliones in our carency toms let say somebody whos network is egcorsसeवentी one miliones tot they dont have i maनी.

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Many of to present or be very happy if you have a network of eid crors gurmelisising boddehanडs मतलब डिवाइड बाई टू कर 2 तो भी चलेगा so what the success mein how much is.

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An if i m chasing something the entire chase should be exciting and not filed with stress is it it mean there s no issuing somebody wanting to have a hundred crore, but to get stressed for that to destroy relationship for that to destroy or on health for that is something that we need to think about again, we will take something of this also as a part of todays sasin in ancient greek whenever a person succeeds and he believes that he successful, they would commision an artist to create a statue in their owner matlab a life statu for them seles so in your home if you have a on state, it means you are successful that is a ancien grikusetosatonly, then you are successful normally the person to whom you commision the work of creating the statue wouldnt get it right the first time कभी हाथ दुबला हो गया, कभी नाक टेड़ा हो गया कभी मेरे जैसे को बाल ज्यादा बना दिए there would be many different things which would not be okay and normally the six, the seven or the eight statue will come out properly now the person was commision that artist to make the statue will obviously take the best one, the last so what you do to the other status in the other status, they will make some changes and those changes will be through wax collard somebody looks a little similar the probably has a longer nos, they will make the longer nos if the lips at a little pinar ticker they will make this changes if the next is a little longer than they will make this changes उसमें थोड़ा जाता, थोड़ी मोमबती लग जाती थी and they would painted and now this will be sold in the shops so if i am not rich in up, but i want to pretend dam will go to these and से मेरे जैसा कोई है क्या वो लेके जाता था there was a thriving industry for these kind of status, but there ively some rare shops, which will right there ci ne sera s n s sara means no which means in my shop there आर ओनली ऑथेंटिक products कोई चीटिंग नहीं, कोई जालसाजी नहीं, कोई प्रिटेंस नहीं, जो है वो है absolutly athentic there is no x द वर्ल्ड सिनसियर has come from the world s nasera so when somebody is in sir what we are saying is here is a person was absolutely authentic, here is a person, who does not even attempt to bulshit any one here is a person who doesn⁇tceet here is a person, who does not retained here is a hundred percent ऑथेंटिक person game is sinaserra an everybody who s a part of cam m intern is sins okay you should clap for your self also now for some time if you put gam am to un side and we look at ar sales in our life with respect to the opportunities we have and we ask ar sells this question rvecnasatabard those opportunities are we sins if we have people, we are blessed with may be a loving home may be a loving mentor may be a loving friend and in many cases of her wet very very loving efectionet capable asis we seen care about.

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At home with all the love in support we get r v as sinsiar as we should we r sometime do we give excuses take things for granted not give our hundred percent life comes that its best when you are sinsiarlifrewards you with its best, when you are sins if i m not sincere im operating and much less of my capacity and slowly everybody else also operate sat much less capacity when we walked together beautifully it is multiplier effect and when we operat where we are a fight with each other than its a minus ifect not a multiplier effect at ls at sixteen multipli at is equal to sixty four and minus at becomes zero so not look at results are posibility we are doing little good it is it plus it थोड़ा बहुत कर लेते हैं toda sinsiarweare absolutely sinsirlfilrevard mltiplibysixtyfo and if he are fighting cribbing complaining the only thinking about what is not okay it becomes it minus it is equal to zero i love that statement with says he sopore he has nothing but many this session will be litle different but extremely powerful it will be so much about balance focus priorities without mentioning these as such so when you going side the class room, it is going to be a very playful interactive session, but by the time you have reached the class room if you have been sine sara in your practice, the process will have transformed or you would have been able to drop sertanthings you would be able to begin certin things you will be able to focus something, you will be able to hug something and you will find in this process of ten days, some shift will happen in your life and when you going side the class rom going side the classrom with this conviction this believe i m handing over a very simple tool to every student and this tool has the power to transform their life.

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Believe everybody is a bilion, not just milliner vline ne million is it cos villiers probably we have given to much focus to many and we count of a richness only in terms of many, but one thing which you will find every child in the classroom is a rich person is with respect to time you know one billion seconds is equal to how much time matswisrsinbilian is thousand to make it easy for you one billion is about thirty one years about thirty one years one million seconds is about eleven years so who is for every child in said the class room is a multi milliner to billion second to he once pas sixty two years plus fifteen if there is we are expecting seventy seven years of life on an average so they are already multi billion rs n, how they use this time what the use this time for there will the focus ben the utilise this time is the game of life, many of a citing over here are also bilioners if you believe that you have thirty one years more to lift and it can be counted as a couple individual counting like i want to dat hundred and eight शुभ नंबर है अच्छा नंबर है न zero at am fifty five to बिलियन है भी अपने पास home believe you have एटलीस्ट वन विलिन वन बिलियन तो कम से कम टू एनीबडी थ्री so from today on words you will believe you are rich bindas you can say in a biliatherlet people look at you then look at your cloud scratch the head see how you going in auto and the fair is forty one rupees and you rs ten minutes to find that one rupy going some there sco ke rup thinking bilion lekthemseyo using the other side of a print out which is plan and there if you ve to make a नोट इन दी बॉटम राइट हैंड कार्नर टैर दैट पेज and give as instruction and let that person locate thing है vilinरaniस्टयू कितना है तेरे पास वैसे तो कोई भी इंसान नहीं बता सकता, लेकिन वन बिलियन तो होगा आस्क डी में रखते हो क्या a os tora drow करता हूँ how do we live a great life? there are to supercritical things फॉर वेरी ब्ैuटिफुल ग्रेट लाइफ one is the work that you do what you use your life for we use our life for to things one is for relationship for people love affection friendship together nis contribution people and the other aspect of life is achievements to important factors you get these to right you ve got your life right if i only focus and achievements and have huge achievements i will belong to that category he sopore as nothing but many and many miliones dialalonesaid no body to share things with in ws this is a industry if somebody dying the ast people to go in hold their hands and the are pad at eighteen dollars for over to hold somebody s hand ding so he a aspect of life very very critical is relationships the other aspect is work relationships and work if i m great at relationships, but very poor in work i will always be taken for granted.

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I m grated work and have a success, but i dont have great relationships people will come to me for self is needs there will be no love in our life and we live in in secor life के मेरे आस पास जो भी है सिर्फ मेरे से छीनने के लिए मांगने के लिए लेने के लिए आते है what a very sad life, so lets do something to be have this print ut all the people in the world will be divided into these four quadrants one verticle of the quardrent is called task and the other ticl of the content is called relationships thanks dont et thank s beautiful good job well design is my voice clearly रीचिंग the and amit k no let me tell all of you on good news the good news is there is no pidof for this sesion just this and you have to remember sine sera इफ i रिली रल्ली लाइक यू its type something and send to if you are saying that in my memory is good manage onderful every body on this planet belongs to one of these for quadrats today will discuss what happens in these scorcortrents you also reflect and understand where are you in these for cordrants and you may make a choice there you want to be in these for cordrants if you are in some place where would you like to be if you have to see this as the face of a clock, then twelv three there are to qualities three to six, there are two qualities six to nine to qualities and nine to to qualities i will speak less about students today i speak more about you today this is a thinking session and i know many people are uncomfortable in thinking un comfortable in reflection but when we experience this little growth in site which is sometimes a little uncomfortable it s worth.

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So what are these to shut seats about and what do we mean out of these for quartransletsbegin with three to six a student my favorite movie time use to be matanitu how many of you re gone to these things can metanish baki sab miners two parts some of the thinking matneshow क्या होta kalani what is metneshonamorning कॉलेज muguलवित हhoम so you did not here that they re parents were not in class and they were metaning so matan show used to with his three to six अरे वो आफ्टरनून शो अरे हमारे कलकत्ते में अलग था जा फिर थ्री फिर थ्री टू सिक्स क्या है कौनसा शो ठीक है थ्री टू सिक लेट स्टार्ट थ्री टू सिक pre to success to qualities wicrtostoqualities task plus relationship what happens over here offen you will find your self in life with some responsibilities and you are not enjoying the people with whom you have to do that work.

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Re stuck with those people work place men to hota he ha, you have a boss, you dont like, you have a कलीग यू डोंट लाइक, you have an sa department you dont like.

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If you dont do work everybody will crucify sore asy ko hota sorsorove is progressively losing her session after session, we can map it now who are those people so we अnderstand these quardrensfrom people perspective like individual and life perspective in life, sometimes we have worked where we have to do that work with people, whom we may नोट लाइक, it can also be strangers it can be people with whom we dont have a bonding, it can be people was nature litle, different people were lets a negative let, say, we are working with people, we never appreciate, we are working with people are sinic so are always finding we dont failed to tell you what is rong, but never tell you what is it, you are working with people, we dont have a sense of commitment अभी आता हूँ अभी वो कब आएगा किसी को नहीं मालूम bs t mind and come to rs i will give you this work by the end of the day and it man happen for the next todas बट साथ में काम साथ में ही करना है, option नही है so sometimes in life, there in this situation, then we have to work with people and we dont like those people for varison, but any way work has to happen so what you will do when you go back or may be as you a listing to me if you can think of something right about aspects of life, there it is tree to six f, 1 या 2 word लिखना dont start rating paragraf no lets think about s as people individuals, we may be people, who are very brivinbywork, but you are not driving in building relationships, the rana people in the world से सब पैसा है, पैसा है तो सब पूछ है, पैसा नहीं है न तो कोई पूछ नहीं है। and there for the whole focus in life is work। they may be extrodnalyinwork, but they dont know how to get along well with people, these people perform top class.

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They dont creat a positive environment these people believe in a wp दे डोंट believe in pswedingcaजuलiंग और गिविंग स्पेस तो पीपल आज मूड ठीक नहीं है, कोई बात नहीं थोड़ी देर में देखते बात करते है कल सुबह बात करें वो जो स्पेस होता है न, वो स्पेस नहीं मिलता किसी को इन के साथ उनको sbcom उनके time के हिसाब से चाहिए। bed them sels are great in work, but they are never able to create a second life and nobody in jois working with them, nobody will say so dream to work with this person.

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The open us foul language, do any body who makes the statment तेरेको पगार काय को देता है is in this insult, you dont like somebody s working, you can say n zmaga, but when you say the co agar everything comes down to only many with respect of children, you can speak about some teachers belonging to this category the task plus brilliand teachers, but they can be ruthless and then believe the ruthless। this is great they dont care। if somebody s heart, we have to ask self would you like to be over year, if you re ok with it is ok, but you want get the best of life over year this people invariably find them selves lonely.

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S a different mater that they are comfortable with their lonely nis, but they are lonely now। if you are a person like to be with people than being ruthless being heartful being vengeful being sarcastic wont help you again from students point of you said। not only should you focus on doing your task well, but if you are a relationship minus person, when you need help from philo students, it won cup। when you need some special help from your teatr, it want go and they will see it in school, some turn have a very good relationship it the teachers so in case, there is some need in their life, where they want one extra day, i head or before for their examp, if the relationship is god the school will manage। कोई बात नहीं, तुम पहले दे, 2 या 1 दिन बाद में दे दे न तुम्हारे लिए अलग पेपर बना देंगे या 1 दिन पहले अगर दिया और किसी से share mat have seen this happen many times than i wasn school, but if my relationship are not good and i go with his request, its not going to work out let say sumit is a very sporty person, he likes to play sports his relationship is good। he can get not from many friends, some teachers will also see तुम शाम को मेरे घर में आ जा, न मैं तुमको समझा दूंगी it will be easy for him to catch up and live a very complete life। पढ़ाई भी अच्छी हो रही है, स्पोर्ट्स स्पी कर रहे हैं, डिबेट में भी जा रहे हैं। do you no such people who are like doing everything, then there in school in virile, people who know how to have good relationships so if you want to do many things and if your relationship is poor tom s्trggle करोगे.

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Lets go to six to nine.

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Task minus relationship mines mat if you talk about school children play में focus ne and being a good human being में भी focus, they are destructive they re men they want power.

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Don⁇T man hating this ather people use threats do things which are not to be done and the heavy word is do things illegal my bring drink school egret to school pornography to school these the people wo bully others they are fundamentally police and it times to come you find them in conflict with law an leading a said लाइफ सिxटोनiन उस समय मजा आता है, फिर पूरे लाइफ में सजा आता है उस समय लगता है बहुत भारी काम कर रहा हूँ कितना होशियार हूँ कितना उस्तादो मेरे साथ gang mera group आगे चलके बहुत तकलीफ होती है i today et flutsitisबकuज सम डे समबडी put a सी in side the group if today we enjoy the shade it is because someday somebody had put the seeds of the tree in side the group if everybody in the word only wants to live life in the richness of the moment or the three of the present kis ko prasan kare mla if the three of the present we want even have grass on this grount farget about is so six to nine is a quadrant which should be avoided no matr what people were in sixty nine should be avoided no matar what now let me talk to you about you if your work does not give you joy and if the people who you have in life do not give you join than your life must be a very sad life.

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May have anything to look falloredto entertainment is what you do for the maximum number of live ours you have टीवी चलो और 3 घंटा 4 घंटा 5 घंटा टीवी देखो anyone who s addicted to entertainment chances are your life is chances are your life is sixty nine you may be with people, but you dont have strong relationships you may have money and there for there will always be company, but if this money is not there in your life those very people want be there with you six to nine is not a place to be in if i have great relationships, but for some reason my work is doing not doing well i have in of sources of joy if have great results, but my relationships are not good i still have in uth moments of thrill ke ko cm a deal but if i dont have thrill in my work and if i dont have thrill in people i live in baroda thrill which is what entertainment is all about my life as no excitement so i seek excitement in the james bond movie my life has no thril hence i watch a detective serial any one of us who was addicted to entertainment.

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Have to examine, what are life is like r me very deep in sixty, nine coming to tylreninsaid the class ro, r ther people who are said and not performers, may be family, atmosphere is not positive and they have giving, then she s a license to be in senser fill with self sympathy and there for fail six to nine is very depression life, six to nine is where sadness life in six to nine is very soy sides, happen winter someedycominto sucide, then they believe there is nothing to look folwretowhenthey believe even life has no men, मतलब कल कुछ अच्छा होगा ही नहीं, कोई सॉल्यूशन है ही नहीं। people and task what are giving me a lot of sadness, if anybody, whom you love is in sixty, nine its your model, beauty modal obligation to get them ord of it an asumingnonofew president, or here is in sixtoline, if you were you wont get up early in the morning on a sunday and go if you were you would go to the class rooms and teach there s something that your looking four सो सिक्टी nine to na so smाइलपलीसजरा देख के लग रहा था, कुछ लोग सोचना चालू कर दिए थे, हा सिक्सटी नाइन में है क्या कभी कभी सैड तो होता हूँ अरे कभी कभी ठीक है तर को डायबिटीज है और सब लोग आसपास में गुलाब जामुन खा रहे हैं और बोल रहे हैं आज क्या है मूंग हलो नहीं 9 बजे के बाद six to nine ke bad nfortunately one of your love on at home and teldestoyacildnos may be a mother, may be a fader lets, see fader is lost a job and न सिटिंग वेरी वेरी एकदम क्वार्ट होम, मेरा तो जॉब चला गया, जॉब चला गया and now he scrolling most of the times, or is on the screen most of the times, the algorithms of social media work in such a fever, what something they will pust the same content and we start। थिंकिंग पूरी दुनिया में देखो कितना नेगेटिविटी है तुमने 1 निकाला है न तो उसके पीछे सवार है तुम हाथी की पूंछ को खींच रहे हो साथ में हाथी आयेगा एंड हर हर पीपल सी या आज कल जहाँ देखो यही दिखता है, जहाँ देखो आपके फ़ोन में।