Matt Ryder plays a prospect who hasn't been intimate with his spouse in two years, using probing questions about love language and desired physical intimacy to create urgency around divorce. He demonstrates how to blend personal relationship language, humor, and high-stakes framing to move prospects toward commitment.
Morning blower. You're like, what are we talking about? What's a perfect day for you in three, six, twelve months where you know this has worked? I come home from work. You've missed half the day, mate. It's perfect day. I was fucked at five p.m. So like perfect day when we're both at home on a weekend. Yeah, there we go. Now we've gone from a work day to a weekend. So we're getting better. So you wake up. Then what happens? Morning blower. You're like, what are we talking about? That'd be nice, right? Well, you wouldn't say no, would you? I haven't been intimate for two years. Two years? You want to change that? I'll do it. You sure? I promise. You don't have to. So we got more intimacy. What's your love language? I'm not sure, mate. Would you rather get food or hugged and fucked? Bit of both. Bit of both. There it is. You are acts of service, my friend. All right, so we got to figure out how to get you to talk your wife's love language, be more intimate, be able to hold you accountable, and actually give you a system and a structure to be able to do that. Is that right? Yeah. And what happens if we don't fix that? Divorce. Okay, you want to set up for that? Because you haven't fixed it yet. You want to fix it now? Not now. You sure? Okay, I think what we do will work then. You keep those dark moments lighthearted. I could say, is your love language fucking physical touch? These are funny things that we try and say to break tension because it's, it's a difficult time for the prospect.
