Short YouTube coaching clip where Patricia expresses long-standing internal conflict, exhaustion, and responsibility to family; Andy Elliott reframes her struggle as an ongoing battle between competing desires and positions her purpose—helping others—as the lever to overcome burnout. The exchange emphasizes emotional honesty, accountability, and vocational purpose as motivation.
Do I have to live my entire flippin life pissed? You know, like, can I get to a place that I can actually flow with this shit? Or I'm gonna have to fight my demons for the rest of my life.
I'm sorry, but this. You're gonna have to fight demons for the rest of your life. The problem is that you're two people. And I love you, but you're two people. You're like, I want to be comfortable. I don't want anybody to bother me. I want to have a good life. I want to go on a beach and hang out. And then you're like, but also want to build this big business because I want to help a lot of people. Here's the deal. You can have it all. But it's war, Patricia. It's war. It's war.
Since I was five.
Watch. It's a different war now from like.
You don't understand my background. No, I know in my story, right? So I've been, you know, I came from Brazil with nothing.
Watch this.
I don't even know how to say.
In English, hold on, I love you. Here's the.
You see what I'm saying? But it's like, yeah, I'm like, yeah, I got tired.
Yeah, I know, but do you know what?
Here, excuse me, guys, for my vocabulary.
But no, no, no, this is, this is where, this is where people become coaches. Like, this is why you come in here is because you want to change something. People like, I can't believe she said a cuss word. No, I'm glad she's finally getting pissed off. I'm glad that she's finally getting stirred up because that, that weakness does not belong in her. And actually, what's wrong? Is she just that proud of herself? No more.
I apologize. You know, I've been really hard, but I'm not giving up. I'm going, but I'm trying to go into that place.
No, I love it. Listen, I love you. I want you to cry, but these excuses gotta go.
Can fucking get to the place where I'm like, I don't know what it is because it's. You know, I still have a son with two grandkids. I still have a mother in Brazil that I take care of. You know, it's just like I have these people depending on me, but at the same time, I don't know. I can't explain it.
No, I understand. Listen to me. It's called purpose. Does that make sense? If anyone in this room finds themselves doing the work, but the purpose fades you hit burnout, nobody burns out. I said burnout because I know what it looks like. This is the deal. It's called purpose. Okay, Everybody understand this. Andy Elliott's purpose is that I should not be alive. I should be dead. I should be in jail. I shouldn't have my wife. I. I should not have my kids. I should not have this business. But because I'm here, I'm not going to let him down for keeping me here. He's counting on me for something big. And so, as I hear you, I'm like, Patricia, you're a weapon to go crush the enemy. And not. It's not about money. It's not that the business is going down and people aren't buying your Black Friday offer and all that shit. It's about, like, Patricia loves helping people. Right now, she's not helping enough people, so it's eating her alive.
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The best thing that the devil would love is for you to just get tired and quit. Your faith in God needs to increase and rise.
