Watch this to get your first 5 customers

I'm going to show you how to get your first five customers in 10 steps. The wild world of YouTube has videos everywhere telling you how to scale and grow. But I think people over complicated. And so this is actually a sneak peek from my new book, $100 million leads, which comes out 819. You can go to acquisition.com leads. Let's dive in. So the first step to getting this going is you need to get a list. But I don't have a list, Alex. You're damn straight you do. Number one, I want you to go to your email account to pull all the contacts that you have in there. Anybody that you've ever messaged or emailed. That becomes list one. List two is I want you to go to every single social media profile that you have. Go to your social media profiles where you can direct message people. So if you have followers that you can dm, I want you to write down every single one of those people. List number three, pull out your phone, look for your contacts. I want you to export them. List one is all your email contacts. List two is all of your social contacts. And list three is all of your phone and private personal contacts. If you add all three of those together, you will have a shitload more leads than you thought you did. You're like, wait, you're going to ask me to contact these people? Slow down. Not yet. And we're not going to do it in a really weird way. I'm showing you how to do it in a classy way. This is how I started every business I have and have people thank me for it. The second step is that you pick a platform. All right, so you have all these contacts, but you're going to have to pick one platform that you're going to start messaging or emailing them with. Start with the one that you have the most people on. So if you have the most Instagram people or you have the most email contacts or you have more people in your phone than any of those, start there. Step three. But what do I say? You personalize your message. So what you want to do is you want to use something you already know about the person or prospect in order to initiate reaching out to them. This is also just called being a human being. What you do is you take 30 seconds, you look at someone's profile, and you say, oh, they have got this thing. We have something in common. And you can reach out to them with that as your primary message. So, for example, you can be like, hey, saw you got a baby. Hey, saw you Switch jobs. Hey, saw you move. Hey, you saw that movie last weekend. It doesn't matter. All you need to show is that you took a few seconds to actually not just blast some sort of message. Step four, you reach out, and you reach out to 100 people every single day. So let's say you had 3,000 people between all your emails, all your phone contacts, and every single follower across all your social medias. It took you 20 years to send your first DM and it'll take you two minutes to send the second one. Everything must be hard before it can be easy. So just get over the hump. Send it just something so you can realize that you won't die. Step five, what do I say if they reply? You warm them up. I use a framework that I call aca. You acknowledge compliment and you ask, for example, I can acknowledge and say, oh, so you have two kids. You're going to compliment them about the thing. So it's like, wow, you have two kids. You must be a super mom working full time and having two kids. When we go to ask, we're going to tie our ask to the compliment we just gave them. Then we transition to whatever type of question that's going to lead them to the service we sell. If I were selling weight loss, I'd be like, hey, so you're a supermodel. How do you have time to eat right and work out? Wait a second. This sounds like selling. It's not because we're talking fucking humans. Step six, invite their friends. When you're talking about this stuff, you're not going to sell them. This is fucking huge. You're not going to solicit them. You asked a question, they're going to tell you stuff, and then it's going to be like, oh, yeah, by the way, do you know anyone who's looking for X, Y and Z? Because I'm opening up a few slots to help people do exactly that. You're just asking them if they know anybody. And since you're friends with them and since your contacts you're asking them for a favor, you're not asking them to buy from you. This should make you not feel weird about messaging people. If they say, hey, I'd like to find out more. Now, what they have done is they've transitioned from a lead to an engaged lead. A lead is somebody that you can contact. An engaged lead is someone who you can contact, comma, who has shown interest in the thing that you sell. If she says, I haven't been able to keep up with my workouts, etc. Now they have shown interest in the thing. Well, then how do I get them to buy from it? We're going to give them the easiest offer in the world to say yes to. You're going to make it free. They probably know that you're not that experienced. Just be honest. The reason we do it for free is you say, hey, I'm going to do all this stuff for free as long as you promise to do three things. One, you actually use my service. Two, you give me feedback on it. And three, leave a killer review if you think it deserves one. Those are the terms of exchange. The reason I want you to start with that is that one, it'll get you more reps. Two, you probably suck. Three, you need to learn how to suck less. And you suck less by doing more. And it's way easier to get more people to work with you. If you lower the barrier to free, you're actually getting the better end of the deal. You might be wondering why I just mushed this banana in my hand. And it's because the launch of My second book, $100 million leads, is both nutritious, natural, and will make you lots of money, unlike bananas. But the event itself, where I'll be launching it on Saturday, August 19, will be bananas. I've spent over a million dollars on the event itself, and I'm going to be giving away a secret thing that I've been working on for over four years to everyone who's there with me live. And I would love to tell you what it is. It kills me inside that I cannot tell you, but I want the surprise itself to be worth it, and I think it will be. This is a date that you're not going to miss. It's a day after my birthday and it's my way of giving back to you guys for being so awesome. Click the link register and I'll see you guys there. I'll tell you the quick story of Warren Buffett and Ben Graham. Ben Graham was the goat back in the day for investing. Warren Buffett was just a kid out of Columbia and wanted to go learn investing, and he offered to work for Graham for free. Graham said, you're getting the better end of the deal. The actual answer was, you're overpriced. So free was too expensive for Graham because Graham knew that he was going to have to invest more in getting Warren good enough to actually work for him. And so right now, these customers, and they are very much customer because they are exchanging something for your service. They're exchanging their time and their effort and some stuff later that you're going to have them do. Just because you're not getting paid doesn't mean it's free, but it is monetarily free. So gather round. I'm going to give you two versions of this. You say, by the way, do you know anybody who is describe their struggles looking to Dream Outcome in time delay? I'm taking on five case studies for free because that's all I can handle. I just want to get some testimonials for my service or product. And we're being honest because this is a first business and you fucking have no idea what you're doing. So you better not take more than five customers. I just had a girl named XXX work with me to get Dream Outcome, even though she described the same struggle the person you're talking to is struggling with. I'd like to get more testimonials to show it works across different scenarios. Does anyone you like come to mind if they say no? Here's a really funny way you can respond to that. Do you say haha? Does anyone you hate come to mind? Honestly, that's when you'll sometimes get the real response. If you don't have time to say all of those things, you just say I help the type of customer get Dream Outcome in time period without effort and sacrifice and offer I guarantee X, Y and Z to decrease risk. That's it. That's if you just had that moment to deliver one thing of what do I do? Some special snowflakes are going to be like you should never sell your time for nothing. You suck. You have never done this before so it would be unreasonable for you to be good. Why would you want to sell sucky service to people you know? If people don't want to work with you even for free, then ask them why. Because the reason that someone tells you they don't want to work with you even for free is because there are hidden costs associated with whatever thing you sell. If you figure out what all those hidden costs are, you can eliminate those hidden costs and then be able to charge significantly more for your solution later compared to the other people who charge for it and still include those hidden costs. So I'll give you an example. I got solicited in this exact manner and a guy messaged me and said I want to do short form videos for you. You don't have to do anything. I will take all the stuff you already have online and I will make them for you and I'll even post them for you. Like you actually just need to say yes. And so I said yes. And guess what? You started making short videos and he started accepting payments because he had removed the hidden cost. If people get value from this thing you have, especially if it's free, they're far more likely to leave positive reviews, give you feedback, and send their friends and family. Once we have that, we have our first customers. Now we go to step eight. You start back at the top. So you had that big list, and we hit all of them once and back again. So some of those people, by the way, when you ask them if they know anybody, they actually just give you people that they know that might help. And you get free leads because if you reach out to 3,000 people with a free thing, you'll get five people who will take you up on it, I promise you. So now you're like, but Alex, I can't work for free forever. Now we're on step nine. Start charging. Once people start referring, that's when you know you were good and enough to start charging. When this happens, all you do is you go back up to the script that I just read to you and you Change free to 80% off and you say, that's for the next five. What do you do after that? Change the 80% to 60%. After you get those five, change to 40, then to 20, then you're at full price. But guess what, doesn't have to stop there. You can go 20% over, you can go 40% over that because there are no rules. And if at that point you're way better, you may merit that because of the value that you deliver, because ideally you're charging full retail. But now you're at 10x. The value value that you have done has gotten better because you figured out from the feedback that these people that work with you for free have told you so that you can make it even better for people who pay you. Once you have those people and you started transitioning, congratulations, you are in business and you are making money. You, at some point reach capacity when you fill up all your slots with free people and discounted people. Now you have true scarcity and so you can ethically sell with conviction that you really don't have that much room. They will desire you more because you are scarce from a resource perspective. And then they will pay the same or premium in order to work with you. And then you turn to your free person and you say, I am accepting somebody who is paying full boat in order to do this. If you would like me to keep doing this for you, you would have to start paying to match them. Are you comfortable with that? If they're not, no sweat. Because all you did is you helped them for free. And you say, no worries. Can I get the killer, killer review you asked me for or I asked you for? And those free people, you have to love and cherish them more than anyone else in your life because they're going to get you business in three different ways. One, they're going to leave you reviews that are going to get you. Two, they're going to send you people that are going to get your business. And three, they themselves may transition into paying you, which will also get you business. Don't think short, think long and you'll make long money. Now you have paying customers. You're reaching your capacity. You're consistently raising your price because now there is more demand than you have supply. And we have artificially created a condition for profit. So what's the ten step? Keep them warm. You've got this big list of people. Check in like a human being. Provide value to them on a regular basis. When you do that, you continue to reinforce and deposit goodwill in the audience. Because what will happen eventually is you won't even need to ask them because you've provided enough value. You start posting enough testimonials, enough results, talking about some of the entrenched stuff that you're doing right now that people be like, hey, that's actually pretty cool. Hey, can I find out more about that? And then they will actually start soliciting you. And that's the game. That's how you go from zero to hero and get your first five paying customers.