Niraj NaikFounder & CEO of SOMA Breath | Music-Powered Breathwork Pioneer | DJ, Speaker & Author

When polarity is off, attraction just doesn't work. Do you know what I'm talking about?

4 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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Short excerpt from a Niraj Naik YouTube video arguing that societal changes blur traditional male/female roles ("polarity"), which he claims harms romantic attraction and reduces committed relationships. The speaker cites several high-level statistics about dating apps, relationship formation rates, breakup rates, and divorce to support the claim that committed relationships are increasingly rare.

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Like men and women should be like women and shouldn't be scared of it. But society these days has made it that women have to be like men and men are becoming like women. It's all getting confused. And that's not good for romance, is it? That sucks for romance. That's why no one's having sex anymore. Yeah. Did you know the statistics of relationships, right? That there is 350 million people on dating apps? 2.5% of them actually get into a relationship. But 40% of those relationships fall apart? They break. If they're lucky, a tiny percentage of them end up with marriage. Marriage also has a 40, 50% divorce rate. Right. So the chances of being in a committed relationship is really tiny these days. It's a horrifying statistic. I think it's because this male female confusion, polarity.