Lack is making you settle for less | Mitesh Khatri | Law Of Attraction

Welcome back. Today we are going to learn about lack. Why do we feel lack in our life? What happens when we feel lack? And how to remove lack? 3 simple steps. Just imagine in the next 10 to 15 minutes, if we could really identify the root cause of lack in your life, and if we could understand what happens because of that lack, and if we could even give you an exercise using which in the next 7 days You could convert that lack into abundance. If you could really do that in the next 7 days, would you be interested in that? In fact, would that be a game changer for you? Type in game changer in the comments if you agree that could be a total game changer for you today. Right? So let's learn how do you do that. But first, let's understand what is lack. Take a notepad and take a pen quickly and take a blank page. Make sure you take a blank page. Okay? Make a nice big circle quickly. In the center, write down lack. Now, because of the lack which is in the center, what happens around our life? Let's understand that first. What is lack? Lack in very simple word is less. Write down the word less. Now, frankly speaking, there are 2 parts of lack which most people look at it in a very confusing way, but it's actually very different. Let me clarify. Shortage is different. Lack is different. Write this down, please. When you say I have less money, it can mean 2 things. It can mean I have shortage of money, or you have the money, but you feel lack of money. So you see, shortage is different. Lack is different. Now, I'm not saying that you don't have shortage in life. Sometimes you have shortage. Sometimes you don't have shortage. The feeling of lack has nothing to do with that. Sometimes people have shortage and feel lack. Sometimes people have surplus, still feel lack. Now, does that happen with you sometimes? Type an I in the comment section if you agree that sometimes you have surplus, nothing is wrong in life, you still feel lack. So that is why I said shortage is different, lack is different. Correct? Now, when you feel lack, what are the consequences of that in your manifestation? When you feel lack, what happens because of that in your life? Let's write down some symptoms that happen because of lack. Where do you feel lack in life? First, write that down. Do you feel lack in money? Some people feel lack in relationships. Like, I was talking to some other Platinum member that day, and she said, my life partner stays in a different country. I stay in a different country, and I feel lack of companionship. I feel lack of love. Now, I'm not saying the problem is not there. The problem is there. But the feeling of lack is a feeling because there are times when she doesn't feel the lack, and sometimes she has the husband with her, still feels lack. You think that's also possible? How many people here have experienced that? You're with your partner, but you don't feel the companionship, you don't feel the love. So you see, sometimes the person is there, but the lack is also there. So the feeling of lack has nothing to do with the situation. It is just an internal— Feeling. Pattern. We're just going through that as a habit. It's a feeling. It's not a situation. Situation is different. Feeling is different. Is that making sense? Where else do you feel lack in your life other than money and relationships? Career. Maybe you feel you've got less money because your career is not doing well. So you start feeling lack in your career that I'm not getting my promotion. My business is not growing at the speed at which it should grow. All that is thoughts of lack. Now, sometimes shortage in business is there, but the lack is also there, which is a feeling. Sometimes there is no shortage in business, but you still feel lack. Does that make sense? I'll give you one last example, a very simple lack which everybody experiences in life once in a while. It's called lack of confidence. Do you feel that sometimes? Type in lack of confidence if you ever feel that. Lack of confidence is when you, let's say, going on the stage for the first time and you don't have the guts to do that. Lack of confidence. You're creating content and you're feeling lack of confidence in creating the content. Lack. Whenever we're feeling lack in life, it's in different areas of life, but the feeling is the same— having less of something. Now I'll show you how to convert this lack into abundance today in the next 10 minutes, but before I do that Would you like to know the consequences of that lack in your life? Because if you don't understand the consequences, your need, your motivation to come out of that lack will be very low. But when we know the consequences, then we are ready to transform that feeling. So is it okay if I take a couple of minutes to explain to you what are the consequences of lack in life? Raise your hands if you're okay with that. Come on. Even if you're on a video, you can still raise your hands, right? Okay, so let's understand the consequences. First consequence of lack. Whenever we feeling lack in any area of life, we take less than we deserve. Right? We take less than we deserve because we feel I have less. So whatever comes is okay. It's like if you feel lack of love and somebody offers you love and you know this person is not worth you, you'll be like, "ले लो यार दिन के कोस डूबते का सहारा." Right? How many of you agree with that? And we accept love from anybody, right? Or you'll accept a job from any person or any type of job. This happens to us because we feel lack. The second symptom that happens to us is we accept things fast. We receive too fast. We, we accept too fast. Somebody offers us something without thinking, we take it to say, yes, I want it. See, it's like when a person is hungry, when a person is like a beggar and you give them food, do they think? Is this hygienic? Is this good for me? Is this going to be overweight for me? No, nobody thinks because you're hungry, right? So you're like, give it to me. So we take too fast. Have you experienced that? There's a sense of hurry inside you when there is lack, correct? Now, third is the worst symptom of lack. Write this down. After achieving, it becomes useless. Let me explain. When you feel lack, You feel, let's say, lack for a person in your life. Okay? One day that person will come in your life, has come in your life. In one or two weeks maximum, that person will become useless for you, and you'll feel lack again. So the worst symptom of feeling lack is whatever you're feeling lack for, you may get it. And it may become completely useless. In fact, you have already gone through that. Type an I in the comments if you've gone through that experience where you got something, but there was no point of having it because it just became meaningless in some time. And then you wanted something more. Then you wanted something else because lack had become a habit, a pattern. So knowing these symptoms, I have a simple question for you. Would you like to break this pattern of lack? And create a pattern of abundance. Type in abundance in the comment section if you're interested in that, because I'm definitely interested in abundance. Abundance in what? Abundance in health, relationships, career, money, everywhere in life. Correct? So here is the step one of creating abundance in life. Step one is identify the specific area where you're feeling lack first. Write it down. Like, let's do this exercise right now with me. Okay? Wherever you're feeling lack, don't keep it very generic. Like, whenever people say to me, I'm feeling a lot of lack in my life. My first question to them is, where? Like, where are you feeling lack? When we don't specify, it becomes impossible to handle that situation because you're just going through a vague emotional pattern. Correct? So step 1, write down where are you feeling lack and tell me in the comments right now. Where are you feeling lack? So those of you who are attending with me live right now, Platinum members who are attending live, I'll check for your answers in the comments. The comment section is open. Are you feeling lack in money? Are you feeling lack in a job that you want or a promotion that you want? Or are you feeling lack in love that you're not getting from your loved ones? Or are you feeling lack of support from your life partner? What are you feeling lack of? Are you feeling lack of opportunities in spite of working hard in your business? What are you feeling lack of? Whatever you are feeling lack of, step 1 is already done. You've identified that area. Correct. Now step two, ask yourself. Step two is identify the need. Everybody write this down. Identify the need, which is you ask yourself that if I got this, what would I feel? Example, some of you have written in the chat window job and salary. Okay. After you got the job, after you got the salary, ask yourself the first day you got it and you've got the first salary in your account. What would you feel? Identify that feeling first and write it down. It's very important to identify what feeling would you like to experience from that goal which you have shortage of right now. See, along with the shortage, there's a lack feeling. We want to identify what is that area. We did that step 1. Step 2, why am I feeling shortage in this area? What is the lack behind it? What is the feeling I want after achieving that goal? Let's take another example. Some of you said, I want to be married. Okay, so if you want to be married, what would you feel after you are married? Would you feel loved? Would you feel being together with somebody? Whatever you want to feel, write it down. Now, some of you said, I want to buy my own house. Okay, so what would you feel after you buy the own house? Secured. All right, so write down secured. Satisfied. Write down satisfied. Whatever was missing, write it down. Why? Once you have identified the need in step number 2, in step number 3, practice the feeling that is missing. If you could practice that feeling which you want now, as if you already have it, now there is a very high chance that you start upgrading your what? Show me your hands, everybody. Your vibrations, your frequency, and you're not feeling low anymore. You're feeling high. And because you start practicing that feeling, You start vibrating at that frequency. What is the chance of attracting what you want? Goes pretty high because your vibrations are higher. But let's practice this to feel this. Whatever you have written is the identification of your need in step two as a feeling. In step three, I want you to write this down. I already feel, and then fill in the blanks has to be your word, your feeling which you've identified. Example. I already feel confident. I already feel loved. Now, I know what you're thinking. Isn't that fooling myself? Isn't that lying to myself? Okay, listen. Sometimes when somebody has not come home on time and you're already worried for them, when they come home, don't you realize your worry was pointless? Don't you realize that sometimes that we exaggerate our worries? Raise your hands. Yes. Correct. So if you can worry for the future, why can't we feel good about the future? It's not fooling yourself; it's taking control of your emotions. It's channeling your emotions. Making sense? Okay. So let's practice this. I already feel. Take that feeling and say it five times. Example: I'm going to say, "I already feel I have everything." I love this one, by the way. I already feel I have. everything. Third time, I already feel I have everything. Fourth time, I already feel I have everything. Fifth time, I already feel I have everything. If you can continue feeling this every day, you're not practicing lack anymore. You're practicing having that feeling that you want. Is that making sense now? Yes. Okay. Now, it is important that every single day you practice this the whole day. I'll tell you why the whole day practice is important. When we feel lack, there is a symptom that I did not tell you, which I want to tell you now. Every night you will be restless. Type in restless if you have experienced being restless at night, and I'll tell you what we do when we have lack and we feel restless at night. We get into addictions. We get into unhealthy activities— watching too much mobile, watching too many movies. Overworking yourself, but basically you will not sleep on time, and you will keep stressing out because of that lack. Now, during the day people are kind of fine, but at night it gets worst. Type in worst if it gets worst at night. I'll tell you why it gets worst at night. What happens at night is a multiplication of what you did during the day. Let me explain. Because you're restless the whole day, actually, but you've just been sedated. Sedated means what? Unconscious. You're working during the day, you're talking to your parents, you're talking to your family, you're doing the work in the office, you're probably attending some of these courses, you're doing videos on YouTube. The whole day, more or less, we are busy. Would you agree with that? Raise your hands. Yes. So unconsciously, the restlessness of lack is there. But you're not feeling it. Now the moment night happens, now you don't have work to do, office work is done. Now all those emotions come out and you start feeling lack even more. You remember, crisis and opportunities don't make you feel anything. It only multiplies your existing emotional pattern by how many times? Ten times. So at the end of the day, welcome back, guys. I think we got disconnected there for a second. Time for what? Double happiness. All right, let me continue from there. So whenever we are feeling lack, we are restless. And at night, the restlessness is getting worse because we were already restless the whole day. Is that making sense? So what do we need to do? Do we need to take care of the restlessness at night, the lack at night, or the whole day? The whole day. So now your exercise is the whole day, every time you feel lack, quickly identify What is the shortage where I'm feeling lack? What is the shortage where I'm feeling lack? Two, what is the feeling I want because of which I'm feeling lack? See, the shortage is the shortage. The lack is the feeling. But what feeling am I lacking because of the shortage? Write that down. That if I got the job, what would I feel? If I got the marriage, what would I feel? If I got the confidence, what would I feel? If I spoke on the stage, what would I feel? After you've written that, step 3, start practicing it every day. Start saying it during that time. I already feel. Is that making sense to all of you? I already feel. The more you say I already feel, the more you start feeling it. Because you start feeling it, you start creating it. And that is how you go from lack to abundance, but specifically in the area that you want. Now the question is, if you really want to practice this with me every single day, those of you who are watching this with me on YouTube Live right now, come and become part of our Daily Magic Practice where every single day we help you practice these kind of things. Like right now I'm doing this live with Platinum members who are talking to me and we're going to do a Q&A with them about this technique right now so that their questions can help you clarify some of your questions as well. But if you would love to be part of our Daily Magic Practice where every day you would like to practice with us, link is in the description Below this video. Quickly click on it and subscribe. But I want you to give me a promise, a promise that you will practice this converting lack into abundance technique for 7 days and then report back in this video that did you practice? Did you identify the lack? Did you write down the feeling you want? Did you practice the feeling you want? And what changed in your life because of that during the day? And I guarantee you, the biggest symptom you will experience is If you do this the whole day, at night you'll be very peaceful. You will not be restless. The reason is you've dealt with your day, so the night becomes easy. Makes sense? All right, so with your promise in the comment section, type it in the comments, everybody who's watching on YouTube right now. I promise I will practice and come back in 7 days and respond here. Yes. Now, as promised, here are some question answers with the Platinum members to understand this technique better. All right, so Platinum members, who has any questions about this specific technique right now? All right, so here we go. Hila, what's your question?

So,

yes,

thank you for this session. This was, this was exactly what I needed. I've been feeling lack, like, I don't know for how long. Uh, the thing is, like, I want to feel accomplished and worthy. In, in step 2, I identified that I want to feel accomplished and worthy. But right now, when I see that the result is not there, How do I feel it? Like, it becomes really difficult. I keep telling myself that I'm accomplished, I'm worthy, but it doesn't last for a long time. How do I make it last?

Perfect question. Thank you for asking that question. When you say you don't feel accomplished and worthy, it's because you're only repeating. Here is an additional step that I can give you to help you feel that. I want you to give me 5 examples where you have already accomplished something and you already feel worthy of accomplishing that. From your past. Give me—

From my past.

From your past. Step 1, where have you accomplished something?

I, I completed my CA exam. I got 3 jobs while before landing in Canada. I, I got an amazing salary. I bought my own, uh, house in Canada by on, on my own, not taking money from anyone. 4. And, uh, I— what else? I've lost eight kgs weight.

I can see that, by the way. You've lost weight. Yes. Okay. Five.

Okay. And what else?

Do you see what's happening? How much time we take to recognize our accomplishments from the past?

Give

me one more quickly.

Yeah. Think of it. I joined Platinum.

Okay. That's an accomplishment. Fair. So you've got five. And now say it with me. I am already accomplished. I'm already worthy of it. Say it loudly.

I'm already accomplished. I'm already worthy of it.

Say it again.

I'm already accomplished. I'm already worthy of

it. Now check how you're feeling compared to how you said it earlier before speaking to me. And now when you say this this way, after remembering 5 examples of your past experiences and then saying, I'm accomplished and worthy, check how you're feeling.

Better. Yeah.

Does it feel like a lie? Does it feel like a hollow feeling anymore?

No, it's not hollow. It's like I have to remember it because I'm not practicing it, so I have to remember it. Correct. The muscle memory is not there, but yeah, yeah.

But every day I think about it. But does it feel like more genuine this time compared to just repeating it for the sake of it?

Yes. Right?

So whenever you say to yourself, I am accomplished, I am worthy, I want you to know this: any feeling you want, you have already experienced in your life. That is why you want more of it.

How interesting!

How can you want a rasgulla when you have not experienced a rasgulla? Makes sense. How can you want a chocolate when you don't know what is a chocolate? Fair, right? So if you want a feeling, it means you've already experienced the feeling. So all you have to do is identify five examples where you have already experienced that feeling, and then say. I already feel this becomes easy because now you have the proof.

Yeah, makes sense.

Okay, perfect. Good question, by the way.

Thank you.

All right, so let's go to the next question. Who else has a different question than this? Okay, here we go. Varun, what's your question? Yes, go for it.

Thank you. Thank you, sir.

Most welcome.

Sir, I have a question on, uh, like, you know, uh, it happens that, for example, I feel lack of confidence. And, uh, generally in a situation where you are, let's say for example in the office, something happens. Then like in the morning I get up with a feeling that yes, I'm very confident, I'll remember things that I've accomplished, but something will happen which will make me again go back to my old pattern, which is feeling lack of confidence. So

again, whenever you say words like something happens, you can never work on it. You can never work on it because you have already told your mind, I don't know why I'm feeling lack of confidence. I don't know what happened. It's like some invisible virus came and caught me. It's not like that. You need to be aware. Step number 1, awareness. What is the shortage that is making me feel lack of confidence? In that moment, you have to catch it. In that moment. Right? So go back to the last memory you remember and tell me specifically, where were you feeling lack of confidence? Specifically?

Yeah, I think, uh, during the meeting, say in the office, and when the spotlight is on me and I have to say something. Okay, so now hold on.

When you write this down, never think of meetings. It's that meeting, right?

Yes.

Because otherwise you're going to tell your mind, any meeting I go through, I go through shortage of feelings, of lack of confidence. Not true. Right. There are times you've been in a meeting, but you've not felt lack of confidence.

Correct? Absolutely.

So now, in this specific example, I want you to go to that memory and tell me when you were in that meeting, you felt lack of confidence when you were put on spotlight in that particular meeting. Correct?

Correct.

Okay. Step 2. What do you want in that meeting? What would you like to feel? Tell me. Next time that meeting happens and they put that spotlight on you, what would you like to feel?

Yeah, I would like to feel that I know everything. I am confident in answering all the questions. And you know, I am yeah. My responses are articulate. Okay, good.

So say it with me. I already know what I need to say. Say it loud. I already know what I need to say, and I'm comfortable talking in this meeting.

And I'm comfortable talking in this meeting.

Now, right now, this may seem like a little hollow for you, just like Ela. So I want you to remember five meetings where you felt. You knew what you wanted to say and you said it comfortably. Can you give me examples of five meetings, please? And remind me and give me exact five meetings. One.

Yes, I think three days back I had a meeting with one on one with one of my colleague, which was

very good. So that was one meeting. Two.

Yeah, that was one meeting. I had a meeting with with some of my family members. Like okay, good.

Two.

I was very confident in that.

Very good.

Three. And then There was a face-to-face meeting regarding my property. So I was meeting with the property agent. So that made me quite confident.

That's 3.

And

you see how your smile is increasing every example that you're mentioning?

Yeah.

Okay.

4. Yeah. And 4th, I don't remember honestly. But

when was the last time you did magic of 6, spoke to Platinum members in a meeting?

Yes, yes, yes, yes, I have, I've done that many times. So,

uh, what about this meeting?

Yeah, this meeting too. It's coming quite naturally that I'm able to talk to you, uh, with very, like, lot of ease and, uh, perfect.

So 5 examples are there. Now I want you to say it again. I know what I need to say. Say, I know

what I need to say

and I'm comfortable talking in this meeting.

And I'm comfortable talking in this meeting.

Okay, now imagine yourself in that meeting and see what happens. Same meeting.

Yeah, because, sir, what happens is that generally in these meetings or areas where you feel low confidence, you, you want that you should be prepared. Like, you need— like, that need comes that I should be more prepared, right?

Correct.

Before I enter into any meeting.

Okay, good point.

So

we are not talking about preparation shortage right now, we are talking about feeling shortage right now. We're talking about the lack feeling, correct? As far as the preparation is concerned, do you think any amount of preparation is ever enough?

No, no.

How much ever you study for school, is it ever enough? How much ever you study for exams, do you think it's ever enough? No. How much ever I prepare for this video, do you think it is enough? I still had new questions. It is never enough. So the shortage of preparation is not the problem here. The problem is how you feel in that meeting. Try and remember one meeting where you felt absolutely comfortable, you were not prepared, and yet you were able to take control of that meeting. Can you remember such meeting? I'm sure you've gone through that and experienced.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yes, I do remember some meetings where, uh, the meet— I wasn't prepared, but it went really well.

Beautiful. So is it about the amount of preparation, or is it about the feeling?

It is, uh, you're right, it's about the feeling. Like, if you feel confident, you stay confident, even if you're— and if you don't have—

That is not to say that we are undermining preparation. You prepare. In fact, if you are right now feeling confident in advance, don't you think you'll prepare better?

Correct.

Makes sense now?

Yeah.

So 3 simple steps.

Thank you.

Identify, Where you're feeling the shortage. Write down what you want to feel. 3, write down 5 areas where you have already felt that feeling and say it loudly and practice it, saying, I'm already feeling this now, which is what you and I did right now. And then when you visualize yourself in the same situation, becomes easy.

And this generally, sir, one follow-up question, uh, at— in the moment when something like this is happening, right, so then it becomes very hard to Think of these three steps. Like we can think it in the hindsight and practice it.

Okay.

But say you are in that situation, right?

Good question.

Any tips for that?

Okay. This is where you use anchoring. In NLP, if you remember in Platinum, we taught you anchoring. Example: I don't. I'm not wearing anything. But right now, are you wearing anything in your hands? What are you wearing?

Show me. Yeah. Maybe a ring.

A ring. Okay.

So just hold that ring.

Everybody who's wearing anything in your hands right now, like you've got a kada or a ring or earrings or a mangalsutra, anything, just touch it. Okay. Like in my case, I generally use my headset because I always use my headset. So I would touch my headset right now. So I want you to touch your ring, okay? And say it. Anytime I need to remember.

Anytime I need to remember.

No, touch your ring first. Touch your ring first. Oh, you've got your phone on the other hand. Okay. All right. So just touch your hands like this. Touch with your one thumb. Yeah, very good. As you're touching your thumb with the ring, say, anytime I want to remember these 3 steps.

Anytime I want to remember these three steps,

I simply touch this ring.

I simply touch this ring.

The moment I touch this ring,

I remember.

I remember to ask what I want to feel. Say it loudly.

I want to ask what I want to feel.

I remember to ask what I want to feel, and then I practice it.

I I want to remember what I want to feel, and I remember.

And I practice it.

And I practice it.

Every time I touch this finger.

Every time I touch this finger.

Every time I touch this ring.

Every time I touch this ring.

These three steps work in my subconscious automatically.

These three steps work in my subconscious automatically.

Now leave the ring. That's it. Now this is anchored. It's like a memory.

Yep.

So I use this with certain body parts on my body. Like I have this habit of doing this. So whenever I want to be more creative, I touch this part of me and my brain starts getting creative because I have remembered.