In this motivational video, Paridhi Dhingra (presenting on behalf of Mitesh Khatri) outlines a three‑level money‑mindset framework that determines whether a person remains poor, becomes middle‑class, or achieves wealth. The first level, the "refusal trap," is a subconscious belief that blocks the acceptance of money; viewers are guided to write down their limiting reasons for not receiving money and then to challenge and disprove each one. The second level, the "leaking bucket trap," describes a pattern where any incoming money quickly disappears through unnecessary spending, loans, or emergencies; the speaker urges participants to identify leak points and shift focus from spending to multiplying wealth. The third level, the "rich mindset," reframes the core question from "how do I make money?" or "how do I spend more?" to "how can I add more value for others?" – citing examples like Elon Musk and Ratan Tata. Throughout, the presenter uses interactive prompts (hand‑raising, note‑taking) and real‑life anecdotes to keep the audience engaged. The video concludes with a call to action: a free first lesson of a "Wealth Mastery" course, encouragement to share the video with friends stuck in lower mindsets, and a teaser for the next video.
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I'm about to give you $10,000, but I can guarantee you, you won't take it. Sounds weird? Really. You're not going to take it for a simple reason. There is something inside your head right now that is stopping you from receiving money in your life. In the next few minutes, I'm going to tell you exactly what is stopping you from receiving money in your life and from taking and capitalizing opportunities in your life. But first, you must have heard, right, that there are 3 levels of income. What are those 3 levels of income? Take your fingers like this and say it with me right now. First is poor level. Second is middle class, and the third is what? Rich, right? So which level do you want to stay at in your life? 1, 2, or 3? As if you're going to say 1 or 2. Everybody says 3, no doubt about it. But do you know that actually these 3 levels of income are controlled by 3 levels of mindset? Yes, 3 levels of mindset. And the first level and the second level are called as trap mindsets. They actually trap you in that level of mindset. And they control whether you stay in that level or you supersede that level. Most people are stuck at level 1 and level 2. They are trapped in those levels because of which we are not able to go to level 3. You are not able to go to level 3 sometimes. Now listen, if you are already at level 3, you're definitely not watching this video right now. Why would you be watching this video if you're at level 3? You're at level— you're right now watching me and listening to this video because you want to go through the entire trap of 1 and 2 and go to level 3. Yes. So first, commit with me right now to stay with me till the very end of this video so you can break that trap. Are you committing? Say yes with me right now, because this might be one of the most important videos of your life, because it could actually help you today to break that trap and to go to the next level and eventually reach the level that you want to, which is what? 1, 2, or 3? Of course, level 3, right? Okay, so let's get ready, because in the next few minutes you will understand exactly which level you are at and how to break that and how to reach to level 3. Here we go. The first trap. Write it down. Take your notepads and write down quickly. The first trap, level one trap, which is the mindset trap that controls people and keeps them at poor frequency, poor wealth, or poor money situations. That first trap is called the refusal trap. Everybody write down the refusal trap. What is the refusal trap? The refusal trap is people just refuse to receive. You remember I told you the example that I will give you ten thousand rupees right now or ten thousand dollars right now, but you probably won't accept it. Why? Because some of us are in that refusal trap right now. I'll give you a good story. Last month, I met a student. of mine who was already making $100,000. Now he gets a promotion and goes to $110,000. Correct. After going to $110,000, this is the story he told me last month about his last 1-year experience. When he goes to $110,000, in the next year, his savings should have significantly increased, right? But no. In fact, his savings were only $1,000 for the entire year. Why is that? Here is why. After he got that promotion and he increased by $10,000, got a promotion. Suddenly his mind says, I don't think I deserve this money. So here is what happens with him. Somebody cheats him, takes advantage of him, and that money is gone. Somebody asks him for a loan, and out of love, out of affection, he gives money to those people and his money is gone. Unconsciously, what did he do with this money? He got the money, but what did he do? He refused it in a way. So did he get the money? Yes. But did he really keep the money? No. Because unconsciously he was refusing the money, as if there is an invisible field around money that we have created and we're saying, no, I don't want it. Now you think this is a very strange story, right? Let me give you examples from your life. Raise Raise your hands, even though you're watching me on video right now. Raise your hands if you can relate with this question. Has it happened with you that a friend asked you, you're so good at this, will you do it for me? I will pay you for this. And you said, no, it's okay, I will anyways do it for you for free. Have you done something like this? Something similar like this? Raise your hands. So what did you just do? Money was coming to you. You said, no, I don't want it. Has it happened with you that you saw an opportunity of, let's say, $200,000 job salary and you did not even apply for it? Why? Because your mindset, oh, maybe they are looking for someone more qualified. So what did you do? You refused for it before even you tried for it. Let me give you a good example. Have you ever played Ludo? If you look at the Ludo game, to win the game, you have to do something very important. You know what you have to do? You have to start playing. The problem is many of us, when we play the game, we don't even roll the dice because our mind says, doesn't matter how many times I roll the dice, I never win at this game, so I don't want to play this game. And you never start. How many of you have done this? You told yourself you always lose at this, so you might as well not try. I'm not good at writing books. I should not even try. I'm not good at writing notes, so I might as well not try. I'm not good at creating YouTube So forget it, यार मेरे से नहीं होने वाला है। I will not try also. Have you done that? This is called the refusal trap. But here is the good news for you: it's very easy to break through the first trap, which is the level one trap of money mindset. Very easy to break through it because this is not actually a skill; it is just a mindset problem. It is just a belief problem. It is just a deserving problem. You're not receiving it. That's all. Would you like to break this trap right now? Even though you're on video, raise your hands if you would like to break this trap right now. Okay, good. Take your notepad. I said good because I'm assuming you said yes. Okay, then I'm continuing. All right, let's go. Take your notepad, take a pen, and then write this exercise. I can't make money because— and now keep writing as many reasons as you can, as many reasons as you can, until you get exhausted and you're like, now, now there are no more reasons. All these reasons that you're about to write are your reasons of why you're refusing money to come to you. Now all you need to do is instead of believing in these reasons, start doubting these reasons. Example, I can't get a job because I don't have connections. Now, how many people have given this excuse to yourself here in life? I don't have connections. Raise your hands if you've ever told yourself. Okay, write it. I can't do this because I don't have connections. You know, the moment you write something, your brain actually now starts analyzing it. Is it true? So I want to write that statement and prove it wrong. Yeah, prove it wrong. Let your mind remind you, what am I saying? I actually have connections. I know so many people on LinkedIn. Actually, my dad knows so many people. Oh yeah, I know this one friend who's from Google. I have connections. I want you to Prove your reasons wrong. To whom? Yourself. Because the problem is, who is refusing money? Yourself. So you got to prove yourself wrong with all these refusal reasons. Once you write all these reasons down and you actually refuse the reasons instead of refusing money, you realize money starts coming in your life. Now, even though you break through trap number 1, which I know you will, some of you right now are not at level 1. And even if you are not, when you break the level 1, you go to level 2. So some of you are right now at level two, and maybe that is why some of you are not able to relate with level one trap because you're saying, "Mitesh, but I am not at level one." Okay, let's find out if you're at level two trap. Do you want to know what is the level two? Write it down. The level two is called as the leaking bucket trap. The leaking bucket trap. And exactly as the name goes, it's just leaking and leaking and leaking and leaking. I'll ask you a simple question: Has it happened with you that you got some extra money and suddenly you realize, "Arey, I wanted to go for that holiday," and you planned that holiday? You got some extra bonus. Bonus from your office and suddenly your car broke down and you had to spend that money. Or you got a gift during occasions from your family members with some extra money. You were very happy. Suddenly there was an emergency in the family, some medical problem, and that money was spent over there. Has something similar you have experienced? Yes. You may call this bad luck. It's not bad luck. It's your unconscious mind sabotaging the money that you have. You'll find a reason to leak. And I'll tell you what, people who are at level 2, the mindset is, even if I don't have the money, let me enjoy my life by taking a loan and go for a holiday because I have to live for today. They will buy something they cannot afford for their children because they'll say, I love my child. What is their fault if we have less money? Let's take loan on credit card and buy them that extra shoes. We find a reason to leak the money because we have that leaking mindset trap. Once we are stuck in that trap, any amount of money coming in does not matter. And if you don't believe me, look at your own past. If you are feeling that money comes and money goes, people who are at level 2 trap, for them, money is not something that comes and stays. Money is someone that comes like a guest, temporary visit, comes for some time, Goes away for a long time. Now, if you're experiencing this, promise me that you will take action today to start managing your money so that you don't always ask yourself this question, how can I enjoy my money more? But here is a new question. Write this down. How can I multiply my money more? See, people who are not stuck at level 2, they ask themselves, how can I multiply my money more? I want you to promise me to do this tonight. Find all the reasons to block the leaks and find all the ways to multiply your money from today. And if you're really serious about this whole idea of saving money, multiplying money, as my gift, I would like to invite you to my lesson number 1 of Wealth Mastery class. And it's the exact same lesson I'm teaching inside the Wealth Mastery course. And I'm giving you the lesson number 1 completely free so that you could truly identify what your blocks are, where the money is leaking from, and you could actually start going beyond it. Link is in the description below this video. Now let's understand how do we go to level 3, which is where you really want to go, right? The level 3 is about what? Rich mindset. Now, what is the rich mindset all about? The rich mindset is not about asking yourself 2 questions which people ask at level 1 and 2. See, think about it. Level 1, people who are stuck at the poor frequency of financial income, they always ask themselves, how do I make money? Correct? They don't have the money. So like, how do I make money? That's the question they always ask themselves. Level 2, leaking bucket trap people. At that mindset, people always ask themselves this question, how do I spend more money? How do I enjoy my money more? Now, instead of asking these 2 questions, ask the 3rd question. The 3rd question is, how do I add more value in people's life? Now, this may sound very cliché, but I'm telling you, the biggest billionaires in the world— I'm not even using the word millionaire— are never asking themselves, how do I make more money? They're always thinking, how do I add more value in people's life? Look, Elon Musk is not thinking in the morning, how do I make more money today? He's thinking, how do I make this world pollution-free? How do I make this planet A multi-planetary planet. See, people like Ratan Tata are not asking themselves, how do I sell more cars? He's thinking, how do I put a car in every Indian's family? So he's thinking about projects like Nano. Every rich person that you will think about, the mindset there is not about how do I make more, how do I spend more. No, the mindset is about how do I add more value, how do I add more value. If you really want to be at this level, write this now. What can I do for others such that they will easily give me money? Easily. What can I do for you that You will easily give me money. The more value you add in people's life, the easier people will give you money. Simple 3 levels of mindset, but they can totally transform your life provided you take action now. If you realized that some of your friends right now are stuck at level 1 or level 2— do you know some friends, by the way? Raise your hands if you know some friends. Share this video with minimum 3 of your friends who you know are stuck at one of these levels, because sometimes when they listen to this conversation from someone else like me, they might take that advice compared to coming from you, correct? So hit the subscribe button and hit the bell icon after that because the next video which I'm coming up with is going to blow your mind and help you achieve your goals at 10 times more speed. I'll see you soon in the next YouTube video. Take care, see you soon, bye.
