Rene DeceuninckFounder, IPB LLC Sharjah United Arab Emirates · International Keynote Speaker | Entrepreneur | Health & Wellness Resorts |📍🇦🇪

Why do I always attract the same?

22 Jul 2021 · 2 min

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In this short YouTube monologue, Rene Deceuninck of The Body Language Company guides viewers through a two‑part, pen‑and‑paper self‑survey. First, viewers note their favorite color and three adjectives describing how that color makes them feel, which is presented as a proxy for how they feel about themselves. Second, they close their eyes, recall their first walk on a beach, and write three adjectives describing that memory, which is framed as reflecting feelings about their intimate life. Deceuninck explains that body language stems from these internal feelings, so the emotions we hold are projected outward and influence what we attract in relationships. He concludes with a call‑to‑action, inviting viewers to sign up via a link in the video or comments to learn more about body‑language coaching, and encourages sharing the video on social media.

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Hi, Rene Deceuninck from The Body Language Company in London, UK. Welcome! Now pay attention, this is a famous survey. Make sure to have pen and paper, and if you're ready, let's go! Exercise number 1: I want you to think of your favorite color. And write it down. Your favorite color, and write it down. Now write down 3 descriptive terms how that color makes you feel. Write down 3 descriptive terms how that color makes you feel. Exercise number 2: close your eyes and think about the beach, the very first time you were walking along the ocean. Now write down 3 descriptive terms how that made you feel the very first time you walked on the beach along the ocean. Again, this is a very famous survey. Now, the first 3 terms, what your color made you feel like, is how you feel about yourself. Maybe you'll need some improvement there, right? Now, the second set of terms where you have to close your eyes and think about the beach, the ocean, that's how you feel about your intimate life. You know, the flowers, the bees. Listen, You don't have to share your results here. However, body language is based on how you feel, so what you send out will come back to you. So you will attract what and how you feel. Does that make any sense? Do you want to discover more secrets? Sign up today and join me on your new journey. The link will be here in this video or somewhere in the comments, and please share this on your social media. You might influence somebody's life. For the better. Thank you.