Richmond Dinh argues that personal experience alone doesn't qualify you to coach others. He warns against unqualified divorce coaches and says clients buy credibility first, looking for coaches who have actually succeeded in what they teach, not just lived through it.
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3 divorces means I got premium knowledge. Listen carefully. Why are you taking relationship advice from happily married people? They only been right once. I've been divorced 3 times. That means 3 case studies, experience. Every breakup is free market research. After every divorce, I update my dating strategy spreadsheet inside my brain. If 3 women leave you, the common denominator, relationship authority activation. It's psychology. This is the heartbreak power move.
This is really the woke advice. Logically, this makes sense. If you've had 3 divorces, then it Probably makes you qualified to become a divorce coach, doesn't it? Well, not really. One of the most important aspects when you are deciding on who you need to coach is personal congruency. And too often I see coaches in this space here trying to do something that they haven't achieved the results in their life. There's way too many fat, broke divorce life coaches out there right now, and you don't need to be one of them. Pick a niche where you've got a result in. You don't have to be the most successful person on the planet right now. You only need to be one chapter ahead, but understand people are buying congruency first and foremost. And if they're thinking about paying you money, the first thing they're gonna look at is whether or not you eat your own cooking and you have that result in your own life. Nobody's ever gonna hire a fat personal trainer, period.