132: Enhancing Your Intuition with Natalie Miles

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Welcome Natalie to the Highest Self podcast. It's so great to have you here.

Thank you for having me. I'm excited to be here.

The first question that I would love to ask you is, what makes you your highest self?

I love this question. This is awesome. For me, what makes me my higher self is when I'm truly connecting to my intuition and what I know to be true about myself. Because so often we can walk through life without our eyes open, really excited, experiencing and seeing the world around us. And for me, our intuition is all about really opening our eyes and realizing that the messages and the guidance are all around us, like, every day. And for me, that is when I'm, you know, truly connecting to my higher self is when I'm feeling that connection and I feel aligned and I feel in the flow. But more importantly, when I'm working and using my intuition.

Beautiful. And you do it so, so well. And, guys, Natalie is real deal. I shared this in the intro, but I actually have done a session with her, and I want to get to know everyone that comes on the podcast because, you know, a lot of people message me every day to come on, and I don't really know whether they are capable of doing the things they say they are or not. And Natalie, like, blew my mind. She knew so many specific things, like tapping into my brother's records, my dad, like, all of these people, and giving very specific details. So it's truly an amazing gift that you have.

Oh, thank you. I just love to share the messages. I always describe that I'm just the door opener. So I'M the door opener to the messages that want to be shared from Spirit to you. And it's always an honor and a privilege to read for anyone. So, yeah, I love doing it. It lights me up.

Hmm. So one question that has been coming up a lot for me recently, and I've been seeing a lot of articles and stuff about this too, is how do you know the difference between your intuition and ego? So, for example, let's say you are having a dream. Like, okay, before I went to Mexico, my fiance sent me an article about like, the drug cartels in Mexico. The night before, I was going by myself and I had a nightmare that.

The cartel was gonna get me.

And I was so scared. And I got to the airport, I started seeing the word cartel everywhere. And I was like, should I not this a sign for my intuition? Is the cartel waiting for me there? And I went, and there was no cartel. And I. And people there were really beautiful. I did get sick, but that it wasn't cartel related. So I realized that that was my own fear, my own ego creating that. But there are other times that, what.

If I did get kidnapped?

And I said, wow, I should have listened to my intuition. So how do you really know that? Discerning voice?

Yeah, I get this. Asked this all the time. It's one of the biggest questions, like, how can I trust my intuition? And what's the difference between. Yeah, the ego mind and intuitive mind and the power and the difference between the both. How I love to describe it is that there is a different tone and a different energy to when you're really feeling aligned and you're working with your intuition, it feels a lot more. There's a control to it, it feels more stable. It feels more like for me, when I hear the messages or I get that those feelings and emotions, there's a strength to it, there's an inner knowing to it versus when it's the ego mind. And it feels like chatter. Like the ego mind that's chattering away and then it builds up fear and fear and fear. And that's why I always love to share of how you can work with your guides around working with your intuition is because when we can really ask ourselves, you know, am I making this up, you know, or is this real and so you can interact with them to get you to show you what is yes and what is no. But for me, yes feels like an amazing tingle and a sensation that runs all over my body that just feels like a hell yes. And when I'm doing something where it's a no. It just feels cold and hard and just doesn't feel right. For example, funny enough, my own ego mind and my intuition mind. I've been having building work in my apartment recently. And I was like, oh, my God, I've got this podcast record. Am I, you know, should I be planning to go and do it somewhere else? What if it's, like, really noisy and I let my ego mind, like, chatter away to me? And I was like, okay, stop this. This is silly. Like, let's really tune in and ask my guides and ask my intuition, you know, do I need to plan for something like this or should I just, you know, what's the deal here? And when I switched off and I really connected, I got the message loud and clear. Now you've got nothing to worry about. Just keep doing what you're doing. And I was like, okay, cool. And so for me, it's. Yeah, you. It's about learning how to discern what the difference is between your intuition and the ego and the fear and the chatter that can sometimes take.

Okay, so what if it's your intuition.

Telling you something dark?

Yeah. And that does happen when you have real true warnings of, like, don't go here. Don't. You know, as you say with the cartel and how that works for me, when I've had those moments of real warning, it just has a different tone and it has a different energy to it. It has a different feeling. And sometimes, straight up, you can walk into a situation where you are being given the intu to be wary. It doesn't mean that something is necessarily going to happen to you, but you're being asked by your guides to have discernment around traveling on your own or having your eyes open. It doesn't mean that they're saying, like, don't go to Mexico, for example, but they're just saying, be discerned around the feelings and the emotions that are being brought up for you. But when there are real serious things like don't. I've had experiences where I always like to describe before. Like people have had before accidents. Or for example, even before 9, 11, people were having dream states where they were feeling that something was coming and that they needed to be, you know, that they needed to be careful about that. You know, it comes into the psyche in different ways. It's just how we can process them. And that's the thing with intuition, is that we're always as humans looking for something that's tangible. We want it to be real. We want it to be like Fact, like, it's like, are you telling me no to do something? And I should definitely not do it in the end, there's human will and human choice in all of this. There's free will, free choice. And that's the thing with working with you, intuition.

So at what point would you cancel or make a major lifestyle change simply based off of your intuitive or what you believe to be your intuitive voice?

Great question. For me, it's when the doors start shutting. I always love to say that spirit will. When you're not on the right path and they want you to re evaluate what's going on in your life, they will throw little pebbles at you and they'll throw little pebbles. And if you're not listening, the pebbles become bigger rocks. And if you're not listening to the bigger rocks, they become even bigger boulders. And then if you're still not listening, they will throw in the massive life boulder change moment where they're like, are you going to listen? Are you going to make a change? When I moved from the UK to Vancouver, it was a complete and utter intuitive life punch. I was just listening and I was being open. I visited here in 2010 during the Olympics and said, one day I'm going to live in this city. And then I was back in London doing my thing. Our relationship ended, my job changed. You know, I started to notice the doors were shutting and I just kept hearing this voice in my head of like hearing from my guide saying, vancouver, Vancouver, Vancouver. And I was like, okay. And so for me, that was really like making a massive lifestyle change, like packing my whole life up, quitting my job, doing everything and being like, no, I'm moving to Vancouver. And that was purely done on intuition because I had a calling to be here and it just felt right.

Wow. Well, that is so amazing. And not only because Vancouver was the right city for you, but also because it allowed you to start this new chapter. Because I know you were a director producer before and you started this whole new chapter like full time just being your intuitive clairvoyant self.

Yeah, it really was. If I hadn't moved to Vancouver, there is no way that I would have been doing this work. But I believe that I was always going to be brought to this work and Vancouver was this melting pot energy that I needed to be here. I needed to be away from my friends and my family and what I, you know, my structure for me to really allow, to create the space to connect to my intuitive self again.

I love that. I always think that when you're following your intuition, that feels expansive. And when you're following your ego, that feels contractive. Even if it's leading you to something dark, there's still this feeling of expansion and maybe, like, safety or sometimes the ego wants to rush you into things. We were just talking about how I'm planning the wedding, and I'm like, my Capricorn mind is like. Like, okay, let's set the day. Let's go.

Let's.

Let's get things moving. And like, the universe is just, like, blocking every idea that I have. So it's my ego that's saying, like, come on, if you don't plan it, it's not going to get done. But it's my intuition saying, obviously, I need to just sit in the space of just being engaged before planning the next step completely.

It's about being in the flow and being open. And intuition is the trust. Trust, trust, trust. Oh, my gosh. It is the biggest hurdle. And especially if you're a Capricorn or you're a type A, and I'm very similar, I want to make things happen. And it has been a real learning curve of take your hands off the steering wheel, Nat. You're not in charge. As much as you would love to think you are. It's a case of we are being guided and we have to just create that flow. And, yeah, the ego mind can make us feel trapped and confined. And when we are truly tapping into our intuition, it does. It feels expansive and it feels like anything is possible and we just need to believe it. And that's why, you know, intuition, manifesting, and all of that energy is also connected.

I love that so much. So let's dive deep into spirit guides, angels, ascended masters. You made a great post on your Instagram. I amNatalie Miles about what is the difference between angels, guides, masters, spirit God? Can you explain that to us here?

Yeah, completely. We have, you know, we create so many human labels for this energy, and it all comes from the same source. It's all one and the same. It's amazing that we, you know, as humans, we've tried. We create this structure because we need structure. We need labels, we need identifying figures to, you know, describe an energy that we can't necessarily quantify or put our fingers on or qualify. And so by giving us this, by creating these labels like, you know, spirit guides, God, angels, it all comes from the same source. And the irony is, and the beauty of it is that we also have that energy within us. So really, truly, it's all about trying to find that connection, you know, to ourselves that resides within us. It doesn't live outside in some ethereal plane. It doesn't live in a different world. It doesn't live in a different dimension. It lives here in this world and in your own body. And yeah, I'm really, you know, it's. I love the fact that we, you know, we do have people identify with, you know, the angelic realm, spirit guides, ascended masters, you know, they are important. And they all have different, you know, strands of energy that we identify with, which is amazing. But we have to realize that it all comes from the same source.

Okay, so would you say that they are the same thing with different names or different entities from the same source?

I would say that they were different entities with different vibrations from the same source. So a different vibrational energy that we've connected to as humans as, for example, how we, you know, we're all from this. From source, but we all have different characteristics because we all have different vibrations. It's the same thing.

Okay, beautiful. And would you say, in your opinion, that spirit guides were formerly incarnated beings or simply vibrational and always have been vibrational beings?

Yeah. So spirit guides, I love to describe them, that they are our cheerleader team in spirit. And we do. We all have this backup team, helping, guiding, protecting, and looking after us, but not always. So sometimes we can have had a spirit guide that has had a human life with us. We have had a human existence with us. And they, we, you know, they have been either being family members, friends, you know, an important someone who you've worked with, someone that's been really important in shaping your life. Yes. You can have had a past life with a spirit guide. They can also be ancestors, and they can also be starseeds. So they can also not be from human source in human form. They can also be light beings or starseeds as well. So there is no one particular, you know, category that, you know. All spirit guides come from a different planet or a different place. They can also have had a human existence and you will have had a human relationship with them, which is pretty mind blowing if you think that you can have a guide that you've had past lives with, which is pretty insane.

Yeah, no, I mean, I've been told that, like, in my next life, I'm going to come back as a spirit guide. I'm like, that sounds amazing. I can just float around giving people advice and not have to worry about the human side of it.

Right. It's like, you've got to You've reached a certain level where you're, you know, you're there doing the supporting. You, you know, you're doing the supporting to friends or family members or someone that you've never even met before. And they're like, yeah, I've got this spirit guide. And will they appear with your name as Sahara? I don't know. You might have a different name that they've related to, but that is how it. You know, that is how it works, because our guides do have names, and you can ask them for their names when you connect as well.

So when you ask them for their names, do you think that it's really their name, or do you think that it's just us putting a name to describe this energy?

I believe that it is a name that we are relating to that energy because it makes it more approachable and it makes it more relatable. Because as humans, again, we love a label, we love a name. How do we describe ourselves? We don't go, you know, high energy. How are you doing? It's, you know, hi, Nat. Hi, Sahara. So, yeah, it makes it more relatable to the person. Completely.

Totally.

Yeah.

I've always felt like the times that I'm like, spirit, what's your name? What's your name? Come on, move my hand in, like, the direction of your name. It's like me wanting to have this human, like, connection with this thing that's not a human. And maybe it's not a bad thing to give it a name, but I've always felt like it's me just trying to personify something.

And a lot of the time it's them also personifying it for us. Because spirit want it to be approachable. They want us to feel connected to it. So they know that names are really important to us. So they also associate themselves with a name so we can identify with it more. And they make that as a. As a conscious choice.

So what I've wondered sometimes is if spirit guides, angels, ascended masters were meant to be communicated with. Why do they make it so difficult for us to communicate with them?

Great question. And that's my mission, because I'm a real big believer that it is. They're trying to make it easy for us, and we're the ones that are over complicating it because we. The symbols, the signs, the messages that they give us, they're basing it off our own answer book. So from the minute you're born to where you are now, your whole body has been interacting with signs, symbols, colors, emotions, and feelings. And what they do is that they use those symbols to give you your messages and your guidance. And what happens is, is that we as humans think we over complicate it and we don't realize that. The biggest question that you have to just ask yourself when you receive an intuitive hit is what does it mean to me? What does it mean to me? Because in the end, it's not about, you know, the answers already lie within you. They're trying to use the symbols and all those emotions and feelings that you already know the answer to. And so it's just us realizing that we can access this answer book, we can access this library of information that we have. We just need to learn how to decode our messages.

That's so beautiful and so true that it's, that's so unique for each person. And that same color, that same sense can evoke such a different emotion in that being. So they kind of know what works well for you completely.

And that's why I get so mad when people are like, oh, I've just had this dream or I just saw a sign or I just saw this number and I'm going to go on Google and I'm going to go and search it. It's like, whoa, whoa, whoa, stop. Back, back, back it up. Like, what does it mean to you? Like, you're instantly going for the universal global message that's written online versus allowing yourself the space to connect to what spirit are trying to tell you. And it's amazing how many times when even in readings and sessions and people are like, oh, I saw this and, and I say, okay, you know, they asked me what does it mean? And I always, recently I've been throwing it back and saying, well, what does it mean to you? Like, what does, you know, what does that mean to you? Versus, you know, me telling you what. I know what it means. And it's amazing when you give people that they can give so much detail and so much, much insight when they really, you know, truly allow and give themselves the opportunity to work it out for themselves. And we've become lazy. We just want things quick, we want it instant.

That is so true because I've never resonated with like, oh, like, look up the angel numbers. Like, oh, I saw 605. What does that mean? Google it. Like, that's never made sense to me because why would angels be like, working based off of this? Like one, as you said, universal book that they're sending us numbers. I feel like the numbers are so individual and so specific and we as humans are trying to, like, create a manual for everything. And there's no manual for intuition.

There isn't. There really isn't. It's actually learning about how the slight subtleties of how your guides work with you and the feelings and the emotions and how that turns up in your physical and in your emotional body. And they're using. You know, they're here, they live in this world, and they just want. They want it to be easy. They're really, really, really trying. Yeah. Next time you get a message or a piece of intuitive guidance, don't go online, people. A dream. Like, take the moment and ask yourself, like, you know, for example, you have a dream that your teeth are falling out. If you Google that online, you'll hear, oh, it's because you're stressed or you're not in control. But really ask yourself, like, okay, well, what do teeth mean to me? What does the falling out part mean to me? Any other visuals that come up in your dream for you. And then ask yourself, where in my life does this resonate? Where in my life am I? You know, is this associated to. You'll instantly get, like, such a detailed message.

Mm. So very true. Guys, stop Googling everything. Ask yourself, that's all. About what? How the intuition really works.

Yeah, big time.

So I'd like to ask you about past lives, because this is a very popular topic on the podcast, one that people have. A lot of questions are, can you explain how past lives work from your perspective?

Yeah. So for me, past lives are. Wow. They are our biggest kind of learning. It's a really powerful healing tool to really go back and visit the past lives, because if you don't deal with something in a past life, it will repeat itself. Emotions have relationships. So with past lives, how I love to describe it and how you access them is that there is a soul imprint. There's an impression imprint of your past life that we can access and that you can go to during a past life regression. And what happens is that when we pass over, if we've chosen, you know, if it's our time to come back and do it again, we basically go into. We go home, we go to the other side, and then we. Yeah, we do. We get reincarnated into another body. And then we can then experience, you know, the emotions and the feelings that if. And the. And the programming that we haven't dealt with that we need to relook at and relearn. And it's amazing when that happens, that when I take people back to visit their Past lives, they're like, oh, my God, I've been repeating this so many times. Oh, my God, I know I need to stop this. And it's really amazing.

So, so, so true. What do you say, that the past lives have happened before us or they're all simultaneously happening right now?

Oh, I'm a big believer of string theory. I'm a big believer that with time is like, how do we quantify time? And for me, it is. It's all happening at the same time. And it's just that we're accessing different memory imprints of that at one time. Yeah, 100%. And so we're being given an opportunity to upgrade and shift. And if we do the work in this lifetime, does it impact the past lifetimes? Does it create healing? 110%. It's like, if you do work and you're doing your own healing, and it involves some family and some ancestral healing, does it impact your mom and your grandmother and your great grandmother and all the women that came before you? 110%. Yes.

Yes, absolutely. Because the way that I see it also is how everything is really happening in the now. But that is just so much for us to comprehend that we have to, like, how you said the string theory, we have to pull it out into this broad spectrum that we can look at things from this, like, time perspective, whereas that is just our human minds trying to spread everything out. Right. But when we say past lives, that doesn't mean it's like, only happened in, like, 1863 to, like, 19. Whatever. It's actually. You are actually in that lifetime now. You are in the future now. You are in the caves and maybe a reptile right now, which you're probably like, what are you saying? But it's all kind of. I see the same soul contracts, learning the same lessons, the same type of energies, maybe showing up in different ways. And as you're moving forward, like, moving up, like one level in Mario, you're moving up that level in all of the games that are simultaneously happening.

100%. That's a great way as a video game completely. You're leveling up every time. You're getting those extra stars and those extra points as you go up, and it brings it back. Time is another human. You know, it's another human label We've labeled time because it would be, you know, too mind blowing to think that, oh, my gosh, I'm having all these experiences all at one time. But, yeah, we can. We are living the. The learnings that we're that we're experiencing. You know, it's so important to do the learning. We're here to do the work. We've chosen this human body to do the work and to really look at relationships and to look at emotions and to look at feelings. And you know, when people shy away from doing the work in this lifetime, that's when you're just gonna keep coming back and coming back and repeating the same stuff over and over again.

Exactly. And when we say that time doesn't exist, it doesn't mean like you aren't aging. Like yes, there are calendars, there are, you know, rhythms of nature and seasons, which are all time. But we are kind of looking at this from just a broader perspective. But yes, when you come more down into the physical plane, there very much is time.

Yeah, 100%. Yeah, time definitely does exist, people, but it's done in that kind of spiritual realm of that the top line level of what is time. Yes, but that's the beautiful cyclical nature of the world that we live in.

Absolutely. So we were chatting before about ancestors and how that's a big part of the work that you've been doing and you've been noticing that it's been coming up a lot in the astral world right now. Can you share with us what ancestral baggage means?

Yeah. So we're all born into this world with the ancestral stories that have been programmed and patterned into the women and men that have come before us. And each lineage, each ancestor, each time is doing a bit more of the learning and a of, bit, bit more of the kind of upgrading and the up leveling what spirit have been sharing with me recently and why, you know, connecting it back to intuition. And the work that I'm doing is that there is a massive shift going on around the ancestral shame of working with our intuition, that suddenly working with your intuition is cool. And we're tapping back into it. We're working with crystals, we're working with essential oils, we're working with healers. It's becoming, it's really important and we're being called up to work with it again. But part of this is that we're doing this, but there's still a lot of fear and anxiety and we are struggling to trust our own intuition. And this predominantly comes from the ancestral shame of working with our intuition. Because straight up, if you were out in the open doing this work, you would have been crazy, locked up in a mental institution, killed, murdered, hanged. Like the witches that have come before us and the healers that have become before us and this is what is being broken down right now is the we're being asked to look at the ancestral shame of, you know, really believing that the answers are already within us and that we can access the them ourselves and that we don't need other things to tell us what we know to be true.

So very true. And we're definitely seeing a renaissance and coming back to the intuition. It is totally cool again. But at the same time that can lead us to commercializing it. I see that a lot too. It's like, oh, fake crystals from Forever 21. Well, what's the, the point of that? At that point it's just for show. And then, yeah, and then a lot of people using spiritual bypass and these terminologies to avoid real human emotion. So it's like this tricky time of coming back to something but not really knowing the tools to use it.

Yeah. And that's why I've, you know, my guides, my mission is that, you know, Nat, you're here to make this easy, to make it relatable, but to bring it back to the truth of it and be the door opener to. So people, you know, aren't you know, doing things and saying they're intuitive when they're actually kind of not really sure how to do it and that it's about making it easy and accessible. So but yeah, that is, there's a lot of spiritual bypassing going on there. There's a lot of oh, love and light and oh, I'm a light worker. When it's actually like, no, we live in a dual world and you need to do, you know, way if you're working on your, you know, your light side, you also need to be working on your shadow side as well. And that's really, really important. But yeah, we're being called up, we're being called up to listen to our intuition. But yes, there as always there are some pitfalls of the commercialization of.

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So I'd like to kind of dive into how do we heal the ancestral wounds? So let's say someone realizes that their family lived in poverty and there's a lot of poverty consciousness going on and it's something that they're now aware of, like, how much work and what is the work they need to do to really heal that.

For me, I always say it's always about the work is very particular and individual to what you. You resonate with and what you're being called to do as the work. For example, you might be being called to work with shamanism. You might be called to work and do reiki. You might be called up to, you know, do the work via, you know, working with your psychic intuitive abilities, because we all have it and you're doing the healing that way. It's all about what is specific to you and what you resonate with, with to do this healing. How, for example, for me, it's all about looking at what your mentality like. For example, you used poverty as a, you know, a poverty mindset. So how do you break free from that poverty mindset? It's tough. Like, it can be really tough. How. I love. I'm a big, Straight up. I'm a big journaler. I love release letters. I love writing down the stories that I know from my past lives and my family stories. I, for me, I've done a lot through the work myself through really getting out all the stories and all the details and all the emotions. I then read out loud, because I always say you have to read it out loud because you connect to your throat chakra. And then once you've done that, you burn it and you get rid of it and you release yourself from it. But a lot of this work is trust. It's believing, and it's you creating and believing that by, you know, whatever ritual or whatever practice that you're doing with this for this work that you believe that you set yourself free from it. Because a lot this is mental mindset work. You know, you can still do this work, but if you don't believe in it and you don't trust it and you still want to carry the, you know, you want to carry the baggage around with you, then you know it will keep. It will keep showing up.

I love that. The release letter. So, for example, so if someone knows that their family went through poverty, they could. What would that letter look like for them?

Yeah, so how. What I do is that you basically, you can write your family name at the top of a piece of paper, and then you write down, I release ourselves from the old bonds, old ties and old contracts from this lifetime, past lifetimes and future lifetimes. I release us. And then you write down all the old stories. Whereas, you know that it's Shown up in, you know, your grandparents, your parents. Any other. Where it shows up in your life? Yeah. Read it out loud. Burn it. It's really, really a real good cord cutter.

Oh, I love that. And could that be used for relationships?

Oh, yes. It's my. When people come to me and have, you know, it's amazing the amount of people that come and are either not in relationships or are in a relationship, but there's an old relationship that's kind of haunting them. That's kind of the energy of the ex is, like, swirling around them. And I always say, okay, this is really important. This is a block. You need to release this. And, yeah, you can do the same for a relationship, but you write down their name at the top of a piece of paper, and then you. You do the whole, I release myself from the old bonds, old ties, and then. But you also add in, I release you with loving kindness. Because it's really important that the release is done out of a place of love.

Beautiful. And what about if that person keeps showing up? You wrote the letter. You wrote 20 letters, and they keep showing up in your dreams. You're thinking about them. I know for a lot of people, like, even exes from 10 years ago could still be kind of haunting them.

Yeah. But when that happens, the question is bringing it back. Ask yourself, why? What does this person represent? Because it's not the person. It's the emotion or the feeling or what they represent that you're being asked to look at.

So very true. And do you think that, let's say someone was a real love of your life? Do you think that you would ever fully get over them or. There's always going to be a part of you that still loves them. Yeah.

For some relationships, you will always love them. It doesn't mean that, you know, whatever's happened doesn't mean that you can stop loving them and that, you know, oh, well, I need to stop. And that's it. We can all have multiple loves in our lives. It doesn't mean that, you know, just because you're not together anymore doesn't mean that you, you know, you still have a place. They still have a place in your heart. I always share, like, we can have multiple soulmates. You know, this idea of the one is crazy. You know, for some people, great, that's awesome. But a lot of the time we have multiple soulmates in one lifetime. And it doesn't matter if you're with someone for three days, three weeks, three months, three years, or 30 years, they're there. For the learning. They're there to teach you something.

Yes. And the soul contract just may be over. But I think for a lot of us, it's like you spend so much time loving someone, building with that person, and then let's say you guys break up. Even if they do something hurtful or wrong to you, you can't plug off the switch. Right. You're at your. There's still going to be love there, even if you don't want to be with them, even if you're mad at them, even if you hate them simultaneously. But it is. Yeah, just like choosing what is best for you. And I feel like eventually those bonds just like, fade and fade and fade. And maybe they're. They'll still always be there to some level, but I don't know. I think some people you'll always have some sort of contract with.

Yeah. Those contracts, once they've been done, once the contracts have been, you know, this is the sole contract. Once it's been, you know, there's been a resolution. Yes, it will dissolve. Will you forget that person? Will they, you know, be removed from your psyche? No, because they're part of. Of your soul imprint. They're part of, you know, they've been part of your. Your life. And as much as, you know, we want to, you know, get angry and cut people off and, you know, a lot of that time, you know, and there is pain and there is hurt, and that's, you know, that's okay, you know, and it's all right to feel those feelings and emotions, too, because sometimes we also kind of, you know, we stop ourselves from feeling the emotions. You know, it's important to feel those emotions. Emotions. But then it's time to do the work and learn to let go and forgive and send love to it, too.

So true. And I'd love to know your perspective on twin flames and soulmates.

Oh, yes, Twin flames. It's so funny if I hear one more person saying that they want to go and find their twin flame. Oh, my gosh, no. Twin flame is like the hardest journey ever. You do not want to be going to, you know, seek out your twin flame. You know, you experiencing your twin flame means that your soul is of, you know, is evolved to a point where you can actually handle that as an energy. Like. Yeah, it's become this in thing that we, you know, the best relationship is a twin flame relationship. That is not the case. It is tough. It takes a lot of hard work. And there is. It's about learning again. It's about learning. And nine times out of 10, you won't end up being in a relationship with your twin flame.

Totally. And I think a lot of times we think that twin flame means the highest level of relationship, because if that person is like, the male or female counterpart to us, like, what could be a truer love? Whereas that's not the case. I see it as, like, would you want to, like, be with your family member? Would you want to be with your, like, twin of, you know, and for me, I actively would not want my twin flame because I like to learn from someone who's different from me and have that sense of polarity there completely.

I love that as a description that, you know, you know, you don't want to be in love with a mirror. You want to be, you know, you want to be learning from that polarity. That's, you know, that in the end that relationship is something that you, you know, you're. You look, you're looking at, you're looking, thinking, you know, oh, this person can give me something that I don't necessarily have myself.

Totally. Yes. And would you say that. So, for example, the older people that we see that they have, like, one, like, love of their lives and they're like 90 and they still love each other, would you say that's a twin flame relationship, or would you say that's a soulmate that they've just put a lot of work into it?

Oh, it would just depend on case by case. I would say that nine times out of 10, it would be a soulmate. And they've just put a hell of a lot of work in to be together for that amount of time. Yeah. I mean, any relationship takes a hell of a lot of work and, you know, learning about each other and yourself within it. I've, you know, in my relationships, I've learned so much about myself. I feel like those are, you know, you have your biggest learning, so to be with 90 and be with someone for that long, like, go them, but whoa.

Mm. So true. And, you know, I see a lot of women, they are conscious, they are entrepreneurial, they have so many amazing things going on, but they can't find their male counterparts. So a lot of the conversation is, where are all the conscious men? Would you say that there is an actual shortage of conscious men or there is an element to yourself that you have not found, that you've not manifested the ideal relationship for you?

Great question. I'd love to say a bit of both. I feel like there is. Is a rise in the conscious man right now. And a man that is, you know, tapped into his divine feminine and his divine masculine. And that we, you know, we. There is a rise and there is a shift going on with that, but there is also us as women. We're also. It's. It's amazing how it's been set up, but we also want it all. We want to have the job, we want to have the career, we want to have the perfect relationship. We want to be able to have the family. We want to. There's an expectation with women right now that we're supposed to have everything. And that's really intense. Like, yeah, it's amazing when you can have everything. But again, this idea of what the pinnacle is, it's like, I've reached, you know, I've reached success when I have all of these things. And then there's a lot of pressure on women to have that, to, you know, have all of that and have the relationship too. I think that, you know, when you meet the person, when you're supposed to meet them, everyone will meet a match. It just depends on, you know, when that might be. You know, you might be 25 when you meet them. You might be 40, you might be 55. You might not meet someone until you later on in life. But that's just what the learning is, and that's just how it is supposed to be in this lifetime for you.

And do you think that the reason why someone may not have met them yet is because there's still a lesson that they're trying to learn right now?

100%? Yeah, definitely. I feel like a lot of the time we're forcing relationships, we're forcing them to make them work. We get into this headspace of, you know, oh, it's, it's him or her, and I need to be with them. And, you know, we. We force it. We force this pressure on ourselves to be in the relationship versus just living our life and doing what we're supposed to do. I always share. I choose me when I choose me and I put myself first and I'm vibrating at the frequency that I'm supposed to be, then that's when I'll attract the right person in my life, the right job, the right kind of friends, it all lines up. But the minute we. We're being, you know, waiting around to be chosen by someone, it just doesn't work.

So true. And I think a lot of us, we try to force it, right? We, like, meet someone. We're like, oh, that could work. Like, I could change this about him. And that because we just want to be in a relationship so badly, and then we end up missing the right one because we're so busy trying to change this other person.

And what's. Exactly. And what's even more worrying, it's not just trying to change the other person. It's about changing, changing themselves. The amount of people who I do sessions for, and they're like, oh, yeah, well, I did try and, like, change that bit of my personality or something I loved or I didn't share that. It's like, if you're trying to, like, fit yourself into, you know, what you think this other person, you know, wants from you, it's just not gonna work.

So true. I mean, you know, every relationship that I see, and I find out how they met, it's always the most, like, serendipitous, random occasions that they could not have planned or a friend that they knew for so long and it turned into something else. And it's never like, I don't know, like, today I said, I'm gonna meet the one who just, like, showed up in front of me. It's always when you least expect it.

Completely, and it sounds super cheesy, and everyone's like, yeah, you know, oh, it's always when you're not looking. And it does sound super cheesy, but it's true because you're not looking for it, and you're just doing what makes you happy. You know, you're vibrating. You're filling your life with the things that you love, the people that you love, you know, the passions that you love. And the rest will come back down, right?

And that doesn't mean you don't set an intention either. You can set that intention without still being like, a hawk, like, chasing everyone down. I remember before I met my fiance, on a piece of paper, I drew a picture of my ideal God man. And I wrote everything about him. Like, the. The range of his age, like, what ethnic background he is, what does he do for work, what do we do on the weekends? I wrote everything, and I went into such a deep meditation that I was like, God, universe, whoever is up there listening, only send me this person. I don't care if I am 75 years old. I only want this person. And the message that I received back. I kind of saw him, but from behind. And it was like. And he said, just live your life, and I want you to have fun and enjoy yourself, and I'm going to find you when you're ready. So I was like, okay. So I started just going all These festivals, like having fun. And I ended up looking for a festival ticket for somewhere on this app called Bumble. And the first person I saw that looked like they would go to festivals, I just was like, hey, what's up? Are you going to this festival? And that ended up being my fiance. And that was the first person I met up with.

Amazing. Yeah, that's amazing. I love it, I love it, I love it, I love it. Yeah, you can set your intention. Intentions are really important. Like write down, you know, write down what you want in a relationship. But what's really important is don't just write down what they look like, write down the emotions. Like how do you want this person to make you feel like, because it's so it's easier to, you know, we can get stuck up in that, in the ego brain of like what they have, what they look like, but know you. But it's, you know, really look at the emotions and how they make, how you want to feel when you're with this person. Because that's also super, super important. I met my long term boyfriend on Tinder. So I know what it. And especially love the online dating.

I know because it always seems like so weird for like people like us.

Yeah, Trust me, like going on dates and saying, you know, they're always like, so what do you do for a living? It's like I'm a psychic medium and spiritual teacher. It's like, you know, you can see it run. They're like the ones that are like really intrigued and the ones that want to run a complete mile. A lot of the time with guys, it's always been like, oh, does that mean that you can mind read me? It's like, no, it's not mind reading. It's completely different to mind reading. But yeah, it works. Online dating works and you just need to be open to, you know, for it to work, work.

So I'd love to know, you know, just since you know so much, what is that like, being in a relationship? Because maybe like there's something he's not communicating with but like his spirit guides are telling you. So what does that look like?

Oh, it's always really interesting. I think Daryl would say that I have, I am really in touch with his divine feminine. He's awesome. He will communicate, he will express how he's feeling, but I know when he's not. And so he's got used to me calling him out on stuff and asking him the questions that it's like, you know, floating, floating around in the ether. Like any Other relationship where you have those things, but I'll name it. And I'll be like, so, what's this about? And he's like, okay, yeah. And so, you know, he's really had to get used to that as a. You know that. He's really had to get used to that. When we first met, he smoked. He smoked cigarettes. And I was like, oh, this is so not part of me. Like, this is horrible. And I got a message from my guides, like, don't worry, he's gonna quit. And I was like, okay, cool. I can handle this. And he was going through a phase of quitting and quit. And then he'd had a bit of a relapse, but he hadn't said anything. But I said to him, I said, hey, babe, you know that packet of cigarettes that's in your glove compartment downstairs? And he looked at. At me and he was like, bloody hell, I can't keep anything from you.

That's. I mean that, like, for a guy that wants to, you know, progress, this is such a blessing. But any guy that wants to do some shady shit, do not date an intuitive.

No, exactly. You know, he's. It is. It's. For him, it's. He's real. You know, it's an up leveling. He's. He's. He's up leveling. He's like. He's so intuitive anyway. And so being with me, he's really kind of tuning into who he is and what he's about. And it's really beautiful to witness and be part of that.

And I'd love to ask you. So you say he's an intuitive, too. So a lot of people are probably like, oh, I wish I had Natalie's gift. And I was able to be an intuitive, too. What is that? How can we look out for our own intuitive brightness, Spirit guides, or whatever medium it is that is talking to us.

Yeah, we're all intuitive. All of us are intuitive. All of us are psychic. Again, psychic intuitive, it's just a label that we've created to describe things. We are all intuitive. We're all psychic, and we can all connect. And it's about creating space and being open and being aware. I love to share that spirit guide guides are the kind of the gateway to our intuition. They're a great way to start really connecting and being open. The first thing you can do is ask them to step forward. So literally, they've been hanging out in the background, just working behind the scenes. But you can interact with your intuition. Don't wait for Messages, you can interact with it. So call in your guides, ask them to step forward. And once you've asked them to step forward the best way. Well, actually, I should share. You should do this and take some space. You can do this in a meditation, wherever you feel comfortable, outside or in nature. Just ask them to step forward. And you'll start maybe feeling a tingle or something in your body that you will, like, feel that they've stepped forward. And then once you do that, ask for a sign. Like, actually ask for a sign and say, I want a sign. Can you give me me a sign? I have one that's an owl, which means I know when I'm on the right path or I'm on the right track, because owls pop up in all around me, and I see them on T shirts, on postcards, and they just show up. But I also. If I've got a specific question that I want answered, I'll ask the question either in my head or out loud, and I'll put a sign associated with that, Whether it be a tiger or a certain act animal or a number or something else that I want to see. They'll start showing up. They'll give you the messages. They'll give you the guidance.

And how long do you think we should wait for that sign?

If you don't see the sign, that's an answer to say that you know it's a no.

So what if we just wanted to make a connection? We're like spirit guides. I want to know if you exist. Please show me a sign.

Yeah, so if you aren't seeing that sign, make sure that you. A lot of the time when that happens, we actually wanted it to be something else, and we didn't trust ourselves, and we picked something completely different. And so our guides are waiting for us to go back to what we originally had thought. So many times people pick something as a sign and then they go, oh, no, no, it can't be that. And then they pick something else and. And then sometimes it doesn't show up. And it's a message of, like, okay, you know, it's time to look back at, like, what you originally thought.

Right? Because I feel like every time I'm like, spirit guides, show me a sign. Then I'm like, looking around. I'm like, okay, where's the sign?

Yeah. And it's the same with manifesting. You don't get attached to seeing it. Sometimes it's like when you're really looking for it again, it's like looking for a man. That relationship, if you're really looking for it. It's like, let it show up organically.

And sometimes it's showing up as a. I get it. I feel like more just like feelings in my body, right?

Yeah. And it can show up, like, in feelings. You might get those intuitive feelings. It can also show up as knowing where you just know something to be true. So you can get it as seeing, feeling, knowing, or hearing. And so you might hear your messages. So you might actually hear, like a voice in your head. It will sound like your own voice. It won't sound like the voice of God coming in, but it will sound like your voice. But you'll know that it's a guidance message that's coming in for you. Yes. You can see signs. If you feel things, it might be that you feel certain emotions in your body. It might also. With emotions, you can ask for yes and no. You can ask. Ask your guys to show you what yes means and what no means in your body. And then you can use those feelings to ask questions, which are. Which is a really great way.

Yes. And I think with the yes and no feeling, so much of that has to do with your dosha. Like, for vata, which I'm super vata. Like a yes is like this excitement of like, oh, we're going somewhere. And like, things are going. And it's like voxas just love to feel like that. And then the no is the anxiety of like, oh, my God, is this going to work? Is an agriba. And it's like that excitement just trickles into the shadow side of anxiety. And then for a pitt, as I feel like the yes is very like, we have a plan and we're going to execute. And it's just like a warrior. Like Titans charge and like, they're like, have their team and they're like high fiving people and they're like. And it feels like very like athletic to me. And then the no is like, things aren't working out. I'm so mad. And that he rising.

Yeah, that's a great way of putting it into the doshas. I love it. That's so. Yeah. It's so resonant and just. Yeah. Everyone will experience their yes and no really, really differently. And you'll get different symbols associated with it as well.

So true. And the Kaphas, since I don't want to leave out the Kaphas.

The Kaphas.

I feel like the yes feels like discomfort and, like, ease and like, mmm, yummy, juicy. Ooh. Like orgasmic. Like eating really good food. Like, it feels like that.

And then the.

No, it's like, oh, I feel heavy, I feel stuck, I feel lethargic. And we can all feel those ways in different times. It just depends on kind of what dosha you naturally gravitate to.

Yeah, that makes complete sense. Yeah, I love it. Yeah, I love it.

And I'd love to know just a little bit, because a lot of people listening are intuitives themselves. I'd love to know a little bit about your process. So when someone's like, I want to know about, like, my brother, like, how. How do you. How do you know? And how. What does that voice sound like for you?

Yeah, so when I'm doing sessions for me, if you mention your brother, I instantly tune into the energy of him. So I tune into what I feel like he's going on right now. So I put myself and I tune in on an energy basis and put. See, you know how it feels. Energetically. I will then imagine what he looks like in my head. So I imagine the physical outline of the brother. So I'm getting the emotions and the physical outline. I will then open up my guide so I hear the messages that they want to share. So I then hear and I allow them, them to share, like, what. What's going on in his life right now. And I also use it with a blend of visuals, so I then get imagery as well. So the main predominant thing is I use the emotions to connect with the person. So it's really important that when you're tuning in and you're getting a message for someone, you. You have that bond and you. You have that connection where you're truly connecting to them, and then you allow your other gifts to flow around it. So for mine, it's like, I hear, and then I get the visuals too.

Yes. And I think a lot of it is trusting your imagination, because a lot of us are like, oh, well, how would I know what someone's brother looks like? Well, you just have to imagine and then imagine what does he feel like? And so much of your imagination is your intuition.

Exactly. Like, imagination is the key. That's why kids are so intuitive, because they use their imagination on a daily basis. They're always imagining. And, you know, as we get older, we shut down the imagination part, and imagination and intuition are really, really connected. Because that's my. How I would imagine is exactly in my readings, like imagining as a kid or imagining something. I'm like, I'm allowing it, the stream of consciousness. I'm allowing the stream of messages to flow in Like I'm imagining. Like I'm watching a film. Film play out in my mind's eye.

Yes, yes, yes. And do you have any practices that.

Listeners can try at home to harness their intuition or connect with their guides?

Yeah, there are so many. Connecting with your imagination is really, really important. It is a real kind of unlocker in this work. I love to do a meditation. And you can do this on your own. It's super simple. Go and put yourself back into a childhood home. Go and put yourself back into a familiar space and go and walk around it and imagine that you are touching the furniture. You're back in your bedroom. You're back, you know, you're in the garden, you standing outside the front of the property. Just allow the imagination to flow again. Really smell, you know, imagine what it smells like in there. Imagine, you know, what the feeling and the texture, it's. Imagine what everything looks like. It will really help you get back connected with that imagination part of your mind and allow you to do. To be part of that connecting with spirit. I love spirit writing. I'm a big, you know, if you've got a question that you want answered, you can write it at the top of a piece of paper and then go and just get out of your own way. We can all channel. We can all write and like that and that. You basically ask a question and you just allow your guides to write for you. It's always insane what comes out.

Yes, I love that.

And you can also do that with a person, like a deceased relative or something like that.

Yeah, completely. You can. Really? With the mediumship element. Yeah, especially if you want to grow your gifts and your talents as a medium. Connecting to loved ones who have passed away over, which is. I love doing. It's really amazing when loved ones pop up to give messages that you can. Yeah, just do that with. With writing and see where it flows and see where it goes.

Yes, I did. I did it with my grandpa. I connected with him. I've never met him before and I did. I just tried the automatic writing. And at first I could tell it was just me responding. And then slowly I start to see my handwriting got like smaller and smaller and smaller. And then it was like this tiny handwriting that I'm not capable of writing that small and Right. Actual life. And just like really great, like, advice that I would not have given myself. And it was just, I mean, a true testament of when you get out of your own way, what can come through.

Yeah, it's. It's creating this space, getting out of your head and listening to your heart. Because the intuition, it comes from the heart, heart space. It really does. And it's about not overthinking and massively trusting and, you know, allowing it to flow.

And I'd also love to ask you, you know, a lot of people use tarot cards, oracle cards, for a lot of questions in their lives. Do you think that that is actually giving them the answer? Or it's more of just like a clutch that we use, which can be fun.

Yeah, it's funny. I'm writing a book right now and there is a section on all about this. So for me, Oracle cards, tarot cards are really. They are a really useful tool, but we have become too attached to using them like we do with Google. So we pick a card and instead of asking, what does this card mean to me, we go straight to the little book in the box and we're like, oh, the author says that this card means. And the. We read that. Great. A lot of the time, the author, what they've put into the energy of that card is amazing. But again, you're not asking yourself, what does it mean to me? How I love to read cards when I'm doing this is don't instantly turn the card over. So you pick a card, shuffle the cards. It pops out in whichever way it pops out, you know, that's the card for you.

So you don't choose the card. You just let a card pop out.

I let the card pop out, or if I fan them open, if I fan them, I'm like, okay, I'm being drawn to this card. So you can do it either way. But what I do is instead of turning it over straight away, what you do is you put it between your hands and you shut your eyes and you allow yourself to feel the emotions and the feelings that come up. You allow yourself to, you know, visualize any symbols or other imagery that comes up for you. And you really connect with that card that way. First to get the message of what this card is telling you, you will feel it. And then what you do to get more information is you then turn the card over and then you ask yourself, what does this mean to me? What more information can I get from this card? Because you will get far more insight and far more detailed information from that card doing it that way than by running straight to the book.

So true. And I've always felt the same way. I see people who carry cards with them everywhere they go, and, like, just their response to life is just to immediately go to the Cards. And I'm like, this is just as dangerous as not having an intuition. But we're just using this spiritual tool to again, hand over the responsibility that we have to sit with it ourselves completely.

Yeah, 100%. We have been, you know, we've become very reliant again on, on the spirit tools versus allowing ourselves and giving us the space and the opportunity. And, you know, tools are awesome tools, make this work, accessible, but it's just about shifting how we use them and how we work with them and, you know, not just going off. Well, this is what the card said. It's like, because you can read a card wrong if it's, you know, it's about you, it's about your feelings, it's your emotions, it's what your guides and the intuition that, your intuition of what it's giving you. It's those small details that don't come across just from, you know, a general description.

Totally. And to me, it's not even what the card says. It's just that ritualistic experience of sitting with yourself, shutting everything off, and only being in that intuitive, intuitive space. And whether that's through meditation or through yoga or through choosing cards, I think we all just need that in our lives.

Hell yes. I'm with you on that. Yeah, it's just be, be comfortable in your own skin again. It's another distraction technique. It's another thing. It's like, you know, the answers you're looking for are already within you and you just need to learn how to access them, so.

Very true. So where can listeners connect with you? Check out your Instagram. You have a podcast out now and do a consultation with you.

Yeah, so my Instagram is. I am Natalie Miles. My website is www.natalie-miles.com. those are the best places to find me. I. Yeah, I do one on one sessions and mentorship. So yeah, check it out.

Perfect. Well, thank you again for sharing all of your wisdom with us on the Highest Self podcast. And we are so grateful for people like you who are really acting as a bridge between this intuitive and physical world. And thank you so much for really sharing what's going on on the other side.

Thanks for having me.

Namaste.

Oh my goodness. How amazing is Natalie. I just love everything she has to say and I love her accent too. It just makes everything things so much better. So I hope this help illuminated the path for you to learn more about spirit and ancestors and angels and all of the akashic realms and how you are truly a spiritual being. Just having a human experience here, you're just the soul in this human suit. And when you really realize how sacred and magical you are, that is when life around you becomes equally as magical. So I hope that this helped see you for who you truly are, this beautiful and abundant being, and inspires your path to live a life of love and joy and grace. Because it is everything that you deserve. And if you are ready to change your relationship around abundance and attract more of it in your life and to learn more about what it takes, how you can build this online business, what are the step by step you want mentors like me and two of my mentors to guide you on this path of creating abundance, creating a lifestyle that brings you freedom. Then please join me in the Abundance Mindset Masterclass again. We're going to be doing a live call at the beginning of November so that's like a week away. So jump on my website, head over to my show notes so you can sign up this master class. Class can I guarantee you will change your life. It is all about the different doshas and their relationship with money and then it leads into an optional six week program that you can do to literally guide you step by step into creating an online business that brings you abundance. So you can spend your time communicating with spirit guides and channeling source and tapping into your ancestors and you don't have to worry about paying those bills. Those bills will pay for themselves because you are stepping up to to being your highest self. I'm so excited to have you on the Abundance Mindset Masterclass again. Head over to the Show Notes or head over to my website to find out more and sign up and I will see you there. If you are listening to this after November, don't fret. We're going to be running it again live beginning of January. So still sign up so you can get emailed when the live program will be taking place. Again. I love you, I see you, I honor you and thank you for being you.

Namaste Sam.