Clearing Ancestral Karma + Subconscious Blocks with Frank Elaridi

How come our parents didn't have to clear this much frickin karma.

It's worse for them because they're gonna have to keep going back. A lot of times I'll be like, you have inherited rejection from your mom. And they'll be like, my dad left my mom when she was still pregnant with me or whatever it is. Or it can be a rejection that it can go back seven generations, just like we inherit our. Like you never met your great grandmother, but her nose is on your face, right? Like so is her the betrayal she felt. Because what happens is they go, I was betrayed. I want to make sure my ancestors always know what this betrayal is so that they're ready for it. It's survival, right? So I'm going to send them this feeling of betrayal so that they know they're going to take on my betrayal too, or so that we can burn it for them like they want us to take on their karma. It's one of my favorite things to clear is when I'm like, betrayal from your mother. And then when I clear it from you, it's cleared from them automatically and from any offspring you might ever have from your siblings. We're just clearing it from the line.

Just flow, surrender Let go sooner Let go I'm the one I've been waiting for. Trust flow sooner Let go Trust flow sooner Let. Welcome back to the Highest Self podcast. My name is Sahara Rose and on this podcast I love to talk about spirituality. I'm talking really dive deep, but make it modern, fun, grounded and relatable so it can actually serve your needs. So if you're noticing the studio is a little bit more glamorous, a little bit more Sahara Rose, it's because I'm here in Dubai, where I moved more recently.

We'll move.

Ended up moving many months before this. This comes out right now and it has been guys like such an upgrade the past few months. I have just hit deeper levels of Queen frequency, channeling Nefertiti Energy. Being back in my ancestral homelands in the Middle east, just miles away from the south of Iran, where my mom's family is from, going back and forth to India, it has been like the greatest upgrade of my life. And one of the coolest parts is, is I am meeting the most incredible healers. So I know you're thinking Dubai. Like I saw that show and it's not like that I am meeting people. So basically let's go back to last Thursday night. I was at a Mind Valley party in this like insane mansion and I'M like going to like get some water. And this guy turns, he's like Sahara. And I just like felt like I knew him from past life. Like, you know, some past life shit. I'm like, hello. And we start diving in, which ends into him doing this full like healing session on at the side of this party. We're the last ones there. And I'm just like, those kind of connections, like, those are the people I like to bring on the podcast where I'm like, oh, like I'm learning and growing here. And these are the type of teachers that I like to bring on the podcast. Because this isn't someone who just like randomly pitched themselves to me. Like, this is someone that spirits like y' all need to align because that's going to be in our vibration here on the podcast of people who just are doing revolutionary work. And I'm gonna be real. There's a lot of spiritual content out there, but the truth is you're not gonna manifest what you really desire if you have blocks that are holding you back. Because the truth is we are all worthy of everything in the world. The relationship, the money, the home, the friends, all of it. But why don't we have it? You know, And I can call myself out on this stuff too. Why aren't I in the relationship? I deeply desire blocks. And so his work is to re he. He has a gift of diving into blocks. And today we're gonna break it down so we can actually apply this into our own lives. First, become clear of what those blocks are, where they showed up, what was the reference it created in our consciousness and then how we can clear it. Which by the way, doesn't need to be this long, drawn out process. And before we drop into this episode, be sure to hit subscribe wherever you're listening to this podcast. That is the best way to stay up to date on the latest episodes. We've got this in video format, so if you're just hearing my voice, be sure to also watch our fabulous outfits on video as well on Spotify, Spotify, YouTube or the Apple Store. This is the best way to stay in the flow with future conversations and also allows the podcast to reach more people. So hit subscribe so I can keep vibe with you on all future episodes. Now let's get into this one. So he is a four time Emmy award winning journalist turned energy healer, spiritual teacher and coach. So welcome Frank AKA Firhas, here on the highest self podcast.

Thank you. Wow. As you're talking, I felt like I was talking. That's how much I felt the unity.

The same person here, past lives in.

And you're right. I love how. Because I'm usually in bed by, like, 10pm And I love that I was at that party until, like, 1:00am they had shut down the lights. Like, it was just the staff cleaning the house. And you and I are just sitting there on the couch.

Okay. 27 years old, rejection wound. Okay. Sometimes it'd be like that, though.

I totally. And I love that you knew what they were. You're like, oh, yeah, that rejection was this. And it ties back to. And I'm like, wow. Like, you've clearly done the work.

Trying here, trying.

And I love what you said about being here in Dubai, in, like, the ancestral land, because I'm Lebanese. And. Yeah. There's something so beautiful about me going to a restaurant and just speaking directly, like, Arabic to the waiter. And then I'm, like, talking about, you know, the food, explaining it to my friends so effortlessly. I grew up with this food. Like, it's just so. God, there's so many people.

I got a fattoush salad with the perfect amount of lemon. I was like, what is this? And I read Arabic. So I'm, like, reading all the signs, and it's just. It's so, so incredible. So I feel a lot of our. Our healing codes are coming online, you know, in this new consciousness that we're in. So I want to talk about blocks. Let's, like, break this down. How do we start to know what our blocks are?

Yeah, that's so deep. That's the most important thing. There was a healer that. I actually am staying with his son right now at his house. He was the personal ayurvedic doctor for the Dalai Lama, Nelson Mandela, and Mother Teresa, among others. He passed away in 2020. But he said, Frank, 97% of people don't know what they want. They don't even know what they're looking for. They don't know what the blocks are. So forget, like, learning how to clear them. 90 of people. 97. He said, don't even know what the blocks are. Right? And I think that's why, like, the work that I do is so special, because somebody will come for, like, they're like, my eyesight is bad. I need surgery, and they're in their 50s, and I'll be like, at 22, you ended a relationship and moved out of the country, right? And they're like, yeah. I'm like, you're still holding on to all the wounds from ending that fiance, leaving that fiance and moving to a country with no plan will just clear around that. And suddenly their eye pressure will go from 25 to 13 and their surgery gets canceled. So sometimes the reason I say that is because sometimes people are like, okay, love life not working. Let me look at love life. You might need to be looking at something that you never even thought was related. Something completely different. Like, I remember when I worked with you, I don't know how much you've shared with your audience. Okay. I felt like it. Cause I'm like, you're like me about my boy problems projectors. You know, I remember saying like, you're very analytical. Is your dad, Is your, it comes from your masculine side. Is your dad in like science? Yeah. You said yes, and I didn't know that. And I think that there was something there that needed to be cleared in order for the relationship part to get fixed.

Because I was analyzing my relationships of like, is this the right person? I was writing pros and cons lists and like, you know, just like overthinking everything rather than being in it. Which came from this like self protection mechanism that my dad taught me as a kid of like he. The mantra that he would tell me is be rational, not emotional. So since I was a kid, be rational, not emotional. And so you're going through life like emotions get you in trouble. Being rational, being logical is going to help you make the best decision. I was looking at relationships like that.

And you know, there's something like to that where I'm kind of torn as you say that because like there's a gift in that. There is a gift in that too. Right. Because I am clearing a lot of emotions that are stuck in people too. Right. Because sometimes it's like that feeling of rejection needs to be cleared, but not to be swept under the rug to be addressed and cleared.

Yeah. I think the thing is we take something that is part true, but then we make it the full truth.

Yeah.

You know, and everything in life is divine duality. Right. So it's like, let's say I was rejected by someone. You know, I could have made a story of I'm unlovable, I'm unworthy, I'm not good enough, I'm this. Or it could have just been like they got back together with their exact, you know, or it could have been anything, you know, but now I've created an entire hypothesis and it's, it's interesting. Like I was finding myself even in like dating of like, you know, let's say like, I don't know we were talking about, like, dating apps and stuff, which I'm totally done with.

I deleted my. On my way here.

Oh, my God. I'm like, I need deleting, Ryan, for all of them. But it was this thing that I was finding that I would talk to people and they would, like, disappear. And then I'm like, oh, they probably Googled me. I'm probably too much for them. You know, I'm too spiritual for them. I'm too big for them. My career is too big for them. Like, who knows? Maybe they just didn't check their phone. But my own program created a whole narrative, which is, I'm too much. My career is too much. Based on past, past experiences that.

Can I share a practical exercise for this?

Yes.

This is so perfect.

Yeah.

So there's something called mind reading, which is what you're doing there. Storytelling, fortune telling. Fortune telling.

Like, but we're spiritual. That's what we do, Right? Especially to myself.

See, the fortune telling that I like is like when I have a dream, and then that dream comes true. Right? Like a dream when I'm sleeping. That's the kind of fortune telling that's spiritual, Right?

Exactly.

But then there's the fortune telling where you're like, you expect something to go wrong, or you're projecting that someone is doing something that they might. You didn't call and verify that, whether or not that's true. Right. When that happens, there's a simple three step exercise. The first is, is just to first of all be aware that it's even happening. Right. Because sometimes when people are being so reactive, you don't even realize I'm jumping to conclusions right now. Oh, I'm. I'm mind reading. So actually, there's a good example of this. I went. I was in Hawaii and I went scuba diving, and I'm terrified of sharks. I have an irrational fear of sharks. Just the idea of even seeing one. So I'm swimming with these sea turtles, having the most incredible, blissful experience, when suddenly my mind goes, hey, remember that part where sharks exist? And all of a sudden I'm panicking under the ocean. I mean, I'm panicking and I whip my head around and I'm expecting to see a shark torpedoing toward me. And I'm just imagining rows of teeth, like, headed for my throat, right? And. And there's nothing there. It's just me, these turtles, and an overactive imagination feeding me this Jaws sequel that nobody asked for. And so in those moments, what you do is you. You want to write down the thought. Because when you write it down and you're looking at it like, okay, I'm being ghosted because I'm too successful. You write it down and seeing it on paper, actually, according to Harvard Med School, it engages a different part of your brain so that you can evaluate it more effectively. So all you're doing is catching it, writing it down. Third, look at the evidence. So is it true, is it 100% true that you're being ghosted because you're too successful? Look at the evidence. You've dated guys before. You've had steady relationships. Yeah, being ghosted sucks, but it doesn't suddenly make it the end of the story. And you know, spiritually, you could be being divinely protected. Right. How many times have you, like, wanted something, it doesn't happen. And then years later you're like, thank God that didn't happen. So just like, it's really. Just write it down or catch it. Write it down. Look at the evidence.

So how do we now take a step further and go into our subconscious blocks that we might not be picking up on?

Yeah, I mean, honestly, like, how do.

They start coming to you?

Yeah, I hate to be self promoting, but it's like, come. Come to someone like me because it's. It really is. I mean, look, if you know what it is, you know what the block is, like, you've done the work.

Like, you're in an ISO. We can be. We can be vulnerable here and share one of. One of mine. Because this was a game changer for me. You said that I had some store sort of story running around being rejected, that I was putting it out for people to reject.

Oh, you were putting out the broadcast. I was putting out reject me.

Exactly. So how did you pick up on that?

Yeah, we are like, guys, I was.

Putting out a broadcast, reject me.

And then you're like, why are people rejecting me? And you're broadcasting, reject me.

But then I figured out why and we'll go into it.

Yeah, you did. Yeah, we're all like radio towers. We're walking around broadcasting positive and negative messages. So it could be because you're so high vibration that you're putting out so many good messages that that one is not going too far. But some people are picking it up. I always tell people, because by the end, sometimes they're like, first of all, they're like, I feel so much lighter after the session. But sometimes they're also like, God, did I really have that much? And I'm always reminding them there's so much Good in there. I'm just not calling it out. So it seems like, oh, you're such a negative person. I'm only looking for negative things. So one of them was for you. Reject me. So this like radio tower that you are subconsciously with friends. So. But then what happens, right? What do we do from that?

What is. Because I'm so.

I'm Claire talk. Right. So for being clear, cognizant. Yeah, yeah, cognizant. And which I only found out in Norway. I know you're. You're friends with Derek as well. And I was invited to his wedding. I'm there. I'm literally on a train, sorry. On a boat, on a ship. And a guy goes, is it okay if I tell you something? Random guy? I said, yeah. He goes, you're clear. Cognizant. Spirit wants you to know because you don't know what the word is. And I was like, oh my God, you know? And he says, yeah. And you doubt yourself because you just know. You don't hear and you don't see. You're not clairvoyant, Claire. Yeah. So they're like, so you kind of sometimes doubt yourself because you're like, how do I know this? But you just know, don't doubt it. So I'm always double checking everything with muscle testing. So you'll see people who are watching and not listening, they'll see I do this with my hands and I'm creating.

And how do you. For people who don't know what muscle testing is? What does that mean?

Yeah, really incredible. I've been doing this for since I was 18. The person I was living with at the time, my brother in law's brother, was massive in this. This guy's like insanely multi, multi. Hundreds of million dollar industries that he's built and he muscle tests everything. And so he started to teach me. And this is when I was 18. And what you're doing is basically there's different ways. Like everybody has their own way of doing it. Some people put their arm up, pull it down. Some people use a finger and pull it, try to pull it down. I just basically create two rings and I create resistance. So am I Sahara Rose? It goes weak. Am I Firas? Yeah. Am I Frank? Yes. Am I speaking to Sahara Rose? It goes strong and some people doubt it. And you know, once you've done it a few thousand times, you start to just immediately know the difference between, you know, strong and weak. And so every single time I get something where I'm like, is this related to her dad and I go like that. Yeah, it is. This is related to an ex. Okay. It is like, is this related to mom? No. And it goes. Right. It goes weak, right? Yeah. So try it if you want.

Yeah. So am I on highest self podcast? Yes.

There you go. Yeah.

Am I on the chair podcast? No.

Yes. It goes immediately. Like, your body knows what's real or not.

You funny.

Yeah. And the way that. The way chiropractors do it is they'll like. Like the more holistic ones, they'll put like a packet on, like, of, let's say, of sugar or a vitamin C or something. Maybe you can take. Some people do this. They take all their herbs to their acupuncturist. Right. Or to their chiropractor. They'll hold it and then they'll try. They'll put their arm up and then the. The practitioner will push down. If your arm goes weak, don't take that supplement. If it goes. And. And these things can change. Maybe it's just like, don't take it now. You know, like, you don't need to throw it out. Just don't take it now.

Because the body can't lie. So basically, you're just receiving the messages through your claircognizance.

Your first testing.

And is it also your splenic projector?

Oh, you know, I don't know.

I'm curious.

I can show you because I have my chart written down, but I don't understand all the details. I know I'm a three, five.

Okay.

And I know I'm a projector.

Okay. I wonder if you're splenic, which is very first instinct. I'm a splenic one.

Does it mean you're open, like open spleen or.

No, no, if you have an open spleen, then I don't think you're spleen. It would be like cover. It would be like full. It's just another layer, you know, But I'm very clear, cognizant as well. So it's a lot of, like, first things, but then. Then I'll start to overthink it, and then it's like.

Exactly.

And then also emotions and, you know, lunar cycles and everything plays a role. I know you're very into astrology as well, which we'll. We'll get.

As you were just saying that, I was thinking, God, you're so intuitive. Because you mentioned turquoise earlier and I told you my meditation before coming here. I was surrounded by turquoise and white.

Firuz in Farsi means turquoise. And then we were talking about that. And look, I think things in the field, right? It's like, you know when you're having a conversation with someone and you really want to say something and you're like, is it weird if I just say that thing right now? I've learned to just say it, or I just ask them. I'm like, do you know someone named Sabrina? Because that name just keeps coming up for me. Or, you know, with you, I was seeing a lot of, like, your past lives. It's like, a lot. And sometimes I'll say things, and most of the time it's accurate because now I've learned, and sometimes it's not. And I'm just like, hm. Like, I wonder why that came. And then like, maybe later I'll figure it out.

Or maybe later they'll figure it out.

Exactly.

I've had clients where I'm like, I, like, feel 55. You have had vulnerability, terror and shock. What happened? And they're like, nothing. And I'm like, Something happened at 55. I'll send you the recap. You think of it later. Like, I don't doubt myself at all anymore because I've done so many sessions. But in the beginning, I would have doubted they'll message me three days later like, oh, yeah, my mom died at 55. And I'm like, that's huge. You know what I mean? Like, that's a big thing.

So when it sold you, what did it look like when you were talking to me and I was like, what's holding me back from love? And you're like, you're broadcasting this rejection thing. It just. That just came into your consciousness.

And that's why when I'm doing a session, I immediately write it down. Because before I forget it, because it comes for, like, a second, there's been times it's told me to tell people to take supplements I've never heard of. Like, chicory, ones I'd never heard of. Now I love chicory. I take it all the time. But I only know that because it told me subconsciously to tell this person I was talking to to take chicory.

Yeah.

And I looked it up, and it's, like, high in fiber. And we were working on her constipation, so I'm like, oh, that makes sense why that would come up. But I have to immediately write it down. And I think it's important for people to know, too. We're not. I'm not just telling you. I don't, like, go to psychics and stuff, because I'm like, what's the point of just knowing about my past life. I want it cleared. So I'm also, at the same time, clearing it.

And how do you clear it?

With magnets. So it was interesting because I was a journalist for. Right, 12 years, and then I would always go to healers, and they'd be like, you're a healer? And I'd be like, no, I'm not. I'm a journalist. I was so stubborn. I did not want to be a healer. Which, by the way, speaking of astrology, I was born under Hasta the star, which is. It means healing hands. And I literally use my hands to heal. And so in one month, though, I met three healers who all use magnets. An African shaman, a Mormon in Utah, and a curandera in Mexico. In one month, I'm meeting all three of them, and all three of them were adamant that I learned how.

I just realized you're the second person I met this week that uses magnets.

Oh, is this my. Maybe that's your thing. I'm literally never thought Magnus all the time. Somebody gifted me this. They made it themselves.

Wow.

Yeah. So.

So how are you clearing it with the magnets?

So what I'm doing is, this is a government. This is the part that I learned from Dr. Bradley Nelson, the Mormon one I told you about. The Mormon chiropractor, Actually super holistic and amazing. He actually wrote a book called the Emotion Code. And he. This is the governing meridian. It starts on your forehead, and it goes all the way down to the base of your spine. And you just take the magnet and you run it through with the intention, now what's happening? And it's happening now. So for everybody listening right now is also receiving from. From me and from you, a healing frequency. You. Because it's an innate thing you do anyway. Like, you're so easy to talk to. For me, I ask Divine mother always for whatever. I can't say, I don't have the ability to say, to send that frequency out to whoever's listening. And she's doing that now. And so in my sessions, that's always happening, no matter what. We love you on it. That's always happening anyway in all my sessions. But if I was just sitting there for an hour, imagine you paid this money, and I'm just saying, there for an hour, sending you this frequency, you'd be like, what the heck? You know? So I think people need something, and so I think it's helpful for me to be like, hey, you're broadcasting this. Let me clear it and it helps. I like to combine the two where it's like my own innate abilities with emotional healing. Not just emotional, like mental broadcasts like you were putting out, sometimes full on misalignments.

So it just comes to you and then you're using the magnets and circling it over your head, and that is clearing it. You are channeling that person.

Yeah. So that's such an interesting point too, because there's a lot of practitioners who. They'll like the curander in Mexico, you lay down and she's putting the magnets on you. I. I prefer to be in my sanctuary, work with people on Zoom, wherever they are, and I'm the conduit. So even if I'm on stage, I was at Mindvalley this. Right this weekend, as you were, and I was doing a healing for people in the audience. And when they would come up, I'm still doing it on myself for them. So before anybody's even started with me, There's a whole 30 minutes I'm doing before the session where I'm totally becoming a vessel, a clear vessel, Forgetting my story, forgetting my history, and then. And clearing. And that just reminds me again how we're all connected. Like, you know, we can say we're all one, but when you really, like get it and it clicks, not logically, experientially, it's like, oh, my God, we're all one. Whoa. Like, I can clear it from me for you. So when people are like, thank you so much, you changed my life, I'm like, thank you. Because that needed to be cleared from the collective.

And so are you like, opening yourself up to like, channel that person? What does that process?

I know the hard, the difficult thing. I don't know because I haven't been trained in this part. I don't know. I'm just like self taught in this part where I am very empathetic toward other people. I pick up everything I feel. Everything Is that Claire Sentence clear.

Sentience is to feel Claire audience. Claire cognizant is to know Claire audience. To hear clear point is to see.

Can you be two of them?

Of course.

Kind of like the doshas where you're all of them, but you're primarily one. Yeah. So I like, even yesterday after I saw you and you were like, I don't know if you remember, before the gala and I saw you, I got. I didn't even get into my Uber till 45 minutes later because I was with this cat that just needed me to sit there and be with it. And so, like, I. Not just people, I feel everything right? And so I'm like, this is what it needs. I'm gonna give it to it till it's ready. And the. The part about the. The channeling, I. When I first started, I would, after every zoom call, almost run to the bathroom and throw up. Especially if the person had really dark, deep things, like they had been molested or something. Really deep. And they wouldn't tell me. I would tell them. You know, I'd be like, I don't know if you know what this is. It's from age 10. It's probably nothing. They're like, I know exactly what that is. And they would tell me, and I would literally hang up the zoom, and I'd run to the bathroom and just start barfing. And it took me about three months to stop doing that because I had to learn. So now I'm like, I'm clearing. Like, I cleared for you the other day, but I'm not taking it on. I'm like, this is yours. I'm gonna clear it. It's not mine. I'm not gonna. I don't need to take it on for you. And you also don't need to hold it on. Hold on to it anymore. We're just gonna clear it so that nobody has to have this, you know? So somebody could be telling me the deepest, darkest thing, and I'm just like, okay, yeah, let's clear that. Let's clear it. And I'm not feeling at all that, oh, my God, like, I need to, you know, like, no, I'm not feeling that pull anymore. I'm totally blase.

It reminds me of when I started spiritual coaching, and I would take on their problems. Like, I would think about it before sleep. Like, it became my own. And as I went further along, people now tell me, like, the craziest shit, and I'm just like. And I'm just so, first of all, so grounded in knowing the resilience of humans and that we are able to overcome anything that before, I'd be like, oh, my God, like, you went through that thing, and it was like, oh. And I would, like, tell, like, my friend or my mom, like, I can't believe it. And now I'm like, Because I've got. Been through some shit. I'm just like, oh, wow. Like, spirit really assigned you a big one on that one. I'm so excited to see what's on the other side for you, you know, And. And then it's interesting, and I'm sure you've heard this too. Like, a lot of women come to me who have been through heartbreak, you know, and it's almost like they can, like, feel in my field that. And they tell me these really sad stories, you know, cheated on this, that. And rather than maybe only would be like, oh, my God, I'm so sorry you went through that. And this. I'm just like, your sexiest days are yet to come, you know, and it's like fully knowing that because I went through it, you know, and it's like, I think then we put out the broadcast of I've been through this obstacle, and I'm on the other side. So people who are just starting that obstacle can feel that they don't even know why they're sharing it with you, because you're the perfect person who's on the other side to be like, I'm not going to get entangled in your shit because I see you at your highest light. I'm going to tell you it's a journey. I'm going to tell you it's probably going to take longer than you think, but at the same time, you're going to become a version of you that you like. Even just last night, this girl was sharing with me. She was engaged, infidelity, you know, and the relationship just ended like two weeks ago. And I was like remembering, you know, two plus years ago when I was in Dubai, two weeks after that happened in my own life. And like, just feeling so much empathy where. Where she's at right now, the, like, trauma brain where you're like, disassociated. You wake up and you're like, is this even my reality? And, you know, and just feeling that and. But then also the part of her that's like, I don't even want to be sad about it because he's not worth my time of like, oh, girl. Like, this is going to be a journey. You're going to be sad for quite some time and use this as fuel, you know? And I just spoke life into her and she was just like, I don't even tell this to people, but something just told me to tell you. And it's like that. It's that energetic broadcast. If we can almost feel like, where can I be held in this?

There's two things you said that I need to jump on because, oh, my God, there's so much depth there that I hope people rewind that and listen again. The first thing is that we attract those people, those clients that we also not just have been through, but that we need to work on. I used to clear worthlessness. Like, every single person who came to me had worthlessness and shame. When I worked it through myself. I haven't cleared worthlessness and shame in years. Years. It doesn't come up. It's like, it's done right. But there's times where I'll literally, like, I've joked about it before. I'm like, this week, every single person has been a lesbian who hates her mom. Like, you know, it's like. It's literally like, I'll get these themes or like, somebody who has a pineal gland misalignment. Like, every single person this week. There's even been times where somebody, like, they're in Australia, they got the time difference wrong, they missed it. I'm like, I'm sorry. My next available is in a month, but I'll reschedule you. Right? And they're like, no, no. And I'm like, I'm sorry. Divine timing, everyone. That week will have the exact same thing that that person needed to work on. It'll be like a theme because it's like a field.

Because then you get deeper and deeper into it by working with all these different people. And then you're bouncing upon their different experiences, and it's like adding. And then something you gained from that person and goes to the next.

Yeah, exactly.

And they're healing each other.

And they're healing each other. And it's being healed from the collective. It's like, oh, that's what needs to, like, be clear from the collective now.

Yeah.

And then.

So are you getting a lot of relationship ones recently?

I haven't been, actually. No.

Okay, interesting.

No, but a lot of, like, women wanting to have babies lately. That's a huge one. So maybe that, like, kind of correlates.

Yeah.

There was something. Something else that you said. There was, like, two things I wanted to jump on. I forgot the next one, but it was really deep, what you said.

It'll come through, and I want to tie in. How? Then you brought that rejection thing. My first thing. Honestly, it resonated. I didn't have ego around it, you know? And of course, like, I'm shiny, sparkly, and beautiful. Like, who would want to reject me? But I knew what you meant. Because I realized just when I got home that night that I had told God, I had told the universe, if someone is not right for me, if someone is not my sacred union partner, please remove them out of my life, because I won't have the strength to do it myself. So I literally Told God, like, if it's not going to be true love with this person, just, like, have them ghost me.

Yeah.

Have them just not even try, you know, Because I don't want to have to take the responsibility to do it myself, because I love to love, you know, and so that I would meet these people that I knew I wasn't gonna be in a relationship with, but I'm like, okay, whatever. Like, maybe we can date like you. And then they wouldn't want to pursue it further. And I'm like, what? Like, huh? And. And then I knew, oh, it's because I cast that spell upon myself, you know? And then. So actually, I decided to retell God, thank you for that. I needed that energetic protection for that time period because I could have gotten into toxic relationships or something had I been given free reign. So my spirit guides were definitely protecting. On the other side of, like, hey, girl, like, we'll introduce you to him. So, you know that this archetype exists. But we're not gonna let you go even further, you know, we'll let you play, but just. That's it. And now I'm like, I have enough discernment with myself that I can end it. I don't need you to do it, you know, like. Because then I keep repeating this. Then I get into this like, they rejected me, so that's why I didn't work thing. Rather than like, oh, they're not the right fit for what I'm looking for, which is actually a more empowering story.

Yeah.

So now I've rewritten that. I haven't met anyone since, but you will before they reject you.

A little more clearing. I would love that. But, you know, maybe they're watching right now.

I doubt it. I only have girls and Hays here.

You know, but it's really important, what you said, too, of like, yeah, sometimes we need to create these blocks to protect ourselves. I'll tell people sometimes, like, they'll have the broadcast, like, get away from me or leave me alone. And I'm like, you know what? Like, you were doing that towards your ex when you. You really needed them to leave you alone when you were going through that divorce and you were putting that broadcast. Get away from me or lie to me. I see a lot with people who, when they know they're being cheated on and they're. They're broadcasting out, lie to me. Because they want to protect their emotions. So, like, it served you for a little bit, but we don't want that to keep running. We need to clear that broadcast it just got.

I definitely used to have the lie.

To me, one lie to me.

Because looking back on it, of course. Did I consciously know that he was cheating? Not at all. There weren't any signs, but I didn't know. So there had to be some sort of agreement. And I've done a lot of. I'm like, how did I not know? What was I missing this? And what I realized was, like, I wasn't meant to know until I was ready to create my new life. So I actually kind of needed to still live in the fantasy, to still live in the deception until I was at this place that I could fully leave the marriage, be on my own, support myself and create my own life. And then once I was energetically there, then all of the truth could come out because then I could. Because it would have sucked if I was like reliant on this person. And then I'm like, oh, now he's lying to me. And now I have to stay. And now I have to take on, you know, and some women know their partners are cheating and they have to stay, you know, Whereas for me, the moment I found out, I was able to leave. So it took longer to find out because I needed to be at that place.

Yeah. Yeah. That's so true and so powerful. Yeah, yeah.

It's crazy how our souls, like, create these things. And then sometimes I wonder, I'm like, if this wasn't going to work out, why'd you even introduce us?

Karma, right? Yeah, karma.

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But then they're like, are you kidding me? It's so sad. It's worse for them because they're going to have to keep coming back.

I know.

You know, but we're doing it. So my favorite thing to clear, I have people cry for this. It didn't come up for you? I don't think maybe it did. And did we clear any inherited stuff?

No.

Do you remember a lot of times I'll be like, you have inherited rejection from your mom. And they'll be like, yeah, my. Like, they'll be like, my dad left my mom when she was still pregnant with me or whatever it is. Or it can be rejected. A rejection that it can go back seven generations. And so just like junk DNA they call it, right? But like, just like we inherit our. Like you never met your great grandmother, but her nose is on your face, right? Like, so is her. The betrayal she felt. Because what happens is they go, I was betrayed. I want to make sure my ancestors always know what this betrayal is so that they're ready for it. It's survival, right? So I'm going to send them this feeling of betrayal so that they know they're going to. They're going to take on my betrayal too, or so that we can burn it for them. Like, they want us to take on their karma. So when I was, one of my favorite things to clear is when I'm like, betra trail from your mother. And then when I clear it from you, it's cleared from them automatically and from any offspring you might ever have from your siblings. We're just clearing it from the line.

So let's say someone in their lineage has had, you know, men walking out on the woman, the woman being single moms. So they bring that to their consciousness and then use a magnet over their head and it's gone. Like how?

Like they consciously know what it is and they can really, Especially if you can. If they can like feel it and they know for sure what it is. Like, like, I'm angry right now. Right? And they know what. Yes, they can take a magnet or even the magnetic energy that we all have in our hands. So African Shamans will use, at least the ones I spoke to will use the magnetic energy in their hands. And you can just sit there and as you're. You just imagine it going away. Right. But again, like, you have to know for sure what it is. I have clients who come to me and they're like, I'm depressed and depressant. Depression won't come up once in the session. Like, no, you're frustrated, you're angry, and you are. And you're, you know, you're running. You're. You have an allergy to the idea of being like your mother. And then I'll clear that too, you know, so I'm like, you're. You're count. You're calling that depression. But this is what it actually is. So as I say, it's, like, good to go to somebody who can identify it. Laser focus. But if you know and you're like, this is anger right now. Angry. In that moment, I set the intention to clear this anger and just see it and swipe for people who are not watching. Swipe it. Swipe your hand or a magnet over from your. From your brow to, like, the base, the back of your neck.

Another thing that was really helpful for me when I was clearing a lot after my divorce was, like, making sounds. So, like, making sounds of, like, where I felt it. And sometimes it would be just these weird, like, even disgusting sounds. And it was like, disgust.

It's so good that you do that.

Purging out of my body, you know, or getting into the car is the best place to be angry. Guys, like, get into. Because then you could be loud and I would just, like, scream or cry and just, like, letting out. And sometimes I would hit these, like, notes.

Yeah.

That I'm like. It would be this weird, like. And I would, like, find the specific frequency and, like, make the sound. I wasn't. Sometimes, like, I don't even like this sound. But I was. It felt like I needed to come out of me. And I really feel I was, like, retuning my body.

That's exactly what you were doing. And I. I don't. This is. By the way, I have not studied any of this. I just know it.

Yes.

Because I've been in the deepest, deepest meditations where all of a sudden I'm going, and I don't know what's happening. I'm Frank, don't stop it. Just let it happen. And. And the biggest thing is get out of your head. Don't even question, why am I doing this? Does this sound stupid? Is anyone Listening. Just keep doing it. Something is being even.

Movements.

Yeah.

Like, sometimes I would, like, make a circle movement with my neck or, like, some kind of, like, undulation or something. I remember the first time I ever took mushrooms when I was 23. Like, my spine was just, like, undulating, like, kundalini energy. And it was like. And I was like, this is so weird. But it, like, wouldn't stop. And it was like, just this energy moving through me. And I do a lot of breath work now. And in breath work, I will, like, be, like, holding and pulsing. And for me, I do a lot of, like, pul. Like, pulsing in my yoni and, like, moving that kundalini energy. And I will, like, literally feel these, like, ripples coming through me that at first I'm like, oh, this is, like, weird, or, like. Like, where is this going? Or something. And now I just know it's just energy moving through me. I have no need to label it.

With, like, the yoni, like, or. Or even just like, your. What is it like, your perineum rectum, though, like, when you're so powerful?

Yeah, yeah.

Do you notice yourself doing that sometimes, like, out of nowhere? Not consciously, yes. In my sessions, I don't know what's happening, but sometimes when I'm clearing things, it just starts pulsating.

So root chakra. And it's so important to connect to that because we're so disconnected from our seat, our powerhouse, you know? That is why yoni and anal steaming was always part of ancient cultures. Like Chinese emperors, you know, indigenous culture in Guatemalan, all over the place. They were. They were like. Like, that is. That is their spiritual center, you know, Whereas we are so afraid of, like, shadow sexuality and our culture that, like, you know, people do meditations all. It's all third eye. And I'm like, you're, like, missing 50, especially knowing that.

But you. If you just go straight into the crown and the third eye and all that before you've addressed the roots.

That's why I don't do. I mean, there's a lot of big teachers of meditations all about pineal gland. I don't do those meditations because I'm like, you. If I haven't opened up the root, how do I go into my pineal gland?

Yeah, I mean, you probably. At this point, I think you could, but it's like.

But also, like, why? Like, it just feels like it's this.

Like, fear, but with those pineal also, like, I. Because I'm. I'm so.

I think we're afraid of Our sexual power, you know, and that's why. Because, look, there's so much distortion. Like, most distortion and traumas are around sexuality.

90. No, no, no. It's a huge. 70% of the clients. I see the first thing, root and sacral misalignment.

Yeah.

But you know, like, what's really cool about it, too? I don't. I don't just go, oh, your sacral is misaligned. Your sacral is misaligned. Here are all the underlying reasons. And we clear each one, one by one, from terror, from physical trauma, from the. I mean, it's wild, the things that happen.

Okay, so you mentioned to me something that, like, I wish I still don't remember. It's like I like, fell or had some sort of collision.

Yeah, there was a physical trauma, right?

Yeah. When I was like, 3 years old from, like my. From your brother, which makes sense. Like, he was always very agreeing aggressive and stuff. And he was 2. He was a year younger than me, but I'm sure he's like, punched me a million times. I was three. So it's like, how are you picking up on that? Do you feel it?

I feel it. I just immediately know. So I don't know how to explain that part. Like, anyone can muscle test and do this. Like, even if you learn, like, Bradley Nelson's work, right? He'll, like, tell you how to identify certain things. Like, like, you can ask questions. You can say, is this, like a physical thing? Oh, it is. Is it energetic? No, it goes weak. It's physical. Okay. Is it a physical trauma? Oh, it is a physical trauma. You're asking, right?

Just try a bunch of different options.

I keep going down that rab rabbit hole. That's why I love. I muscle test everything. I'm like, should I get the orange juice? No, pomegranate juice. Okay. Like, I'll literally do that at the grocery store. Like, I'm like, what does my body want right now? And every moment, I'm muscle testing everything, you know, so then I have physical trauma. But then I. From this. The step further part is that I just declared cognizant part is where I'm like, oh, that's her brother. Then I'll ask like, do you have a brother? You know, so there was somebody on stage at. At Mind Valley, and I was like, she. She was really shy Indian woman and didn't even want to say it was. It made me look bad where I was like, come on. Like, come on. You know, Like, I. Now. From now on, I learned I'm Going to look for the energetic ones and the non shy because she was like. I told her that she had this thing. Her nervous system was misaligned. I said, look, there's too much here. I can't do it on stage because the audience is gonna get. Get bored. This is like a 30 minute thing. But I'll clear the biggest thing. Misaligning your sympathetic nervous system. And it was something. I can't remember what it was now. And I said, this is related to one of your siblings. It's not your parents. And I didn't know. I don't know this woman. I said, you have siblings, right? Because she just was radio silent. I said, you have siblings? She goes, yeah. I said, okay, I'm letting you know it's your siblings. And then I cleared it. And then backstage she comes up to me. She comes like, going backstage after I leave because I know exactly what that was. And I'm like, why did you say on stage? You know? But. But yeah. So I don't know how I know. I just know. But the other part is like, easy, Anyone can do muscle testing. And then I just immediately know. I'm like, that's what. Remember I was like, that's your dad, that's your brother. That part I just know.

Do you feel like masculine on the right side, feminine on the left side?

I do, but not in my clearings. But yeah, like every. I do Pranayam every day. And I literally imagine when I'm doing the left inhale and exhale, that it's Parvati breathing. When I switch it, I'm like, shiva's breathing now, you know, because my whole goal and everything that I do, it's only been like six months now, where it just came to me in a meditation out of nowhere, is to make this body that we call Firas, that we call Frank, to just be the vessel. I always tell Shiva and Parvati, so for people who don't know the divine masculine, the divine feminine, I say let this be your sanctuary when you need to just get away from the universe. You want a little hideout, Let it be here. Here. This is your hideout. This is your safe place. My whole job is just to make this a vessel that's welcoming for you.

I also am a channel and embody, and I want to embody the person listening to this podcast, like the highest self podcast listener who they are. It's because it's an energetic field, people who vibrate with my consciousness. It's like we're kind of like a soul clan that we're spiritual and fun and deep and sexy all at the same time. So I'm going to embody them, and I would like you to do healing on the people listening right now.

I love this. This, because I've never done this, and I've been wanting.

It just came through to do. I was like, screw me. We need the collective.

Thank you. Because I've actually been wanting to do this in a live audience, and I never remember to do it. Okay, so let me find the collective wound for all of your listeners. The collective wound, the one that everybody shares. Okay. Can we do this? Okay. So this body person sets the intention for enlightened consciousness to flow through, to experience the purity of my own consciousness, and to embody the consciousness of all of Sahara Rose and her viewers. I am content to be wherever spirit wishes, knowing he goes there with me. I don't need to orchestrate what I say or what to do, because spirit will direct me. Okay, is there anything I can clear for the collective here? Okay. It's energetic. It's post traumatic. It's offensive. O. Okay.

And I'm. I'm feeling the chakra of where the issues are. So I'm really.

That is so interesting because you brought this up in our conversation. This is so deep. I actually, on a logical level, didn't agree with you. And now I'm realizing you were right. The first thing that came up is that there's an entity that's attached. And you told me when we talked about the masculine and the feminine being wounded, you were like, I think it's an entity causing it. Okay, so do we need to know anything about this entity? No. Can we clear this entity? We can clear this entity from every single person that it's affecting here. So this body person sets the intention for enlightened consciousness to flow through, for us all to experience the purity of our own consciousness, to cast out any expression of consciousness that's not fully our own, whether it's hidden, cloaked, invisible, or exposed, so that we can experience the purity of our own consciousness. Infinite light, Please assist us in casting out this consciousness. Thank you. Was that entity cleared from everybody? Okay, is there anything else that we should clear for the collective? Okay, so that entity was cleared from everybody. It's the next thing. Energetic.

I felt so much pain in my third eye when I first started. I was like, oh, my God, I don't know how long I can hold this. And I just felt a release.

Did you feel also? Let me know if you feel this. There's a curse that I'm clearing now. I don't know what this curse was. It's telling me. We don't need to know. We just need to clear this curse. This is not at all what I thought.

I thought my clear cognizance said it's related to expression. Which wound? Fear of sharing your voice.

Is this accurate? Yep, that's exactly what it is. Is there more here? This is. See, this is because you're a channeler. Okay, good. Let's clear. The biggest thing affecting everybody right now is it. But I want it to be something not offensive. Can it be post traumatic offensive? Mental. So will to. No will to. Good. Okay. Column A. It's in column B. Be in honor of one. No will to support others. No voters. No. To support us. No. To respect us. No. To trust others. Do we need to know more? Can we clear this? The next biggest thing is no will to trust others. Can we clear this? Yeah. Wow. Do you want to describe what's happening with you?

There's, like, so much just, like, g. Like, my hands just need to, like, shake off. And it's like all this control. Like, so much control. Oh, my God. My neck just cracked like crazy.

I want to keep doing more. More. I thought I was done, but I want to do more energetic. Post traumatic offensive.

Yeah, it's like this massive need to control.

Listen, because this feels so good right now. There's an allergy, but it's an allergy to the idea of something greatness.

Standing out, being cast out. Now I want to cry ideologically.

Being the victim, being the survivor. Ooh. Allergic to the idea of being the survivor of something. Something. Can I clear. Like, not wanting to be called a survivor. Like, oh, I survived that. We're clearing that now. Yeah, I can feel it too. My. It's pulsating. Like we talked about. Is there more here? It's energetic, it's dramatic, it's mental. We're going to clear the biggest left thing left. It's a will to. No will to. Okay, good. It's in column M. It's in column B. It's in order. It's in ro. This is such a beautiful thing to do for your viewers. Know how to support others. Know how to respect others. Know how to trust. I don't know. No will to respect others. Do we need to know more? Can we clear this? This is for the collective. No will to respect others. I've been actually. That's been coming through a lot in Dubai.

I feel this, like, sadness around, like, not feeling seen by my dad. Like, everyone's dad's not seeing them.

Did we clear this good. And you know your viewers better than anybody because they come to you. Did we clear all of this?

Like, just the little girl not feeling seen for her gifts and her empathy.

And her sensitivity, Was that cleared in this? Yeah, that was cleared in part of what we cleared. Yeah. Yeah, I hope everybody could feel that. It was so powerful. My purina was, like, pulsing the whole time while you're, like, taking jewelry off. I told you this. There was this, like, European man, big strong guy, like, at the mindvalley thing, who came up to me backstage and was like, I couldn't even hold my phone up videoing you because there was so much energy in my hands.

Yeah, I definitely felt so, like, for me, it started so I. At first, when I tuned in, like, I first to connect for people, like, how did. Like, what was I doing? I visualized a lot of faces of people I've met who listen to this podcast. Like, lots of people I met this week and people in general. Like, their faces, their consciousness, conversations, to, like, get into that frequency and, like, kind of feeling the pattern of all of these people and, like, the consciousness of all these people. And then I was also just, like, declaring, like, the highest self podcast listener, the person who. Who continues to tune in, the person who's listening to this right now, and really just declaring that and. And. And even just repeating that. The highest health podcast listener. Allow me to be a vessel and, like. And that I can hold it.

Yeah.

You know, and then it was like this massive pain in my third eye, and I was just like, oh, God, like, this is a lot to hold. And then you did the first one, and it started to clear.

And as I cleared it, you could. You could feel it clear.

Yeah, I could. I could feel that. And I was just like, oh, thank God. Because that was, like, to me, the third eye one. And I don't know, for the person listening, it was, like, a lot around, like, confusion, like, different thoughts and different ideas and what to do, what to do. I need to figure it out. What do I do? What do I do? And then it was like, a lot around. Like, I can even feel, like, mucus building up. I feel like I'm gonna have to, like. Like, clear even that, but a lot around my throat, around expression, which I already know is a big thing. I'm feeling a lot of people's hearts right now as I'm speaking of, like, questioning, like, is she real? Like, is she. Is I feel it is. Am I imagining this, like, I want.

To know if they're feeling it.

They should comment and let you know, too, if I'm. Yeah. Like, I just. As I just described it, because that was the first time I felt my heart, but I was feeling the throat. And then, oh, my God, my hands just wanted to shake in my jewelry. But then even the jewelry felt like I was imagining, like, Jasmine and Jafar's cave where she had, like, the chains on her, and I felt, like, chained. I even felt like these were just chains and shackles of, like, my own control of my own life.

Life.

And so just feeling, like, shackled by my life and, like, knowing I'm capable of more but not knowing what to do. So that's why I was like, I need to, like, just strip everything. And then like, even. Just, like, letting all this, like, stuckness in my body, which I was feeling a lot in my neck and shoulders, like, just moving that stuckness out of my body. And even just like, I know this probably looks really freaking weird, and someone's gonna make a compilation and be like, she's a witch, whatever. But I also felt like my body wanted to show. To give you permission of letting it be weird. Like, let. Letting it not be pretty, letting it look like whatever it is. You know, because it's like. I think we have. It's like we. We want to meditate, and we want it to be peaceful.

And it's like love and light. Love and light. No, go into the shadow work. Yeah.

Oh, my God. Like, it's. You catch yourself making sounds and doing things that you're like, what is happening? And look, it's not forever. Like, I've found it's like periods of time where you're doing deep healing on, and then you're kind of, like, out of it for a long time, but, like, letting it be strange, you know? And. Yeah. And, like, even right now, I'm feeling, like, openness in the solar plexus and permission and. And the way that I have been able to tune into this for the people listening is I started to do a lot of prayers for people. So, like, people. I would ask people, what are you praying for? And I would, like, light candles and write down their prayers. And, like, so I started to, like, embody people's energies in. In prayer. And then that sort of helped me start to, like, do candle magic. Like burning a candle and then seeing the candle. Yeah.

I have somebody who does it for me. Yeah, it's so effective.

Exactly. So I would see the way that the candle wax would Melt. And I would take a picture and, like, ask them, like, what do you see? And. And then. And then I would start to clear things. So I just started doing clearings and, like, using my body as a vessel to clear for people. But it does take. It's like, like, look, any muscle, right? Like, it just. Like you. You were vomiting at the beginning. It takes time and space, but it's really cool because then it's like, we can all heal each other. You know, we can all be these. Like, that's what family.

There are no other way. God. Okay, I'm going to look this up.

Family consolations.

It has come to me three times this week.

They have it here in Dubai. Like, they have it all over. But you basically embody different members of the person's family. So, like, I might be your mother, your father, and then I start channeling as if it's that person. You're seeing the full constellation of the dynamics of the family play out.

Are you serious?

And it's so accurate and just shows there's a quantum field that we're all connecting to. Because it's like, I know nothing about your family. And all of a sudden you do this Every. Anyone can do it, right?

But you have to be trained, right?

When you show up in the family constellation and you. You're, like, assigned to play a role, it starts coming through.

Oh, so people playing roles.

Playing people playing roles. So it'll be like eight people playing all the members of your family, and you can play members of people's families. So go to. If you, like, look up online, meetup.com, whatever family constellations, you can join in on people's. Yeah.

Okay. I have to say, too, because this is new for me. I'm learning, like, I'm so in awe of you because I'm learning something about what you just said. I didn't know. Because as I'm clearing, I'm just clearing. I'm just clearing, right? Even when I'm working with people. Yeah, let it out.

Sorry.

Even when I'm. I'm learning from you. Even when I work with people, I'm like, don't tell me the story. Because I'm such a. I'm like this efficient healer where I'm like, let's just. Because they'll start telling me, oh, that was when I. I'm like, I don't care. Like, you know, I'm like, let's just keep clearing.

That's your divine master.

You have an hour with me. Yeah. I'm like, you have an Hour with me. Do you want to sit here and explain to me what each one of these was, or should we just clear as much as we can and I'll send you a recap and you look at it later with your therapist, you know, and. But as I heard you explaining it, I'm like, whoa, that's so deep. Like, like, because I'm thinking, no will to trust others. What was the other one?

No survivor. Not wanting.

Allergic to the idea of being a survivor. Not willing to respect others. How many people. How many women? Because I didn't even put you into. Together. Your. Your audience is probably primarily women and probably young, like your age. What. How many of them have been felt like not even just disrespected, but they lost respect for the masculine in their life where it's like, dude, you're not even a man. You're a man, boy. You know? And then. So there's now, what? No will to respect others? What else? No will to trust others. Because how many times have they been betrayed? I think that one came up twice. I'm not sure. Alert and. But I cleared it internally twice. An allergy to the idea of being the survivor. Because how many women have been a victim or whatever, but they're like, I'm not going to be a victim. I'm not. You know, and so when we were clearing that for them, yeah, I, I wasn't putting two and two together until you said it. So I really wonder if, if they would report back to you that they notice a change in their life.

Okay. On YouTube, if you are watching this right now, comment on YouTube. Just tell us what you felt. Did you feel something? Give us, like, timestamps, because I want to actually, like, decode and like, feel into, like, how this works. Because I do believe even, like, certain. And this person might be watching this video, like, years later, like, it might be like 2027 right now. Who knows? But I find, like, different videos, content, books, everything finds us in the time that we're ready for it.

I don't think I just asked while you were saying it. We, I asked it while you were saying, which was crazy. We were both thinking, yeah, even in.

Real time, it's here.

It's happening in real time. For anybody who will. Has or will listen to your. Your entire audience through space and time.

Right.

Right now, they just all receive that healing in January.

You're Welcome. That'll be 3.99. Yeah, it's. It is crazy. And, and look. And it's like, this is what I love about this kind of work is like, you don't need to know. And. And look, I'm such a story person. I'm like, tell me your story and this and that. And. Yeah, you know, I remember I was working with this, like, male. Like a male coach, and I started going into, you know, my ex husband, he cheated on me, and I had no idea. And he was just like, are you done with the story now? I was just like, what? Yeah, you know, and there was something very empowering about that of like, you don't need to keep retelling the story, you know, and flip it and reverse it. Like something. When you tell the story, it's like you notice new parts of it every time you tell the story, you know, so it's like there's a time and space.

There's a balance. Right. Like, I need to. I could lean more into that feminine, and you can lean more into the masculine so that there's that perfect balance. Yeah, for sure. There's actually so. Oh, I remember now, leading into what I just said about, like, that audience, we could do. If you want, there's two exercises we can do. Which one should we do first? Or should we just do one or the other? Where one is, like, disconnecting from the story. Two is a neuroscience technique of how to, like, go. But since there was no. No. Not willing to be the survivor. Right. Or not. An allergy to the idea of being a survivor of something to go back to a traumatic moment in your life. And I can help reframe that.

Whatever you think.

Okay, let's do both. So I would like to start with the. The stories. So we're just gonna do a quick little meditation. This will lead into the next one. So if everybody can just get comfortable, and if you're comfortable and in a safe place, close your eyes. If you're not, just gaze down at the floor or do it with open eyes. Just breathe regularly first. Breathe regularly and say in your mind, I am aware of my hands. And notice how your awareness goes to your hands. I am aware of my forehead. I am aware of my breath. And as you're saying this, your awareness is going there. And notice that. And now say to yourself, I am. And your name. So I would say, I am Frank Elleredi. I am Sahara Rose. You say your name and think of all the things associated with that name. All of the stories, all of the roles you play, the personality, everything that comes with the identity of that name. Just think about that for a second. Feel it. All the roles you're playing every day. And now take your name out of it and just say, I am. Breathe in. I exhale. M so hum I am so hum. Without the responsibility, without the name, without the roles that you play. Just I am. And here anchor in what you want that I am to be. So I am enough. I am abundant. I am not a survivor. I am powerful. Powerful. I am that. I am whatever you want it to be. Anchor that in now. And then taking a deep breath, anchoring that in. Deep, deep, deep. Hold it at the top. Squeeze your sitting muscles if you can. Squeeze, squeeze. And then let it out powerfully. Breathe in. One more hold and exhale it out. Last time. Breathe in deep. Hold and out. Good. Okay, we're going to go straight into the next exercise. Yeah. Okay, so the next one is I want you to think about a traumatic moment because you are not the survivor. You have an allergy to being the survivor as a listener of the show. So think about a really traumatic thing that has happened in your life. I do love whenever I'm like my fu to somebody who did something, I'm like, you thought that I would like breathe without you. I'm inhaling and I feel for you. What's really strong is you thought it'd be over by now, but it won't stop.

Thought that I was self struck, but I'm still here. I was in Egypt on the Nile like, like days after my divorce. And my friend's like, let's play some music. We put that on. We did like a whole music video to it on the Nile iconic, say the least did it.

So hopefully that little sidebar gave people a moment to think about what, like traumatic moment they want to work on.

Back to trauma.

I like the masculine. Bring it back. And then. Okay, so think about that moment, right? It could be the divorce, it could be whatever, whatever that thing that made you feel like you were, you had to be a survivor. And I want you to imagine that you're actually watching it and you're watching it from a movie theater and you're sitting in the front row and it's like playing really big on the screen. And now just watch it. Just watch the movie. And then now I want you to watch it from the projector. So like from the projector room and you're seeing yourself in the front row. From the projection room, you're seeing yourself in the front row watching this movie on the screen. Watch that scene and let it play out. Scene one, scene two, scene three, scene five is the climax. It's like the worst of it, six and seven is pretty big, too. And then eight, nine, and ten, those are like the aftermath of. Of this thing that you experience. Like the days after, the weeks after. And now notice that it's actually getting smaller. The screen is getting smaller. So it's still playing. It's still playing on a loop, but it's just getting. It's like a reel that just keeps playing in Instagra, but it's getting smaller and smaller, and now it's actually black and white. And you're watching yourself again from the projection room. You're seeing yourself watch this movie. And it's getting smaller. It's actually lost the sound now. And it's just a dot now. Okay. It's just a dot. And when I clap my hands or snap my fingers, it's going to completely disappear. Just completely gone. It's a blank screen. And when you're ready, you can open your eyes. Yeah. Just, like, diminishing its power. Because people play these things sometimes, like memories. I clear memories, too. Sometimes I'm like. And I never try to find out. Actually, I can't. I've never been able to know what the memory is. Sometimes they know, but there's some. A lot of stuck memories that people have where they just replay it over and over, over. But we have thousands and thousands of memories, like a week. Right. So I never try to find out what it was. It's like you have this memory from age 27. I don't know what it was, but we're just going to clear it. So that just helps with whatever this memory that people are holding on to. That's like the survivor memory. We're just gonna make it smaller, weaker.

Yeah. And it just shows that, like, when we create more spaciousness from that thing, it. It has less of a hold of us. You know, when that thing is fresh, it's almost like every conversation we have, we want to bring it up, you know? And it's like. Then you go home and you start thinking about it again, and it's like it's. It's constant with you, you know? And then, like, there's more time and more spaciousness and, like, more things come into life. And, like, there's, like, more things added to the plate and the array. And then that thing starts to, like, crowd out, crowd out, crowd out, crowd out. And then, like, look, it's always there, right? It's always a scar, but it's like it has less of this. Like, has eventually zero emotional hold on you.

That's the Thing that I'm clearing is not the memory, right? Yeah, The. The. The charge.

Yeah. And then it's like, oh, this thing that happened. And then it's interesting because when you've really cleared of the charge, it's like, almost like, wow, like, that happened. It's almost like this. Like, you're in, like, disbelief of, like, I went through that. I can't even imagine that, you know? Like, it feels so far apart from who I am now. It's almost like you remember the memory of it more than the actual.

Yeah. And if there's, like, a person involved, you start feeling bad for them, too. Like, oh, that poor person. Like, they didn't know what they were doing.

Yeah. You know, and also so much gratitude for it happening because you're like, oh, my gosh. It gave me so much. So much empathy. It gave me so much nuance. It gave me so much aliveness. It gave me grit. It gave me everything. You know, like, sometimes I meet people, I'm like, oh, you haven't been through a dark night of the soul. Like, damn, that sucks.

Yeah.

You know, And I'm like, it's coming, but it's like, there. You can just feel it. Like someone that's been through something challenging. There's this radiance they have for sure. A radiance, especially if they've addressed it.

Like, you're working. Some people are numbing it.

Exactly.

You know, but when you've gone through it, like, you see how you. I know you've, like, worked with plant medicine. People who are doing any kind of plant medicine, and they're, like, crying, and you see them the next day, and you're like, are you okay? And they're like, I feel amazing. Like, you know, but what you saw the night before, like, they're throwing up and screaming and hollering. You're like, God, are they okay? And they, like, the next day, they're radiant soil.

You know, it's like these tr. Even the word trauma, it's so charged, you know? And then I really don't like this, like, pop culture psychology of, like, oh, my God, you had trauma, so now your life is gonna suck and you're gonna have trauma brain. And you're like, a less than person who has it.

And all they do is they give you tools not to, like, knock therapy. Right. But a lot of therapists come to me because there's, like, they're giving you tools of, like, when you notice it, do this or do that. But they're not, like, clearing it.

Yeah. And like. Like, mitigate it. And like, oh, like, it's like, no, use it as fertilizer to become the version of you you could have never.

Become without that fuel for the fire.

Yeah, yeah, 100% exactly. It's like, how am I supposed to have. Yeah, a fire? How am I supposed to have a garden? How am I supposed to have anything without the manure, without the muck? Like, it needs to grow from something. So it's like when. Whenever I'm given another hardship, I'm like, oh, universe wants me to plant even more roses.

Yeah, yeah, roses.

Roses.

I have become in the last week, such a fan of yours. Like, I cannot wait to just binge your podcast. I'm seriously, like, so then you're going.

To receive an energetic healing for free dot com.

I wonder if it'll happen. Oh, my God, that's crazy. That's so close.

I know you in the future getting healed by you in the past, but you know what? Even like this podcast called Highest Self, and I'm like, maybe our highest selves are just our future selves, like, giving us little breadcrumbs. That's so looking out for us, you know, of like, hey, notice this red thread. Talk to this person. Take action on this thing, because this is me on your highest timeline. I want to help you get there.

I wonder, and I would love that. I mean, it resonates, it feels right.

Because sometimes I go, oh, we can muscle test anything.

It's that strong.

Yeah. Because oftentimes I go back to my most traumatic memory, you know, And I'll tell her from my vantage point, now, I know right now you're on your knees and you're crying, and it feels like your world is just collapsed and over. And. And here, now we're living in Dubai. Now we're speaking on stage at Mind Valley. Now we're this. And none of this would have have been possible if it wasn't for this moment right now. And I'm always speaking life into her.

You know, Marissa Pier had an I did her Mind Valley thing when she was here. She's gonna be on my show, too, this week, and she let us do an exercise where we talk to that kid and we say we literally, you hold their hand and you walk them through your life now. And you're like, look, I bought that you own this. Like, this is your place. You live here. And like, or whatever it is for you, that's so amazing, right? Like, for me, I was like, look. Look at those four Emmys. You won't those. Those four Emmys on your mantle. I had a. I had a little Emmy on my vision board when I was like 10. I have four of them now. You know, like, all these things where I was like, like, that's. You don't worry. Like, I know it's tough. I know you're, like, so uncomfortable.

Put on your vision more because the future version of you is like, oh, I know the perfect thing for you to put on your vision board. That's actually going to happen.

You know, you like shiny gold. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

This was so beautiful. So where can listeners connect with you and book a session with you?

Yeah. Thank you. So on frankelaridi.com is the website. There's like an emotional healing tab. That's the one for booking sessions. And then. Yeah, I always love talking to people on Instagram too. Floridi.

Well, we will have your Instagram and your link in the show notes. So, guys, this was full throttle clearing stuff and it was just so amazing. This was. This was a journey. So share this with your friends, like if you want to. Also, like, if you're like, here's a free healing session. Listen to this podcast for real. Share this with your friends. Friends, have a conversation after. What did you feel? What came up for you? Let's do clearings on each other. You know, if. If you're a coach, bring this into your work. You know, like, this is how we take it further. It's so easy for us to listen to a podcast and be like, oh, that was cool. On to the next. And it's like, no, let's actually take a moment, pause, write down what you're thinking right now. Integrate it. Go deeper. Not next, go deeper. If you just embody this, this for next month, I guarantee your life will transform more than reading every single Instagram post on your feed. So let's go deeper this month. So if you love this, leave a review on the itunes store or leave a podcast a YouTube comment. And as a free gift, I will send you my womb meditation. And this is a meditation you can do to connect to your sacred home of the divine feminine. So all you got to do is leave a review and the podcast applies. App or on YouTube, take a screenshot and email it over to me@saharaiam sahararose.com you can find that email and all of the links mentioned today in the show notes. Thank you so much for tuning in. It was such an honor to feel your energy. Thank you for allowing me. I also specify I was like, for the people who are allowing it. So thank you, if that was you, for allowing me to be able to channel some of. Some of what you're moving through right now. And I'm so excited to hopefully have you you on the podcast one day. So I'll see you in the next one. So trust your intuition, trust your inner wisdom, Trust your inner guidance. Close your eyes and listen. So trust your intuition, trust your inner wisdom, Trust your inner guidance.