249: The Power of Sisterhood with Stacey Hickman

Namaste, it's Sahara Rose. And welcome back to the Highest Self podcast, a place where we discuss what makes you your soul's highest evolvement. Happy 2020, everyone. I am so grateful that you are beginning your year with me on Highest Self Podcast. If it's your first time listening, welcome. This is a podcast. We dive deep into spirituality, awareness, knowing, and if you're here all the time, what up, girl, goddess, God, man, non gender? Anyone who's listening, we welcome you here, Chubby and I, my puppy, who's just looking at me as I record this. And I want to share with you some big news. You may have seen me at your local airport, Barnes and Nobles bookstore, magazine stand. I'm on the COVID of Yoga Journal's 2020 magazine. So yoga Journal is a national print magazine that is at all book stands, newsstands across the country and in other countries as well. And I'm so honored to be featured for their January February issue. We dive deep into the work that I do. My background, my childhood, my struggles, my journey, my inspiration, Rose Gold Goddesses, the work that we're doing. And in this episode, we talk a.

Bit more about that, how that feature.

Even came to be, and also the movement that I have been lucky enough to channel. And this is Rose Gold Goddesses. So Rose Gold Goddesses is a sacred sisterhood collective all about bringing women together to support each other and becoming their highest selves and fulfilling their dharma, their soul's purpose. So essentially, it is our very own app with monthly workshops, topics to discuss, anything from Ayurveda to shamanism to past lives, to how do I talk about spirituality to my family who thinks I'm crazy? Or what do I do if my partner is not on a spiritual path? Or what do I do if I feel like I've totally outgrown my job? We talk about all of those things in this community. There are 2,000 women from all around.

The world who are part of it.

We have live meetups happening in so many different cities. Cities. Stacy, who is the guest on today's interview, is a Rose Gold Goddess as she shares with you how she discovered it. And she's having, you know, today's is New Year's, and she's having a New Year's party for her Rose Hole Goddesses in her community tonight. And there's just so much beautiful support and collaboration and love happening in the community. It's been so incredible to witness because when I was creating it, I was.

Actually in the busiest stage of my life.

I was creating my book and I was moving and I didn't have a place to live and there was just so much happening. But this vision kept coming through of bringing sisters together and honoring the goddess and working with the different goddess archetypes. So Saraswati, the goddess of creativity, how do we step into our most creative selves? Whether it's art, music, dance, poetry. Lakshmi, the goddess of abundance, how do we work through our money stories, our limiting beliefs around around money and finances and really work with that? Whether it's Yemaya, the goddess of flow and ease, how do we allow more of that surrender into our lives? How do we allow ourselves to feel more serene, more peaceful? And every month there's a new goddess and there's a new theme that we're working with. We have every other week a live workshop with many of the guests from high self podcast members. So much content and community. It's literally your spiritual gym membership. It's your one stop shop for all things high vibe. So if you're you hear this episode and it calls out to you, I invite you to join us. We are only available three times of the year for one week and this week is happening this January. So if you head over to rosegoldgoddesses.com if you're listening to this in still beginning of January, mid January, the doors are open and you'll be able to join us. If you're listening to this at a later point in time still head over to rosegoldgoddesses.com and you'll be able to join the wait list and be notified when we open doors again because this is a community and we really try to tight knit and supportive and people who really want to be there and people who are ready to receive and be part of something that is so much greater than themselves and receive all of the benefits that that type of tight knit community creates. So I was so honored when Stacy reached out to me because she was just a member of Rose Gold Goddesses. I had met her at some of the events that I had hosted. She came and volunteered at a conference I was teaching at and she just shared with me how it has impacted her life, changed her career, changed the trajectory of her and it was so inspiring and so kind of her to share that truth. And I knew that if people listen to this, people who maybe have heard of Rose Gold Goddesses, but they're on the fence, they're not really sure what they'd get out of it or people who've never heard of it, maybe this is your first time even hearing about it, but hearing from someone who is literally like a paying member of the community and to hear just the amount of enthusiasm and passion that she has for this community, it's so inspirational and allows you to see what is possible. We also talk about sisterhood, how a lot of us have wounds with the feminine, wounds from feeling left out as a child, or that people's success is going to diminish our own, or that someone having abundance or an easy pregnancy or whatever it is, it's going to get rid of the chance of us having it. And how the patriarchy has really put this in our minds and how today we are essentially reprogramming our minds to see other women not as our competition, but as our sisters. So it's a powerful one and I look forward to sharing this interview with you. So further ado, let's welcome Stacy Hickman to the highest self podcast. Are you calling in your spiritual soul sisters? I'm talking about those people that will support you on your journey towards becoming your highest self. Well, doors are opening back up for Rose Gold Goddesses, my sacred sisterhood collective with community, content, events and so much more. We're going to be kicking it off with my absolutely free five day rose Gold Goddess challenge where we embody five goddess archetypes and then inviting you to join this community. So many people have met their best friends, business partners and healers that have supported them on their path because frankly, we can't do this alone. We need community. Think of this like your spiritual gym membership. We have my awaken your powers video in there, my talks at Google, discover your dharma course, and so much more available for you for a very low monthly cost. So if you want to join in on this and join us on the free Rose Gold Goddess challenge, head over to rosegoldgoddesses.com again, that is rosegoldgoddesses.com and I am so excited to meet you in there. Welcome, Stacy, to the highest self podcast. It's so great to have you here.

Thank you so much for having me. It's a privilege to be here.

So the first question I would love to ask you is, what makes you your highest self?

When I am connected to me, when I am in the flow and connected to my dharma, my purpose, I feel like I'm really my highest self.

So beautiful. And your dharma has really unfolded in.

The past several months especially.

So can you tell us a little bit about your background and how you serve today?

Yeah, I'd love to. I have been serving in a yoga community teaching yoga for the last 10 years and was called to leave that forum and really forced by the universe to step into my newest dharma and my newest purpose, which was just a step forward from teaching yoga in big communities. And it so happened to be that at the time I left my job, I was a little bit lost and wasn't sure what exactly I needed to do. At that same time, the Goddess Challenge came across my Instagram and I was like, goddess Challenge, this sounds great. What, what is this? What are the goddesses? I've been teaching yoga for 10 years. I don't know anything about this. And you know, you saw her have always been someone who I followed and looked up to since my Deepak Chopra days. So I was like, yes, this is a call. Signed up for the challenge. That challenge really catapulted me into tapping into my divine feminine side that I had not been paying attention to. Called me to learn about these goddess archetypes, really embody them and study them through these five days. And through that connected me with a bunch of other women who I would have never met. The call took me to not only explore my feminine side more, but to then start to connect with other women and help them connect to their divine feminine as well. That kind of catapulted this whole like self healing journey. I got off all pharmaceutical medicine, I took myself on a one way ticket to Hawaii and just really started to come into my own. All the gifts started pouring in and one thing leads to another. And now we're having this beautiful conversation.

To keep the long story short, that is so amazing. And it really makes you realize how.

Much one thing can affect someone's life.

Signing up for a challenge, right? We take something like that so lightly. And sometimes we're like, oh, like I don't have time for that, whatever it is. And just signing up for it essentially reawakened you to all of these gifts that you had inside of you. And it just took one little, you know, movement to help you reconnect to that truth. So I am so grateful to even be a part of it at all. And it really motivates me too. And it is hard to create something the lives that it impacts. So I want to talk about sisterhood because as you've been a member of Rose Gold Goddesses, you really have connected with so many women. I know tonight you're having a New Year's party with the Rose Gold Goddesses and you're always, you guys were just with Gru Jacket and just like so many incredible things and it's like, it really just warms my heart to see it. So can you share with us a little bit about sisterhood, how it has impacted your life and the connections you' Rose Gold Goddesses?

Yes. Yes. Growing up, I had always had a hard time connecting with other girls. It was always hard for me to have girlfriends. And then you get older as adults. And even Guru Jagat was saying it's so hard to make adult friends and not only adult friends, but adult female friends, especially when we've been taught to be each other's competition, so to speak. And this idea of Rose Gold Goddesses came across after the Goddess challenge and I just signed up and it really exposed me to this whole world of women who we don't have to compete against each other. We can be real sisters and we can support each other and build each other up and help each other and we don't have to be competition. And I never knew that was a possibility. So through, you know, like, we talked about the Goddess Challenge then leading to Rose Gold Goddesses, I got on the app and it was instantly this love and, and this community of women who, contrary to what we've been exposed to, unfortunately was not competitive and was loving. And it was like this big, huge hug of all these sisters that I've always dreamed of having but never quite knew how or where to connect with like minded, strong women. And you provided that. So it's really been a game changer in my life, to be honest. I've always resonated with males and now to be able as an adult, especially to have this band, this family of women has, I mean, it's a game changer, literally changed my life.

I'm so grateful for you sharing that. And I think a lot of listeners can really connect to the sisterhood wound. The, you know, I was just thinking the other day, you know, and this still happens, it still happens to all of us. But I was just like seeing some of my friends hanging out and I just like, I don't know, they just didn't invite me. It was just a group of them hanging out. And then I could feel that, like, oh, that, like, why didn't they invite me? Do they not like me anymore? Like, you know, and it's just like, you know, sometimes like a group of girls decides to get together and they don't invite everyone that they're friends with. But that inner wound was still in me of feeling left out. And it's something that we have all felt probably started when we were like five years old. And because of that, we feel like girls are not safe, girls are not nice, girls are not inclusive. Because really we're all just hurt from feeling discluded.

Exactly. I recently went through that same wound, so I totally relate. I completely get it. Yeah.

And I think another big thing across just women in general is this, is this notion that we're each other's competition. And it's something that I've really been talking about a lot recently because when we see other women as competition, we essentially say that we're not worthy. That's really what we're doing when we're saying that, you know, I'm seeing something in you that is strong, beautiful, intelligent, whatever it is. And if, if that's triggering me, that's essentially me saying that I don't have these qualities. And that is the reason that that jealousy is showing up. But when you value yourself and you know that you're worthy and you see another sister shine and it just allows you to see like, wow, there's, there's that in me. But like to genuinely just be happy for another person, like, don't you feel like sometimes it's like, oh, well, if another sister shine, that means I'm going to shine, but also like be happy for another person without bringing it back to us.

Exactly. I just got chills when you said that. Spirit just lit me up. Such a. Yes. Yeah. Just being able to be happy for another human in general. And I think like you said, that all turns back into our inner qualities and the inner work we've done and being confident with ourselves and knowing who we are and doing the work and loving ourselves not only just as women, but as humans in general. And only when we do that can we really, I think, be able to support other people. So not only is it, you know, just a sisterhood, but to encourage each other to do that self work, that self love, that self centered studies so that we can cheer each other on and lift each other up in such a positive way.

Totally. And I think that exactly as you said, when we see that we're multifaceted and that's really what working with the.

Goddess is all about.

When you can see that you are powerful and sensual and boss and all of the things. Then when you see another woman having that, it doesn't feel like, oh, she's a hoe or she's, or she's too that it's like, oh, I have this, that side of me too. And then you're less judgmental about it because it's in all of us.

So true. Hit the nail on the head right there.

Yes. And another thing I was thinking about, and I don't know, I'm sure you've experienced it in many listeners, is sometimes when we see someone else's success, another woman's success, we feel like that's going to take away from our success. Have you ever felt that?

Yeah, I have. And luckily, you know, the last, I want to just say few months, really. And because of Roseville goddesses and because of the goddesses, I've got to experience a shift in that. And you know, not just because I'm talking to you on this right now, but your yoga journal cover girl. That was a huge wake up for me in my own growth because being able to see you shine like that in something that, you know, I've had aspirations and dreams and goals of being on that type of platform. And rather than me, oh, you know, she got that and I didn't and I really felt the shift of, oh my gosh, I am so freaking happy for this girl right now. She has worked and she has shined and she has supported and so well deserved and so beautiful. And I can truly say that cover was not just a huge turning point, I'm sure for you. But also, so thank you for not giving up on yourself because that just fed a bunch of us.

Thank you so much for sharing that. And I think that there's a part of all of us that when we shine, we want to diminish ourselves. We want to say, oh, well, I actually didn't do that great of a job or it wasn't that big of a deal. Or like when someone compliments you and you're like, no, trust me, I don't look like this normally or whatever it is. And it's like, men don't do that. Men, you compliment them, they're like, yeah, you're right, I do look good. But for us, it's like we can't hold the shine. Like, we can't hold the attention. I even caught myself doing it of just like, oh, nope, everything's normal. Like, it's fine. Then it's like as women, we have such a hard time celebrating ourselves because we didn't really grow up with people celebrating us. And we've always grown up. Be humble. You're going to come off as, you know, selfish if you talk about yourself or whatever. So anytime that something good happens to us, we feel like we can't share it, we can't talk about it because that's going to make me Seem like an egotistic bitch. Like even the word bitch, it's like that's called the shadow side of the woman. A woman who's assertive, like a woman who is urgent and speaks what she wants. Like that, that's our shadow side. Like it just speaks volumes about our society. And I'm so grateful that now with this shift, with this movement with rose gold goddesses, that is really changing. And another thing that I noticed is sometimes when we see another woman's success, like for example, she had an easy pregnancy, like you're a mom, I'm sure maybe you've seen other women have easier pregnancies and then part of you gets, you know, jealous or comparison. And it's like someone else's easy pregnancy isn't going to make your pregnancy harder or someone else making a six figure year isn't going to like get rid of the money for you or someone else being on a cover of the magazine doesn't mean there's not going to be any more opportunities for you. If anything, it shows you that that's possible.

Right? And that goes back for me, that just brought up the idea of abundance and scarcity and how there is an abundant amount of opportunities for each one of us. There's not a lack, there's billions and billions of different pathways and opportunities for each of us to step into. And because yours may have been yoga journal doesn't mean it is for me or the next girl or the next girl, but there are some so many other avenues for us in abundance to be able to shine in our own specific way that feeds the collective totally.

And that is exactly the scarcity mindset of someone else's success is going to get rid of mine. Someone else's money is going to get rid of mine.

Someone else's love.

If they're in a happy relationship, that means there's no more happy relationships left for me. This is like a poison in our minds and it's really steeped in the patriarchy. If we go back, it's like this is actually what the patriarchy wanted for women to be each other's competition. You know, if we looked at the times of polygamy, you know, women were competing over the same man and having to take turns with him. And you know, we've moved far past that, at least in the western world or not in all parts of the western world, but we still, like in the media, it's perpetuating this story of competition, fighting for the guy. Like I was just like singing and dancing to the song the Boy Is Mine. But I was, like, really listening to the lyrics. Like that Monica Brandy song from the 90s. I was like, these lyrics are fucked up. Like, the boy is mine. You need to give it up. I've had about enough. Like, they're fighting over this guy, and it's like, hello, why is this guy cheating on both of you and lying to you? But that's never the other girl.

Of course not. It's always about this guy.

Jeez. So, I mean, if we just, like, notice the shift. I think that now we're realizing this. I think now when, for example, when someone cheats, like, people are getting less mad at the other girl and more mad at the guy who actually, you know, had an oath of faith to you. But we're still. We're still not totally there. We're still have a lot of wounds in our society, and we're all rewriting the story. I mean, I just see in Rose Gold Goddesses, how many women in there. Like, this is the first time I've ever had female friends, ever.

Mm. Yeah. A lot of the girls I've connected with, they feel exactly the same.

Wow. So tell me a little bit about what made you join Roseville Goddesses, and also, like, what you were afraid of, maybe you were apprehensive about, because I think a lot of people listening to.

This podcast have obviously heard about it.

But, you know, there's something in their.

Mind that's making them not join.

So I'd love to just, like, speak straightly to that.

Absolutely. And I was apprehensive at first. I did the challenge and then saw, you know, signing up for this. And at the time, you know, I didn't have a job, and I wasn't sure how this was going to work out. Can I afford this? Is this really a priority of mine? Do I really need another social media, perhaps kind of platform? I wasn't really sure what was going to happen. And going more into that, I just decided, hey, you know what? I've ended a career, not sure what to do. I'm just gonna give it a chance. And my intuition, too, was guiding me, like, just do it. Just do it. Just sign up. The worst that can happen is you cancel it. You know, no big deal. So I did. I signed up and started getting on it and talking to people, and it was kind of, you know, a little strange at first. And you don't realize that it's not like Instagram and it's not like Facebook and it's not this. I got More likes than you are competition. It was talking about woman things and yonis and spirituality and all the woo woo that, you know, I have in me that I don't get to talk about with a lot of people. And before I really connected with anyone, I drove up to LA on a whim to the dance activation with you and Malika by myself to la, which I would never do, but, you know, again, intuition was like, go, go, go. So I go, and I end up sitting next to a girl who is not only from the next town over, but she goes, oh, my gosh, I signed up for Rose Gold Goddesses. I'm like, oh my gosh. I did too. And instantly we were sisters and we danced together. And I had met two other girls there, one in particular who had not signed up yet. And I didn't know this until actually last night, but me and her were dancing together most of the night. And now it's come full circle and me and her are, you know, like best friends, super, super close. So, you know, sometimes we're not sure of things, but I just encourage any woman to sign up. Just sign up. Take the leap, do it. Because literally, the trajectory of not just my relationship with women, but my career, where I'm going spiritually, writing my book, the support and the ideas and the things that we've cultivated together, I mean, girl, I could talk to you about these connections all day. It's just been the most rewarding, positive experience with women that I've ever, ever had.

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Wow, that just means everything to me because honestly, it's something that I wish I had on my journey. I remember moving to LA and not knowing anyone here and so hard to meet people, especially in LA because everyone's in their house, especially if you work from home. And I lived at my grandparents place so I didn't even have like a, you know, apartment neighbor or something and oh, you know, you're just like in the city with a bunch of cars, like at least in like New York and stuff. I feel like people are going out to events, they're, I don't know, meeting each other in the subway. But in LA it's really hard and a lot. And then a lot of people who are in the community are from the Midwest and are from places that are in the South. Like you just came to Attune in Atlanta and so many people there. Yes. And so many of the people there were like, my church thinks I'm crazy. They think that yoga is satanic and they're still honoring their truth and creating yoga and meditation studios there and that support from Rose Gold Goddesses is what's helping them through it. So it's just like I created honestly for myself because I felt like I needed to connect with spiritual sisters, but I could have never imagined the impact it would have on other people's lives and then the ripple effect from there. It's like now that you're teaching all of the people who are going to be affected by you and then we'll read your book and all the things that will lead after that are the people who go to this person's yoga studio in the middle of Georgia and the lives and that will be impacted from that. And it just shows so much that when we say yes to our souls and no to our fears, where it can take us.

Yeah. I mean that's why I had to reach out to you and tell you thank you for creating this because it hit me hard. I invited one of the sisters to Greer Jaga in Venice and I only knew her from the Gaia app, so it was so great. And when I went up to her to thank her after and she said, who did you come with? And I said, oh, I brought this sister that I met on Rose Gold Goddesses. And she said, wait, what? I said, yeah, Sahara. She's like, I'm friends with Sahara. I'm like, oh, my gosh. She created this app, and we were just talking about how we would have never met each other, we'd never be here. And then you were talking about how it's so hard to make friends. And Guru Jagat says to me, good job, Sahara. I'm gonna have to get on her Rose Gold goddess app. I said, yes, you do.

Oh, my God, Yes. We need Guru Jagat as one of the goddesses for sure. Yes. And it shows. It's like, sisterhood is needed in every type of community. Whether you are super successful in your career, whether you don't have a job, whether you maybe even have a lot of friends around you, but they're just not speaking that same language as you. They're not meeting you to the depths that you really want to be met at. Or maybe you are in total isolation and don't have friends. Like, we all could use more friendships. And I know for me, anything good that's happened to me in my life, like, do you even know how the Yoga Journal cover happened?

No.

So I do not have, like, a publicist, a manager. Like, my team is me at home. And last year, one of my dear friends, Rosie Acosta, who I met online also, she was featured on Yoga Journal last December. December of 2018. And we had just gone on, like, a panchakarma together, an ayurvedic detox retreat. And we had just come back, and she was. They were going to be interviewing her that day, and they wanted to do, like, a day in the life of Rosie. So one of the things. She was going to interview someone for her podcast. So I had. My book was just about to come out. She's like, oh, why don't I interview you for the podcast? There's going to be an editor there. I hope you don't mind. I was like, sure. So I just went over there and, you know, we did the interview, and we had a lot of fun, and this was just like, a freelance editor, and I was, you know, connected with her, and that's it. Like, nothing happened for a year. And. And then that editor got promoted to be the editor in chief, and her first person that she chose for the COVID was me was you. And, like, it just shows. One, be kind to everyone. Be nice to everyone, because you don't know what that thing could lead to. Like, you know, someone could have just been like, one, I don't have time to be on your podcast. Two, like, oh, who's this random, like, editor? Or whatever? And it's just like, when you show up at your fullest to everyone you meet. You treat each person like a goddess or God, man. You don't know what could end up happening. And again, it came through a sister. Had I not reached out to her on Instagram, formed a friendship with her, invited her to a punch of karma when we had barely hung out in real life, none of this would have happened.

Kind of like how I'm on this podcast with you. It's just crazy. I was like, well, I'm just going to put it out there because a month ago I wrote down all my goals, I am going to talk to Sahara on her podcast.

And then literally yesterday you were messaging me telling me how much Rosewell Goddesses impacted your life. I'm like, can you be on a podcast tomorrow? And here we are. So it just shows. And this is like really what I want all of us to invite in in 2020 more just like open hearted connections. If you appreciate someone, share it because you don't know what it can lead you to. And allowing the flow to happen. I think a lot of us are, we plan things out to a t. Like my 2020 goals are to follow my greatest joy. And if I'm following my greatest joy, then I know that's going to lead me exactly where I need to be led. And sometimes that takes doing something scary. You know, you're not always going to feel total happiness and total fun. I mean, you know, going to a conference where you don't know anyone can be scary. Signing up for Rose Gold Goddesses can be scary. All of these things can be scary. But they if it feels expansive, it's bringing you to your joy.

Yeah. In the attune, I didn't know anybody. I left Kauai, flew to ATUN to volunteer and holy moly, it was. I met all of my people. Shaman Durek, you, Gabby was there. I mean, it was just. You've got to just leap. And that's what I've been trying to tell people. And what I wanted to convey on here is just take the leap, take the leap. It's okay if it's scary. It's supposed to be scary. That's what helps us to grow. Otherwise we're stuck in this safety net and we're not growing and we're repeating the same things over and over again to feel safe.

So. Well said. Take the leap, y'.

All.

So I'd love to ask you what has been your favorite content in Rose Gold Goddesses? Like a certain month, you know, we do the monthly goddess circles has it been a certain month or any of the workshops, expert calls? What have you really resonated with?

I love the monthly goddess. I have listened to those and Yamaya this month has. I really, really. I don't know if you just pick them or I think they just come to you. Intuition.

Yeah, I just ch right before the month.

Well, whatever you're doing, your channeling is working. You're connected, sister. Because it only like resonates with the energy. But I do a lot of, you know, spirit work too. And I feel like with the moon and the stars and the energies, we are right there and we are so connected in that. And not just me, but I mean all of the girls. And you give us that opportunity to really learn about the Goddess, to really embody. You give us all the tools, you give us mantras and things to study and, and I just, I can't even say thank you enough for all this knowledge and information. And I know how hard it is to study all that and work to create that for us. So thank you for taking the time because it's like the content is such a heart medicine.

Yes. And I think a lot of people don't realize that in Rose Gold Goddesses we have so much content. We have the monthly goddess circles that come with your own ebook that have.

Like everything with the goddesses, journaling, prompt.

Meditations, practices, information, playlist, the Spotify.

Yes.

Which is so rad. My favorite has been the Lakshmi one. And then we also workshops, etc. But, but yeah, on how I choose the goddesses, just right before each month I kind of tune into what's coming up for me, what's coming up to the collective, you know, in the Akashic records we can kind of tap into the energetic pool of any group of the entire world of ourselves, of a single person. So I kind of tap into the frequency of Rose Gold go Goddesses and the dialogue that's happening. What people need. So that's why this December I was really feeling like people need ease, they need more flow, they need more trust. Like there's been a lot of work, a lot of like self improvement happening and people need to step back. But honey, that is not the goddess for January. You will wait. I was like a little, because I was in Mexico, so I was feeling like ichel, who's the Mayan goddess? And I was like, oh, you know, I'm here, I'm getting her codes in. But no, nope, she is not the goddess. This goddess is actually going to be the goddess that's guiding our entire year and kind of the entire decade. So stay tuned.

Oh, I can't wait. I can't wait. Yeah, if people could just, you know, too. I just want to tell these everyone out there, like there is so much on there and not to feel like you have to go through it all. Just feel into what you need. And I promise you that on the Rose Gold Goddess app, there will be answers for you, whether it's from another sister or through all the content. And you did something with Alison Charles and I had only caught the tail end of it, but just the tail end of her led me down my shamanic journey and she's actually coaching me one on one now, so. Oh, my gosh. Yeah. So thank you for having people on who you value and you trust as well, because they are also reaching more of us too.

Yes. Yeah. So now we're actually going to have.

Every two weeks there's going to be.

A live webinar with an expert on. So, you know, we've had. Yeah. Which is really fun. And then also for members to lead their own. So we just had Nina, who led one all about Law. So how to protect yourself if you have, you know, even an Instagram and you're starting your business. What is an llc? What agreements do you have with your clients? Like, when should you trademark things? Because so many of the of the women in Rose Gold Goddesses are entreprene entrepreneurs or aspiring entrepreneurs. So a lot of support. We have a dharma support group. So anyone who's like trying to discover their dharma. This month I'm giving my full 10 day Discover your Dharma course. My three Dharma meditations at different time lengths. Yoni, womb and menstrual meditations.

Oh boy.

And just like bringing in like so many of the highest self podcast guests. So we had Flora Plum teaching Vedic astrology. We're having Food Ram teaching all about sexuality, Nadine all about tantra. And the whole point of this is like, there are so many incredible teachers for us to learn too, but it's really hard to figure out where to find them. Who are the authentic ones? Who are the ones who are really standing by their work? And you know, with Rose Gold Goddesses, we're kind of vetting that out for you and presenting you with like the highest five teachers like Alison Charles who can take you towards, you know, maybe your journey is bringing you to a shamanic place or more of a Reiki place or Ayurveda place. Who are these people who can guide your path?

So true. You hit it because there are, unfortunately, a lot of people out there who I've noticed within the last few months are not authentic and who are just buying the things and pretending like they're doing the healing when really they could do a lot of damage. So I so appreciate the people that you've brought on and the quality of people that you've presented to us. It really is invaluable in our journey. So thank you.

Of course. And it's everything to me to be able to expose you guys to people who've impacted my life personally.

So for all of the people who.

Are listening right now who are maybe curious about joining Rose Gold Goddesses, they're not sure if it's for them or not. What message do you have to share to them?

Take the leap. Take the leap because you will find someone or some topic or something that is for you. And I guarantee you that I back this 110%. And that's not said lightly at all. I'm very careful with who and what I give my time to. I have not one regret. It was super scary for me to put myself out there, but it's led to this family of women. We, you know, went to Guru Jagat, then we watched a movie together the other night. I'm having all these girls at my house tonight for New Year's Eve to celebrate together. And I can speak for the girls that I have connected with. We talk almost every day. We talk about all the things. We support each other. We don't have to live close. We don't have to actually see each other on a daily basis, but we're in each other's realms every day. And the reason I reached out to you is because I wanted you to know personally what an impact not only you have made on me, but on each and every one of these sisters. And these are just the ones. I know these aren't even talking about the rest of the world, girl. But you taking a leap in your Dharma and you deciding, hey, I'm gonna do this regardless if it was, you know, okay, I need to meet more friends or not. You took the leap not knowing what would happen, and that allowed us to take the leap.

So thank you so much. That really means everything. And, you know, when I started, when I got the download for Rose Gold Goddesses, this was right before my wedding. I was like, okay, I got enough on my plate. I can't now make an entire, like, community. So I waited until after my wedding, and I just, like, the moment the wedding was done, I was like, in and at first I thought, okay, I'd love to just do monthly goddess circles. And I'm like, I'd love for them to just, like, be able to talk. There's, like, a forum, and then from there, it just, like, the vision guided me. And it was a lot of work to set up. I mean, people, when they joined, they'll see there are so many. So many topics on everything you could imagine, from, like, herbal healing, hula hooping, to, like, any. Anything you could imagine. And. And just, like, it's an actual mobile app. And I don't think people realize, like, this is not a Facebook group. This is not like a, you know, kajabi thing with just, like, a bunch of videos that you, like, comment underneath. This is not like a YouTube channel. It's literally an app where you're able to see location services of who lives near you. You're able to join different groups. We have, like, like, dozens of cities around the world from, you know, Minnesota to Dubai. And it really was like, I didn't even know what I was doing, but I was just so. And I was writing my book at the same time as creating, like, the most. And I was moving. I was homeless. I didn't even have my plate. I was, like, in between homes. So much going on. But this vision, like, kept on guiding me, and now I see why. So. And it's just the beginning. I mean, right now, we're planning to do a weekend retreat sometime this year. So exciting. And just, like, just so much more and giving the woman in the community voices, because so many people are, you know, healers, teachers, researchers, know so much about their. About their dharma and just giving more women a voice to share. So thank you for saying yes to the call.

Thank you for, you know, clarifying to.

You know, I think a lot of people listening, hearing it from the person who created it is one thing, but hearing it from just, like, a random person who I did not paid a member to be here just shows you what is waiting for you on the other side. So thank you again, Stacy, for sharing your story with us.

No, thank you so much for allowing it. You know, it's been. I can't even say enough in human words how priceless it's been. So you've saved a lot of us, literally saved us from going down a path that wasn't meant for us and giving us this family. So, so much gratitude and so much love. And one day, maybe we could talk about all the little connections that have happened, because it's crazy. Even through Heather And I mean, there's a lot girl. So, yes. I don't even think you realize how many people you're touching and on the grid and connecting us. So well done. Well done, sister.

Well, thank you for so kindly acknowledging me and reflecting that back. It definitely inspires me. Continue sharing and for everyone out there.

Listening, I hope this inspires you to.

Say yes to the call when we open doors again this January for just one week. So head over to rosegoldgoddesses.com to join our free five day Rose Gold Goddess challenge or thousands of women participating. It's absolutely free. It's the challenge that saved Stacy's journey towards something that was in alignment with her truth. And then from there, we'll be opening doors for one week so you can get all of that be on our email list@rosegoldgod. Namaste.

Namaste.

It was so incredible for me to be able to hear how this community has impacted someone's life and how much that one person can change by doing something as simple as joining a challenge which leads to a community, which leads to friends, which leads to career change, and how it really is a domino effect that when you put your best self out there, you create a ripple effect to everyone that you meet, even.

People that you don't meet.

And it's just an invitation for all of us to stand up, to take action, to sign up for that thing that scares us, to take the leap. As Stacy said, it's needed more than ever before. Start your 2020 off taking action towards your highest truth, getting the support that you need to make an incredible change in your life. And if that includes Rose Gold Goddesses, I am so honored to have you. And whatever it includes, I hope you take that energy towards anything that you do. So if you do want to join us, we are open again for just one week this month. Head over to rosegold goddesses.com to join us and I look forward to connecting with you there, to having you on the challenge and to holding space for you. Namaste.

Dan.